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The only problem I have with situation like this is that we only hear of the crime. There is no public information on how the matter was handled. If the officers involved in such dastardly acts are publicly punished maybe just maybe we will not have a lot of such cases.

Some wonderful news. May God bless the bundle of joy
This RRS men must be special because our usual police officers will be another story

Ayoefa:
Rubbish.

The level of stupidity and gullibility in this country is totally out of control.
This is a burial not a party like Funke had at her house. This is a special circumstance where the rules cannot be enforced as in others.
In fact I know someone whose family member died this week. They were allowed to move from one location to another and were allowed to perform the burial without any govt interference.
Also, even the govt says that everyone should stay at home , but you are allowed to go out if you have a good valid reason to do so like buying food, fuel, going to the hospital, going to bury a dead family member.
Almost everyone in these pictures are wearing face masks and most importantly, they are there for BURIAL not for a party.

Keep quiet there
No gathering of more than 10 persons
Are they immune to that rule?
That's the problem with we Nigerians. We are just sentimental

Surely you don't expect any political leader to celebrate his death. They will all mourn cos death respect no social class. Even if Kyari was not his friend, he will surely send his condolence. Anyone of them might be next

RIP I hope your family gets justice
People should just turn mumu anytime they come across our uniformed men. This is becoming too much. I don't know why I would argue with a policeman holding a gun

Please is that suppose to be where she goes for spa abi kini? Oppression ni eleyi
Is that a bathroom? Choi I am suffering
Baba answer my prayer o
Poverty must die

I am doing this for someone close, an elderly man that can't work at the moment
thank you in advance.
Will post alert info
God bless you
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Muftau Alebiosu Olumo
Gtb
Will call him and post alert info

Yet they want folks to stop burning tyres on the roads. I don't know how I will open my eyes and allow insect to enter it.
If there are no security we should all do the needful

Why should anyone think she will be pardoned,?
I am not saying she should not be forgiven but she needs to pay for her pre meditated crime.

I still don't get how they arrived at determining who deserve what in the country. I have been hearing of some sort of social intervention fund that I never knew existed.
Honestly our leaders responsible for the problems of this country will pay someday

At least they are not encouraging us to go and buy from China

MRbitcoin869:
She is stupid.....u have the right to rape her....if she doesn't submit herself to you
It under the law..... Remember you paid her bride price



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I hope you marry a woman that will teach you how to reason
It is men like you that give so many women reason to kill their partners
I hope you get raped too
I hate nonsense

miketayo:
Most Yoruba women are like that. just give her space she will be the one begging later

Do you have to put tribe in this as well?
Give advice that's all
If you are married, you won't say this I'm sure

Olofin2:
Our first child is 3 months old. Wife had the child through CS. During pregnancy, she stopped intercourse at 7 months. After her delivery, she agreed to sex twice recently after what looks like begging.

I'm planning to stop asking her for sex forever. I'm a playful somebody and she tries to avoid me playing with her.

Is it the childbirth that caused this?

I was in this shoe when I had my first child. Later found out it was depression from pregnancy and child birth. Body change, responsibility of birthing a life and all. It can be overwhelming. Your wife does not want you to beg for sex,she wants you to understand and be patient. I get why you would think like this. My husband did same. He called me selfish cos I can't feel his pain. I tried to make him understand my fears but you men's ego won't let him bulge. It took me 6 months to even allow him near my cookie jar. I had my baby through natural birth but had to be stitched cos he was a big baby. The first time we tried to do it after delivery was worse than my first time. He let go of everything after that
You men always think because we don't have same libido as you that we don't care. I am very sure if you are patient and loving towards her, she will bounce back.
Pregnancy is not same for all women. Some climb back on it immediately after, others take longer. Please don't use this as an opportunity to cheat, you will regret it.
Don't rush her
Continue to be your playful self even if she won't let you (she is only scared you might use that chance to have your way)
Watch romantic movies together
Take her back memory lane of things you did together to enjoy sex
Don't let her perceive sex frustration from you.
Let her know you are in no hurry even though you are.
I hope all this helps
You guys are not alone. I went through this and when I overcame we have some amazing sexapades honestly

pineed:
In this difficult lock-down period, I've decided to support in my little way by giving N3,000 to 6 families in very dire need..

This is first phase; hopefully to do a 2nd phase soon, God willing.

Please This 1st Phase is Strictly For Families - Parents in Dire Need.

Kindly Drop your Account Numbers. Please confirm when you have received the alert. God bless you all.

This is commendable... May God bless you real good. I wish more people will take steps like this. Nothing is too small. If they get something to eat for some days it's better than hoping on nothing.
More blessings op
We need more of this, may God bless me enough to be able to do some like this too

Ayomideayo:
What some are praying for, you better dont let them snatch your husband...follow him inside like that and continue

So she should allow him twist her inside cos he is her husband? If you are married and a woman, you should get why she screamed like that

I don't blame the man, look at the woman tying wrapper. She gave him too easy access. This sort of men ehn,you gats to make it a tough job for them by wearing tight jeans
Anyway one man's food is another's taboo. Some women are home alone wishing their hubby will be around to disturb them small

Social media has given people like you avenue to say what you like. Oga Dino are you not part of the government? When you saw something like this, it won't diminish your honor to help alleviate people's suffering. Stop ranting and show action

Chibexe:
Good morning guys

This is how the entrance exam timetable looks like.

this was last year entrance exam time table.

