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FamilyRe: I've Learnt My Lesson by sheilak: 9:33am On Feb 20, 2016
JamesMoriarty:
This story of yours won't still incite me to want to help accident victims. No matter who it is, it's none of my businss. There would always be people who would help in such cases, but sadly, I am not one of them. I simply don't care. Lol.
Great

I hope you don't mind people driving past you when you or your kids are in such situation. I hope you also do not mind bleeding to death too
CelebritiesRe: "I'm Single" - Carolyn Danjuma On Divorce Rumours by sheilak: 9:04am On Feb 20, 2016
seaga:
Find attached, this the point I was trying to make. I believe this should be simple enough for you.
That is not true. Money impresses everyone, female or not. What one needs is discipline not just hardwork
CelebritiesRe: Olajumoke Orisaguana's Valentine Photoshoot by sheilak: 8:33am On Feb 15, 2016
Who is the make-up artist/hair stylist

Horrible wig
Horrible makeup, can't he/she take a lead from the person that did the magazine's shoot
Horrible photography, she has the type of face that needs light
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 9:30pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
separate online platform then. No spills...
Okay, send it through daretodiffer
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 9:14pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Y?
Online is online

No spilling over
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 9:12pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
who said your husband is?? Abi where did this come from? Did you read the conversation of what made me say what yiu just quotedhuh
You used Jesus as an examplesad

I have nothing against Jesus o
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 9:04pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Another?
I am sorry

Nope
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 9:02pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Bad platform.
I know
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:55pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Oops... email?
Nope
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:52pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
The new you.
Nope

I was banned na
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:51pm On Feb 12, 2016
Tallesty1:
Trophy? So submitting to him is an award? You gotta be kidding.

Listen we ain't talking about just any man here, we are talking about husbands and wives.

A man that comes to your dad's house to ask for your hand in marriage loves you already and you ought to submit to him until he gives you reason to do otherwise.

He will love you the more if you submit to him and will eventually make you the head of the home.
This is a fairy talesad
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:47pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Remodelled and rebuilt.
I don't understand
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2016
YourMain:
Sigh. I kinda agree. But if it's a situation where you're always yielding to his wishes even if it's against what you want then it begs the question does he really love you ? If he honestly loved you he'd be content with who you were and he wouldn't ask you to change and become this person you weren't. He wouldn't ask you to submit to things you aren't happy with. Yes we all have to make compromises but what is he doing ?

Why would a woman have to make more sacrifices ? It makes no sense ? Just because she happens to be born female shouldn't have to be some sort of thing that should ever hold her back. Especially if it was a situation where she was putting in more into the relationship than he was.
Complicated really
RomanceRe: Friday Night Palava!! Guys, Get In Here Nowwww by sheilak: 8:42pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Love baby... Love not just the coochie
I am not a teenager

And I will be very wary of a guy who claims to love me on this forum
RomanceRe: Friday Night Palava!! Guys, Get In Here Nowwww by sheilak: 8:37pm On Feb 12, 2016
takuradua:
Daretodiffer is here
Why are you disturbing me
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:22pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
Jesus washed the feet of his disciples, does that male him a slave? ? it's simple.. love your wife and she will make you happy finish!
My husband is not Jesus. He can never be Jesus.

I wish it were that easy
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:16pm On Feb 12, 2016
YourMain:
Lol.
Because women aren't capable of love and men aren't able to be submissive ?
Lol. Me sef don't know o.


That is why I wouldn't agree to that term without clarifying my positionundecided however personally I believe that love is the same thing as submission. If you are in a relationship where you care about the person, you would submit to certain things for the sake of love.

