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ReluctantAdult:
All men should be like me.

I hold all the cards. She wants what I have(money, comfort, luxury), I want what she has (coochie). But what I have is more important than what she has. So I take charge of the game. I decide how the game is played. I pull the strings.

If she isn't gonna play it my way, I bounce. I'm in charge here, not her. If she thinks she's can manipulate me, she's dreaming

You indirectly just admit that you follow girls that don't have what you have. Guys of your nature blacklist and avoid women with car, money and comfort. .
"Weak Men are attracted to weak women" - David Tian(PhD)

Only an insecure man would solely blame a woman for his downfall although I have witnessed cases of this sought though.
But everyone must find where they are responsible and learn from it.

"You dont understand repill" crew will rush down here to come and explain redpill.
REDPILL, INCELS, MGTOW, PUA are all same things in different shade. Be careful guys with what you read. They claim it is a bitter pill so that you wouldn't question it, even Dpsychologist and some other redpill teachers would concur of some of the extremes that abound.

A hate group is a social group that advocates and practices hatred, hostility, or violence towards members of a race, ethnicity, nation, religion, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation or any other designated sector of society. According to the United States Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI), a hate group's "primary purpose is to promote animosity, hostility, and malice against persons belonging to a race, religion, disability, sexual orientation, or ethnicity/national origin which differs from that of the members of the organization." (wikipedia)

Don't catch a crocodile while going for a lizard, be warned about what people tell you.

“The problem with many men is that instead of being repelled by red flag behavior in a woman, they’re actually hooked even deeper by her flakiness, pulling away, hot-and-cold coquettishness. His own neuroses and core insecurities compel him to be attracted to exactly the wrong type of women for relationships.” - David Tain(PhD)
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What happened the last time you ignored red flag behavior?

Most time people people see bad qualities and red flags before getting into a relationship yet they get in. For example a celibate is ready to do anything to get laid if that is what is his best priority. People who are praying to find a girlfriend dive into the first girl that say a "Yes". A girl is ready to cook and clean for a guy because he promised her marriage. You are ready to take his shit because you don't wanna work for you own money. Lazy girls are quick to offer sex, weak guys are quick to offer money. Deal with your insecurities

At the end of the day, There is your fault in some situations, while others are not your fault. You need to stop your self and addiction to ignoring red flags. Deal with insecurity and low self esteem and stop yourself from getting on to the wrong people. As a guy I advise y'all to deal with social anxiety and weak/low self esteem behaviors. Dealing with some of your insecurity is the gate to rejecting people bad behaviors.

A prince never bows for princess. A princess never bow to prince neither does she ever becomes a maid nor a servant. Be wise.
Don't let gender fool you.

stanliwise:
you people want to come and derail this thread right. Abeg Op don’t mind them.

Don't quote them anymore. I understand how they think. They don't go well with discussion, they disguise like they want to discuss but in truth they are ready to find fault and do namecalling like they do all day.

GLYCOLYSISS:
You actually turned down a chance to engage in civil conversation with me, and here you are asking me to watch a video ?
To do exactly what with that ? Or it did not occur to you that's still a form of engaging
in a conversation with me ?

Please stop mentioning me,you can't choose when to have a conversation with me and outrightly decline entertaining my questions.

So, do take care and have a great day.

That video is my conversation to you. I won't give you what you want, like you saw, "NON REDPILL"

GLYCOLYSISS:
All right man, do have a great day.

Always welcome

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qIzzNh84ANw

Please watch this video if you need to understand while Redpill is not just about men freedom rather it is about men gaining absolute power. Absolute means complete power in other words Godlike power. It doesn't completely advise against redpill but analyzed the doctrines.

For GLYCOLYSISS and the rest of his gang crawling on this thread, you can as well watch the video.

GLYCOLYSISS:
I will appreciate if you could list some of the " hidden ideology" and " many many facets" of redpill in respect to " redpill isn't about anything particularly".

