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Your eyes don open. Your e-bf is an unrepentant misogynist!

How have you been?


Instead of him to focus on his life, he is here 24/7 trying to prove himself as the man. Yeye dey smell.

HaneefahRN:
Still searching for the point of this story. Let us see Kunle as the victim here right? What of women with husbands that come home just on weekends or probably see their husbands couple of times in a month? Or women with husbands with strenuous and long hour jobs. Can we justify them cheating?
I'm sure Jane isn't working for her sake alone but for the good of the family. So he couldn't be bothered to discuss with her, rather resorted to going back to an ex. I just don't get. Even if a man that would cheat has a stay at home wife, he would still find a reason to.

Yes sir

Annie knew what she was getting into. Case closed!

damogul:
FYI I didnt post that screengrab so anyone would send me a pm or solicit for anything. I know its hard for you to believe that some folks can be close to some of these yeyebrities. Yeah I call dem yeyebrities even to their face.

Even the day people were talking about her daughter and Peter Okoyes son doing a dance off I sent her a whatsapp message about it and she came on nairaland as a guest and was reading.

Its no show off. Just speaking the truth. Nobody has sent me a pm and nobody should. Not everyone is a scammer bro. Check the time I posted the screengrab and the time I made that comment. Annie is nice but this has got her hot and bothered. Innocent still has a players blood in his veins and is still sleeping around which is common knowledge to me and those of us who are close and this is why she isnt comfy at all. Pero is still crazy about the guy and the kids want them together but Annie played her cards fast and right when she had the chance hence her gettinf hitched to tuface because Pero was and still is a laid back easy going lady with no scruples but I am sure tuface will be doing coded things in the yard with her given half the chance.

My daughter can decide to get married at 14 sef and I will support her.

I would have if hadn't stereotyped Muslims and also called it abuse.

gurunlocker:
Yes, you are right... you can say this without telling me I am speaking through my a.ss.... Well, I just hope your daughter get married at that age.

Child abuse ko adult abuse ni

Nonsense!

kechywillz:
That Girl isn't up to 18,that's child abuse

1) There are many married ‘underaged' females n Nigeria excluding the northern region, those that are not married have had abortions
2) 17 is not too young to be married. It is no different from live in relationships or gf wgo spends all her time at your place.
3) Marriage at 17 does not affect your future unless it is an abusive relationship. She can go to school, graduate with good grades and get a good job while being married

gurunlocker:
Hahahaha.... outta my a.ss? Please explain this.... you must have reason for that

Good for you

Can you order go to hell noe


To those ediots that are thinking of sending him a pm. I wish you get scammed!

damogul:
I just chatted with Annie and she is seriously hurt that Innocent went to the united states against her wishes. She is fuming right now.

For those who doubt my claim view a screengrab of a portio of my whatsapp list near the top is Alex lopez and near the bottom is Annie Idibia. I am close to a lot of these celebs.

Sharrap! Fela wives used to quarel, go figure

BrutusOj:
2face made a mistake marrying only Annie. How many wives baba Fela get before him die? Did we hear of trouble from that house hold back then and now? Those who have more than two wives hardly have issue, only those who settle for two usually face that rivalry from the wives. 2baba add more wives jaree.. if Annie can't deal with that, let her quit and you can enjoy ur kids in one house.

From one to two to three kids, Pero must have thought that she could use kids to tie him down. As for tubaba, he has already accepted his mistakes

Annie knew about this but it didn't stop her from getting married to him. She mumushly said yes, instead of her to focus on her poor acting skill. I hope she knows that these kids have every right to her husband time and wealthy as her kids. Goodluck to her.

Why are you speaking out of your as.s?

gurunlocker:
That's one reason why parent should monitor their children, 17 years is too young for someone to marry, I know this is common with muslims, but damn, it's abuse.

This is serious. If she is so silly to give your money to another man. Be ready to move on. I think it is more than a mere affair. However it will be in your best interest to find out, it could be blackmail or the other guy may be lying about the affair.


Either way, I think this is a cooked up story.

I suppose you would agree with me that men should be feared more, if not why is Nigeria this way after 55 years of leadership under men.


The way some you talk ehn.

nrexzy:
I would have voted for her ooo but i dey fear women in power.. Thanks to diezani Madueke.. Money she move dey fear angels to talk.

You like to lie sha


Hair straightening is as old as God-knows-what. The caucasians have been straightening their already straightened hair before. I have also read that some African tribes use natural chemicals /metal irons and extension. I don't think they were trying to appear white.

UuzbaGuuzba:
The first woman to ever perm her hair was a black American woman. As you know, the black Americans, landed in America as slaves and were maltreated for over 400 years.

Just name it. All human rights abuses were meted upon them. Well, the black lady, in a bid to gain respect from the white folk, took 2 pieces of iron rods, heated them up in a fire and rolled them over her hair. The result was, straightened hair and the first pair if curling tongs.

