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JustDumb

I have been following the thread and this teenager michelin89 (f) show be very superior than a papa like you.
So YOU MUST BE ASHAMED !!!

1000000000000000 X 2 TO MICHELIN, y have been loosing !

So young and so wise and inteligent while you , is better stop here , lol

" Is absolutely ridiculous a brazilian woman talk bullshit about our country"

"western values"

REMEMBER ALL, IF WE, FOREIGNS HAVE NOT FIGHT FOR SAFIYA HUSSAINI LIFE / AMINA LAWAL ??, she/they would be death on this exclatly moment.

The cousin who bleeped her and is married with 2 women went to the court and became FREE
AND SHE, SHE DESERVES TO DIE ?

Oh my Godness, and it doenst happened 100 years ago, it happened "yesterday" !

adconline (m) and lelele

Why don't you open a thread about Brazil/China if you re so interested in these cultures ?

Don't get away from the focus, don't attack to "defend yourself"

We are talking about relationship, here is family forum. To talk about these issues you were suppossed go to another place.

"it is absoltel ridiculous that a brazilian, would ever think the brazilian culture or wa of life is better than what's obtainable in Nigeria "
WHO SAID SO ? IGNORANT ! I HAVE ALREADY POST HOW THINGS WORK HERE, DONT Y READ ? "no" , SO, SHARE UP!

THIS THREAD IS SUPPOSSED TO BE OPENED BY FOREIGN BECAUSE NAIJA WOMEN DOENST RIGHTS AND DOENST COMPLAIN AND DOENST HAVE MOUTH TO ASK HELP, 

The bottom line here is mind, behave, naija women, point of view, feelings and not violence ,statistic , People Senseless.


AWAKE UP, HELLOOOOOOU !

I made a polemic huh
I will have to print it out to read
I will write a book with this subject , of course, with both sides opinion and remove some no sense comments, like the one JustGood made , lol


"I think it is about time we should all admit that we have at some point and time tolerating some of that bull shit from our men. Because you seriously can not say to yourself that you haven't. "

I liked this sentence ;-)

JustGood
You are the master of bullshit, I won’t reply your messages because your lever is over down.

euromilion
what might be rubbish to you , is truth for a lot of people, how d be the world if everyone thinks like you ? Besides English not be my first language, I am able to communicate anyway , that’s why I made a polemic here, can you do the same in some Brazilian relationship site ?

biolabee (m)
There seems to be alot of beef flying round so that really one does not get the objective of this thread.
I TOTALLY AGREE

Arielle,
Thanks for your input, very nice comments

Hero 111
My research is based in internet and real life, as I SAID BEFORE , IN BRAZIL LIVE A THOUSANDS OF NIGERIANS, THOUSANDS AND I AM THEIR FRIEND. BESIDES THE FACT THE LIVE ABROAD, THEY LIVE IN GUETTO AND DIDN’T LOST THEIR CULTURE, SO I HAVE BASE DEAR.

nzeaji
The problem is not them, is you, nigerian women , lol

Sisikill
wow

Angelheart
Patience with our “sistahs “ … lol… Is not their faults doesn’t have sense. Or it is ?

atutupoyo (f)

Every rule has exceptions. Yes, I am still reading. Just arrived from work. Everyone marry with the mind that it will be forever but sometimes things change, the life is dynamic, how can I keep married with someone that starting hiting me ? just because I can't be single because the society might punish me ? no, we are free to be happy. To live a real life instead of to pretend.

Emperoh (m)
Nigerian men are so lovely !!! I didn’t say otherwise. This thread is to talk about Nigerian women behavior.

About Brazilian men, you people can open a thread about it and I ll help, don’t run away from the focus here.
Here the system is different, the people keep married for love and not convenience, if the men cheat the women will ask divorce, forgive or cheat too. Almost of us , women, are independent. Some women not, and if they divorce the men must share all his money and property with the women , in almost all cases, the kids will stay with the mother, lol, and the father visits the kids during the weekend. In Naija, necessarily the kids belongs to the father's family huh ? here can be both, depends who have more conditions to take care of them

Is not the perfect society either, but at least doenst exist hipocrysis .

