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mirexxx:
how will their help make her like u

. You're a lady now what can I do to make the convo going and never get her bored?

I met her through a friend but we haven't met in person we just started talking on phone so I need to know what and what to ask so the likeness can grow and always keep her talking help me out biko

ZedX5:
Tell her to fvck off - that ship has sailed. . . They are so fvcking confused, never know what they want and believe with few _stupid "I am sorry(s)" and some croc tears, all will be well.

Sometimes, the best karma for a girl that left a good guy is the sonofabitch she ends up with.

Move on with your life bro.

. Am planning to screw her hard before letting her go

Please help have been dating this virgin for 3 years butt he met this new guy this year and started misbehaving and still didn't leave her the guy was shacking her so the guy asked for sex and she can't him and the guy broke up now she wants us to be friends for now and I do have feelings for her, please house what should I do to her cos she cheated on me without feeling any remorse or something and now she's always texting me that she's sad

I thought it will last forever ni sha....it was only a dream

channelz:
Observe, anyone here or anywhere "forming" strong, has, at some point in their lives, had their fair share of a first time.

Even though I am now in total control of my emotions, I won't deny that I cried and consciously experienced the pain the first time it happened. It made me all the better.

. You're very right every strong man has a weak point

falconey:
you are right not having friends around is bad, they can easily get your mind off her with bad words to make you hate her.

. Yes bro you're very right

Its not easy ooo especially not having friends around I hardly sleep or eat still going through it, sometimes I blame myself a lot for not being a cheat but the stress is too much jare I know God will heal me soon sha..she still wanna be FWB with me but its not cool at all

valentine147:
Love...very powerful and stupid. The problem is that you love her stupidly. You could maturely sit with her and talk things over. And if she wants to leave you don't force her to stay. Bro I think you should focus more on yourself than on a woman who probably have her own desires to fulfill. Trust me ladies know what they want, they just havent found it yet, and they may never find it. But every lady have a distinct picture of what she wants in her life just the same way we men have too. Life is much more than chasing love and wanting someone to stay with you. If she wants to go, let her go. I think you should work more on yourself now and take time to love-vendor your life; become better than you currently are. Be the perfect gentleman and don't force yourself on her. You don't force love on people whether or not you guys have been dating for 3 yrs. People date for more than that and still split. Don't let a woman make you lose your sleep. You are worth more than her. Be a man and brace yourself... Control is power. This is how mature I can be in helping a fellow nigga like me.

wow!! Bro thanks so much and I really appreciate I'll tell her to come over so we can talk it out and thanks once again

ronald4lif:
You don't stay in an uncertain relationship and with a cheating partner. It's either she stops seeing the other guy if she's still interested in the relationship or you take a walk out. Except if you want to be an option.

But I doff hat for you staying in a relationship that long without sex.

. Thanks for taking your time to talk to me I really appreciate

ronald4lif:
You mean for good 3years you no do? Haba.

Omo I am not impressed at all

And how are you she's still one after hanging out different guys

E no dey show for face ohh

. Na tru bro wot shud I do now hang on and not take her serious or just walk out

ronald4lif:
You mean for good 3years you no do? Haba.

Omo I am not impressed at all

And how are you she's still one after hanging out different guys

E no dey show for face ohh

. Na tru bro

ronald4lif:
Wow her guts though.

What I can deduce by that it's you shouldn't get worked up that she's making out with other guys. You should only be worried about your own. And I am afraid your own here might only be sex. So in other words, don't make it your problem that she's f*cking other guys provided she f*cks you too. My guy please ohh this isn't a relationship if I got it right. It's safer to f*ck prostitutes than a girl who not only messes around with other guys but bold enough to rub it on your face

. But she's still a virgin and am sure of it

Its about my gf of 3 years and all over of a sudden she met 2 guys and can't stop talking to them and I later found out and whenever I try to stop talking to her she calls and we'll solve it so whenever I ask her what she wants from me she'll say she doesn't know that she need a therapist or something please help out I really do love her and if you can help here by dropping your contact or talking on here I don't mind

ronald4lif:
Lol! I have no idea to be honest. Maybe make enquiries around when you live if you think that's necessary. A therapist could help

Also, have a serious talk with this babe and she should tell what exactly she wants from you and the relationship. You have to be convinced by her she's not playing games with you and more importantly she should choose who she wants to be with; you or the other guy(s)

. Yes have talk to her but her reply was that I should just fight for my own and leave other guys what does that mean?? And we've been dating for 3 years before he met other guys and am the only one she can visit at home

ronald4lif:
Oh I see. She doesn't want to keep all her eggs in one basket then. And if you are certain she doesn't ask the other guy(s) she's seeing money but only you it means she doesn't love you as much as she loves them/him. Her heart lies with the guy she doesn't demands from. You are just there to meets her financial needs. Forget her and move on. Girls wey dey Naija plenty so dey boyfriends come dey scarce sef

