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FamilyRe: Should This Lady Sacrifice Her Marriage For Her To Have Children In Life by shizzleStar: 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2014
After 12 years of marriage? what took them so long? i empathise with the woman.

Let them adopt
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 9:14pm On Nov 06, 2014
Jbluv55:
See your water sire smiley.

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ok thanks bruv...much appreciated cheesy
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 8:58pm On Nov 06, 2014
Op why not ask specific questions?
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 8:44pm On Nov 06, 2014
Jbluv55:
Hello sire, I see you've made yourself comfortable cool.

What shall I offer you? grin
thanks bruv, only a chilled bottle of water will do smiley
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 8:42pm On Nov 06, 2014
chimkaire:
Welcome back smiley
thanks, will be chatting you up in here from time to time wink
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 8:38pm On Nov 06, 2014
EfemenaXY:
Really? And if the man wants 12 and the woman says two, what then?

I asked you a very specific question.
Show some courtesy and answer it..."what other grounds aside finance and medical can be a reason to instigate birth control / family planning"?

Do you think women deserve having a career? If not, kindly define the terms "selfish" and "submissive".
When they both agree on 4kids and they get them, then they can start family planning. However, its the mans prerogative to make the final decision if they don't agree on a number of kids and not the wife's. Also tell me in which part of the world only wife does family planning.

...and why wont i think women deserve a career? or haven't you seen where successful women combine both family and career almost effortlessly without making any fuse about it like you lots are doing?, a hallmark you can find only in unselfish and submissive women.

Now i will throw my question back at you again, where will you classify your 'its my body i do what i want' stance? medical? financial? where? be courteous enough to answer please
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 7:16pm On Nov 06, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:
So that actually makes sense to you?

Alright, that's all I needed to know. Thx for your time. I don't want to derail the OPs thread further.
Thanks too for your troubles
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 7:12pm On Nov 06, 2014
EfemenaXY:
Tell me something.

How many kids is enough?

When do they stop breeding like rabbits? On what grounds aside medical and financial?
Enough is the number they decide/agree

When does having two kids equate to breeding like rabbits?

Medical and financial is just okay, so in your own case 'its my body i can do what i want', what grounds do we classify it in? selfless?
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 7:02pm On Nov 06, 2014
EfemenaXY:
They can discuss from now till "thy kingdom come". And if AFTER all that could be said has been said, with the msn refusing to budge, then the woman has the final say.

And yes, it's her body.
thats the selfishness i was talking about...and why cant it be the woman to budge? after all it is even better to have your kids at once (just 2kids for that matter in this case)

Since its her body and feels she has the final say, she shouldn't also complain when the man does what he likes with his body, after all its his body too, fair innit?
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 6:44pm On Nov 06, 2014
EnlightenedSoul:
Is it not selfish and disrespectful for the husband alone to decide when and if the wife will birth?
I never said its a sole decision for the man to make, the reason i used agreed...and if you read my comment very well and understood it, you'll see i gave instances where each party may not have the justification to decide alone
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 6:27pm On Nov 06, 2014
Godmystrength:
where i first asked the question, i didn't mention abortion neither did i make any reference to the OP
ok, i did explain why i mentioned abortion thou
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 6:23pm On Nov 06, 2014
Godmystrength:
Please i never mentioned abortion..(i asked the question and i know what i was asking). the other thread was talking about birth control pills. And please do not bring the other thread into this. Question has nothing to do with the OP of that thread....Thank you...
Now you need to calm down, this wasnt where you first asked the question but in the said ops thread remember? and i already posted my innitial response before you corrected/updated your question
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 6:20pm On Nov 06, 2014
Godmystrength:
and please i never mentioned abortion..(i asked the question and i know what i was asking). the other thread was talking about birth control pills. Thank you...
ok, didnt see the updated question before i commented, and i mentioned abortion (tablet) cos the man may have scored a goal which the wife didnt want to count as one tongue

