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Hell no to what you think. . . . .
Silence means Consent or yes.

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315321#msg3315321 date=1231372391]Am too afraid to ask you to prove it.

Sorry o, Moonstone no get taste. She thinks tumfulu is sexy[/quote]Prove what?. . .dont think i gat anything to prove jor. . . .

So moonstone is rolling with tumfulu too. . . .
What a revealing day this has been. . . .

Moonstone:
There is NOTHING called accidental cheating. What da heck? Was he sleeping when he was busy grinding? I can understand kiss but accidental sex? HECK NO!

Real love does not exist anymore darl. . . we are past that stage. Those were the days of our great grand parents.

Sillyboy, Blame it on the Devil! That is what you all are good at. Cheating is not the devil's fault. It's the fault of men with NO self control and no self-discipline.
Men that lack discerning spirit cheat. If you have a discerning spirit, you would be able to abstain from cheating.

That is an attack on my humble and civil person. . . . . . .you of all people should know that.
And what is with the word: "Discerning"

tope2000:
Lolz
Oh yeah ofcos blame it on the devil

Fadeyi and Abija girl.
Yes naw. . .the devil is at work

The bible says; "the devil has come only to steal, kill and destroy"

Emphasis on destroy abeg.

@ Toyin
No mind moonstone ooo

Hmmmm. . . . . .Silence. . . .
Do you know what they say about Silence?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315282#msg3315282 date=1231371900]LOL, am not even going to entertain this. NL men have been so disappointing when they finally prove their "sexiness".
Not saying you'd be included in the category sha


Will one of you tell me what Moonstone was supposed to tell me?[/quote]Nairaland guys sexy jor. . .
Well me dey sexy ooo.

You can ask that omo alai gboron jare.

Ehen. . .next year abi?. . . .
Se na Mr. D wey dem mention. . . .

or some other rivals dey. . . .
because I have made up my mind to naa David logun.
lol

Cheating is not a man's fault. . . .
It's the DEVIL naw.
You gurls should blame the insensitive devil jare instead of the man.

@ Tope.
Agbero indeed. . . . .
you have seen too many Fadeyi movies.

@ Toyin.

Well, I think I could tolerate the flimsy reasons for behaving that way then. . .I was just looking for excuse to neglect her and chase after some other "trophy". . .because I felt I gat that trophy at hand.

What kind of man are you?    
Sound like sth H202 would do

A nice sensible man. . . .sexy too

@ H2O2.

Well I acknowledge its my miss. . . .but trust me, when I say goodbye. . .it's really goodbye.
Moreover. . .I gat beautiful and smart women and to choose from now and that was like 2 years ago.

I only recounted this experience to butress my point.

@ Moonstone.
Okay ooo. . . .mo gbo ti e ooo. disrespectful omo.

@ Moonstone and Tope and others.

You guys need to stop this curse factor you bringing into it.
It's no curse at all. . . .he's just unfortunate.

@ OP/Topic.

Cheating is an "involuntary" action.

cheaters dont know what they are doing till they are caught.

H2O2:
How is it your miss? You couldn't have stopped her from leaving. If she wanted to be with you then she should have stayed there witcha

Like I said. . .I was very non-challant about her. . .wouldnt call her and nor care what so ever. . .for months
and when she calls. . .I might not pick it. . .now tell me a sensible woman who wouldnt move on.

I think its my miss because she was beautiful, smart, homely and very intelligent. . .(went to the same uni)
so its my miss.

What Section?. . . .berra open that ur sexy mouth!

do u knw ur name was mentioned here. . . .?

@ H2O2

You right. . .but you gat to be really sure toy want her to make up ur mind in tolerating her.

There was this girl i was crazy about 2 years back. . .but I realized she's always gat phobia for speed and some other stuffs I love. . . .so I was very non-challant about her "case". . . . .
The next thing I knew was that she was with someone else. . .thinking about it today. . .I still think it's my miss.

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315155#msg3315155 date=1231369712]LOL, I understand your point.

But what happens if you can't "tolerate" her anymore?[/quote]Then you move on and apparently, you dont want that person enough to tolerate her/him.

Moonstone:
I did not tell you that I would tell her now, did i?

Shior. . . .
Kan ran e ni ise ko ma le jise.

Ehen. . . .back to this thread jare. . . .
Can one really take the match-ups on this thread to the bank?

It's so revealing and shocking. . . . .

It reminds me of a particular time that I felt the world is so unfair. . .because all the pretty chicks are taken.
I feel that way now.

@ Sabuni.

Now you are in Sokoto?. . . .what happened to Zamfara?

Hmmmm. . . . .
I'll pass after a hug

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315117#msg3315117 date=1231369040]My question is,what happens when he can't put up with her "negative" side anymore?

If you can't stand it, don't tolerate it. There is a limit to tolerance, you know. Better if you don't bottle "it" up.

IF YOU CAN'T STAND MY IMPERFECTIONS, WAKA! BECAUSE I WILL NOT WANT TO FEEL LIKE AM BEING "TOLERATED".[/quote]I totally get your point.
I just want you to understand that whom-ever we decide to settle for will always have an imperfect side and that side needs tolerance.