Omoge, dear.

I understood that y support me, I just think it different, because I was expecting insult from you not endorsement , lol, because you are nigerian dear, so I am happy you didn't lost your conscious and you are aware about what's happening.

Leilah,

I am here in Brazil, have a thousands of  nigerians, almost of them have wife in nigeria and here, they used say to nigerian wife that he just got married for papers , and for brazilian wife , he used say he goes to naija to visit his family (truth). But the problem is : one day , after they make the money they re suppossed make, they ll be back to Nigeria, because the dream of average of them is retire in village , what will happen with the brazilian wife and kids here ?

one day the truth will appear and it might be late

I met a guy here, nigerian, his wife were waiting for him during 10 years, he used send money to her, now he died.

Omoge

I thought you were nigerian oooo

If so, y were supposed insult me and not endorse the post , lol

Hello Omoge

You are the first old friend I met. Nice to meet you again.
What does BS means ?

Beijinhos
Simone

English is not my first language, but I thought I was able to communicate.
I will explain again, if you don't understand this time, I will draft ok ?

I support your comments and that's why I said what I said.
No one should play and pretendind.

THAT'S WHY

The life is NOT a theater, so we CANT be actress all the time. Of course we WON'T tolerate bullshit. Is complicated !!!


PS: I forgot the T in the word cant, but by the context, y were supposed to guess

onyinye2 (f)

about my example, it is so funny that the coca-cola company here in Brazil made a comedy adverstiment about it and it was so sucess like the guiness (black is beautiful) in Nigeria

all women laught a lot and identify themselves.

so, take it easy

Of course was an exagerated example, but just for give instance, is not like it, but is more or less like it

Yes Morenike, thats why I wrote:

The life is not a theater, so we can be actress all the time. Of course we won't tolerate bullshit. Is complicated !!!

*Morenike (f)

Sorry dear, I will try eat my tongue  

To make a naija men feel in love for you and have the mind to marry you , you must play fool and act as stupid.
Make a lot of questions even if you know the answer, for they feel important, for they feel they re in the control. I know you have strenght to open a botle of coca cola  , but give it for he open for you, Ohhh honey, I can't , help me and then they will feel super men, is these kind of little bullshit that make average of them feel the Kind.

Strong black women , like us, is just for safe men, is for Obama's of life , not to everyone , lol

The life is not a theater, so we can be actress all the time. Of course we won't tolerate bullshit. Is complicated !!!

You teach your naija nf western values

Yes, I have teach and he had learned some things. But he things he is doing wrong, he will be happy getting married with a naija woman because he was raised for it (beside of it, Igbo, first son)

So all my lessons/class will favor someone of you.

I was reading a lot of threads about nigerians in US, they were discussing about came back home to pick a naija wife, they even doenst accept nigerian women living in US, the discussion were like that :

- I think is better someone from the village that even doenst know how to pronounce her name in English
- I thing different, is important the women be well educated and go to university

Nigerian women living in US is not worth ;-) (international experience makes people grow and be smarter)

How much more submissive, obedient, without knowlodge , a woman that close the eyes and don't complain and she realizes he has been going out with another woman, etc,  impossible to compete with you.

He used tell me, I pet you too much, a naija women I d not pet  

Outstrip (f)

I totally agree.
The truth is always bitter.
You were very happy in all your comments. Congratulations for the wisdow ;-)

You can all start insulting me now too.

They can share the duty, 1 week one and the other week another one. Simple!
That way , they will have time to take care of their own stuffs

Poster

I don't believe anything I read at once, I do research and ask. Besides what I wrote , I have talked with a lot of naija women face to face, and I understand a lit bit of your culture.

In everything the writter wrote, what is lie and what is true ? or everything is lie ?

Nigerian women is not over tolerant ? to get married without have babe is a not a problem ? delivery 10 babe girls and no boy is OK ? etc etc etc ,

Be straight foward and objective, the issue here is culture/marriage/naija women behave and not trafic of women or Brazil, we can talk about these ones in another thread.

