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Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by GboyegaD(m): 8:07pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
cococandy: I'm not married but for me, the guy is just funny. If the 1st 2 turned out female, the probability of the 3rd been female remains 0.5. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by cococandy(f): 8:16pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
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Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bellong: 8:22pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Enumerate what you intend to learn. Ask questions you want them to answer. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bukatyne(f): 8:23pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
babygirlfl: You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by RoyalRoy(m): 8:27pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
As stated by the Op, this thread was created for a purpose. To find "happily married men" to mentor the young and unmarried. To keep the sanity of the family section and try to make a balance of real life family issues and how they can be managed!! We see already there are spill over arguments from some other threads that is already evolving into another gender war in here. We hereby advice that we follow the model of the Op and some other ladies who have raised questions for the men who are willing to share their experiences with us here. Let's keep to the originality of the thread and let all the light and unrelated comments go to the family section fun room if need be!! Counting on your support and understanding as always. Regards. MODS. 3 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 8:27pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Since the wife is bearing most of the financial responsibility presently and she knows they can't afford another child right now she has to do the responsible thing which is taking birth control pills. Since she has already explained her position to him, she is well within her rights to go ahead. It sounds to me like the husband isn't a practical person but one of those dreamers who think things will somehow work out. Instead for him to be focusing on getting a source of income he is asking for another child or twins 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by freecocoa(f): 8:28pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Okay to the happily married men, I ask, Who decides what the family should eat? Like do you tell your wife what to cook? Or do you just go with whatever she serves? Do you cook? |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by damiso(f): 8:32pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
dabossman: Very Nice and realistic post... One persons nice husband might be Mr Wimp to another woman and annoy her to death. 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by RoyalRoy(m): 8:34pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
All unrelated posts to this topic have been removed! |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Bibol(f): 8:34pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
freecocoa: I like this question. Oya over to our panel of judges |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 8:38pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
EfemenaXY:When they both agree on 4kids and they get them, then they can start family planning. However, its the mans prerogative to make the final decision if they don't agree on a number of kids and not the wife's. Also tell me in which part of the world only wife does family planning. ...and why wont i think women deserve a career? or haven't you seen where successful women combine both family and career almost effortlessly without making any fuse about it like you lots are doing?, a hallmark you can find only in unselfish and submissive women. Now i will throw my question back at you again, where will you classify your 'its my body i do what i want' stance? medical? financial? where? be courteous enough to answer please 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by mikeywise(m): 8:42pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
freecocoa: In few occasion, I tell her to prepare a specific kind of food. Other times, I make do with whatever she prepares. She will always say " tell me what u want to eat and I will prepare it for u" 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by freecocoa(f): 8:49pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
mikeywise:Aww, that's a good wife right there, hold on tightly to her. I take it you don't cook since you didn't answer that question. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by iykedare(m): 8:52pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
bukatyne: What is your definition of being "happily married "? Does the wife not play a part in a man being happily married? 2 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by bukatyne(f): 8:55pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
iykedare: I don't know where you are going Yes 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 8:58pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Op why not ask specific questions? 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by deeptesting(m): 9:04pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
@OP for a while i have been a guest on NL but decided to comment today because the subject is quite impressive. I am a happily married man with the 2 beautiful daughters,in fact, as i am typing this note,i am at home with my daughters while my wife is still at work. Before you think my wife makes the bigger box,her pay is nothing compared to what i earn from my business but i realized that for one to be happy in marriage one must truly live his/her dream..Marriage should not scuttle her dream nor mine,then it is left for us to find a balance. It is not all bliss, we have our difficult times, in fact,if you are married and you have never for once thought of quitting the marriage then your marriage is made in heaven but my love for a decent family has guided me for 8yrs. Please feel free to ask me any question,i will be glad to give you my honest opinion. 12 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Chrisbenogor(m): 9:14pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
freecocoa:Kitchen is her zone. She knows what I like, more importantly there are always options. So the question goes like would you eat this to this or that...... She is a far better cook so I don't bother with the kitchen. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by babygirlfl: 9:14pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
mikeywise: Welcome and pls do comment more in this section. Thanks |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Celebrimbor(m): 9:17pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Okay to all the happily married men. Two days back a topic made its way to the front page and I believe it is still there. The topic is "seven reasons why a man should not get married". I would like to ask if the points made by the OP of that post are truly valid considering the fact that the poster (who I know personally) is not married. |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by iykedare(m): 9:18pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
Okay. This thread is actually for happily married men,right? What about men who do the right things in their marriages but their bad wives wouldn't make their marriages work ? What will these men called? I need to be educated. In the context of this thread, a happily married man is one who is solely responsible for the happiness in his home. I feel that the word "happily " should be substituted with responsible. A man can be responsible but still find himself in an unhappy marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 9:23pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
2CatWoman:What is wrong,my sweetheart |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by Nobody: 9:26pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
bellong: My fellow guy, how far now |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by deeptesting(m): 9:29pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
iykedare: I don`t think there is any married man that will say his wife is 100% good but my Brother it is what you decide to focus on that matters. To stay in marriage you have to grow up above little and minor things. How can a woman not make her marriage work? You must be kidding me.. Believe me it is only an unstable woman who will be frustrating the effort of her husband to make the marriage work and i will be quick to ask the man where and how he met the woman. 9 Likes |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by babygirlfl: 9:31pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
deeptesting: Thank you very very much. We really appreciate. Please do comment on this section. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by babygirlfl: 9:34pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
iykedare: This thread is to encourage the happily married men to comment more on this section so that young men can learn from them. 1 Like |
Re: Are You A Happily Married Man? Family Section Needs You by shizzleStar: 9:35pm On Nov 06, 2014 |
who is that editing my comment |
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