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NWOKEDI means and BODI means

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no one here speaks Igbo ?

Please, can someone tell what

NWOKEDI means and BODI means ?

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DOWN'S SYNDROME ASSOCIATION IN NIGERIA

boomtowner

Why should I help you if it will be my business ? how less competitors better to me noooo ?

It is better than comedy program

"I was there to give my wife support during her almost 12 hours of labor. I took a lot of abuse, something about being in the worst pain of your life makes women say things they don't really mean, or I hope she didn't mean. Anyway I did not watch my daughter being born, and I told Doc up front not to even ask me to cut the cord, or I would be out like a light, and they would be tending to me as well as my wife. It did have an affect on our Love life afterward, but I guess anybody that only got about 4 hours of sleep a night, myself included, would not even think about making Love."

"And I can completely understand how seeing it can change anyone's perception of and attitudes towards the mother's Instruments. It can happen to women, too, the switch from "woman" to "mother", with no room for sexuality. Usually it wears off after a little while (once the physical traumas have healed up), but I'm sure there are cases where it doesn't."

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"The wedding is not the marriage, and the childbirth is not the family. The real happiness is to be found (or lost) in marriage and family, not in weddings and childbirth. Real life is lived in all those ordinary days, not on those big occasions that seem to matter so much when you're starting out."
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Here's an interesting piece in Slate about how harshly people reacted to the news that witnessing childbirth destroyed some men's sexual attraction to the woman who had given birth. Since men can't control whether they feel sexual desire or not, shouldn't women want to hear what the real facts are, even if those facts interfere with the sentimental birthing room dreams they have in mind? It's much more important to preserve your future sex life then to try to live up to some idealized picture of childbirth. If having your partner in the room really does endanger that sex life, women should think clearly about whether they want to take that risk.


http://althouse..com/2005/08/must-should-man-witness-childbirth.html

benincitys (f) and plus_Queen

It is not a rule, it is what average happens most of the time.
If during the deliverance he stay the side of head and dont see the pussy is one thing, if he helps is another thing.

Anyway, I forgot almost of all nigerian men (pay attention, almost not all) doenst make MouthAction

No, a lot of men lost the sexual desire after watch the deliverance. His small sweety pot will increase in a crazy way, a lot of blood , etc ,  definitely not !

Their memory are super.

It might affect sexual life AFTER

dbisiback and tatooboy

What women outside has than your own doesnt have ?
Is she ugly, fat or smell bad ?
Have you ever seen she in the toilette making number 2 ?
Did you watch your babe coming to the world? the surgery ?

What do you think that made you lost the sexual atraction ?

no more ideas ?

Tatooboy 

Ask advice to your parents and to the elders now ! Y just followed their instructions and not your own desire.
Why don't you feel more sexual atraction for her ? Is her ugly, fat , smell bad or what ?
You don't have to make love , make sex, like the animals, it can't be so hard ooooo, if she used live in the same place than you, it d be more difficult and booring but she lives in US and you make it just when you travel.
Doenst exist routine, it were supposed be peperish.

We are more than our genitals, we are more than an orgasm, we are a whole, complete person that requires multiple facets of passion in our lives,  why stop at the physical surface?

The suggestion is not that every time you have sex with your partner it has to be a Tantric, mind altering experience,  sometimes it is fun to have a quickie, a funny role play, etc. through a physically focused sexual experience. When you or your partner are bored in your relationship,  you both have to look into the mirror and there you will see the person making it boring!

kiwi992 (m)


better late than never

what does leave mi jor means ?

what does it means ?

kiwi992 (m)

I have already opened a threadned about it today, similar subject.

There are a lot of ways to be nice to Nigerian men despite of sex, here is family forum, so your focus were suppossed be familiar.

Go to sexuality forum and look for some threads that I made , as example:

- The art of suck abunna (Omoge had teached me this Abunna jooo)
- Licking pussy - steb by step
- How to make babe boy (once it is super important for nigerian women)
etc etc etc

and come here to tell me I am naive on this subjects 

People here are so nice, wait a little bit more.
I am Brazilian, I can't help.

But I have "heard" that nigerians old parents are not comfortable with their "small babes"marrying foreign women.
Is a problem to me , I am black, imagine you? white

Don't you know almost average of them are tribalist or racist or cultured (I dont know the best adjective)?

