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Which year?

Kudos @mayorall .

Bought a laptop and it's very neat, almost new from what I can see. And it was at a very good price. �

Thanks man.

Seehydee:
Who has a fairly used universal mifi for sale ?

I have one o... 10k

How much is this boy paying to ever front page sef?

5hn7:
Office Table (big enough for two people) + An ergonometric chair

<comfortable for remote work.>

Price: ₦20,000

WhatsApp: +2347066530087

15k? Location?

How far? Any discount on buying like 20?

Land cases no dey ever finish.

But why do you have to make it about the Williams Sisters though? Nothing concerns their name here please.

Rip to the departed.

https://fb.watch/a-GqK3Pv5m/

That is not Mummy GO na

https://m./517177256345664/permalink/768911264505594/

This is the post.

Facebook should start doing more to moderate all these groups in local languages. That's where the real atrocities are committed.

What year?

Your brother is doing the right thing. Let him be.

If he has warned her several times and she still continued, it means she derives validation from social media and her lifestyle will not match with that of your brother.

The moment he forgives her, she will go back and post again. If she does not, she will not be herself and might eventually be depressed.

So, for the sake of the sanity of the two of them, let them be.

It's only painful that this administration and Tinubu that is lapping after them understands the basic fact that in Nigeria, first to go viral with a lie usually wins and not the truth afterwards.

So they just keep firing the lies ahead while goodhearted people try to debunk unsuccessfully after them everytime.

It's not yet going through.

With this very very high price of Gas wey even people wey dey earn well dey complain? Nassarawa? Nkan be fa

How much for a motherboard replacement for MacBook pro 2015

chrissoft:
I have been on this platform since 2013 and I am delighted to have Nairalanders around me.

Please Nairalanders be our guest �

Please #lalasticala move this to front page.Thanks

Beautiful couple �

Who resigns in Nigeria in the first place sef. Make we stop dey clamour for that abeg.

I just dey look 2023 with hope. If signs don dey say we go mumu like 2015 laidis, www.nairaland.com/travel ya

Drop price range

Alaye, if their shrine big enough, make e come carry the one wey dey cell na.

If them born the remaining two too well and their jazz strong well well, make them show face for police station.

If them show, prostrate beg them but if them no show, thunder fire their papa.

Awon omo ale jatijati.

Saraki wan go play away match with Tinubu for revenge. 2023 will be interesting

The fear of social media is the beginning of accountability for establishments now.

Issokay

Uzomarrr123:
Just do hesgoal.com on your opera mini browser

It far better than any app

Bless your heart

Michelle55:
Kindly have one kid if you so desire but never impose such a decision on someone else, it should be a mutual and collective idea to have just a kid when it comes to building a family thereby giving room for readjustment when the need calls for it.

This is a red flag already and I guess the dude isn't cool with it either. Who builds a relationship on conditions such as this?

Abi o.

If the guy were to be the kind of man I assume he is, he is probably already moving on gently.

This kind lady go give you beta wahala when una reach house.

Mercychen:
Hi fam.

Something has been bothering me of late and leaving me emotionally and mentally stressed and drained for the past weeks and I'm cut between the devil and the deep blue sea.

There's this bro we're trying to see if we can work things out. though, I never really wanted anything relationship again or at least for now until I'm decided later in the future on what I really want for myself.

Before, I deliver into the main discuss , let
me quickly highlight how it all started.

Some months back, My publisher came to deliver the books I ordered for. So while sorting the books, he just got teasing me like " Babes, na wa o. What's up with your romantic life now?. I've never seen you pulling with anyone. It's always work, biz Money money money I see you pursuing. Lol... I just told him, guy, free me abeg and I went on counting the books at the boot of his car.

He now walked up to me and said, on a more serious note, what is happening? So I told him it's a personal choice cos I dont have the strength for relationship brouhaha now. He agreey with me that truly its not easy and even as a married man, he too feels the heat but the good thing is, he married in the Lord. So I should choose wisely from among the brethren.

So he said, he has this family friend, an eligible bachelor, who wants a decent lady and I'm the one that comes to mind each time the guy mentions it because since he's be dealing with me, he can vouch that I'm a very honest, hard-working and decent lady. So he would want the bro to have me.
That was how I got to meet bro.

