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Romance › Re: Nairalanders Wedding [joanana & Tman14] by shegxi(m): 7:34pm On Nov 25, 2016

lamideee:
Shegxi and Evatee I dey expect una own oo make I come chop rice

lol.....u don high again abi?

Family › Re: Bad Cooks Don't Make Bad Wives by shegxi(m): 2:54pm On Nov 24, 2016

troy20:
Is that an intended pun on that "mercy"...cause its surely wasn't missed.heard mercy johnson just opened a live kitchen on tv Ha!

u are sure brilliant!!!

Family › Re: Bad Cooks Don't Make Bad Wives by shegxi(m): 7:26am On Nov 24, 2016

bros! after all your story and epistle, a woman must still be able to cook, no excuse whatsoever can justify otherwise. i personally wnt marry a lady who is a bad cook.
a man should know how to cook too so that u wnt have to be at the mercy of another person at all times.

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Celebrities › Re: Meet Nigerian Man Who Is Trekking From Nigeria To UK by shegxi(m): 8:19pm On Nov 21, 2016

won ti get bobo yii.......

Events › Re: Wedding Guests In Lagos Sitting On Chairs Inside An Open Car by shegxi(m): 7:32pm On Nov 20, 2016

Lol...... this is so funny and dangerous. with our pothole- ridden roads. if the chairs tip, that would have been a disaster.

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Business › Re: I Need Help With Advertising My Business On Google. by shegxi(m): 8:15am On Nov 19, 2016

Senorita123:
Hello. I am into sales of some products. I need someone who can help me create a site such that when people search for the products in Nigeria on Google, my name or site appears on the front page. This is to increase the number of demands and customers. I need someone who is an expert in this. Call me or send me a whatsapp message on 08090919934 so we can negotiate price. Thanks

just seeing this.....do u still need this service? lemme know before I contact u.

Music/Radio › Re: Wizkid, Stop Writing Lousy Lyrics by shegxi(m): 11:08am On Nov 07, 2016

nothing una go talk.....wizkid is just blessed, simple.

Family › Re: She Refused To Give Me Mouth Action,shld I Look Elsewhere Or Divorce Her? by shegxi(m): 8:42am On Oct 13, 2016

sisisioge:
Oga, this is a simple case of MUST stay! Na so falatio go carry man enter paradise?

but u ladies talk about how men are selfish and dnt have the patience to satisfy their women in bed. would u say this woman is selfish? who determines what is important or not?
good morning.

Family › Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by shegxi(m): 10:10pm On Oct 01, 2016

D hypocrisy here can be sometimes nauseating. See how people are conveniently ignoring d fact dat d wife did something very wrong.
The wife is now saint, d man is d bad guy.......we just know how to turn logic on its head.

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Nairaland General › Re: 16 Years Old Russian Boy Falls Off 23 Floors To Impress A Girl by shegxi(m): 7:53pm On Sep 27, 2016

ajokebelle:
Thank God for his life.
Some guys can't even go out to get something for their girlfriends in the rain.

the boy is mad, i said so.
The most difficult living thing to impress in this world is a lady. Y would any sane person endanger him/herself to please or impress anyone huh

It is absolute stupidity and madness.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by shegxi(m): 9:08pm On Sep 18, 2016

misscareer:
I don't like looking younger than my age...it's frustrating...
M in my mid twenties and I look 18....
I hate hate hate it.....
My stature doesn't help issues too...
M so tired...

wat can u do about it? Nothing
instead of beating ursef down, y not enjoy wat u have. Enjoy d moment, do ur bits, time and nature will take kia of the rest.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by shegxi(m): 7:35pm On Sep 18, 2016

misscareer:
I hate being single.....
It's so saddening....
Need someone to talk to almost every time...it drives me nuts...
I have friends tho, m very friendly,always smiling and happy....
Look years younger than my age....which I don't like
...
Still looking up to God....He is my only partner now....

looking younger dan ur age is superb, u will come to appreciate it with time. Seems u're having a rough patch, dnt despair, just believe and things would turn out just fine. U want to talk?

Family › Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:17am On Sep 15, 2016

Emmaesty:
I have plenty things to Gist you Give me your new number

still that same old number if u still got it.

Family › Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:27pm On Sep 14, 2016

lamideee:
Counselor Shegxi,I See u bro

lol.....point of correction, engr shegxi wink

i trust u are fyn.

Family › Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:22pm On Sep 14, 2016

Emmaesty:
This Bros don forget me sha

lol....u wey no dey ask of person.
plus ur brothers dem collect my fone now...
i hope u are good? and not writing any exams? grin

Family › Re: My Mother Have Been My Frustration by shegxi(m): 7:51pm On Sep 13, 2016

First of all, are u sure she is ur biological mother?
Secondly, are u telling the true story?
If this is true, ur mum is exhibiting d real defination witchcraft. And to think ur dad is silent is alarming!!!
Keep ur head up bro, this phase shall pass.

Family › Re: My Husband by shegxi(m): 9:38am On Sep 07, 2016

dhavel:
Be thankful. would you have prefer him reporting you to his mum?

thankful ke? person no know book u say him hand writing fine, who writing epp?
op, did u not notice he has a parrot-like behaviour while dating? there is absolutely nothing else u can do o other than to keep talking to him about it

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Family › Re: The Choice Of Wedding Ring Is Becoming An Issue To Their Marriage by shegxi(m): 9:44pm On Sep 03, 2016

This generation is so bewitched such dat we now major on the minor......
Intending couples now place more emphasis on things like ring, pre wedding shoot etc. Rather dan wise counsel and extensive reading. And we wonder y divorce is at an all time high.
It is well.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by shegxi(m): 2:48pm On Sep 03, 2016

legalspices:
Shegxi ma man....how u been?? Been ages

OK its callherspices

lols......i knew it was u, were have thou been? Ki lo mu bo?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Meet New Cool People And Just Make Friends by shegxi(m): 1:05pm On Sep 02, 2016

legalspices:
Flexydeeva, where is shegxi,Laredo John,sarima dem??

how may i help you young lady? wink

Family › Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by shegxi(m): 3:00pm On Sep 01, 2016

PresVA:
Yeah, if you're angry you're supposed to let your spouse know...