I read the tips above and I liked it and now I will share with you


Learn tricks and “techniques” to please your husband in intimacy. (Of course goes both ways.)
Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker, don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day.
Smell good!
Keep your house clean, at least to the level that he wants it
Tell him he’s the best husband ever
Encourage him to do good deeds
Make jokes. If you’re not naturally funny, go on the internet and read some jokes, and then tell them to him.
Use your time wisely and get things accomplished. If you’re a home-maker, take online classes and get active in your community. This will make you happy and a secondary bonus is that it impresses your husband.
The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
Brush your hair, everyday.
Prepare for special evenings with him with special dinner and exclusive time (no children permitted)
Give him a simple task to do at home and then thank him when he does it. This will encourage him to do more.
When he’s talking about something boring, listen and nod your head. Even ask questions to make it seem like you’re interested.
If he’s angry with you and starts yelling, let him yell it out while you’re quiet. You will see your fight will end a lot faster. Then when he’s calm, you can tell him your side of the story and how you want him to change something.



May God preserve all of our marriages and help us understand and implement them in and with the best of manners, ameen!

to keep him at home ?

kiwi992

I was not talking about sex

kiwi992 (m)

How to be nice to a nigerian men ? teach now

iceblue (f)

If I decide open the book of my life like almost everyone does here , I will , who are you to tell me this kind of nonsense ? whats the purpose of this site ? senseless

"the person i think who has a lesser opinion of nigerian men is simibrasil. unsure though if it's from experience or hearsay"
WHO WROTE IT ?

I gave you example that my naija is perfect for you understand that I don't have any kind of problem with nigerian men and I don't  think they are all it or that.
Y wrote bullshit and now re trying to be pose ? come on, look at yourself in the mirror.

you've obviously never heard the words 'endurance' or 'patience' or 'perserverance'.
My naija friends with aids and the ones who support kids from another women, knows well the meaning of these words.

weakness.
It can be for you. One thing is y think y re right , another thing is y think y thought is unique

as for the rest of the crap you're spouting here - WHATEVER! we're not interested in your 'love' life
Talk in your name and don't add others . Leilah, are you interested in my love life ?

keep it to yourself please.   
No, I wont keep nothing to myself. Ou favorite position was doggy style 

Iceblue

Horror happen around the whole world, here ? everyday
My naija is perfect , my first everything.
His only mistake is be the first born and he want and his family force him to get married with a naija woman
There are a lot of naija woman here and I dont see you better than me in nothing , but they are better to him because they shup up and put up when their husband make some kind of disgusting thing
I am not liberal either and lot of women not. What are y talking about ?

Dont get married with the man I love because culture issue is over much. Thats why I am traumatized and I dont want NIGERIAN nevermore. It is my think.

A lot of them are special and interesting, as example, Seun, the own of nairaland, but now I have trauma.

I am traumatized.
Nigerian men ? God protected me !!! I don't want it NEVER MORE.

I have already braid my hair once but I didnt like because it broken the original hair and cause a lot of dandruff, in my own case.

Also , a little of headache in the first days.

I have already realized you are clever and wise, I just ask for be sure
I am happy you understood and didn't pick ofense.
I just dont understand you, I feel you , because the boat you are , I have already traveled , lol

I miss her too
Can someone explain me what had happened ?
Her husband doenst allow her to join nairaland ? why ? If she can't have virtual friends, does she can have real friends ?
Alone in a island ?
Friends are important for our day by day

and she give it as birthay gift to her husband ? wow

I never will understand this kind of think

Leilah

Y make your best to behave as nigerian woman in a lot of aspects
I just dont understand why the bills are 50 % 50% .
Why don't you make he support the whole house and you save your money or make something to you or your daughter in the future , in the case he decided run away to Nigeria to get married with a naija women in some years , at least you ll have a lot of money saved ? I hope it don't happen. But from a naija men with foreign women, i expect everything.

Sds

Sisikill

I like your brain. !

I am already tired of this thread.
I will invent another polemic

Wait 6 months and try again !or maybe less, talk to your doctor.
Is not the end of the world.
It happen with a lot of women, is normal, mainly at the first pregnancy
Why dont y marry before get pregnancy ?