Now fastforward to the main reason of this post.
There was this particular day we tripped out to cool off and discuss about US. So we got talking and planning on how to build our home in a way that we will not be caught unawares with some setbacks and unplanned responsibilities. So the issue of children came up and I suggested we have only one, which he reluctantly accepted after much convincing. So we tried to look at ways we can maintain that decision and I suggested a vasectomy. citing the possibilities of health risks (as a result of mismatches ) and failures that might occur if the family planning is done on me but with vasectomy, no issues. He looked me in the eyes and said, "my darling" no!

I was dumbfounded.... And became a little worried because, if he has no plans of having more children, why would he kick against the idea of a vasectomy?

If we are going to be one and follow one course, why shying away from a plan that will benefit us as a couple and a family?


Could it be, he only agreed to have one with me but can have more else where or is vasectomy a life threatening condition?

I was still trying to wrap my head around his refusal, when he said, it will be done on you ( the family planning). That instant, I felt all alone, like im on my own. So I told him I needed to cool off, and he said feel free.
I left the tent and went to the waters prentending to be playing with the water. He came and dragged me out of the water. we strolled without a word and I asked him to take me home. He did.

He called when he got home. I was cold to him so, he promised to call again but since then Ive refused to pick his calls or reply his texts.

The big question is ..
WHY DID HE BLUNTLY REFUSE A VASECTOMY?

COULD HE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES?

IS IT NOT BETTER TO OPT OUT NOW THAN PRETEND I DIDN'T GET THE MESSAGE AND END UP IN REGRETS?

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A MAN KICKS AGAINST VASECTOMY?

First, you said he was reluctant to accept that you only want one kid. I understand it's your choice but as a man, an African man, he's probably thinking up so many eventualities.

Let's say you give birth to a baby and down the years, he discovers that the baby is not his own after forfeiting all chances of ever getting someone else pregnant, what should he do?

Let's assume something bad happens along the line and God forbid the child exits this world, what should he do?

The thing is, family planning many times can be reversed. There are many options that are reversible in case you guys change your mind later on.

I will rather opt for one of those than put all my eggs, (just this two sef) in the mouth of the lion.

And I don't think you're a good fit for the guy though. You sound more like the Nigerian version of comfortable feminists who are doing well financially and therefore feel they should have their way in every Convo with a man.

In this case, you are the one suggesting just one kid and all, why can't you take the bull by the horns and seal up? But nope, you want him to accept your decision to have one kid and still bear the responsibility of ensuring it.

No, he does not have ulterior motives, you're just not the right one for him.

Why not adopt just one kid and rest sef.

quitetorm79:
My space feels cluttered and I want some of these stuffs to go....Use your church mind and offer me a best price for the items below.....

TM Lewin cufflinks 4 pieces..........5500
8 seater sofa.............100k
Boiling kettle...10k
MMA boxing glove.....15k
Wooden Window Blinds(measurement Length 2.12m x Width 1.4m)........20k each
Centre table with side stool........35k
Andrew James Fruit Juicer........20k
4 seater rose-wooden dinning table............32k
Original Police wrist watch..........23k
Persian Rug.........70k
Table lamp.............15k
mirror.....60k
Kitchenwares (water heater, plate sets etc).......price on demand

I can send pictures upon request.

Call/Whatsapp: +234 8097879833

Location: Ojodu Berger, Lagos

Abeg, just reserve this 8 seater sofa for me.

reddingtonblack:
when i see guyz going on like this, i really do feel sad for them, cos i know only poverty & inexposure can reduce a man's esteem to point he thanks a lady for replying, i see it on facebook tew, what if tasha or lambo cum text you back nko
Bro frm my heart i pray God elevate & promote you, you suppose be man, naa ordinary G dey fvck almight tiwa savage wey u naa dey see faint. saying much already just focus on the prayer and i pray yu sleep 2nite

Singing...

Even if I shit for my knicker, broda e no consign you eh.

Some of you can't just chook your opinions inside your nostrils sha. Wetin touch you say person say thank you bai? How e take concern you?

Some people get mind o.

Righteousness2:
We Live in very crazy and abnormal times.

This is quite Similar to the Plague of Grasshoppers and Locust GOD ALMIGHTY used to ravage the land of Egypt, just before HE took HIS People away.

Folks! It's so visible to us the world is not normal anymore. We are in the Last of the Last Moments.
Get your ways right with JESUS Christ before it becomes too late.

Bros, be calming down. They are simply migrating.

Are you sure?

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts. M
My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little
What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family

Please don't insult me. I am in a relationship though very young relationship. I'm just human admiring someone else.

In all you, remember acid. E dey spoil face o