Black women the world over have done nothing more than trying to make their hair look look like the white woman's hair. The straight long hair.

I happened to take a swim with some white women once. Well, I was swimming in the pool and the jumped inside (I'm a married man. So forget trash). These ladies jumped into the pool head-, line and sinker. I dey swim, dey look.

They finish, came use their hand to just pack their hair and went to change. None of them was shouting "oh my hair".

And I asked myself, Did God make us UNEQUAL?

Why do black ladies always want to have the white woman's straight hair, but the white woman doesn't give a s**t about black woman's hair? She does not want to copy black woman's hair?

The answer is simple- Deep down, black women STILL BELIEVE THEY ARE SLAVES like the blacks in USA. And hence the compulsion to suck up to white folk.

How can my wife or daughter feel they are a slave to white society folk? We are all here in Nigeria, eating rice and beans. What the f**k is wrong with you? You ain't nobody's slave.

They make their hair their way, you make your hair your way. Be proud of what God has given you.

If they look good leaving their hair natural, SO DO YOU. God didn't make ANY MISTAKE giving you kinky hair. That is how YOU look. If you keep trying copy someone else, that person WILL always be Number One. and you will be no 2.

Did you come to this world to be number 2? Be yourself. Number One.

Lol. You are right, some women really need to cut their hair off. I don't think anyone is against low cut but people are quite reserved about it. They are against the OP's opinion because he has no ground to ask his wife to cut her hair.

lepasharon:
Some of you Nigerian ladies have zero edges and half hair on your head.

You hair is limp and damaged due to being permed to death by relaxers

You go to the hairdressers with no hair and have the nerve to come out with some, and you think you have a right to look down on low cut when some of you lots hair needs to be scraped right off.

Some of you need to cut that mess off ur hair and start afresh before you look down on lowcut

Yeye Pageantry

She did well sha

When a woman is married, she becomes stvpid, daft and dumb to be trusted to make her own decisions including those that concern her person. The OP believes that it is the man's responsibility to guide and correct her because she is no longer worthy of being a person.

proffemi:
Chief, this is so wrong on many levels. I share certain elements of your concerns, but your conclusions are...well, the less said about them, the better.

Even though you browbeat your wife into sharing your view, I'll bet my last dollar that you've created a well of resentment in her. Hidden resentment is easily the most underestimated destructive force in families. You can reject Brazilian hair without going as far as to ask your wife to cut her hair. If you don't need her to look good for you to find her physically attractive, that's your prerogative. But remember that she is her own person, and deserves to look good (within bounds of decency AGREED by both of you, not decreed by you o, bros) if that is what she wants.

God give you wisdom,and take a little of the paranoia from you.

Is your wife a fo.ol that she would need your guidance and correction?

What makes you think that women do all these for men? I don't have a bf. I use my hijab yet I don't find time to spend time and energy to beautify myself for myself.

You have no fvcking right to tell your wife to cut her hair for the above reasons. If you find low cut attractive, I can understand but for the reasons you stated, you must be think yourself a minigod. God bless you if you cheat on her with a woman with that has hair. Common natural hair you can't even advise her to maintain, if you so believed in that the man Is the head of the family because of your cultural and religious convictions, shouldn't you be the one criticising women on low cut?

Before you criticize me, I have been on low cut and I loved it. A man can cajole his wife to cut her hair but definitely not for the above reasons.





And this is the definition of BS

Many women have entered into a strange problem because of attachment. Barrenness, dead baby in the womb, husband under seriuos attack. Untimely death of spouse, cancer, spirit husband and so on.

Islam frowns on it too but the use of attachment have absolutely no correlation with your negatives.

Cc God2man

Let's talk about the picture quality

Hater!

kenonze:
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Are u seeing this or because is Mercy Johnson?

I can as well ask you the same question

tammie24:
Is she the only mother


Doesn't she have better things to do?

Like mentoring... impacting lives one way or another?

Nigeria leaders are known for their stvpid decisions and policies.

Pavarottii:
So b4 they make plans to relocate a market, they won't av tot through it? Or kwankaso knows how to manage Lagos more than d governor.

Can Ambode go to Kano state and say the things Kwankaso said? Tell me a southerner that has gone to the north and say such mayb apart from a head of state(GEJ).

Or u didn't read wen I said legal process should be followed and did u see anything pointing to legal process in d post?

Were they charged?
Were their offences bailable?

Let's start from there first


Ambode cannot relocate a market without a good reason. No one should tell him not to do otherwise. If he is influenced by Kwankwaso, it must be for a very good reason.

Pavarottii:
Ambode, over to you.
These northerners sha, they just feel they own this country and the west is supporting this impunity, because they are scared of genocide. Is this how other regions senators go and repatriate prisoners from another region and will av an easy passage on it, simply because our security forces are dominated by the northerners.

Am not from d west, but this is injustice, cos I know they will eventually be released and am sure they planning another attack in Lagos wiv the military on their side. This should go through some legal process. Imagine he came all the way to Lagos to repatriate dem.
Well the yorubas brought it upon demselves, the northerners will always see dem as slaves not as brothers.