We will always find what we think we cant tolerate in spouses. . .but the fact that we give tolerance a chance will make us realize that the side is actually tolerable.

God I pray u make her understand my point even if she doesnt agree

@ Moonstone.

Moonstone. . .moonstone!
Apparently o jise mi fun Ebony lana.

H2O2:
Of course sillyboy.

There are a lot of girls I want. But I keep turning my back on them because I can't tolerate some of their habits. Likewise I am with this girl because, foremost, I want to be with her, and secondly I have chosen to put up with her.

Exactly my point bro.

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315058#msg3315058 date=1231367909]Am not seeing the point you're trying to display, but am sure you'll try to explain it to me. Won't you?

Do women not also need to "tolerate" the negative sides of a man they intend to marry?

Lol, am not attacking yo sweetie. Am just opposing your post. [/quote]What am trying to say here is that:
We need to tolerate the negative sides of our spouses because there is no perfect being.
If we can tolerate these "excesses". . .we will keep sampling for the perfect one that does not exist till we realize we are already using a "walking stick"

H2O2:
Can I want you because I have decided to tolerate your imperfections

Its not like the person is gonnna be full of imperfections. . . .but u need to tolerate whatever imperfections she's gat .
Moreover, the "want" part comes before the "tolerance" part. . . .
gettit?

tope2000:
I don't even know what to say
I guess u should take sistawoman's advice because she been there too.
be strong

Hw about you?. . . .
Show me a woman who hasnt been broken hearted once. . .and I will point a woman who is still a kid to you.

@ Topic.

See why "insurance" is important in relationship?

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=215814.msg3315019#msg3315019 date=1231367234]That's an insult.
It's either you want me or not.
I won't stay in a marriage to be tolerated. . . .insult.[/quote]Well, if you keep looking at my statement from the position you are right now, you will forever see it as insult.
But if you decide to look at it objectively, . . .you will see that I am just being realistic.

Every human needs tolerance to stick together for such a long time. . .an most especially women.
Guys need to stomach the negative sides of a woman they intend to marry, else they keep sampling about.

It's not an isult. . . .at least it wasnt meant to be.

Must you be the one to attack me of all people?

Do you need to ask for confirmation?. . . .
Ok ooo. . . .I am positive you are.

I think you should have tried. . .even if she's gonnnna stop you. . .
but then, you keep trying harder.

Omo ti won gbe ti mi gan, mo n try lati se nkan!

@ Poster.

Well, you need to understand that most "dateable" girls has boyfriends. . . .thats what makes them "dateable" to you.
So am not surprised that most girls youve been seeing her into relationship already. I believe it is left for guys to win girls away from their bfs and try as much as possible to keep them when won. . . .else some other guy will win them too.

concerning your marriage issue. . . .well, just relax and try as much as possible to get into your senses to tolerate women. . . .guess thats the secret married men has. . . TOLERANCE.

yOU NEED TO TOLERATE WOMEN TO BE MARRIED TO ONE.

Got a hint this was going on. . . . . .

decided to peep in. . . . . .
and realized that "the beautiful ones are taken". . . . . .
decided it berra to be single then.

I fear oooo.

Now i can throw you some kisses without feeling somehow.

@ Chamo.

I no drag her from you naw. . . .
She said you stole her meat and am trying to get her back and keep her pot safe ni.

IBK aint 18 yet?. . .

perhaps my sight is old.

ibkaye:
@Silly
Kiss ke? I suppose just smile, oops

I saw you jare. . .
dont make me think I gat sight problem.
U were chopping his ete!

@ IBK

Hmmmm
You dey kiss Chamo wey steal ur last meat?
The heart of a girl is difficult to fanthom!

@ Toyin.

What are you talking about?. . . .that?. . . .
putting cheque in an envelope ofcos. . .berra stop thinking dirry. . . .

@ Zstyle.

I never hammer ooo. . .I be struggling hard working boy just like IBK loves it

Am curious on what woos you. . .
please fill me in.

ibkaye:
too much talk of account numbers o

Isnt that what women wannna hear?

Am a virgin. . .with ample opportunities. . .

I wish!

ibkaye:
smh

why you doing that?


@ Tomatoes.

Not just with my arms aorund you but my . . . .in you.
Have no fear. For Silly is with thy.

So u dey fear like this, i need a man that can protect me when sh.it gets rough o, so u better toughen up or hit the gym  
But since there is money sha, i can overlook the protection aspect

common, you wouldnt expect me to get down and dirty when I gat the entire CIS unit on your case. . . .
You are covered. . .just break his heart simple.

[quote author=*Toyinrayo link=topic=187412.msg3298019#msg3298019 date=1230944642]see how you dey use me to get girl? Lie lie, what damage?

Why is your acct. in your bedroom? are you people trying to corrupt me?
Ok, let's make a deal, you wait outside the bedroom and I go inside to get the card [/quote]I no dey use you get gurl naw. . .

You wouldnt knw where it is in my bedroom naw. . . .
Let go in together to go get it. . .
I promise there woulddnt be any Roma. . . .but Necky. . . .lol