As you demand, here it goes

Google

Women in Nigeria Today - [ Traduzir esta página ]The Nigerian institution of marriage is unconventional by western standards. The traditional and Islamic systems of polygamy flourish within every social ,
www.usp.nus.edu.sg/post/nigeria/contwomen.html - 6k - Em cache - Páginas Semelhantes

http://www.usp.nus.edu.sg/post/nigeria/contwomen.html

Women in Nigeria Today
Alyssa Qualls

THE PROBLEM IS NOT NIGERIAN MEN, THE PROBLEM IS "YOU" - NIGERIAN WOMEN, Y STILL DIDNT GET THE BOTTOM LINE OF THE ISSUE.

Are you satisfied now ?

Within marriage, women have an obligation to have children. Traditionally, society blames the woman for a marriage without children. Society not only condemns women who cannot have children, but unmarried and divorced women as well.

Open your mouth if you are woman to tell me it is rubbish, lie or whatever !

The reality is bitter "sistah"
Just God to save you ;-)

I didn't write the test, I just copy an paste . But I have heard this kind of comments from my naija female friends in Brazil. So, why don't you face the reality instead of pretend everything is under control and perfect ?

I have dated a naija for 4 years, he is domesticaded and familiar with western values because I teach but of course his base keeps the same, so I have property to talk what I am talking.

There are a thousands of nigerian men here and they pick nigerian women , go there and bring.
I talk with a lot of them, they accept everything, the pastor's wife told me : we accept when our men is unfaithfull, you brazilians not !

Also they mess to please them without care about their own orgasmic, their life is slave life: clean the house, take care of their babe, mess whatever they want, accept everything, be alone almost a big part of the time because they are always focus on makey money and that's why they used travel a lot, this last one is an acceptable problem once we must eat, lol, etc etc etc

Is convenient for them pick this kind of women , like average you, a kind of slave, a kind of doll

The Nigerian institution of marriage is unconventional by western standards. The traditional and Islamic systems of polygamy flourish within every social class. Women expect very little from men in terms of companionship, personal care, and fidelity. Their relationships exist without the emotional elements.

Polygamy is a crucial component of many women's lives. Women depend on the other wives of their husbands. The younger co-wives take on many of the household and financial responsibilities. As women get older they have the comfort of knowing that the burden of their marriage does not fall solely on their shoulders.

A woman's postion in society changes vastly once they marry since she becomes a possession, with relatively no rights in her husband's family. In fact, the husband's mother and sisters have much more of an influence over him than his own wife. The wife resents this lack of control or even respect within their marriage.

The Nigerian system of inheritance reflects the lack of male responsibility to his wife and children. If a husband dies, the woman usually receives nothing, although the law entitles her to a share. If she has no children, the treatment is worse. Since property can only pass between the same sexes, women can never inherit from their fathers.

Within marriage, women have an obligation to have children. Traditionally, society blames the woman for a marriage without children. Society not only condemns women who cannot have children, but unmarried and divorced women as well.

In recent years, the support of the co-wives has diminished. Modern developments of mandatory education, urbanization, and capitalism are changing the Nigerian society. Since 1960, educational opportunities have expanded for women. Slowly men are beginning to see the value of higher education for their wives. Now, more often than not, they send their daughters to school for an education.

very nice, I go there to visit

Brash


At least I d have a conection with him forever
To have a babe from the men you really love, is the must
I am independent too.
I wont do it because I dont think is right and because I fear God
But If I had his own babe , the first babe of the first son and if he is babe boy, the story might change, because he is family oriented and he d no accept another man raising his child

Almost the same what happen with me
I had dated with him for 4 years and he cant marry me because he is the first son of 4
An the family prefer a naija wife because they re suppossed be more obedient and submissive.
His friends adviced me have a babe from him, it might change the story because he is too serious concerning the lineage, but I dont think it is right.

I am reading the book Things Fall Apart from Chinua .
Can someone explain what does this word mean ?

I am reading the book Things Fall Apart from Chinua .
Can someone explain what does this word mean ?

abacaxi