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Well deserved....side chicks do not know the amount of pain and confusion they cause marriages. To all side chicks to married men reading this......Continue, pay day is coming

Truth is this, earlier on in marriages men will always have their time to mess arround and do what ever they like. From what I understand, the woman is hurting and the money has given her the opportunity to fully express her grievances confidently. We always allow men have their way saying 'men will always be men' men should know that however they manage their homes early in marriages the consequences will always fall back on them. Karma is a bitch

Thank you soo much.

ferhyntorlah:


In the absence of a toaster, do the following:
1. Place a frying pan on heat; add butter or oil.
2. Once butter is melted/oil is slightly heated, place bread slice on hot pan.
3. Allow to brown then turn it over for the other side to brown as well. Do this for as many bread sli..ces as you want. Remove from heat.
4. Add your filling (eg egg, fish, sausage etc) on a slice and cover with another. You can spread butter/mayonnaise on the toasted slices if you so desire before add filling on top.
5. Serve and enjoy.

Please anyone that knows how to prepare should teach me. Will make it tomorrow, thanks.

ghen ghen........I see people loosing jobs in the banking industry If this huge amount of deposit leaves.

I submit CV sooo tey, travelled by air for interviews, when recession came flights were no longer affordable started doing night journeys by road . At times I go reach house finish get regret mail begin cry. I no fit count my own oooo. There was a month that I finished my salary travelling to seek greener pastures. But When God showed up I got 2 good jobs easily back to back. The one am doing now is very cool and really financially rewarding. That was how God delivered me from frequenting job blogs 4-5 times daily, now I can relax for some years and say thank you Jesus......

adenimi:
I think CILT is good because it is centered around Logistics and Transportation.
I am a graduate of Transport and logistics with an affiliate Member of CILT. incase your company need more staff please I am available. thanks.

Is CILT Nigeria the same as CILT UK?

Hello house, Please I need advice from professionals in the house. I am currently working in a logistics firm (freight forwarding). I see the industry as one with huge prospects and as such looking to start a professional certificate that will further enhance my potentials.

I have about 4 years experience in the industry. BSC, Certified International Trade Logistics Specialist (CITLS), and currently doing my MBA.

I am considering either of CILT (UK) or CIPS (UK) I feel CILT is more logistics and transport centered and considering the industry I am working in, makes it more of something for me.

From my view CIPS has more of procurement focus. But CIPS will give me an advantage in procurement roles in the future, and I understand CIPS is well recognised abroad.

I need the option that will further enhance my career and have good prospects and recognition should I relocate to Canada. (looking at that seriously, in 3 years).

Please note that the above is just my opinion on the two certifications and I will like your corrections and suggestions. If you have the CILT certificate please advise how recognised and acceptable the certificate is. If you suggest the CIPS is better for me, please let me know. I need to make up my mind at start at the earliest.

Pesuzok:


Honestly you have to rethink this decision. If really for visit, it would be better for you to just postpone it if possible.

It might be difficult to convince them at the POE that you are just there for visit. Why do you want to take such risk?

My opinion though.

Thanks for your response. Myself and hubby are weighing our options and considering postponing as well. We want to explore all possibilities before deciding. Postponing will be our last resort.

Hello everyone, I will be travelling to U.S soon and will be 7 months pregnant by the time when I travel. I do not intend to have my baby in the U.S just 2 weeks visit. I understand I might be turned back because of the pregnancy. Who has had similar experience before?

Hellooo

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women like to disregard each other deliberately. SMH

4realwoman:
Thank you for your words of encouragement. I keep telling myself every month that i am strong but the truth of the matter is i don't think so again. I don't even have the strenght to pray this days.
But all is well. Thank you once again, I really apprecaite.

Anytime you ever feel less urge to pray you need to know that ur blessing is close and the devil knows that and your spiritual life might be under serious attack. You have to keep pushing and fighting, prayer is all you have dear. Just know that the trying of your faith worketh patience. It takes a click from God to change Ur situation, just hold on.

4realwoman:
@she234, Congrats ma'am, am so happy for you now and i wish you happy bumping in Jesus name, amen.

How i wish am the one announcing my BFP.
I really want to be happy, but deep down inside i'm not and i don't kw why? maybe because AF just showed or should i say about to show self.
Why can't God just have mercy upon me and give me children that i will call my own Why?
where have i gone wrong?
I thought it was the fibroid that was causing it and yet after removing it nothing is forth coming
is this how i will contionus every month?
I am really very tired please and the Dr's are not helping matters by asking me to wait till 6months before coming back.
Lord please in any area that i have sinned against you knownly or unknownly please have mercy on me
Please i am so sorry for ranting this morning i don't kw who to talk to that will understand me.

Lord i pray for your strenght to carry on please.

Madam, I understand all that you are going through. Don't worry, his ears are not deaf that he cannot hear you, neither is he blind that he cannot see all that you are going through. Look only to him. maybe buy a faith item to speak to your children to come forth. Forget doctors and all the fronting, it's only God that gives children.

It is well with you.

curvilicious:
I must say this: It is not enough to secretly be following the thread, trying out methods discussed here, amen our prayers, silently benefit greatly then come out nd tell us of ur bfp.
Some persons here also need that tiniest bit of info that you have. It might just be their way out but, you keep mute nd devour other people's info. Its not a fair deal at all.
Some even come nd ask questions upon questions after getting answers disappear again, some will now even change moniker etc.