. She called now and I asked her what she really want from me she said she doesn't know And I asked her why she keeps calling me then

ronald4lif:
Oh I see. She doesn't want to keep all her eggs in one basket then. And if you are certain she doesn't ask the other guy(s) she's seeing money but only you it means she doesn't love you as much as she loves them/him. Her heart lies with the guy she doesn't demands from. You are just there to meets her financial needs. Forget her and move on. Girls wey dey Naija plenty so dey boyfriends come dey scarce sef

. Please bro do you know anywhere they can counsel a confuse girl?? She called now to beg me but am not giving her that money again maybe if someone talks to her she'll know what she wants?

Kingklent:
Haaa BADGUY u hit her hard in a soft way thumbs up

don't mind her and she can lie and pretend for Africa and am sure she can never change

ronald4lif:


You are welcome mate

Since that's the case then refuse giving her money next time she demands and her reaction ll tell if she's holding on in the relationship for the money or she's real. But I am afraid if she is into you she won't be messing you up the way she's doing.

However, I have to also state that not every lady who demands money (reasonably) from his man is in for the money only and doesn't love their partner. One can still love a person sincerely but still request for money often. Money is more of a need than wants and if a woman request for what is a need then that shouldn't be a problem in my opinion. We all have needs that should be met daily.

Are her demands for money extra much or basics?

. She has other guys calling her and she won't tell them to stop and when I ask her to stop she'll tell me to mind my biz so I realize am not in a relationship with her anymore its a conference meeting now and there's this guy she always get angry when I mention his name and she won't ask him for anything and she has feeling for him

Kingklent:
Thank u carry out the no beat ooh just tell her God be with u

just textd her to look for another potential mugu

MrCork:
...So u sayn yor girlfriend is strange coz she tell a guy to told a guy what happened where?? ....Bro to be honest, we don't gerrrit!! (no oofeinse)

. Bro try and read again abeg

ronald4lif:
It appears she's no longer into you and could be seeing the other guy. Should that be the case then I will suggest you start detaching yourself from her and whatever emotions you have towards her should also be buried. Methink the only think she's still holding on for in the relationship is the cash. How about you decline monetary demands she comes up with for a start and see what her reaction will be. Just move on to the next available girl bruv

thanks so much and I noticed when I don't give her the money or delay she doesn't call and when she calls its about the money

Kingklent:
@Op u are getting me angry!!! rite now call her nd tell her u don't want to see her again nd nt to come to your house anymore there is money to be made bro disturbing ur self over a gurl who will soon dump u nd find a husband that will take care of her that when u will start ur own hustle abi smh!!!

God bless your hustle

baralatie:
don't you know how to ran for your life!!!

am trying bro

Blackett:
No time to fall mugu these days. Brush yourself up and you'll soon meet someone else. Always be in places that'll afford you an opportunity to meet finer girls. Start attending any wedding you are invited to, and cinemas etc. Any where you know there'll be a high concentration of single ladies.

Make sure your next beats your ex hands down in everything.

. Thanks so much bro

Blackett:
Bro, if a woman is fed up, there is nothing you can do about it. You may think she's coming back, but she just doesn't want to be lonely. Once she mets another person, you'll be history once again.

Don't let her keep taking your emotions on a ride. She is not worth it. There are over 20,000,000 girls in nigeria right now. Find one that'll respect you. If it's that girl's yansh that's deceiving you, better yanshes are out there. A woman who doesn't care if your emotions are downtrodden on, or not, doesn't deserve your further attention.

Consider her an ex!

bro I too like you always red eye

ronald4lif and blackett u r need ooo I respect guys help out

[quote author=valentee post=30890338]guy dont worry she will surely leave you when she found the guy she love....hope u will stay with her till this time. Bro am a guy and you're a guy too if I was to be your bro won't u give me some good advise?? Me asking for peeps like u for advice is no biggie now help out if u cn thanks

Tandullceblog:
See? I knew you could come up with the answer all by yourself...

. *in sound sultan's voice* but I love this girl

oloyolo:
I don't even know y I care so much
Nigeria is were it is today because of clueless leaders
Dude if u don't want to be in the condition ur country is
Leave that girl and go onto bigger thins guy life is worth more than a single sogbodo girl

. Bro thanks a lot and your river of wisdom will not dry up ever jare

MrCork:
....is she light skin?

. She's dark skin

Tandullceblog:
Oya you; just think about it... what do you think she's up to?

I think she's trying to use me