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only one child? and there ere no medical/health issues? i smell.....

your choice, your decision....good luck to you.

You made some good points, but the problem with your comment is that it is grossly one sided cos you looked at it from the angle you find favourable, so i will discountenance them thus:

DBestDoc: Ofcourse you are right but alota women have been left frustrated because of the "i must get married before having kids" mentality and notion they have.

A lot of women have also been left frustrated because of the stigma and dilemma associated with having kids outside wedlock, or are you by any chance saying you will still get married to the man who fathered your kids down the years??

What do you do if the marriage you are waiting for doesn't happen anytime soon? Would you rather waste your fertile and productive years waiting for the man to show up , force yourself into an unhappy marriage or have someone whom you will shower your love and attention on?

What do you do if the man you intend to get pregnant for isn't ready for kids?. What if you don't have a boyfriend or are not in a relationship as at the time you would like to have kids, would you force yourself on a man you love or beg him to impregnate you or would you pay your way to get pregnant?

I think those who desire to have kids and can give them good upbringing should go ahead and have them whether in or outside marriage. This will reduce the number of desperate and unhappy singles around, atleast they will have something and someone to live for.


My opinion!

And what if the woman that desires to have kids cant give them good upbringing?? should she go ahead and have kids she cant cater for? do you think there are no desperate and unhappy single mums who are caught between leaving behind their kids somewhere and marrying the man they love?

Women without kids have better chance(s) of getting hitched. Not everyone must get married thou. Just to point out your unbalanced views. Btw, your opinion is respected.

Godmystrength: why??

abeg pity this guy and tell him your gender and maybe status, he might just stop fooling around. i had a good laugh already. 4inches tall indeed. lwkmd

coogar: if that link was authored by the OP then she has herself to blame.

she was dating a man who left her to engage another babe in nigeria. the man never told her he had a fiancée.....until the OP got pregnant.

the man told her he would go ahead & marry the babe in nigeria & then changed his mind. he broke up the relationship with the babe in nigeria & the OP took him back.

according to the OP, she felt betrayed & love ended at that point - so why did she marry him? if you are not in love with a man who you felt betrayed you, why marry him?


arrant nonsense!

If you had seen my earlier response to onegig before edited, then you would agree with me you were being very nice with your submission here. I gave her a piece of my mind (with references) after going through her thread history and i felt she deserved no pity/sympathy for her present ordeal, but then the 'Jesus' in me prevailed and i deleted, quite unlike me.

This is what happens after you ignore several conspicuous red flags.

onegig: i hope you understand the response was not to spite you or a personal attack. Saw you reply before you decided to edit it. Take care.

Not at all! i edited cos i didnt want to come across as being too mean, harsh and insensitive to her plight.

One love bruv!

Dymondgurl: ok, for starters, do u know who joan rivers is? If u do, then u will know were am coming from. By d way, I quoted someone's post so why don't u go to d post I quoted, den try to comprehend wat I posted. Capiche?

Kapish

MrCork: ...huh?.. U people no juan rivers ther in Nigeria?.... Truss me, u people r advancing (no offense)

MrCork: ...we jus suprise in London that u people no Juan rivers...irs shocking

corky joe never disappoints

Oh well i know nothing about her religious inclination but what i do know is that she is loved by most in the entertainment circle for her great sense of creative and well constructed humour which she does effortlessly. FP will and can NEVER be the same again without her. Remember how she often refers to Giulliana Rancic as my girl cos she's so fond if her and I'm sure Giuliana will sorely miss her.

Although i never knew she was 81 until i saw last week when reported that she was in critical condition. She had this look, passion and energy that defied her very advanced age that you would think she's in her 60's(thanks to surgery).

FP will defo lose plenty of its flavor, tough task for Giuliana, Terrence Jenkins and co. All in all, Joan Rivers had a very rewarding and fulfilling career and died at a very ripe age that most of us can only wish we would live up to.

RIP to her.

OrlandoOwoh: Have you taken your ARV drug today?

ask your g.ay partner if he has some left

HezronLorraine: You've taken this p.Everyone wants a shot at happiness even if it against odds.

Your life, your choice...enjoy.

OrlandoOwoh: Mumu, didn't you see where I used the word, "arguably"?

olodo, you are still not making sense. That song is no where close to what you try to claim, arguably or not. We are talking PHYNO here, if you dont like it since you are neck in deep with hate for brothers from that side, you can go and die.....blawddy fvcktard!

OrlandoOwoh: Flavour hardly composes songs. He steals highlife songs of Osadebe, Rex Lawson, etc.

olodoowoh, when will you stop exhibiting your profound stewpidity?

OrlandoOwoh: D'banj sang arguably the most popular and danceable hiphop song, "Igwe." How about that? "O si na nwata buru ogaranya."

according to who? and who rated it so?

GSKing: Seriously, you care, if not, you wouldn't post it.

I said there aren't enough black men but you chose to read with your computer upside down...

Back to topic, I love Mr Canada's smile

whatever bruv, goodluck in your desire for more black men

GSKing: Wasted dudes? You have my permission to cry your heart out. Please stop derailing. All I see in those pictures are handsome young men with bright future.


Racism!!! There aren't enough black men contesting! Where is Mr Africa, I see Mr Australia there...

cry?? like i care about you lots, suit yourself bruv. whatever you see i dont care.

lmao @racism when theres a black guy there from germany....are you white? and why didn't you rep your country?

axortedbabe: when last did she eat...

she's waiting for you to feed her...

makahlj2: Someone give this poor lady a sandwich, please. This cruel Italian man is going to starve her to death

and you think you just made sense?

drnairalov: shez cute but this aint sexy....Halima Abubakar has the sexiest bikini body in Africa followed by Eniola Badmus..and princess d comedian

bwuahahahaha. Niqqa you must be a comedian yourself ?

Iykestan: Choi!!!...dis one her honey pot go make sense ioo

u sabi beta tin and that is what Mr Orlandi has been digging

best bikini body? far from it.....but she's defo sexy on bikini and her kpekus is tidy and looks inviting, most girls would even envy

GSKing: Why not comment based on the topic st hand instead of derailing?

A simple "good job, dudes" or "thumbs up" or even "congrats" would have been okay.


@post... handsome men, wow! Where is the Nigerian representative?

and how did i derail?

ok i would rather say 'wasted dudes'.

why didnt you or any of your mates rep Nigeria? yeye dey smell

sweet Nikki, my hollywood celebrity crush

Very trendy and elegant. They all on point.

umu igbo repping

i hope this boy knows what he is doing

HezronLorraine: They'll get married to a guy obviously and have kids if they want to,maybe adopt or through surrogacy.

why adopt children? why not get pregnant and give birth yourselves. Why would you want to enjoy the fruit from a woman since you dont need a woman in your life?.....fvctards

She is still beautiful, and why is that sandra girl posing like an imbec1le?

KVN1: Come on guys.must i say everything?

YES you must say everything. What have wenot heard before that you cant say? or are we inside your mind to know what you intend asking?

The man obviously doesnt give a damn about marriage certificate. The lady herself isnt serious about going for service, cos if she were, it wouldnt have taken her this long. Obviously the man doesnt want her to serve and he keeps giving stewpid excuses and her fish brain continues to buy those excuses.

Left for me, with three kids now, she hould just forget about servive, btw is she still within the age limit?

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