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serenityspot83: Thanks Jenny, but what if he discovers in marriage and divorce her after my bestie would have had 3 children? Me I can't survive d pains of being a divorces single mother , coupled with the stigma and untold trauma upon my unborn children!

If it means that much to you, perhaps you should sacrifice your alternate orientation for the relationship.

uruba: I heard someone says relationship of mutual distrust,I think the lesbian issue can be fore gone because when she get pregnant her hormones might change her attraction, but the Child outside wedlock won't go away...but like I say it is too late

Lesbianism (homosexuality) does not go away...if hormones can correct it, then many will be on hormone replacement therapy.

serenityspot83: That we are lesbians isn't tantamount to being perverts. I won't share my hubby with nobody.

...lol on the "pervert"
Adjectives are relative.
Why marry a male then?

serenityspot83: Like I said, I only "suspect". Not sure though. She never really said so but kept lamenting that her parents will be terribly disappointed if the marriage committee cancels the wedding on the ground of premarital conception. So I presumed she may opt for a termination. I just sent her a message asking her not to terminate it though. Ultimately its her choice. But pls what do u think is best as regards her lesbian secret being kept from him.

Its a relationship of mutual distrust...I won't tell if he does not open up on the child.

Following!
I think bisexual applies more to your friend than lesbian.
Aborting a baby because of a church committee ( often filled with adulterous hypocrites) is totally cruel!

padeolu: No, it wasn't sleep paralysis, its a spiritual attack. And BTW, does sleep paralysis explain the shadow running on the wall, or the needle-like sting? No.

My bro, its not sleep paralysis...

Sleep paralysis... With hypnopompic hallucinations.

Oya clap for yourself!

yarnings: Just asking ooo.is it possible to be a member of a party BOT and still be the party presidential flag bearer of that same party?? Hope mr/mrs/mrs moderator will move this to FP.I need an answer to my question cause from all indication buhari or atiku is intrested in APC presidential ticket but with this development am comfused..

I sincerely hope those 3 will not be contesting due to that o.

MeAboki: Comprehension, comprehension, comprehension:pls where did you get that idea from?

If I may guess, you read where the article mentioned the dead weight of the trucks, without water and fuel, during their transportation to Jigawa and quickly concluded it meant they would not have water (to work with when put to service) during emergencies - and you even had supporters for that blind ignorant comment bigotry; choi! Bigotry is a bastard, SMH

It is better to be quiet and look like a f l than to open one's mouth and erase the doubt.
People like you are not allowed to "guess" because they can't do it intelligently.

I couldn't agree more...he has a lot to carry!

Good one @mypetname. I can imagine how painful taking this first step must be for you...and the need for you to share your story. Noticed you created your account just to post this, now it's time to move on and live in the future. All the best.

Hmm...a twist in the tale. Has all the ingredients for a suspense novel or movie!

Nigerian heritage doesn't seem to be enough motive for a top ECOWAS dignitary with wife and children abroad...and widely publicized as a Liberian- American.

tpia1: why are nigerians trying so hard to hide exactly how nigeria and nigerians are involved in this matter?

speak the truth and let the devil be ashamed.

Looks like you know something we don't?

Stone-age looking phone!
Useless Microsoft looking to make fastbucks. When they make the good ones they won't ship to Nigeria.
I forgot... We are still in the stone age here.

Totally plausible. A calculated payback for the fiancé's abscondence!

Waste and mismanagement of taxpayers money! The trucks they flew in with emergency...will not have water during emergency.

sisiafrika: Its confirmed. I'm in school presently. Now, Grand Aluta would start!!!! Total reversal or nothing else!!!!!!!!!

Hmm...I know that spirit but is it really worth it?! U are lucky if you are doing a 4 year course and you are still young. By the time you get out there, having wasted your time with aluta and other "plus X" factor...the advantage of going to " Oba Awon University " would have been rubbished! Your aluta does not stop your lecturers salary or the progress of students in other schools who will finish faster and get employed while you are still beating the drums of aluta! So you might feel you are paying much now... But you are losing years of pay that you would have accrued!
I love the aluta spirit and you have every right to protest and express your grievances...but please don't make them close school again!

warrior01: what a great relief! After all, most Nigeria doctors are utterly useless. imagine some of them denying their profession and others tending their resignation letters just because they heard Ebola is in town. Thank God for the able agbo sellers

Jonathan should just employ you...as special adviser on health matters!

Dividends of Democracy.

Product of joblessness and free MB!(you are not alone sha)

This is the real O.B.O.! Davido should step aside.

Give the man an award please... For destroying a Weapon Of Mass Infection!

Ajebutter002: so Just bye.

Ajebutter002 ko, Aje-ebola101 ni.

Ajebutter002: now you know its not your business...so fuckoff Dude.

...hmm. Am beginning to get on your nerves. I think being sad is better than being angry. What do you think? Oh, sorry. You don't.

Signed!

Ajebutter002: ehyaaa u sound cool bt I didn't tel u I was needing any drugs....hmmm, bro u tkn t to personal,alwys put a smile n ur face hmmm? Everything shudnt come to u as sadness....just b prayer ful...and goodnight.

People that have lost their families to it are not smiling. You should save a thought for them. The joke is good but we should not forget the lesson. People are dying...people will die.
You can laugh all you want...after all, its none of your business.

Ajebutter002: ehyaa sorry...its gud anyways remain sad na no p and u will c u v limited days to smile and b api....in any situation bro"be happy" or do you have #EB**A ??

I am sad that because people like you will never be serious minded to research you will have to beg America for the drugs...they won't give you.