MADUBI:
Why do the MODS allow muslims comment on this thread? You can't comment on a muslim thread without swearing an oat which will be on your profile.

I have noticed nairaland of latest, all the mods are as useless as the left hand, they are well in the know of the rules of Nairaland yet they allow people break the rule without been banned yet they ban people for the most useless reason.

If christians are not allowed on a muslim thread, Muslim's should not be allowed on a Christian thread too and that's the balance not that one will have to suffer for the other

Of recent, tribal war has been serious on nairaland, yet the mods don't do anything to it like they don't know the rules on nairaland, it seems they love tribal and religious war.

We see baseless news on front page and that is the most annoying part of nairaland, somebody is in his house eating beans and bread and you see it on front page, that's how useless some news are coupled with other rules people break day in day out yet nothing is being done.

You all mods are foolish, stupid and useless and shouldn't be allowed as mods, I wonder who ever assigned you all as mods in the first place, I don't think it is Seun Osewa except if he is a part of this foolishness. I know I would probably get banned for saying this, maybe a life ban but you all can go fvck yourselves, disgusting set of people. lalasticlala Seun ishilove tells others.

Uyi168:
Leme not lie..i want this strike to continue..

Heloct:


Me too..

Uyi168:
Leme not lie..i want this strike to continue..

acevic:


Few tips bro
1. Pray about it every day and night.
2. Find something you love doing apart from watching porn and try to do it more.
3. Watching porn video is the root of masturbation and no matter how hard you try to stop masturbating without putting an end to porn, you may not make any headway. avoid porn like plaque and any movie that is xrated
4. Masturbation makes you feel lesser than a man, puts you deeper in the introverted cave, strengths your shyness, erodes your confidence and self esteem, affects your memory negatively, destroys your conversation skills, alters your sexual performance, makes you look older than your age, shrinks the he'll outta you....and on and on and on......think about all the negative effects and resist the urge of watch porn first. Stopping masturbation becomes easier afterwards.
5. Start with a day target, 3 days , 7 days ,30 days. Chances are you might have a relapse in between but don't give up.
6. Rewards yourself with a nice treat after any target completion. You go see a movie, go to restaurant and have a good treat.
7. Make having a relationship a priority. Start talking to people more than you ever did. Your skill may have become rusty but keep trying.
8. Use rubber band reminder caution. Put a rubber band on your wrist. Anytime you feel like watching porn, masturbating. ...just give yourself a hot snap and smile.
9. Christian audio books and messages will help too and try to read books about that interests you.
10. Pray more about it.
11. See the act as more of a betrayal to yourself.
12. Don't judge yourself or curse yourself thinking it will make you stop. Won't work. Instead see yourself as a better person when not indulging in the act.
13. I bet you agree with me that you are a happier and more productive person when you go 3 days without it.

Nb. You might start experiencing wet dreams few days or weeks after withdrawing from masturbating. No worries. Pray about it every TIME. It will just pass and you won't even notice.

You can pm me.

Porn0addict:
Glad, someone referred me to this thread. I created a thread on this issue yesterday. Good to know I have people I can learn from.

https://www.nairaland.com/4036415/porn-addict-needs

My story is below:

Help guys!!! I am a 25 years old guy who is seriously addicted to pornography. I spent 5 hours watching pornography and masturbating yesterday. 2 hours in the afternoon. 3 hours at night.

It started 10 years ago with a porn DVD a friend lent me after I finished secondary school. Since then I have been in this mess. It affected my results in the University. During normal school days I miss some lectures due to masturbation. When it is exam time, I partake in it even more. Thereby I procrastinate reading till the day before exam or some hours before an exam starts. I was very brilliant in secondary school and even in my Part 1 days.

Even during my NYSC days, I continued.

I am a freelancer and I work from home. I was supposed to be working on projects worth hundreds of dollars with a various deadlines but I spent 5 hours out of that time watching porn. Working at home has been a sort of disadvantage like I have power on my laptop and I have access to good internet too.

I don't think working outside will solve it. When I was on 400 level IT. I wake up as early as 5 am to get to work early. Yet I can watch porn from 11 pm to 4 am. Valuable time that I could have spent perfecting my web design and programming skills. So, I sleep in the bus in the morning and the evening. I also sleep at work during my break time then. Getting an outside job won't solve it.

I am an introvert who hardly talk to girls. I am kind of shy and hardly look anyone in the face. But I am financially comfortable, average looking with taller than average height. I dress okay but not flamboyant. Girls try to talk to me at times but I don't respond well due to my shyness.

I feel like an hypocrite. Among my friends, I go to church the most and they have a kind of respect for me since I don't sleep around, drink or indulge in other vices. But I masturbate almost everyday. These guys may not sleep with their girlfriends for a week. But me, I hardly go without masturbating. Deep inside me, I know I am far worse than them.

When I gave my life to Christ, the urge went away for about 2 weeks and I was very happy with my life generally. But I fell back to it again. A lot of times, I feel so guilty that I can't pray. I was one of those mocking our chaplain in secondary school when he talked about the hazards of masturbation. This was because I hadn't engaged in it then and I didn't know the consequences.

Now I am so unproductive. I used to be very innovative and creative, brimming with several ideas that a lot of people look up to me. But now, I hardly have time for anything. It's just from one deadline to another. I know I can finish my jobs comfortably but pornography takes a huge chunk of my time. Plus after you masturbate, you get depressed and you don't have that deep motivation to work fast and accomplish lots of things in little time.

It's been 10 years now. My life is wasting away. I have started facing that marriage pressure from my parents. On the outside, I look perfectly okay and many people admire me. They come to me for advise and financial aid. But on the inside I am dying. I know I have a lot of potential in me. I know I am not meant to be mediocre. I don't want to live that average life of just earning some money, marriage and death. I know I am meant to impact a lot of people. I had a lot of plans that went dead.

Sometimes I even have suicidal thoughts. I feel death will be better rather than this misery. I have tried a lot of things but I can't just stop. The worst part is pornography make me see women as sexual objects some times. A lot of Nigerian men also hold this viewpoint but I know it is terribly wrong.

Sometimes after listening to Christian tapes and messages, the urge goes away for two days but it comes again and I fall. I don't to fall at all.

Maybe I will just start listening to Christian tapes and music 24/7. But I can't concentrate on work if I do that. Or I could just take 2 hour breaks to listen to Godly messages.

antiFapping:
I did it again, I managed to abstain from porn and fapping for today, so...

I am in 3/7

REB3L
Prinsola
shotizzy
Santos07

Hey buddies, how are you guys faring