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You should focus on yourself, immediate fam. and your hustle, you are the first son bro. leave girl matter,,, forget all this love this and that be focussed.

trying to take care of her too will surely break/slow you down, Be established first, then give her all the loving.

if tomorrow she meets a wealthy guy, do you really think she will stick with you lol. Be wise.

what is so difficult in telling her how much you love her, but cant meet up with the financial obligations at the moment, that it be fine soon.

Was actually impressed reading this till i got to the "like other male uber drivers" part.

Beautiful Nonsense she just had to spoil everything... she needed not blow other peoples candles off for hers/theirs to shine.

ok.

cortouis is completely overated... and chelsea can surely play better than they are at the moment.

i dont understand fabregas in this match at all at all.

kante and willian representing well... all hope is not lost sha. chelsea can still go thru i believe!

Charris2284:
I agree with the cheating wholeheartedly.

I have seen his mom and him, as well as siblings on video and pictures. And lol there is a strong resemblance. You can definitely tell his sister and mother are very closely related to him. Maybe a different relative perhaps, but I'm telling you, he is her twin.

We talk all the time. I'm trying to read up on how these types of romance scams work, and I'm getting things like:

He wont video you or show true identity
He wont introduce you to his family
He wont want to get married in Nigeria - or if he agrees, it will only be a registry wedding
He wont take interest in getting to know your family
He wont spend much time talking to you and will say he has "business affairs" to tend to
He will make up big, sometimes outlandish, lies to gain money from you

He occasionally has asked if I could send money to help out with things. Most of it went to getting a visa. Then small things like....idk. One time he needed oral surgery and I kmow it was real because he sent me pictures AND video of the stitches in his mouth from wisdom tooth extraction. He ended up getting a loan to pay for it and when he fell behind on the payments, I did send him money to pay it off. He showed me the receipt that he paid it off.

Other small things like sometimes I'll ask if he has eaten and he'll tell me what he had eaten and I'll get worried because it isnt much so I'd send maybe $30 USD to help him. Or one time the data plan he had was about to expire and I sent him like $30 or $40 USD. But it's not like I'm sending him all of these huge amounts of money (besides the visa thing - that took up over $1k between the application, travel and other requirements).

I'm pretty torn on the scam thing. �

You sound pretty convinced that he isnt a FRAUD after all... i mean the nexus of this thread is not about that even. for your sake i just hope you are right.

Those messages i read up there aint enough to say he is a cheat, but he is quite flirtacious...

but really did you honestly expect him to be celibate too...? well best of luck you two.

Charris2284 judging by those messages, i really think he is a flirt, and most flirts are cheats... whether joke or not,,, am well convinced he is cheat,

The truth is "Dont get it twisted, you are so so not his love" you are just his MAGA, trust your instincts.

you really think he is into you

whoever you spoke to isnt his mom, neither were they his siblings... or have you had a video call with the said mom?? even at that all na SCAM.

count your losses and move on! i hope you find whatever your are looking for... adios.

jacyhelen:
Not alll men cheat but Nigeria or African men are the WORST.

Just wondering, how exactly did you come to this conclusion

mehn good ol days... thursdays 8pm. then, this is super story... a life of strife and sorrow...

i wont blame the wife sha, their chemistry then was A1.

Oh father! oh Daughter! The only NTA series I think that had kept me glued to tv until the last episode.

dont mind rewatching again even. chai this post really brought back memories.

Its not as if arsenal is playing badly tho. but their defence is just a pity to say the least.

Its not easy being an arsenal fan smh... i can only imagine.

lol they will have to smack me too, cos i ll stand up to them until my last breath.

thats if i dont wake up before then tho.

LOL... really what are you still waiting for??
Or you seriously think you are in a relationship.
Use your head common. sorry though.

Both have their respective opinions just like every other person, and their opinions should be respected.

however feminists i believe are generally more rude compared to the atheists.

WOMEN should desist from feminism, It causes more harm than good.

Will take him serious after buhari's prophesy comes to pass, but then.


anyone can guess that, i mean the man is like a vegetable now, very high chance he won't finish 2nd tenure that if he succeds though but GODFORBID.

