₦airaland Forum

CyrusVI:
Your Govs dey plead, as in Dem dey beg back to back to back but u dey hear dey talk talk Tinubu no get balls


Na this chestbeating una sabi

What would u all do if Tinubu choose not to release him, prolly kill 10,000 people more in your region

CyrusVI:
What if he choose not no release him

Una go jus

Tayorshd87:
Mumu

Sandralight:
She can finish her study then learn a skill but for the girl to run away means she is obviously not happy in that household, you would like to say they brainwash her or something but an eighteen years old girl have started having sense to know when she isn't been treated right.
If she is happy in the household, she wouldn't have run away.

Also abuser always have a way of hiding their abuse, you won't see any maltreatment because most you have heard is from the guardians and how the neighbors are wicked.
If this isn't your family like you claim and you are care about the wellbeing of the girl then try and hear her own side of the story

Sandralight:
Let me ask you a question.
Is Mrs Rita treating the young girl right??

Because there have been cases whereby a lot of family exploits Orphans especially when they realize that the orphan doesn't have anywhere to go.

They will keep using her and using her until she becomes old in their house or she will get pregnant for some guy in the street and still continue the life of poverty.

Since the young girl is now 18, I suggest that you pay for her to learn a trade, so she can acquire a skill in the long run because I have a feeling that you and your wife have never given her a stipend all through her years of staying with you, you will say she is staying with you and you are feeding her so she should be grateful but she is growing up and she don't want to spend the rest of her life taking care of you and your family.

So please let's her learn a trade as she is helping you in the house so she can make something for her life.

Zwooks:
Was the girl returned to the woman ?

madridguy:
I hope Mrs Rita will take the matter up against the evil neighbor. Imagine the innocent girl was not found, by now Mrs Rita and her husband would be gracing the front page of our national dailies as couple that used a girl for ritual.

dawnomike:
This is exactly what I always face here in Lagos.
I will struggle to get a housemaid, few months down the line when they begin to look better... Stupid boys and petty job recruiters in the area will start to deceive them of better pay elsewhere as a cashier or sales girl, chasing them up and down with fake love.

Before you say Jack, aunty will tell you one day that she is leaving and needs to go back to her town.

Months later, you'll see aunty housemaid in your estate looking terrible.

They always forget that the free accommodation and feeding they enjoy in my house when added to their monthly salary amounts to a whole lot when monetized.

All they look at is the 70k they are promised as a sales girl which can barely feed them for one month in a city like Lagos.