GLYCOLYSIS I am not here to convince a redpill not to be redpill. Infact like I said redpill has some good point but redpill is beyond men empowerment. It is larger than that. I am not ready for this conversation.

COVERT RACISM AND GENDER RACISM

According to Wikipedia
Covert racism is a form of racial discrimination that is disguised and subtle, rather than public or obvious. Concealed in the fabric of society, covert racism discriminates against individuals through often evasive or seemingly passive methods.[1] Covert, racially biased decisions are often hidden or rationalized with an explanation that society is more willing to accept. These racial biases cause a variety of problems that work to empower the suppressors while diminishing the rights and powers of the oppressed. Covert racism often works subliminally, and often much of the discrimination is being done subconsciously.[2] Sometimes, it originates instead in discrimination against poorer segments that simply happens to disproportionately affect individuals by race. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Covert_racism

Gender war also uses this kind of technic to lure it's victim into falsehood, while most of their point seem obviously understandable, be watchful of their true intention. The word naïve begins when you begin to judge things literally without questioning the intention of such thing. Or when you take side in something you fully don't understand. Redpill isn't the only victim of this falsehood, feminism also fall under this umbrella.

Check this out
Redpill is sub group of MRM(Men right movement) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men%27s_rights_movement due to the boom of feminism around 1940's. Although many point raised seem to be intuitive but ever since then so many sub group has been formed from this same activism, is MRM bad? No but maybe when advocating for MRM please ensure you state your stand, it is foolish to just use one acronym

Feminism is also the fight for women rights according to wikipedia(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism). This group emerge basically in early nineties around 1910 and since then it has come in several wave with many theories and action to fight for women to be regarded equal in social settings and shouldn't be reframed from their right. But right from then so many sub group has emerged from this movement. Infact it is not advisable to term yourself a feminist in today world. Simply fight for women right without using some phrases except you will be mistaking for several definition of what is not feminism initially.

in conclusion beware of covert supremacy, don't let them trick you and lure you into extremism else you will loose you sense of judgment and fall into deep pit. Simply learn from anyone and learn on your own. Don't be fooled by curse word or intimidating words. Being confident is about experience and continuous learning. Every religion has it good and bad sides. Be aware of covert supremacy.

UndauntedYOCA:
Nice thread, red pillers strongly believe they have monopoly of knowledge and that women are are nothing but nuisance, ask some of them what they think about their mum or sisters, they'll begin to tell you sweet tales. Evil has no gender, neither does good character! A man can be good and a woman terrible and it can also be vice versa.
I'm not saying men should be fools because of love (neither should women be!) but red pillers should tone down on the hate, they usually sound like bitter people. There is no need for the loath, it doesn't even make sense, they cuss, they think they're the smartest, women do not deserve any good etc. If some women told their tales, you'd be surprised. There are numerous women who are not just nurturing but sacrificial as well.
Be you a man or woman, if a relationship doesn't give you peace and happiness that you truly deserve, then leave! Good men and women exist, bad men and women exist! No gender is nicer and no gender is more evil, you don't even know every single human who exist in this world for you to use as proof that a particular gender is this or that.
Shalom, if you're a bitter soul or you think you're the wisest or do not know how to talk politely, keep off of my mention.

Good contribution

Please avoid replying any Redpill gang in here, don't listen to "you don't know what Redpill is all about" statement. REDPILL isn't about anything particularly, it has many many facet, infact subscribing to that name is a ticket to like saying yes to many hidden ideology.

WARNING: Also there is no good redpill, redpill means alot of thinig, just like the word "animal" means alot of things.

theophilusj31:
you said it all bro,


1-real redpills is not about calling women names and abusing them real redpills is about disciplining yourself as a man

2-Real redpills is not about rude or arrogant with women,no one's likes an arrogant person,not even women,.............real redpills is about respecting women because she is a human being,but at the same time,you have your boundaries with a woman,and you will not tolerate her crossing your boundaries, meaning that you respect her but you will not tolerate shit from her

3-Real redpills is not about calling your fellow man a simp or other demeaning names,but it about calmly and humbling correcting your fellow man,afterall we all human and we not above mistakes

4-A real alpha male loves and respect women,but at the same time is always willing to walk away from a woman if he is taken from granted

5-A real alpha male is put himself and his purpose in life b4 any woman,his dreams comes first b4 any woman,it doesn't mean that he hates women,but in this life everyone has to put their goals in life first.

