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olaolulazio:
Which country are u from and where(country) do u reside now?

edwife:
Do you realise that you are pregnant and very well know that your husband has a hot temper and is violent yet you keep taunting him.

Why on earth will you even keep taking in without trying to solve underlying issues with your husband? The sooner you realize that babies don't bring love,respect or peace in a marriage- the better for you.

You shouldn't have quit your job, your husband is like that-I don't even have anything to say to him but I think you are your own problem.

But you get mind o, a man rips your clothes in the presence of another man, instead of you to go cover what is left of your dignity, you hit him.Did you seriously expect him(a violent man) to pamper you? Both seem to have a serious communication issue and you can never win in trying to act like him(violently).It's a recipe for disaster.

fellis:
Tell me about it.
The man has serious mental issues.

fellis:
What is the man's problem?
Your pregnant wife asks for help with work you say no.
Ok allow her have rest of mind when she is at home, you refuse instead you rip her clothes in front of another man.
Respect her family nko? Same thing. The man cannot, he even calls her mom a witch to her face.
Now the woman quit her job to handle stress of doing housework alone for husband and his relatives and he is now witholding financial assistance from the wife.

God forbid I end up with any of the rabid sadists that parade themselves as men.
God forbid.
Op report him to your families so they can help you guys resolve the issue. If he doesn't change after you do that then leave him before he beats you to death.
Very heartless person.

Why lay your hands on a pregnant woman?

If you can't pity her then can't you pity the baby in her womb?

pcguru1:
WTH how is this about marriage and OP is male did you read the topic ?

pcguru1:
Big deal, so what 4 months, you're not the only person went through that phase and I will tell you what my mom and others told me, you can either wallow in depression or go out and do something even if it doesn't pay well. The first step to getting opportunities is to stop staying indoors and meeting people. Whether you are a failure or not that's up to you to decide. Pity party helps no one and didn't solve anything for me when I kept putting myself down what solved my problem was confiding in people. So the onus is upon you.

prof800:
You write beautifully. You can't afford to lose your mind. Have patience and dedication.

Greene66:
Naija ladies can never do this.. Lazy girls.

See this awesome woman.

onatisi:
The only way she can get convicted is if there was a third person around when the whole thing happened,but as it is now it is her story against the dead man story

onatisi:
That would be very hard to prove . She may likely get a few years sentence depending on the story she presents . Do u remember oj Simpson case " if it doesn't fit ,then it doesn't fit"

onatisi:
Thanks for your wonderful contributions. I have not followed any one account of what happened all I know is there was a fight,she stabbed or let me say she injured the man the first time ,the man came back and whatever happened no one can precisely other than the fact that a man is dead with a slash to the neck. Look at the angle of the slash,a very good lawyer can convince a judge there was a scuffle. If the worst happens she can claim self defense . But pls kindly note ,i haven't read her version of the events but a Stab can be proving to be premeditated but a slash if properly argued by a good lawyer can be argued to be self defense or a scuffle

onatisi:
My argument goes that she killed the man but it wasn't intentional . If it was a premeditated murder she could have done it in a more concealing manner which will leave no traces to her .

onatisi:
I wont buy this opinion of urs ,if it was a premeditated murder the wife wont use the knife on him,she could have used slow poison on him which takes days to take defect,she could have arranged assassins to kill him outside the house which will make the whole scenario look like a robbery or at worst contacted spiritualists to finish him off .
The point is he came back to the house ,another round of argument may have erupted again and I think the slash to the neck wasn't intentional,most likely they were struggling together when the slash happened,but the 10million dollars question which even Satan and the angels will ask lowo is that why did he return to sleep in that house after the first attack This is simple precautionary common sense. Pls god forbid that your son had a quarrel with his wife and the first attack resulted in him been hospitalized ,will u advice him to go back to that house that same night to sleep I think most likely lowo was a very stubborn strong headed man who believe he was an ibadan war rambo

tobimillar:
Adajo Iya ni yin sir!! So the initial case of attempted murder (not assault oo) is classed as what?

drberry:
I love her and she loves me too but whenever we attempt any pre-intimacy, she just feels very bad after the act and almost wants to break up. I always apologize that it won't happen again but at the end of the day, the hormones will always come back kicking again. This has been going on since last year. I'm just confused and don't know what to do. Please I need some advice.

LyfeJennings:
Guess u misconstrued my words. The guy is not in love, he is not in the right position to decide if he is in love or not. His affection is as a result of idleness or fantasy, U can't give what u don't have. Dating an older lady is one thing, dating a single mum is another thing. Dating an older single mum of 2 is like 3 things rolled into one. Each of the 3 has unimaginable weight. This guy needs help to get a good job and work on himself

tobimillar:
Assault or attempted murder? She tried to kill him first..that wasn't assault

LyfeJennings:
There is nothing mature about a young man with no job dating an older woman with 2kids. I've seen it and been through it. They would have no common ground. The boy is thinking about a future for himself and the woman is thinking about future of herself and her 2kids with other relatives. The young man in question would bring NOTHING ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO THE TABLE. U GOTTA THINK.. I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE.
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I CAN DATE A COUGAR NOW COS I HAVE A JOB AND I'M DOING WELL AND WE WOULD DO FINE BUT NOT AT THAT AGE IN THAT SITUATION

Okijajuju1:
Not for weight loss, but for her skin too.

GogobiriLalas:
I will fvck your my mother too, the sick biatch

Okijajuju1:
She is still rough around the edges, with a little more grooming, dieting and such, this duck would turn into a Swan Princess.


I am truly happy for her.

aliondo:
She was way finer without the make up na.....

obowunmi:
Not hating but what's attractive about this one?