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do you know this for a fact?

otherwise i wud expect more concern for his safety cos it seems you guys are missing his salary more than u re missing the man.

assuming u are right, the only thing u need to do is have a talk with ur mum about her becoming financially independent. if she does not currently have a source of income, it's time to step u and make her own money to take care of u guys.

as for ur dad,
u have no reason to disrespect him, his love for u hasnt changed. and u have no idea what the root of the problem is.

for all u know, he might just be buckling under the pressure of responsibility and expectations.

and be grateful to have learned the second most important thing every woman shud know:
never be financially dependent on a man !(besides ur father of course)
the first being, never lie down with a fool

that's equitable to me!

that's what happens when we perpetrate barbarism in the name of sharia.

it 's very saddening to see  the sheer ignorance and complacence displayed by the very  people who are supposed to be the future!

a few questions to ponder:

just because "it's not new" does that make it any less true or real?
does not the fact that it's not new make it more expedient to find a solution?
CNN is one and the same as the American govt?
are you all waiting for the ruling class to find a solution just like you're waiting for them to provide the very basic of infrastructures?
oh! you didn't know you had a ruling class?
if you are so concerned and defensive about the negative portrayal of Nigeria what are you willing to do about it?
who do you guys think is bankrolling MEND? 

i hope you all realize you can make a difference and you can bring about desired change to your various communities contrary to what you have been conditioned to believe.

lastly, oil is not a curse, it's the selfish braindead morons, a.k.a ruling class that are cursed! and the people who remain complacent? they deserve their ruling class!

run!!!
if he can slap u after only a month, imagine what he can do later on!
did u witness ur mum being slapped arround?

@laudate+ taurus
i see o, white in black skin, lol
@titilayomi
the future sister in law has not accussed u of anything, she has made her position clear ( she protecting her territory) all that u can do is be urself, don't be phony , when she gets to know u she will come arround. people like that are better to deal with. she 's honest and upfront.
all the best!

why do u need to please her?
treat her like u would treat ur own difficult sister, how she reacts is not in ur control.
a beg, just be urself! all the best for nuptials

@femo
time for frequent trips to lagos. u need to invest more than airtime o

postpone the wedding.
talk to the bobo. determine his motive, if u love him enuf and can cope with a stepson and baby mama drama---- make sure there be no other secrets b4 you send out the cards.


my concern is not his having a son but his deceit! ( a red flag)

Girl, u r on the right track. the first step to a successfull marriage is knowing what a good marriage looks and feel like.

@zebudaya
anger will motivate us to act. is indifference a better alternative?
afterall this is the only country we can call our own (no matter what your status is in a foreign land it is still a foregn land. even if you were born in say the uk or usa or wherever people will still ask what your roots are)

i am deeply saddened by most of the postings, u are all the future of nigeria. it is glaringly clear why the country is where it is (in shambles) i can't believe we have become so complacent and taking this as if it was just another normal occurence!
we need to be angry as hell (that 's how a revolution can begin) it could be your father, uncle, brother, sister. etc. and come to think of it, if the elements behind this evil act can kill an elite what is stopping them from trampling the masses?
i can see u all ol, rofl reu and all that but please think about it,

Happy bday Seun,
many more to the glory of God.
make u take ur time to enjoy and discover urself. u dey too young 2b married.

every first love cannot be infatuation cos it would depend on the maturity of the couple
any person under 20 boy or girl is infatuated. it's also posible for people much older 2b infatuated that is called lust

they are def celebrities. (in their own congregation) they have some kind of influence, and some of them have money.

find out why he's backand why he left. don't make assumptions. give him credit for coming back.

he didn't leave u! he left ur mother!!
take ur time to forgive and make up for lost time.
he's back because he cares. u get to know him b4 u let ur guard down.
good luck

are u abroad?
if you are in naija, u shud reach out to ur friends and family. if are abroad volunteer at ur church, join a singles group if ur church doesn't have one speak to ur church leaders about starting one. treat urself to relaxing beauty day. (u can do all of these in naija too) i dare say u're still mourning the loss of ur
ex ? if u agree, let the healing begin girl!

i guess u need to forgive urself and move on. consider this a lesson learned.if u are meant for each other, it will all work out in the end.

if u really love her, you would be more concerned about how much u hurt her.my 2 cents: let her know how u feel (be honest with her and yourself) u should want her to forgive u even if she won't take u back. now, that's love!,

found!