6-A real alpha male is alpha both on the outside and on the inside,all this psychopaths red-pillers here are only alpha and confident on the outside but on the inside they are fragile,a real redpiller is confident to the core on the inside,when you are a apha on the inside it reflect on the outside,through your speech,body language, attitude and mannerism,....

7-A real alpha male does not spend his time bashing and insulting women,can you imagine alpha males like George Clooney,Tom cruise,Mohammed Ali,Dwayne Johnson,mark zukerberg, spending 2 hours a day on the internet calling women names. ......they got better things to do with their life

The so-called redpillers on nairaland are just simps with the coats of alpha males

Be careful, redpill doesn't have real or fake.
The nature of red pill is that it is not based on research, it is based on rather observation and belief. This nature opens it up to extremist hiding under the cloth of advising you to stand for yourself while be very dangerous.

So in other words, redpill is redpill, it really doesn't have a difference. It would always degenerate to become so bad.
The nature of the group is cult-like, it is an exclusive group, meaning it doesn't sit well with contradiction, this style of aggression lead to dogmatism, as it always give and won't take.
Any religion or culture with the nature of the red pill group will turn out like this. As much as it has it goods, wise one should understand that it has alot of pitfalls.

IamRichards:
What exactly is redpill?

Redpill is a mix of many things, there is really no single definition for redpill.
On one hands it advice men to have self confidence and not fall for relationship tricks on the other hand, it turns around to spread hate and pure disdain of female gender. If you would read it don't say I didn't warn you.

meanwhile you can read good book like i have recommended on this thread

stanliwise:
That is the idea behind men empowerment. How to be a social genius. Infact women are not the only one to make men not fulfill his destiny. Games, addiction, drugs and poor life choice is another threat.

Fatherhood is almost ignored by red-pill like the OP mentioned. They barely discuss anything about you as a father and fatherhood.

Since hoes and bitches is what they talk all day, it talks a lot about the lifestyle of the group, meaning majority of them are young chap who feels life is a candy shop. All girls are candy(hoes) and he would lick as much as he wants. They coin turn around when they later have a wife and girl child. They become over protective and don’t apply same red-pill theory and allow other guys devour their daughter.

It is well.

Respect sir, you are vast in knowledge.

You simply just get the full picture. Most of people engaging in gender war do them to people not in their social circle. I know of a man who speak so ill about women but is super protective about his daughter,
he vowed his daughter will never marry a Nigerian man. like it was shocking

DON'T BE CAUGHT UP IN GENDER WAR

You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation
by Deborah Tannen

For everyone who needs to understand why games occur in relationships and why women and men play them so often should read this book. This book is breathtaking, it reveal the reason why you shouldn't bother convincing anyone hating on the other gender.

- Some just enjoy it
- some are pained they aren't the other gender
- Some grew up seeing one gender better than the other.

Yet both gender equally play games. Have you heard when women speaks of gender equality and feminism and yet turn around to be treated differently in social settings? Also have you ever wondered why men want to take all responsibility when he is very wealthy but turn around to blame women when things go wrong?

All gender are into game wars, the most foolish thing to do is to be caught up in this wars, don't bite the bait. For self development, simply understand social wisdom and improve yourself. Gender war is a big war that has long existed. The people complaining are the people causing the war. There are pleasures in gender war but for real men and women, it is not worth it. if you need to go far in life, then you need to understand simple everyday life games. and I guarantee you read this book

All redpill should simply go to their thread, The warning sign was posted rightly, don't distract this thread

Etinosa1234:
After the long speech,he quotes a redpill book
..