Well I hope Ambode will be brave like Fayose and relocate d market, if Kwankwaso has anything wrong with that he should take the matter to court.


One Nigeria indeed.

If each political rep used his/her allocation for its purpose, we wll have a higher standard of living. However I will expect ND to have the highest standard of living in the country because of their 13% derivatives.


If each Governor decided to concentrate the 13% on one sector of the social sector like the health sector, there is no reason why the standard shouldn't be at par with developed countries.

How can anyone trust people who cannot manage simple allocation to manage anything? Instead of these people to fight for a law reform that allows Conditional Fee Agreement on criminal activities so that they would be able to sue for negligence, they are busy destroying their lands.


Nonsense!

The point of this argument was to convince you that men find obese women attractive.You weren't a believer, I think I have helped you with that.

I don't care whatever they are healthy. It is their body.

banmee:
The example of the drug addict is not being healthy or not. It is about what they think they want. Keyword is "think".

This it not about whether she is healthy or not that is good or bad. This is about attractiveness, you buttresed of point by explaining how he is predispose to infidelity because of her shape. The whole point of this conversation is to convince you that some men find them attractive.

banmee:
And I gave you an example of how a drug addict would tell you that cocaine is sexy and good for him. Just because he thinks so does not mean it is so.

Small think now they will blame the North, what was Mile12 political reps doing? What about Oba of Lagos? Ambode nko?

Skinny girls talk shit about fat chicks too. It is a vice versa thing

Why are you so concerned about this? More African men are appreciating slim women, you should be proud of how you look. If haters don't like it, let them hit their head on the wall.

lepasharon:
I started disliking fat chicks when they talk shittt about skinny girls, not their weight. They have 3 stomachs but open their mouth to say skinny girls look 12 years old. They are a plate away from a heart attack but tell skinny girls to eat more

That is not true. Black women like thick women not fat like the one in this picture. Winnebago that might get a pass are women that have discernable Bo.OBS and asses. Anything from a 10 to 16 may appeal to have your average black man. Don't confuse the categories.

lepasharon:
Lol I do know what I'm saying. The black community promotes obese over skinny women and black men accept obese woman. Comments like 'a true African woman has curves'. Plus It is rare to see african woman living a healthier lifestyle like working out. Saying stuff like she doesn't wanna loose her ass, but along with that ass is 3 stomachs.
Skinny women get told they look like aids patients while obese women are let off.

But who is truly healthier? They need enlightenment

You have gone off track again

1) Oyinbo also have fidelity issue and they are not kitten in comparison to African men. They may not throw caution to the wind like your typical African men, but they do cheat too.
2) African women do too
3) I won't say that our divorce law is crappy. I will say that enforceability of court decisions/orders is our biggest challenge, couple with the fact that the society expects a woman to stay no matter what.


The point of this argument is whether or not men find obese/fat women sexy. My answer is that some men do find them very attractive.

banmee:
The only reason you think African women/marriages don't have fidelity issues is because the African woman is basically a slave. The oyinbo's are kittens compared to an African man as regards fidelity. What can the African woman do? They are made to take any and everything. Have you seen the divorce laws in Nigeria? Exactly, it does not exist. If there were enough protection for women in African, you would have a different opinion.

Lalasticala, Seun, Rocktation, Farano, Mynd44 and Dominique

I was wrongfully banned for making the below comment. It appears insulting at first but if you read it within its context, you would realise that I haven't done anything wrong

a moderator banned daretodiffer for "Your mum must have been a COW to have you. I don't care if it was brought on by pregnancy. She was once a COW and I am 60% certain that she still is " Bullying/Insulting a Nairalander. Violation of rule 2. Ban

The poster I quoted referred you the woman in the picture as a cow, it wasn't an insult because according to him, she is a cow by by virtue of her size and shape.

Going by that analogy, our mums , his mum must have been a cow at some point in her life. That was why I mentioned pregnancy, a pregnant woman does look really big like the woman in this picture. So do some women after child birth, that was why I used 60% not a 100%. If his mum indeed carried his pregnancy, she was once a cow. She would still be if she retained her post childbirth weight.

I will advise to read comment in context. It is unfair and wicked to take my word out of context

MUVA:
LOL. We both know I'm not 35.



Spare me the antics please. You seem delusional say "you aint into something" yet you're doing it! Miriam, have you gone for this months psych-eval?

Knights just love to fo.ol themselves with big words but ordinary meaning of ordinary word them no understand

Like I keep saying, I am used to hate.

Is she used to it?

a : extortion or coercion by threats especially of public exposure or criminal prosecution
: the crime of threatening to tell secret information about someone unless the person being threatened gives you money or does what you want

Merriam Webster


If you cannot take what you can't dish, I don't know what to call you then . Let's try harassment, that was exactly what you did to our contestant.