But if I notice my husband is angry/upset or whatever through his expression, I won't hesitate to ask immediately. . He mustn't speak up before I ask him what's up...

yes u are also correct......but to blame you for ur husband's anger is not correct, that is my take.

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Family › Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by shegxi(m): 12:02pm On Sep 01, 2016

byvan03:
Sometimes not saying anything is some people 's way of controlling themselves. There are people that can't address an annoying situation without completely going bonkers. If you know you are shady and it drives your spouse mad,the sensible thing to do is stop. Why isn't OP responding and you are on his behalf? Probably because he is guilty as charged.

Sometimes is better to shut up when the rage boiling inside might make one lose her mind. She shouldn't be seeing" anything she thinks is cheating ", OP is a husband and not a boyfriend.

i am not about whether op is guilty or not, he should deal with that. even if op was guilty, i still insist there is no excuse for her not to speak up.
she can let her rage calm down before speaking. but if for everytime anyone wants to speak he/she goes bonker, i think that is even a bigger problem.

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Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Work And Wants Her Name On My Home by shegxi(m): 11:51am On Sep 01, 2016

a wife might not be earning but can still have great value.
in this particular case however, i think it is a case of a woman hoping to milk husband and leave him home and dry. u dn't earn and u are frivolous, what a disastrous combination

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Family › Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by shegxi(m): 11:38am On Sep 01, 2016

missjo:
If she can't state exactly what is eating her up but keeps expecting you to miraculously figure it out on your own,then I think you should just keep ignoring her and going out more.
It's women like her dat make majority of men think women are nothing but a walking heap of emotions,and I so hate dat stereotype.

i will never understand how adults would have issues bordering them and wn't speak up and expect the other person to just figure out.
going further, even when the partner knows and dn't talk about it, the onus still lies with the aggrieved partner to air it. if u have choosen to be quiet, then dn't go around like a bread dat has too much yeast in it.

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Family › Re: How Do You Handle An Angry Wife by shegxi(m): 11:27am On Sep 01, 2016

byvan03:
"If she sees something she feels is cheating ", meaning you know exactly what you do to her that upsets her so much. You are married for goodness sake, she shouldn't be seeing anything that should suggest you are cheating. Nothing breeds passionate hatred like a perceived loose husband, whether her fear is real or imagined. You are the one that needs help on how to be married so you don't upset your spouse to insanity.

so you are in essence saying that as an adult, i can be angry about something or someone and be quiet about it and i will be justified?
and do u also know some people are just overly sensitive and extremely paranoid, are u saying it's the people around them that need to adjust and not the person with the issue himself or herself?
i get the point of not giving the other person reason to doubt, but the onus still lies with the aggrieved to speak up.

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Family › Re: As A Bachelor What's Your Average Expenses Every Week? by shegxi(m): 5:55pm On Aug 27, 2016

My rule is to first save b4 i spend.
If i say i want to save Xamount in a month, i find myself living within wats left. But when i say i want to spend and then save watever its remaining, its always tough to save something tangible.
In d end, it comes down to discipline.

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nine Ways Arsenal Fans Behave During Transfer Window (photos) by shegxi(m): 8:58pm On Aug 25, 2016

lmao.......
arsenal fans are so faithful, even wen dere spouse cheats repeadtedly...they forgive.
they are d definition of LONG-SUFFERING.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: How Can I Meet My Dream Man Since Am Not The Outing Type by shegxi(m): 8:38pm On Aug 24, 2016

therd is no two ways about, u nid to put ursef outdere.........if u are attractive(personality and look), guys will talk to u but first things first,stat to mingle and socialise.

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Bored!!! by shegxi(m): 8:24pm On Aug 24, 2016

diplomatvicky:
my days keep getting boring...pls I nid new friends I can chat up withany down here

y are u bored? u dnt go out or wat....lets stat from here.

Family › Re: A Thread For 2016 Brides and Grooms To Be by shegxi(m): 8:18pm On Aug 22, 2016

lamideee:
Following . Shegxi oya ma bo make we choose date ooo

loool, u knw d drill o....wa koko loyun no now grin

Romance › Re: Is This Real Or Photoshop? by shegxi(m): 12:44pm On Aug 22, 2016

nuelzz04:
gud engineer u mean

baddest engineer cheesy

Family › Re: I Have A Family Problem by shegxi(m): 12:37pm On Aug 22, 2016

veave:
Remember, i said i think. My thoughts could be wrong tho. Because i wonder why you would prefer to give cheap gifts simply because that is the one they use when your husband has willingly agreed to foot the bill for higher quality. Has it not occurred to her that they use the ones they use because of cost? Just like you rightly said. Givers do not necessarily have it all, but just have the heart of giving which is golden. Op's wife need serious orientation about that. Besides, she is the type of friend one should avoid. Imagine bearing a grudge with her neighbour this big and pretending all is well. Only bidding her time for a pay back. God go help us.

i would gladly go with the first option for peace.
BTW, between 1-3 which of them would you choose?

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