₦airaland Forum

Puss360:
Are you saying she should be jobless? As in , to be a full-time housewife?

KillahPriest:
Immature kids una. You want to hold party for such a young man, please do so at a club or lounge instead of disrespecting his family and memory or are you happy he died without a wife and kids ?

westside365:
Oga go sit down with your big mouth bla bla bla. Mtcheww. The way and manners you talk, I suspect you be Ogboni or Money ritualist. I suspect whatever means you are earning your money, it's not legal neither is it clean.

Poor man's mentality, anyone who's successful must be a ritualist
If you decide to do the funeral of your late friends like that of dogs that's your problem. As for me and my friends our late friend must be given a befitting wake keep that he deserves, you all can go and die

prophetfire:
. You and your friends are compounded mumu , all of you.
Party over a young man that died tragically!!
Maybe it's even you people that killed him and wants to rejoice over his death.

westside365:
Mr Man I am ok. Look at yourself, or go to the mirror and look at yourself, tell me wetin you see. People have been telling you who you are but you refused to accept it. Hmmm do you even know jesus? If you know jesus this kind foolish talk or idea no go komot from your mouth.

westside365:
This burial una won organise, na for ritual abi? You be Ogboni, or money ritualist.

mosicola:
I agree with the family. Do you people have sense at all?

OChimex:
So he knows and yet keeps silent when his family, his mom and dad go through pain and he would at least come to console them?
Ecclesiastes 9:5 the dead know nothing.
Ecclesiastes 7: 4 the heart of the wise is in the mourning....
Respect the family wish and shelve una selfishness....
They are mourning.
Keep the celebrations and spending at una own burial. 😆🤣
I wonder how many times una throw him celebrations and gifts when he was alive.

jikins:
Lol you came here looking for supporters of your ridiculous plan but surprisingly you met level headed people left, back and center. The only thing remaining is to do what you said here. Runaway with your tail between your legs and carry out your ridiculous plan regardless

BinamRex:
You are a bigger idiot. Odey!

Ode, you can go n die.
I'll do what pleases me, a thousand of you can't do shit

BinamRex:
You are an insensitive fool.

OChimex:
Again, that brings the question to common sense.
Why spend money when the person you are spending for doesn't know?
Let them hold off and spend those monies on their own burials....
Afterall some people build their grave when alive

donbenie:
Even in the South,nobody celebrates the tragic demise of a young man..

Who's celebrating here?
Poverty has distorted your perception to the extent you interpret every act of comfort as leisure. Would you assemble accomplished individuals in a place without making plans for them to be comfortable? What if they decide to stay away?
Na you be the first person to lose a family member?
You dey ment?
Thank God, the immediate elder brother was sensible and has given us go ahead to hold the wake keep, if not I would have slept comfortably in my house on that day

BadBradley:
I wasn't trying to shut you up.

At your late 30s and early 40s it's a tragedy you haven't outgrown your acquired foolishness.

You're trying to usurp and dictate how a family will grieve their own son because you have an animal impulse for alcohol and party and lack the solemnity to acknowledge grief.

I know you're already in your 40s but it's not too late for your mother to consider late term abortion for you.

We the sane and sober demand your exit from the face of the earth.

Social misfit.

Cheeryfeet:
You people are insensitive, Child like and immature.
Why throwing party in guise of wake keeping in a family that's mourning for a live cut short?
And so called friends are threatened to abandon the burial plans for the family to do what they like. Before nko, it's the families right to do and plan as they seem fit and lastly you don't have any grounds at all to disregard the family and go ahead with the party.

Wallade:
The family has little or no control over you guys, you need no fund from the family so I think you guys can go ahead with your plans.

You have shown respect to the family by informing them about the event. He was their son and he was also your friend.

However, keep the celebration on a low key. Drinks, food, DJ and others are fine by me. You can also take it away from his residence.

BadBradley:
you still get mouth dey talk

Charmingrascal:
Is this madness, foolishness or both.
Deceased family insist that they don't want such and y'all dumb skulls are insisting on going ahead with it.
A promising young man died without fulfilling his dreams and you are calling a DJ and planning to make merry.
If I were a member of his family I will blow y'all heads off if you gather.

What nonsense is this?
How old are you people to be thinking like this?

Y'all want to make merry so that you can drink and get high and probably invite some harlots to dance with.
This your post dey vex me gan I swear

What village do you all crawl out from for fuks sake. DJ's are not always used during celebrations, or for playing loud music
who will do the lighting? Who will provide generator?
Who will bring microphones and speakers for the gathering.
Better shut it you don't have any sensible contribution to this thread

Mhizshelly:
Dumbest friends ever.....a young man died...na dj una wan use....may God have mercy on you guys!

So in your small mind Djs only perform at parties.smh

Ezewuzie01:
We rejected the demented Peter Obi whose mouth and head are full of lies and we will do it again in 2027.

MT:
You don't have inner working in this particular instance. You based your write-up on your past experiences.

Cut this govt some slacks and be cheerfully optimistic.

I was not disputing your experience but not relevant in this particular scenario.

Davidnilla:
Do you think it's a good idea to consult a spiritualist for possible interpretation?

My late dad was a native doctor, before he passed, he been warn us not to follow the same path he followed, that's why am having second thoughts on wether to ignore the dreams

MT:
Nice.

Don't you think that undermining every decision made by FG, without having inner working knowledge, is quite unfair ?

Davidnilla:
That particular friend, 3 months before he died, I saw him die in the die (by fire)

I woke up, it felt so real that I had to chat him on Facebook that early morning and told him to be careful... 3 months later, he was shot dead by cultists who were looking for his brother.

Since then I've had many dreams of people dying, but they are still alive over a year now.

My question is, where does this dreams really come from?

MT:
As a Nigerian, what do you actually want ?