May God bless them.

But can this be real

If it is which i doubt... then,

hospital holds no solution.

I just pity the woman.

Chydobe:
"If you noticed, you cannot spell Valentine without the word "lent". Well, I didn't start it. It has been there all along".

History has it that February has been a month of romance, Valentine's day celebration is surrounded with the mystery of both the Roman tradition and Christianity. However, all the romantic gestures as celebrated on the 14th day of February are all in the name of St. Valentine.

Who is St. Valentine? A priest of the Roman Catholic church who decided to break the rule of Emperor Claudius II (Emperor Claudius figured out that single men were better at war than men with wives and families. He therefore banned young men from getting married) and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret.

When the Emperor found out about his acts, he was martyred.

Another story has it that the first Valentine's day greeting was made by St. Valentine who fell in love with a young girl who seemed to be the daughter of his jailer. Before his death, she received a letter from Valentine which was...

Click on link below to read full article

http://www.newzified.com/valentines-day-2018-meaning-valentine%e2%94%82va-lent-ine-ash-wednesday/

How did you discover this thread lol...

its as old as adam.

Did i read that well abeg wetin dem write for that babe polo?

hmm, okay nice pix, the message though smh some ladies sha.

Thought i understood the concept of valentines day... now im not sure.

After all the killings

I havent seen any myself, do they even exist lol?? but i ve met yoruba muslims before.

Nutase:
I have seen. Mohd Abdulchukwuemeka my first crush

Akuko mike ejiagha.

People are different, If she is an introvert, just forget it.

Help if you can, and maybe ask her to come up with other options since she cant do trade.

NB. business management, is not all about buying and selling of goods.

Say God!.

Ritualist this, ritualist that... people are misinformed greatly. to what end after all money?! which they won't enjoy peacfully thats if it even comes.

R.I.P. kid, your only wrong doing was being born in AFRICA.

hoodedjaystrim:
Where Is The Joy In Knowing Your Mum Is Carrying Your Kid?! Thats Very Disturbing

With the unpredictability of humans today, what options do they really have??

When the child is born a paternity test will tell you who the true mother is...

Or would you rather they remained childless? having already heard they tried for other surrogates without success.

There is Joy in it. though i pray not to find myself in such situation.

MIKOLOWISKA:
and they will pass the cost o you the consumers ;

Exactly... its the consumers that wull bear the brunt finally.

speechless! for this country!!!... lol DSTV is here to stay, they will go to any extent to renew that license.

NAIJA is their largest market.

Even if it passes clinical trial... its a big NO for me.
some risks are not worth taking, and there are other alternatives.

amprat:
We have been together for years now and have 3 beautiful kids between us, the state of the marriage is another day's discussion ,have even tried keeping a diary here on Nairaland but tupdating it is an issue,...

If during that small gathering u had then, the guys family gave out anything at all and called it DOWRY then you are married but if no Dowry whatsoever was given, my dear traditionally you are not married.

Court marriage is also a type of marriage recognised by law, if the documents were duly signed, then you would have been officially married to him, but you have incomplete documents, so again my dear you are not married.

Truth is you have just been COHABITING, you must not organise a big marriage ceremony to be married, but the guy must give something recognised by your family as DOWRY. The whole village need not be there.

All the best.

I am not an advocate of divorce, but my dear from where i stand You ve got 2 options, and you have to be realistic and rational too.

1) Save up and leave,(divorce) atleast then you can have peace of mind and maybe some happiness.

2) Make up your mind to endure his escapades, smile through the pain, and act happy even when your are not,so you can keep your home.

## Don't even hope or expect him to change, because he wont.

nb: Most men are cheats, its rare to find faithful ones.

trust me after the confrontations, the denials and excuses, the pleading, the promises and what not, you will still have to choose between the 2 options above.

whichever one you settle for, I wish you all the best.

sheDD:
this bloke just spoil my impression abt Dr (Bishop) Chris
I hope this is not true

Whether true or false does it matter?? the point is he is saying the truth. No body is a saint.

Even David, who is said to be the man after Gods own heart committed murder .

Nobody is 100% righteous, we need to be less judgemental.