However the choice of terms connote something deeper especially the term ‘submissive'. If love can mean submission and vice versa, it does not follow that both words are mutually interchangeable. Usually Love can be submisson but submission cannot be love therefore I think submission carries a heavier burden than when love is submission. Therefore women are expected to make more sacrifices than mensmiley
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:03pm On Feb 12, 2016
YourMain:
Ehm I think it's different for every woman. But you cannot expect a woman to submit to a man just because she's a woman and he's a man. undecided
That exactly is the point of this love and submission thing

Men should love an women should nbe submissive.
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 8:02pm On Feb 12, 2016
KingEbukasBlog:
He plays by your rules and does anything for you cos he loves you ... wink


True that



God forbid I meet a crazy woman !
This is getting confusing

If he does anything for me because he loves me, that would mean a man is expected to make sacrifices and compromisessad. Then what exactly is submission if love means sacrifices and compromisessad
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 7:54pm On Feb 12, 2016
amokeme:
on?
Submission
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 7:54pm On Feb 12, 2016
YourMain:
Mhm yeah. She didn't have to do it if she didn't want to.

And so what if she wanted to submit to him. Maybe he's a fine good man deserving of her submission.
What will make a man deserving of a woman's submission?
RomanceRe: Submission Or Slavery? by sheilak: 7:34pm On Feb 12, 2016
I have asked them to give me examples but they wouldn'tundecided

I don't even like that word regardless most women are pretty submissive to men they care about and a man who loves his woman would also submit to her. I understand flexibility, dependable team player and loyalty not I don't understand submission.

I am still waiting for an explanationsmiley. I wish someone would enlighten me today
CelebritiesRe: Don't Go For 'Spec' In A Partner , Go For Good Heart- T. W. O Advises Singles by sheilak: 6:12pm On Feb 12, 2016
martyns303:
At least their marriage ain't as whack as their songs and music videos. Even as a kid then it just didn't make any sense.
You need surgery

Reallysad
PropertiesRe: Photos: SURE-P Office In Abuja On Fire by sheilak: 5:28pm On Feb 12, 2016
EgusiSoup:
And an idio.t will ask me to vote for APC come 2019 undecided undecided. Dullish dullards following a burantashi burukutu sipping cow dung goro chewing addict senile paedophile..
Mynd44
RomanceRe: This Is What Happens Sometimes When You Stop A Girl And Ask For Her Number by sheilak: 5:19pm On Feb 12, 2016
If they ask for your number, don't give them

Ask for theirs insteadundecided

But do not promise to call backtongue
FamilyRe: How Infidelity Landed Some Nigerian Men And Women In Hospitals by sheilak: 3:49pm On Feb 12, 2016
Women do not cheat nowsad
PoliticsRe: Why Supreme Court Declared Wike Winner by sheilak: 2:37pm On Feb 12, 2016
shammah1:
Read the thread well before commenting. SC said that APC couldn't prove their allegations that the election was plunged with violence and didn't hold. & the Ali Ambrose led tribunal did not give Wike of PDP fair hearings. That's to say that the Rivers Tribunals was bought by Buhari & Amaechi that was why they relocated it from PHC to FCT. Don't die crying. I know it's too painful for you & your types to accept but who cares? undecided
Smh

They should have sent them back to the lower courts for a retrial
PoliticsRe: Why Supreme Court Declared Wike Winner by sheilak: 2:36pm On Feb 12, 2016
harmless011:
This their reason get as it be why not order for retrial of the case.
As in

I had an instant headache when that partsmiley
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Recalls Meeting Tee Billz - "He Was A Bit Rude At First" by sheilak: 2:28pm On Feb 12, 2016
Liar

She has always used wig and maintain her pre-pregnancy weight
CelebritiesRe: Yoruba, Igbo And Hausa Lesbians Make Passes At Me – Dayo Amusa by sheilak: 12:51pm On Feb 12, 2016
ayusco85:
Malu ni mi
RomanceRe: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by sheilak: 12:51pm On Feb 12, 2016
emperorchedda:
And my mother grin
CelebritiesRe: Yoruba, Igbo And Hausa Lesbians Make Passes At Me – Dayo Amusa by sheilak: 12:15pm On Feb 12, 2016
ayusco85:
Give this woman a medal for making this Grammy award winning statement. She will live long. Any woman who leaves her man because he cheats is not wise.
I need a woman with such mentality
Ode!

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