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I am a lady, with a busy career looking for a one bedroom apartment in Lekki or Ajah (preferably Abraham Adesanya Estate).
I am willing to take a bq as well. Please contact me with price and location.

Regards,

when u want 2 blog about a pain that u are certain lots of people know about you dont want to give urself away by putting the story in such plain terms that all ur facebook and real life friends know its you and then start saying you are pathetic to be blogging about it. So you withold some information God forbid some1 knows who u are. Anyways babes u may want 2 delete the blog o. Before some detectives fish u out or worse still a nollywood producer as many have suggested,and tell all who know u that u went online with this. u don hear? I think u shld quit that blog honestly. U will get better with time I promise. 4 now stop blogging!

Just got off the fone with MYa (not real name). I read the 2nd post and had to call her if that is true she is crazy, I desperately wish it was fiction. Anyways she will get better, we all will. My only concern is when a woman sleeps with guy and takes control people cant imagine it. Me and my friends talk. sex kept Mya and Aina 2geda (he was gr8 I heard) I know that 4 a fact and if she screwed him yesterday like she told me then I dont care. I just hope she comes out of the sorry situation everybody don tire, the shame like my mum says is dying down make she move on I sincerely hope she does. People 4 Ogun state don rest 4 d matter. And Mya if you are reading this screw Aina atleast u don do the last one and move a hell on ! We' got ur back. e go better. (btw I helped u put this on Nairaland and I deserve a prize) everybody got ur back atleast people are lending support so please I love u, we love u abeg emm move on find another man biko.

Hmm, I have read all the comments and trust me my friend has too. She did not use her real name or his ( her ex fiancee) for the blog it would have been to personal. He is from a popular Nigerian family and would hate to be mentioned ( them fit sue)! She intends to keep blogging about her pain until she feel better. I encourage her to for I have tried everything and she just ends up in more tears.

That said, even though the girl may have been too forward as many have said, he should have let her know from the start that it wasn't serious. We all should stop leading people on, its the 21st century, if you want just sex say it, there are girls and guys who be down, if you are married say am married but I want to cheat on my wife with you and all that stuff! Lets be more open, I feel bad to see some1 I love suffer for a mistake that could be avoided if both parties were honest phew!

My friend wedding has just been called off by her lover of almost two years in London. Its a shock and she is blogging about it. Its sad. too sad everyone was preparing check her blog

http://tellitasitis9ja..com/2010/06/my-heart-is-broken.html

I was invited for this test as well. Please could anyone give us more hints as to what to expect! In terms of questionning am in Abuja and considering whether to make the trip or not. I guess my question is, is it a fair test?

As someone who recently had relationship issues that almost took us away from each other but was able to come back and is getting married let me say this " No one can give you a better advice than you, your family and good friends peopla who know you well. Most people will say leave your relationship but you have to be careful some people will give biased advice. 8 years no marriage yes you should be worried but talk to the guy. He may love you be committed but no marriage oriented so talk to him that you desire marriage if he truly loves you he will listen and you people will work something out! There are so many unhappy married couple ( read nairaland treads) and happy ones too my dear find what works for you. No one including you is perfect you may have started off the relationship on the wrong foot so your man is by no means evil, sit down and talk it over and if you are not satisfied then you move on. In relationships strategy is more important than the usual tacts! Good luck with the decision that YOU make.

My boyfriend broke up with me after a fight! Well I called my ex for a shoulder 2 cry on he came and we made love over and over again more like sex anyways it was so hot that we stayed in for 2days having sex and eating! Well my bf was depressed and called me after 2days to apologise that we should get back 2geda. Well I still loved him but allowed him beg for 2weeks but in the meantime I slept with my ex a million times all through the 2weeks since I knew I was going back it was awesome. He took me shopping in Paris and we made love like crazy. Well I got back to my bf and acted like I was depressed too. I love the dude and we are happy 2geda but boy those 2 weeks will never be forgotten!!!!!

I feel quite sorry for this poster. Your parents no matter how much they love you will not always be right. I have seen ibo to ibo marriages fail and some work. If you love this man know his family and you are sure it can work marry him. Who says all ibo men are good? Parents who were born when there was no internet , space travel or nairaland (no pun intended) are predicting a future they do not know based on past events? Who says yoruba men are still prone to polygamy or ibo men still use their wives for money ( these are widely known sterotypes). Look no tribe in Nigeria is holier than the other we are all one huge mess. Marry the man that makes u happy biko? Before you regret for the rest of your life!!!!!

@ alakee I feel u big. My dear we went from him hating his ex to him not talking about her but secretly taking her phone calls. In all fairness to men like my mum says they love sometimes even more than us. He is with you now not her dont be like me and be insecure for too long love your man communicate it helps and if none works do what you need to do even if it seems stupid it may work. With relationships no one has all the answers we talk to try to make things better. I feel free 2day and going 4ward I will worry less focus on the fact that he is with me! My dear avoid the ex drama if you can help it and as for seeing your family well he has to at some point all the best o and hope it works for you too!

