Literature › Re: I Need 10 Writers To Launch A Blog With Me. by sigmundfreud(m): 1:25am On Oct 09, 2014 |
I can write...from health to wealth, parties and politics, policies and oddities! Sports and what have you?  Seriously!  |
Celebrities › Re: Aftermath Of ' Google Shut Down Linda Ikeji's Blog' See Rational Opinions by sigmundfreud(m): 1:18am On Oct 09, 2014 |
Good for her..I am so sure She will come back stronger! |
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TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 12:51am On Oct 09, 2014 |
Dannyxy: people will be shocked on Sunday I need an answer please, I am using that we chat stuff for the first time, after I confirm my vote, it takes me to an almost blank page, with a writing at the top "this session is expired, please press back to start again", for those that have been using it, is that how it is supposed to be, do I keep pressing back and confirming the vote, or what? If you having problems go to your browser from the wechat app and vote... Faster than the app! Voting Tayo! I have no problem with a guy that says things as they are!  |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 12:46am On Oct 09, 2014 |
THEAMAKA: And that's how it starts.... [size=16pt]VOTE FOR YOUR OWN JOR!!!![/size] Totally on point! |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 10:37pm On Oct 08, 2014 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 9:31pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Ksslib: Kai. Lilian, so na pics been dey help your ministry?
Make i never talk first. First sleep wake up tomorrow make i look you well. Maybe na stress cause am for now.. Seriously... I won't really comment on their beauty until when those make-ups are (mopped) off! I can see for meself some leggy things though! Nice opening by Biggie...seems like most are now wannabe musicians in their mini "Africa got talents" show! Someone almost destroyed my speakers with her shrill-like music voice...can't sing to save her life! Hotshot... 8/10 today |
Literature › Re: Literature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by sigmundfreud(m): 12:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
princesa: Oma4u, there was a poem you tagged me in. It was really lovely although sorrowful. I dnt knw where you wrote it but honestly i loved it.
Especially a line about 'Tears rolling down the aisle of my cheek' so descriptively apt. Weldone Hello tweetie, Happy Independence to you...and all  |
Literature › Re: Literature/Writing Section's "Chat Central!" by sigmundfreud(m): 12:00pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Reserved for future use. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 12:10am On Sep 30, 2014 |
safarigirl: Siggy! How you been?  Mademoiselle...I can see you've started the Show already! |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Africa 'hotshots' Official Thread by sigmundfreud(m): 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Page 32 already?! Greetings house...reporting for duty. |
Technology Market › Re: APC By Schneider Electric: Questions. Inquiries. Availability. by sigmundfreud(m): 12:49am On Sep 19, 2014 |
firestar: Good morning Sigmundfreud. What SKU do you need and where's your location? hello firestar, reply sent. |
Technology Market › Re: APC By Schneider Electric: Questions. Inquiries. Availability. by sigmundfreud(m): 11:13pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: 'How T.B. Joshua Took My Wife' – Pastor Peter Kayode Tells It All by sigmundfreud(m): 11:09pm On Sep 14, 2014 |
What do you expect? Christians leave their brains at home when they go to church. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Synagogue Church Of All Nations Building Collapses (Picture) by sigmundfreud(m): 3:45pm On Sep 12, 2014 |
MadCow1: In 2014..
Somebody will post News without Sauce and expect us to swallow it. 
Even Picture sef no dey
Sauce added 
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Family › Re: My Dad Still Beats My Mum After 24 Yrs Marriage by sigmundfreud(m): 4:59pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Ujujoan: This is really sad, but typical of most Nigerian marriages!
We brag that our marriages last longer than that of the westerners, but that’s only because women are able to take abuse from men here that women in the west would never take! The happiness most married couples experience here is often an illusion. And what really saddens me is the fact the we have come to accept, even expect the various forms of maltreatment from the men we call our husbands!
Women see themselves as a lesser beings than the men. The stay home, take care of the family and looks the other way when their men cheat. When he raises his hands against them, the make excuses for him. When he lies, they justify it by saying . . ‘they are men’. Pathetic!
I think women need to stand up for themselves, if not for anything for the sake of their children. Now your brother sees nothing wrong with hitting a woman and your father is not the only one to blame for that. Women should teach their children right and wrong and how to stand up for themselves. What better way to do this than to live it?
Staying with a man that disrespects your is not a sign of great love but that of great weakness! She’s telling her children that it’s okay to be weak as far as you are a woman! She’s telling her son that’s okay to disrespect her, as far as she’s your wife! Shame on her!

I'm not saying she should leave him, but she should try and get her respect back. If he doesn't offer it, let her DEMAND it! It's her right! 