If the burden of the child/rens upkeep is on the wife alone at the moment and the man has no reasonable income, then its logical if she wants a delay since she is the bread winner per say......simples
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 6:12pm On Nov 06, 2014
aisha2:
How wicked and bad their wives are.
How feminisim is spoiling their wives
How the west is running marriages after all their mothers tolerated cheating and black eyes small slaps and ordinary affairs now these women will be threatening to leave
How unsubmissive wives dont welcome them with hot food even when they find them cheating pet them and kneel and ask them to forgive their inadequacy that pushed them to cheat. Thats how submissive women are supposed to " tame" them not all these gra gra efe them
aisha with this, you stand the risk of derailing this thread. Dont forget women also nag and complain a lot too about their husbands 'inadequacies'/'deficiencies' in salons, churches etc...lets not derail pls,...lol
FamilyRe: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 5:58pm On Nov 06, 2014
I am not married but my inputs will be invaluable @babygirlfl

Godmystregnth, as Pickabeau1 suggested, i think its better discussed here cheesy
Ok,will need to do what she needs to do means taking pills to avoid pregnancy or abort the baby without the husbands consent (for the benefit of those who dont understand or missed the thread on it).

First things first, is the husband bouyant enough fnance wise to cater for the number of kids? if the mans daily/monthly income is healthy enough, then he has a good reason to want another child asap.

Secondly, if the number of kids they planned/agreed to have together is not complete, it is best for her to have all their kids once so that she can be through with child bearing once and for all and face other things squarly, career etc. I am actually in strong support of this position.

If the wife's reason for wanting a delay is the normal lame reasons/rhetorics like; 'do you think its easy to give birth'? 'can you carry pregnancy for nine months'?, 'can yo go through labour like women'? bla...bla...and the one that annoys me most is 'its her body, she can do whatever she likes'...like seriously? what nonsense?, then she's being plain silly.

However, if her reason for wanting delay is because she has tears from previous child birth and it isnt healing quickly or she normally gives birth through CS, then she has good reasons to want to tarry a while before she loads again, and its only a callous and selfish man that will insist other wise.

Other than these, i think it is highly disrespectful and selfish for a woman to decide alone when she wants to give birth or not
PoliticsRe: Annoying Things GEJ/PEJ Apologists Say In Their Defence by shizzleStar: 5:29pm On Nov 06, 2014
Lordlexyy:
It's a faceless forum that explain your rant. The ideal place for a weakling to talk trash. Numb skull like you won't survive 2 mins of my physical assault and you are here talking about mud rolling me.
lwkmd...you'll no longer crush me on e-forum, its now on physical assault and the mouth making continues.... cheesy and you think you can square me up n a physical combat? you dont even know how callous i am in real life. Anyway i'll leave you to your delusion, dont want to hurt you more than this cheesy
PoliticsRe: Annoying Things GEJ/PEJ Apologists Say In Their Defence by shizzleStar: 5:06pm On Nov 06, 2014
Lordlexyy:
[s]What else are you capable of. I doubt you have the brain to argue constructively. Dube, i place folks like you just exactly where u belong. I never lose my temper here and you are not about to make me do so. Beside, you are no more Igbo than countless of igbos here who think and act right. Once again, stay off my lane man or i crush u[/s].
You are very stewpid. If you had a functional brain, you wouldnt have narrowed your comments to igbos if you werent so silly and you are here talking about acting right and arguing constructively.

The FOOL is even talking about crush, i laff in ijebu....What an iddiott? You may wish to know that this is a lane i travel very often, so rolling you in the mud on a hangmans noose will be much like a healthy meal to me. You are just about losing your mind completely, a situation you can avoid if you just stop quoting me already. Now take your stewpdity elsewhere you IDDIOT.
PoliticsRe: Annoying Things GEJ/PEJ Apologists Say In Their Defence by shizzleStar: 4:43pm On Nov 06, 2014
Lordlexyy:
[s]No skin pain man. Right there in my post was an appology in bracket. So what's the noise for? Don't expect me to condescend to your level of idiocy to join words with u. I made my point without bitterness, but you resorted to insult. We all know majority of those sold out to Gej's project, there's nothing hidden or tribal about it. Put to demonstrate your mental state, you went berserk on me. Stay clear my lane, i aint gat no time with unrefined folks[/s].
shhhhhh....SHUT IT!

You displayed your uncouthness with a degree of idiocy and bitterness, yet you dont want to be pointed out. Why the apology if you didnt make a silly comment? Again i ask you, is your dad also sold out since he is in favour of GEJ project? You tried to sound smart but you just sold yourself out.

