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tracyfemmmm:
Because alot of men cannot be bothered to learn how to please their wives in the bedroom.

because a lot of women pretend and are not even bold to admit what they want in d bedroom.....

younix:
080

oya pari e.....awa yhu today.

more Nigerians ran mad ke? that's not true. we all dey mad for this country, period.
I know some people will say they are not mad but they are indirectly proving my point because a mad person believe he/she is sane.

on a lighter note, y does mad men have huge cassava? 9th wonder of Africa.
lalasticlala, food is ready.

phintohlar:
Thats how my mum sow seed with the fine iron my dad brought 4rm abroad & when he finds out,he said she either brings it back or move to the pastor's house.. It wasn't 4ny

he he he.......a beg finish d tori.....wet in come happen?

Lol.....if this is implemented, even bosses will have no choice than to be loyal to their subordinate.
but as this is naija, we would always find a way round it. our laws are not d issue, the problem is those that will implement.

once d rape is proven, guy should just be castrated jare, no time. that would send big messages intending to perpetuate same stupid and bastard act.

dingbang:
So rape has now become a business for the federal government? Why shouldn't these monies gotten from bail due to rape be given to these rape victims?



Why should a woman be raped and the government enjoy from her situation? This doesn't make sense!

comprehension is really a tough thing for Nigerians. is this all u could pick from the story? pls go and collect ur school fees from ur alma mata. where have u heard DAT bail money is shared with victim?
best judge can do is to pronounce DAT victim be compensated separately but not from bail money.
Am afraid u are d one not making sense.

Flexherbal:
Some Humams have become heartless.

nope, not some. majority are heartless and evil, just few are trying to be good.

humans are just evil, no one can tell me otherwise.

Did ur sister marry d president or a governor? Who is she to give u such condition? At 33? And u are freting?
Biko, is there something u are not telling us or she has just decided she wants to use ur destiny to play candy crush? because me i dnt understand dis kind of sister from hell o.

May God never make us fall in love with a woman dat will bring trouble along with her....amen.

She wants to be high by force. If d igbo no high her den inspiration from d bible will. Last last, something must high person!!!

Lol....sex don turn by force? person say him no do again, u dey force am. the brain of DAT judge must be working anticlockwise.

HungerBAD:
I will make this one short.

And this advice goes not just to you,but to others too like you,who are either not mature enough to know the definition of what a 'Girlfriend' is,or simply waging an unwinnable fight.

He is your Boyfriend and not your husband. Nigerian girls,for some strange reasons can't seem to differentiate between the two.

You have no rights over him,and or who he chooses to put on fb or any of his social media platform. You too can go ahead and reciprocate By adding a guys picture on yours.

You can't force your boyfriend not to be friends with other females,because he is dating you. And from your post,I think you are the type that monitors everything about him.

Quit that habit,and get serious with other things in your life. If I was your boyfriend,I would have ended this relationship a long time ago,as an unsecure girlfriend will eventually become an unsecure wife with plenty of troubles.

If you are not his wife,stop acting like one.

what u wrote up here sir is thrash!!! yes she has some right over him except they didn't define their relationship in the first place. u don't go round posting pix of u and ladies and begging ur supposed gf to remove her comment, not acceptable.
and to d op, take a walk girl so u won't come and write super story like toke too. d dude obviously wants to have his cake and eat it same time, kolewerk!!!

jeez!!!
which of this mod dem use snake swear for DAT is always bringing snake stories to front page? Na wa o

owk.....am not from Ekiti, only served dere. u Ekiti folks should invite us to come eat pounded yam this festive period.
am in Lagos, pls someone should invite me o,

Guitarlife:
Now let me address ur response on a per line basis and please lets both reason together.

1---You said the passage was not refferring to sex per se ?

So pls answer these questions, what was it reffering to ?

2---What do you mean by companionship ?

Note that the bible was not written in english so you must address its words rather contextually and deeply therefore "companionship" here was not referring to talking or someone to gist with alone, biblical definition of companionship can be found in Ecclesiastes 4: 9 - 12. And notice it was not complete without the inclusion of lie together (which means sex).

3---Ofcourse , this sentence confirms my advise that he should go and marry, note the word "Man" and not "boy". If OP is a "Man" and not a "boy" then the bible itself just like you quoted has also advised him not to be alone saying it is not good.

Do you understand that passage at all ? The passage ended with "cling to his wife and become one flesh".

4---Re-read this sentence of yours and you will see that you are contracditing yourself. YOU first said that "it doesnt necessarily mean sex and then you said it means sex but its deeper : What should we believe?

5,6,7----- Are emotional statements aimed at appealing to sentiments. We all no that and getting married does not mean he is making it possible for himself to learn self control rather, he is positioning himself to be able to deal with all forms of sexual temptation.

Finally, recall that Peter also admonished every man to marry as a solution to sexual immorality (1st Corinthians 7:2)

"But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband"

Its important for you to acknowledge the power of sexual drive and stop spiritualising everything its like politicians who will always advise the masses to pray rather than stealing the money.

With all the prayers being said in Nigeria why is Germany a largely athiest country 200 times better than us in all forms of human indices ?

Its because we always attach deep spiritual meanings to things that require simple common sense.

A man is over 30years and is complaining of a strong sexual drive and you are advising him to be praying ?

So what will be the prayer point ? For God to take away his libido ?

Damnit Nigerians.

welcome to Nigeria
to make matter worse, if u ever have a contrary opinion to this religious folks, u are termed an agent of Lucifer.

Ishilove:
Sad. This is part of the reasons I am not one of the those lauding Toke Makinwa. You see all the signs before marrying but you insist of 'chooking' head, and when you finally start facing the repercussions in marriage, you come out to give sob stories.

The lady above was told of his bad character but she went ahead, now she wants the marriage dissolved over the same bad character she was warned about from the outset.

Love is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear.

i feel you are not totally correct as per the toke episode and her book. granted she made a mistake, having courage to rise up from her mistakes must be commended. so many people make mistakes and never come out of it.
i agree the emphasis should be on not making mistakes in the first place, but when people fall and rise again, commend them.

Emmaesty:
You wey don forget me

message me on whatsapp biko, my phone disappeared

this writeup is so simple, easy to digest and real. for some moments, it felt like I was seeing a movie.
bro, if u ever change ur mind about the army, u would make a very fine inspirational writer. kudos.
may God bless the Nigerian army!!!


lalasticlala, this is front page worthy. emmaesty, thanks for sharing.

Britneyjames:
A Facebook user, shared this experience of an MMM participant who claims God rejected his tithe from MMM earnings and clearly told him Christians involved in the scheme have had their names removed from the book of life.
He said,The Reality of MMM. (From a participant)

When I was initially introduced to MMM, I went to God in prayer to seek for HIS approval.HE clearly told me that I cannot engage in it because those Christians involved in the scheme have had their names removed from the book of life.Below is how he shared his story on social media



www.cheryldurusblog.com

na story u just dey find..........are u sure u even know God sef?

Mzflexydeeva:
of course I will... When I started that thread, I wasn't hoping to meet my husband. I wanted to just relate with people generally. So there's no reason not to continue o.
As long as reasonable people are still on the thread, I will be there.
@shegxi where are you?

am here, just watching u enjoy ur moment of fame on nl

Mzflexydeeva:
of course I will... When I started that thread, I wasn't hoping to meet my husband. I wanted to just relate with people generally. So there's no reason not to continue o.
As long as reasonable people are still on the thread, I will be there.
@shegxi where are you?

am here, just watching u enjoy ur moment of fame on nl...congrats dear. leeport,baddest.

lamideee:
Prof OBO

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