All you guests nd you secret beneficiaries we that discuss ours are humans in need just like you plz b fair to us as well

Am sooo sorry dear. I only knew of this thread about a few months ago when I was googling TTC all over the place. At least this is the first place am sharing my testimony. Ejooooor ma.

Hello sisters, I always come here to read comments, especially when I am feeling sad. I had been TTC for a year, got married in May last year. I realized I was 5 days late so did PT yesterday, came out positive, did another one again this morning, positive.

The funniest thing abt this miracle is for sometime I have not taken my pregnancare conception and have not gone to see the gyny, who normally gives us dates. Something kept assuring me I will get pregnant soon that I shouldn't bother. I am very excited and hubby has been jumping around the house. I won't have time to go to the clinic till next weekend because of work and exams. before then who has some advice for me, anything whatsoever that can help me please.

To my sister's still trying, please hold on, the Lord is still seated on the throne.

that's why when people brag and appear Soo boastful I just ignore them at times...Because one might end up dealing with a toothless dog, then start to regret.

mine was a travel agency, I was being interviewed by an Indian and a nigerian. During the interview, I got really upset when one hungry looking H R told me I should look at their environment that therz A/C that they don't want someone that will come and be enjoying their A/C and office that won't work, lol. I said no problem.
The worst was when the Indian man told me that I would go to public places like Shoprite, airport, etc to distribute flyers and talk to people. He asked if I can do it, I said yeeeeees! but it depends on how much they are willing to pay for it, lol. The Indian man said why did I jump to money? I told him, we need to be realistic with ourselves, that the pay will motivate me to go anywhere they want me to.
I had to get up ask for my CV I earlier gave them and left. Guess because of my approach they were too scared to tell me the sick 40k they wanted to pay me to walk round Lagos distributing flyers.

OLAADEGBU:
Watch what US Drone caught two Muslims doing to their sheep in Afghanistan!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNUCozbmz04

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And our poor system will allow the man go free.....Adam Johnson the ex Sunderland footballer didn't even penetrate the girl, yet he is cooling off in jail for grooming a minor (not up to age of consent) even when she was 15. Here people rape kids and smile home, at times the victim is blamed and stigmatised. I want to see a Nigeria where victims of rape get justice and not stupid plea to take care of their responsibility.

If the parents of the girl are very poor now, oga will simply look for a lump sum and beg the parents for out of court settlement. They might even accept dowry to marry the child.

What a nation.

wizard007:


Did you ever think for a minute that, that boy could be a relative and after thorough investigation found to be innocent of the allegations. What would you do if it was your son?

Now it's easy to blame the parents for jungle justice. In Nigeria how many rape cases are properly investigated and the perpetrators convicted. The boy in question is a minor at 17, his parents would probably bribe their way out of the issue. This system of jungle justice is hardly an option in developed countries where the law is efficient even for the common man. So our poor judiciary system is largely to blame.

I would want to put myself in the shoes of the parents of the little girl, it's not easy to stand the thought of someone raping my innocent little child and going Scot free. I have seen cases where rape victim's parents are bribed to allow the case die because of poverty.But then in such cases who gets justice for the victim of rape? Let us be fair in our analysis and turn the table at times. Cases like this reminds me of how Nigeria has failed the common man.

At a glance, it looks as if banking jobs are very rewarding especially if you are a staff. But when you look at the time they spend at work, packaging required, etc. I prefer a regular 8-5 with good conditions of service.

nice one OP

My dear, please say the truth and if it can't keep your relationship, dust ur self and move on. The same reason someone is rejecting you might be the same reason someone else will love and cherish you till you die. Afterall Nigeria has over 150million persons.It's sad that Nigerian society still has this bias towards women, if it's a man now I guess it won't be much of an issue. live your life concentrate on other things. If a man that loves your status comes, fine!. You cannot build ur reltionship/marriage on lies because when the effect of your lies start manifesting, you will look around you and you won't be able to find the thing called 'Love'

Get rich quick syndrome, now that they will rotnin jail, let's see how they will become millionaires.

are u guys compatible, Is she mentally ready for marriage? does her goals in life allign with urs? good she is young and a virgin but set ur priorities right, marriage is not a joke.

TheGreatIYANU:
What a load of RUBBISH! He left a Job with Google because it was too big for him.

Someone knock me back to reality. I guess these are problems you face when you don't have problems to face.

lol, I can liken it to the same reasons some people leave very big churches to smaller ones where the pastor knows them and their impact is felt.

I like the part where he said ' we all dream differently'. The story obviously didn't happen in our very own Naija, where many people have abandoned their dreams and are only trying to survive. In such countries people follow their passion because level of poverty and rate of unemployment is not as high as Nigeria. And of course there are better chances of getting jobs in very good companies. There comes a time in an individual's life where physical conditions of work and remuneration are no longer enough to keep an employee on the job, In such cases job satisfaction becomes a key factor.OP has left jobs that he felt are no longer mentally satisfying.

The way his parents look dozent matter. In life where we were born or our circumstances of birth dozent really matter, our ability to change our life defines us. I like the guy Efe, he has never presented himself more than who he actually is