And where did that bring u?

Back to me

redpill don't have a book.
Go back to your thread

slimkhalifa:
The book above , do you have f PDF

I don't have the PDF, I read it long ago as part of my course

slimkhalifa:
Tell me more about it pls
I'm begging

More about what?

The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships by Neil Strauss
This book is also a great read for men who wants to be genuine with themselves and find out how childhood experience could lead to a life mess.

Also the book highlight how broken people caught up with relationship insecurity and lack motivation for commitment could be free of their insecurity and how they explore the true cause of the insecurity.

This book also is a continuation of the THE GAME written by same author.

No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life Hardcover
by Robert A. Glover (Author)

This book is an excellent book for any gender, if you need to understand why you developed some bad trait(Nice guy is a misnomer for people with hidden low self esteem). Please read this book.

Also for female who has husband who is so nice that he act awkwardly and becomes the guy everyone love rather than showcase his true self, recommend this book for him.

Glover uncover the truth why some guys try to act nice and fear to act confident in social setting(workplace, at home, church etc)
A great read

Being a naive guy is bad enough and there are chances you could date the wrong people. To become more confident you need to work on your social skills and self-esteem, you need experience.

The truth is this, any gender out there could harm you, girls and boys, you male friends could trick you into being their money bag, same way a girl can trick you.

A boss at your workplace can manipulate you to collect lower wage than your value. There are alot of life games everybody has to learn. Don't let anyone trick you games happens in relationship. incase you need prove here is one Games People Play: The Psychology of Human Relationships i 1964 by psychiatrist Eric Berne.

Read research work and book by learned psychologist to understand how social games works rather than some cooked up shit given by people here

collinsuchendu:
Bro, modify your post asap pls

Why should I do that? what is wrong with the topic?

1. They go around bullying guys and calling every guy in here that differs from their ideology a simp

2. They claim their ideology is the absolute truth, almost all there post has no research references

3. They are very aggressive with their ideas and ready to insult anyone that say something different.

4. The claim they don't like women and shouldn't be trusted yet they come to romance section everyday.

5. Hate talk and name calling is the other of the day.

6. They barely talk about fatherhood, all they do is talk endlessly about sex and bitches.

please if you want a healthy relationship as a guy thread on redpill with care, or better still red some good books that are specifically written for men growth and development. The ones here are filled with many lies and theories from depressed people, half truth and distracting stuff.

collinsuchendu:
Just like the vagabond above me. Watch her reply me with wack grammar

hmmm

CosmicPhoenix:

virginity is not an indicator for good character.virgin or not,that bitch is a hoe.

don't you think you're better off with MGTOW? rather than this rant everywhere

I thought I had seen the worst of racism and how hate comment and narcissistic behaviours tore the world apart but right now I have begin to witness another new form of supremacy theory on this forum. The name of this thread is parody rather than it being literal

A white supremacist feels that alot of today inventions are made by lots of white people and they contributed a lot to the world then there for a white man should deserve better than a black man who offered nothing but poverty to his own continent!

A male supremacist feels that he he hold much responsibility in the society more than a typical lady so he feels he is more of a better her. He also feels woman are manipulative, Machiavellic, and manipulative. So she should be suppressed.

A feminist(chronic) believe the future is female and he/she should deserve better than a man. she deserve better place and treatment because she possess more quality than a man.

WHERE IS THE END TO THIS MADNESS, ANYONE WHO BELIEVE IN THE ABOVE IS SAME THING IN DIFFERENT SHADE

Jerkbaba:
It's only prostitution they're good at! Bastard gender!

Any reason for the anger?

inoki247:
them just dey drag the guy left and right like I better pass my Neighbor generator wey d Plug don spoil

stupidmod1:
its late sleep

stanliwise:
Only one group can postulate this theory which is redpill.
Some people are naturally intelligent than other in social settings but I don’t think it has anything to do with gender.
The redpill is just an extreme theory.
No research to most claim they make, it is matter of make believe

hmmm I like this point