Stay safe

Please what is the difference between these two: master in international relations and strategic studies and industrial relations and personnel management?
Also, what is the course fee and duration of both courses?
Lastly, I changed my name for NYSC certificate (I have a change of name for that) but I think I want to use my old name for MSC now. Please will that be a problem?
Sorry I have so many questions
Would be glad if you could answer all.
Thank you

Masha Allah, may He count us among the living and help us through this trying times. May He heal the sick and accept our acts of ibadah

hush15:
Look, I studied education. Today, hardly do children do pry 5 n 6 anymore. Once they can afford it, they jump from 4 without fully comprehending the learning experience. So as long as they pass, the move from pry 4 to jss1. Whereas the real learning experience is to achieved at 5 n 6 when age combines with maturity. It used to be a privilege for the exceptionally brilliant but today, even stupids jump it now. The goal is just pass the exam which shouldn't be. Today, what we have is graduates who possess book knowledge but zero application knowledge.

I didn't study education but I have been teaching for 7 years now. I can say for a fact that we always enjoy mature students in JSS 1 that were age 10 or 11. This is because they had learnt almost everything they need to know. It makes teaching them fun and easy. Those ones that left from pry4 are the ones that struggle. I am not saying we don't have those ones who struggle even at age 11 but it is better as all student are not the same

Christianvoice:
It is not new policy. It was introduced by National Educational policy in 2004. So Lagos State just implemented it. I am an educationist.

True ,I have heard of it but it is this same government officials who receive bribe from school owners. Private school owners are part of the problem of education in Nigeria sincerely.
We now have 13, 14 years writing WAEC. And I ask myself where are they really rushing to? Parents should allow these kids enjoy their age. They have a whole lot of time to spend being an adult

This is a welcome development but it needs to get to employers of labour as well. They only recruit young graduate of 21. How can a child finish secondary school at age 18 and complete higher education in 3 years?
I am happy with what Lagos state has decided but 11 years is better. The private schools are the main source of this problem. I work in a school where a boy of 8 was admitted into jss1 just because his father can afford to pay the school fees.
My only problem with this directive is how will they enforce compliance? Parents threaten withdrawal in school and force school owners to admit toddlers to secondary school.
There was even a mother that told me upfront that her daughter must leave primary school at age 9. She can't afford to be spending so much tuition in primary school. Then again, the federal government needs to join this to make it work. A parent can easily take their child to Ogun state for admission or any other state. It should be enforced by the federal ministry of education

Ayam not understanding again how can we borrow so much when the world economies are preparing for recession?
Who are the financial analysts working with this clueless government?
We are still struggling with where they have put us. Yet they wish they to add more burden.

Very creative... This is lock down well spent

AmbitiousDrama7:
I can make you feel alright all you need is.....

Don't send me any private message pls. Post your advice here or keep it to yourself. Thank you

bukatyne:
What changed this COVID-19?

How do you behave when he is around that he does not really believe you miss him?

I didn't say he doesn't believe I miss him. The lock down with nothing to do aside take care of the kids makes me miss his companionship.

dawnomike:
In are really in a pair of shoes and so many women are going through the same as you are... You are not alone.
Speak with friends/family to sometimes come around and help with the kids or get a house help to help out with the workload. The Lord is your strength

You know women around me believe I am lucky. That after all no man to cook for every time. And he will be sending us money regularly to cater for our needs. See why I came here for different views. I am an emotional person I guess that's why I am like this. The house chores is not even a bother, I just miss having him around. Thank you for your kind words

Boston001:
I can relate to you very well. My family are in Nigeria and I am an American due to situation beyond my control o have not been able to travel home recently. For one thing video chat and constant communication makes it easy. The digital romance is fun and they are well provided for too.
Talk to your husband to make it fun

Thank you, we do video chat. It really helps but the reality of everything just set in now that we are all alone at home. When I go to work, I deal with the loneliness at night. But now it's becoming unbearable. We usually do stuffs together when we are both home. Doing everything by myself now

Depriest2020:
I don't know if it's sex you miss most about him? If it is, then I advise you be collecting from your ex till he comes back. But don't forget to apologise to him.

Really
How can you say this?
Please I only asked for input from women in my shoes. If you've got nothing good to say, better you don't comment

GboyegaD:
Just keep communicating as much as you can. One of the challenges though is you can't tell how quick the paper process will take. It might take years and it might be months. Just keep yourself busy and hope hos paperwork comes through quick enough.

Thank you, we do lots of video chat everyday though. But him not being around is the challenge. The kids always want to see him

I opened this thread to get views and advice from my fellow women who are in my shoes. I got married in 2012 and we are blessed with two lovely kids. My husband had always travel even before we got married. But last year he decided to stay back to work his way to getting green card. I have been trying to manage his absence by keeping busy with work and the kids. But covid 19 is making everything difficult now. Often times I have always cried myself to sleep at night. I never saw myself living in this situation but these past few weeks has been hell. Presently I have insomnia, I miss him so much I think I might break down soon. I don't know what to do anymore. He never takes me seriously when I cry to him. He believes I am not being emotionally strong since it will only be for a short while.
I know I can't be alone in this. Please I need advise from women who have been in this situation. How did you cope? Are you guys together now? How did deal with the kids when they miss their daddy?
Thank you for your input