BTW, What makes you think you can stand my verbal asault if i decide to go berserk on you?. I will only frustrate you further if you tempt me, dont even go there

Lordlexyy:
thanks. Was in a haste.
Welcome
PoliticsRe: Annoying Things GEJ/PEJ Apologists Say In Their Defence by shizzleStar: 4:22pm On Nov 06, 2014
Lordlexyy:
We all know how it works. One thing TANoid can't withstand is intelligent arguement. Anyone wonder why the two rapid dogs are after berem and op? Your guess is as good as mine.
Delusion much....

Its rabid not rapid, Mr Intelligent
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 4:08pm On Nov 06, 2014
dre11:
Okay
So when are u then hopping out then or u will stay a bit
Maybe a little more often now, as often as i can smiley
PoliticsRe: Annoying Things GEJ/PEJ Apologists Say In Their Defence by shizzleStar:
Lordlexyy:
I asked my dad the other day why he prefered Gej to Buhari, he said and i quote, ' he looks humble and he is a Christian'. I looked at him with pity. Immediately, i could perceived the simplicity and ill exposure of the TAN gansters who littered every thread defending their principal out of pity, emotions, clannishness and other unconceivable reasons far removed from facts and truth. Op, i must say big up for capturing the essence of the collective mentality of these people. I won't be surprise if in the near future i suddenly realise that these people are some Igbo sales boy (appology) managing kiosks while whiling away time posting rhetoric craps. Cos, no intelligent being no matter how tribalistic could be this blind to make such suggestations posted by op. It's too damn local and unrefine. It gives an image of poorly breed people void of touch with the real world.
FOOL
You couldnt resist the urge to take a swipe on igbos because only them support Jonathan right?

You will also suddenly realise that your dad is a blind tribalistic igbo sales boy. Useless frustrated IDDIOTT
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 3:38pm On Nov 06, 2014
dre11:
Bros I greet o


Ur mtn get network failure
Maybe that's why we no dey cee u
Broda i dey ansa'o!

Naah...Im always on full network, i go AWOL by choice only to hop in from time to time...lol
Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 3:07pm On Nov 06, 2014
chimkaire:
Longest time, Shizzy...were you in China all this while or what grin. cheesy. I'm cool oooooo...U?
lol @China cheesy babe i'm good, more like i just came out of the cooler. Since you didnt ask after me, i decided to come find you wink
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by shizzleStar:
TEAM VIVLY


TEAM ANNYPIE

Forum GamesRe: Nairaland(forum Games) Hookup And Relaxation Center(reloaded) by shizzleStar: 2:43pm On Nov 06, 2014
lol...campaign now MTN, everywhere you go....issorai cheesy

Chimkaire, where art thou?
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by shizzleStar: 1:36pm On Nov 06, 2014
FOR EMPHASIS

shizzleStar:
MY HONORABLE VOTES:

Jennimma

Vivly

Annypie

Rozzay
RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by shizzleStar:
TEAM VIVLY

RomanceRe: Miss Nairaland December 2014 Contest - Final Elimination Round (semi Finals) by shizzleStar:
MY HONORABLE VOTES:

Jennimma

Vivly

Annypie

Rozzay
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advice... by shizzleStar:
Hmmmmm! here we go again.....

He wanted out, but suddenly wants you back after giving some flimsy, silly and childish reasons and excuses. It surprises me however that you haven't sensed the need to flee from this guy who is obviously out to wreck and fleece you both emotionally and financially and that's worrisome, wonder why its taking you long to fathom this. undecided

Joke kor, play ni....and you believed him...chai! angry So if he wasn't at the risk of losing his job, he wouldn't have remembered you were his earlier 'rejected stone'? or doesn't that tell you something? You on your part need to get over this guy and concentrate on making yourself a happier woman without him and you here talking about forgive... undecided.

Please stop communicating with him already, how difficult is it? tell him you've moved on and ask him to let you be, and surely you'll meet a better man that will appreciate you. Enough of the dilemma you keep having over this guy and the advice you keep seeking on him. For the umpteenth time, why the haste?? The solution to your problem is MOVE ON with your life! FLEE from him NOW!

...your sister was right. Enough said.

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