₦airaland Forum

yarimo:
On behalf of all members of Nairaland, we congratulate APC governorship candidate as governor elect in osun state.

Repping Iwo LG. APC all the way

Yambee:
Eye service.

Ambode and his supporters tell you say them no get the money to buy the form?


Sell your building and use repair part of Mgbidi road for East. Yeye dey smell.

Gbosa for you

Phee Dee phee

Kini?

Hmm Dele, Dele, Dele elenu gbongbo

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naijaking1:
Yes, it can. Just remove corruption, open competition for other vendors, and seen how fast the cost go come down quick quick!

True, I second this opinion.

fifunmitimothy:
This everyday rain. . . make e no be say another Noah don build ark and dem no invite us o. Abeg check your area for further info biko...and pls if you see animals walking in pairs, ������ follow them oooo, they might be heading to the ARK. ��l�..

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And take it to Ohafia.
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Badt guy

Can I get it in Lagos?

Right in

Ohoh

The APC and PDP candidates are blood brothers. So we are taking of one popular, well known family in Katsina.

The girl is so cute

Haaa this one is deep

hey hey oti sele

shouu, give us details nah

oya nah

grafixdon:
I see accumulated anger, bitterness and frustration from that man's angel. No sane man will start hitting his wife without reason. When you're frustrated, little things will start annoying you even when you should overlook it.

They've completely destroyed that man's ego, the only way he know he could get it back is by violent, he's not like this before, I'm very sure about this. They turned him to monster so they have to enjoy it while last. (note, I hate people that beat their wife ill never support such act) but imaging this boy telling his father he'll beat him up (to his face).

Don't be sentimental when you're commenting on issues like this. Bible says 'Honour thy father and thy
mother: that thy days may be long upon the land... '.

He pays all of his children's bills expect for this arrogant boy. I've said this before and I'm saying it again, two wrong doesn't make a right, if the man is angry, let the woman be calm.

Mr, I agree with you totally. The marriage is just 21 years old, that means this woman shouldn't be more than 50. What does she do for a living? can't she afford to leave if the man is that "brutal"? is she that helpless financially that she has to keep living with the "beast" of a man like the son has painted him to be?

Boy, you looked your father right into his face and told him you're gonna kill him?. Don't get involved by siding one against the other. She is not a fool, she can take decisions for herself. Let her take her decisions and you support her. You can also speak with your father after apologising to him for your mannerless behaviours.

Don't be a hero by hitting your father, history will not forgive you! Especially if you are YORUBA!

Daboomb:
A lot of immature people have adviced you to beat your Dad (which is what l suppose you really want to hear) but before you do, l want you to ponder on one thing:
You have other grown-up brothers from the other wife of your father.
Can you beat those men as well?
What if you beat your Dad and one of them bigger brothers decided and beat the hell out fo you for beating "his own Dad"?
What if two or three of them even team-up and beat sheege sense into your head, can you handle that? Dont forget that he is not your own exclusive Dad, others wont fold their hand and watch you kill him for them

Because you are stronger than your Dad 'now', you think that gives you the license to take laws into your hand, not minding that you are placing a "curse" on your own head? Think about it for a minute, just one minute.
What is good for the Goose, is also good for the Gander.

Now, let me x-ray what you wrote, and hold you to account by your own words.

*Your Dad pays the school fees of everyone else, except you! What does that say of you?
*The other children side with your Dad! What does that say about your own character?
*You say your Dad "barks"! What does that say about you, as a son?
*You say your Dad 'causes rift' between you and your other siblings! What does that say about your personality and behaviour in the family?

The above clearly shows that you are a PROBLEM CHILD otherwise, your other siblings will not side with your Dad (at least not all of them).
For your Dad to refuse to pay your own school fees while paying for others, even a 30yr old, shows that he is a responsible man but you are just disobedient child of the family and you think using your mother's situation as an excuse, will allow you to get back at your Dad.

Generally speaking, let us assume your Dad and mother do quarrel a lot and being a man, he would definitely have the upper hand (no man will keep beating a woman, if she is not fighting back, over and over again. It is against the laws of conflict. Just think about it).
A good child will try to get to the root of the matter and try to "make peace" between the two, not take sides and want to beat one-up, for the other.
For your Dad to have lived with your mother for 21yrs, means there is something good about him and something good about your Mum...but differences do develop in all marriages and since a ship cant have two captains, without sinking, one of the parents must adopt the "sheep attitude" if the other has adopted a "goat attitude". But if yoru Dad is the Goat and your Mum also decides she wants to be a Goat, then they have to slug it out physically - That is a matter of choice for each of them.

Again, a sane child would have solicited the help of other older siblings, to amke peace in the marriage but a wayward one like you cant think along that line. You are just itching to beat up that old man, for all the anger you have bottled-up inside, against him.

But let me assure you of a few things:
- Karma is a bitch, beat up the man (assuming he is helpless), then watch what happens to you in future, even if you claim you wont touch your wife, it could just be a neighbours son that would pay you back..... but surely, you will get paid back with better 'interest'.

- If you beat that 'old man' up, there are "things" that the older generation can do to 'stronger young' men like you, to teach them the lesson of their life (you have made your self the 'enemy within' and would be treated as such).
Dont blame anybody if you become paralysed or run mad very soon.

- Your other older sibling, especially the Males, are watching you closely (they may not have said anything now) but the day they hear that you lay hands on their father, that is the day they would teach you a good lesson in life.

My advice for you, since it appears you are beyond redemption, is to move your Mum out of the house, to a house you rent for her outside so that she can be Queen and authority in that place.
While l dont support spouses getting physical with each other, especially older people, l think 21yrs is enough time to study and understand one's spouse and their 'temperament'. If by now, they still cant live together peacefully, she should seek alternative accomodation and leave the "mad man" alone to his madness.

OP, take this and take it to the bank. This is the best you can get here!. At 21 you are thinking of beating up your father hun? wahala waoo

this is not his wify nah?

Op, don't get ya!

Sirpaul:
No matter how tired i maybe,
Seeing my President on TV always gives me strength to get up & change the channel.

haha nairaland, una no go kill person

Truthcat:
Anyone with good knowledge of history knows this to be the truth. Ooni should normally prostrate to Alaafin if not for the AJEGUDUJERA attitude shown by the last Ooni. The former Ooni messed things up due to IJEKUJE with Abacha. Ooni Sijuade gba serious EBODE for Yoruba nation, part of which we are still dealing with today. I doubt if the Orisas are still with even the present Ooni, reason he probably started on wrong footing by marrying a woman who turned out to be a show of shame.

hmm true!

SlayDaddy:
Omini knowest, dz y Oni dey crown Are Ona kakanfo. better ask if u don't know than roughing ur mouth

God bless you. let him continue to argue

really?

Tiwa got this one

op please and please just please don't even go there with Halle chicky Berry. You need to know her say 20 years ago in fact, yeah she was not just beautiful but extraordinarily beautiful.

op please show me pictures of women Halle's age that are more beautiful, and yeah I agree with you on Cameron and Reese.

oh Tookeee

hnn eegbee! this one na new one

this is not in Nigeria.