And if you want to help her, you can start by telling her that! I agree with most of what you said...but spousal abuse is NOT typical of most Nigerian marriages! Yes women might appear subdued and submissive, a host of them have learnt how to deal with their husbands. Don't be too quick to box Nigerian marriages into your ready made stereotype... |
Romance › Re: Some Of My Family Members Hate Him Because He Is From Nigeria. What Should I Do? by sigmundfreud(m): 7:55am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Rikidony: pls leave our naija bro alone. xenophobist  That was really helpful!  |
Politics › Re: SSS Absolves Iherijirka Of BH Sponsorship Without Investigations by sigmundfreud(m): 7:31am On Sep 06, 2014 |
SSS people sef, you mean they were clueless until the Australian mentioned those two?! And what's with this woman always saying rubbish on TV? |
Nairaland General › Re: Happy Birthday UjSizzle by sigmundfreud(m): 7:24am On Sep 06, 2014 |
Happy birthday Sweet Sizzle! Sorry I missed the party...any leftover? |
Investment Ads › Re: Looking For Where To Profitably Invest Your Idle Cash? by sigmundfreud(m): 12:12am On Sep 04, 2014 |
...I don watch dis film before, e no end well.. Abi dis one na part 2?! |
Romance › Re: Nairalanders. U Need To Stop These . by sigmundfreud(m): 12:07am On Sep 04, 2014 |
Its true o...I just don't see what to like in a guy's picture! As for the English lessons... Some people no dey try at all but we can correct/suggest in a nice way. OMO ONILE...(NAIRALANDLORD) Some act as if threads are their father's property! |
Pets › Re: Dog Meat Cures Malaria, Repels Witches – Eaters In Ibusa, Agbor, Ubulu-uku... by sigmundfreud(m): 8:49pm On Sep 03, 2014 |
Ishilove: One of our dogs went out and never came back. The dog in question is rather shy and doesn't stray far from home, so I am pretty sure he was dognapped by the same folks who said his brother go full pot  Sad. Even dead ones are not spared. I lost a dog 3 years ago when someone left the gate open. I was called to come identify the body of a dog hit by a car while at work. I rushed to the scene within 30mins. I only saw a fragment of its collar after like 2 hours of searching! |
Pets › Re: Dog Meat Cures Malaria, Repels Witches – Eaters In Ibusa, Agbor, Ubulu-uku... by sigmundfreud(m): 10:12am On Sep 03, 2014 |
What nonsense?! I should put extra lock on Terry's cage to keep these "dogvampires" away! |
Health › Re: Egg Consumption Almost As Bad As Smoking Cigarettes by sigmundfreud(m): 1:49am On Sep 03, 2014 |
Soon enough researchers will prove that living is bad for one's health. Abeg make I go fry eggs  |
Christianity Etc › Re: "What Does The Bible Say About Eating Disorders (e.g., Anorexia, Bulimia)?" by sigmundfreud(m): 1:41am On Sep 03, 2014 |
What of Ebola?! |
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Politics › Re: Are You Part Of The 61% Approval Of President Jonathan's performance? by sigmundfreud(m): 1:23am On Sep 03, 2014 |
Jonathan "conteXting"...(sic). Its either I'm drunk reading or you drunk-typed this post.  Both of us should try again when we are sober.  |
Nairaland General › Re: Niaralanders Who Cant Sleep At Night by sigmundfreud(m): 1:13am On Sep 03, 2014 |
Funny thread. Habit things...I only sleep early when am ill. |
Romance › Re: I Just Wish My Lady Would Join This Site by sigmundfreud(m): 2:46am On Sep 02, 2014 |
100Cents: I know what I went through courting/coaching? a lady for 3 years for marriage that didn't work.
I just met a similar minded lady who acts and thinks alike. This one even acts more unteachable.
nna erhn ! I don tire oo. Perhaps you are "attracting" your type! Stop looking for "students" to teach. |
Romance › Re: Should She Confess To Her Fiance That She's an Active Lesbian Before Wedding Day by sigmundfreud(m): 2:27am On Sep 02, 2014 |
@PinkFlower...nice shoes. |
Romance › Re: Should She Confess To Her Fiance That She's an Active Lesbian Before Wedding Day by sigmundfreud(m): 2:15am On Sep 02, 2014 |
serenityspot83: @'RaphaellaDD: hey dearie, just saw your pics. Ur hair-do is so so terrific. Guess I'm gonna take off mine and get to the beauty saloon and make a new hair exactly like yours. Babe, u sure got an angelic beauty. xoxo Ahem!  I totally agree with you. |
Romance › Re: Should She Confess To Her Fiance That She's an Active Lesbian Before Wedding Day by sigmundfreud(m): 2:12am On Sep 02, 2014 |
RaphaellaDD: Your friend and her fiancé shouldn't start a marriage built on lies. She should tell him now, and if he attempts to throw a tantrum, then she should let him know that she's aware of his 'wittle seclet"  Thought of this too but our society will forgive/even permits the guy's secret than the lady's. What if he decides to tell everybody? Telling him depends on the kind of guy he is...liberal, adventurous, open-minded yes. Conservative, rigid and traditionally African... serious trouble! |