People I have done what my mum asked me not to do. I went to seek out this woman. If I am going to wear his ring I need to know for sure, if I knew I wont have posted on nairaland or asked all my girl friends for advice. I saw the lady at an eatery today I arranged this with my man's friend ( who she is still in contact with). I told my man to come pick me from work that my car was faulty. On our way home, I told him we should stop off to get food, well we ended up in the same eatery his friend and his ex was in. She died a million times when she saw us the look on her face was priceless! My man was confused, I went to his friend and said hello and asked to be introduced 2 his friend ( d ex). His friend played along, we all sat together. I enjoyed the way they wanted 2 jump out of their skins. Anyways I spared him the misery as I made excuses that we had 2 leave, poor soul he looked lost. I told him everything in the car, he kept saying he deserves it he has been cruel to me by keeping her for so long and he wants me in his life. After 4years relationship I finally know they broke up because she cheated and he had difficulties letting go as he really loved her. He said I changed all that bla bla bla anyways somehow now more than ever I feel free. Ah I feel free, make I talk am again I feel free, ah. My man shaking, begging me not to leave him am the one he wants after all the stress, nights of checking his messages haba abeg I feel free. We fixed introduction for end of the month but am not sleeping in his house for a while!!! I don wear my ring o jare I dey marry this man he's my soul mate, I dont know what 2mrw brings but like my mum says I will finally bury all insecurities and pray 4 d best! Na wah who said trusting some1 was easy?

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Okay many thanks people you have all been so so kind. Yesterday I gave him an ultimatum either me or the girl. He deleted her pictures immediately. While I was rejoicing that I finally had my man back guess who called his ex? This time he told her that he was with his wife and that he would appreciate if she stopped calling as it was straining our relationship. This morning I woke up to find an engagement ring under my pillow with my man naked on his knees lol he said I value you above all exes please marry me and join me in this journey called life. I cried was happpy but said I would think about it. I took the ring though but dint wear it but as soon as I get off work 2day am going to him to say yes. I have prayed and I do love him I was not even able to get a side gig cos am devoted to this man! Okay leemme finish work and go home!Thanks peoples best wishes in your relationships!

Many thanks for all the replies I really do appreciate as my heart was burdened. I have thought very seriously about the spare thing as I actually do have someone else who is so eager to call me his. I have never cheated on anyone in my life and I don't want to God willing. I have met his family he has met mine thats the hope I have in this relationship but I would get a back up, I wont be intimate with the person but it has become necessary!!!!

My boyfriend and I have had series of issues because of the hurt he suffered from his ex girlfriend. We have gone over the issue over and over again and I have watched him feel very sad whenever he remembers his experience with her. He has never told me the cause of their break up as he says its not important that one day he will tell me. He claims to love me but still keeps pictures of this lady on his laptop. My pictures are there as well but I don't know why he hasn't deleted pictures he took four years ago!!!

I used to feel very jealous anytime he brought up her issue in a conversation but these days I am indifferent. He has been having some secret calls and I suspect they still communicate. He claims to love me and has even proposed marriage (No rings yet though) but I do not want to be anyone's second best. I have asked him to go back to her if he still loves her but he says its me he wants. He says she has moved on and is dating someone else. I am really confused as I am very pretty still get admired daily. I don't want to marry the wrong man? Somebody please advise me on what to do as I love this guy but am losing patience because of this ex insecurity!!!!!

PLEASE ANYONE WHO HAS AN IDEA ON THE WORLD BANK INTERVIEW FORMAT OR REQUIREMENTS SHOULD PLEASE GET IN TOUCH.

MANY THANKS.

Hi All,

Happy valentines day to all lovers. Please does anyone have any idea on the type of questions to expect from the World Bank? I have an interview slated for 27th February at one of their Country Offices in Abuja. Also if you have any idea on the renumeration please advice. It is an experienced position (3yrs) I have no idea what the negotiating figures should be. Any one with answers please help.

Wishing all job seekers unlimited blessings its our turn to shine.

Many thanks. would just have to wait and see then.

Best wishes.

It was a logical reasoning test and some arthmetic as well. I would say it went well but again I have to wait for them to get back at me. You know when applying for alot of jobs you sometimes loose track of some. I have no clue what the Company does. Anyways this is still hoping someone knows and would tell us.

You take care,

Regards,

Hi house,

Happy new year to us all! Hoping that this year brings us closer to our dream jobs Amen. Does anyone have any information on Newedenn Consulting in Abuja? I recently attended a job test they conducted but they did not disclose the name of the company they are recruiting for. Please if you know them kindly educate the rest of us.

Thank you.

Hi, I am looking to get an automatic toyota in good condition with AC for about 600-800k please let me know what you think. My email is seyecokercoker@yahoo.com.

I am looking to make purchase to use in Decemeber when I come home from the UK. I want a good Toyota brand. Please advice.

Many thanks

Hi all, has anyone been invited to the elite careers recruitment summit holding in lagos on the 15th and 16th November. I received an invitation from them on Monday. I hear over 40 leading companies will be present. Does anyone know of anybody who has gotten a job through this medium. As many as have not applied please do so on http://www.eliteinternationalcareers.com/CareerSummitsEvents/index.html (copy and paste on browser)
you never know maybe this is the means to get the job we have been praying for.
Goodluck and God bless.