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Almost the same had happened with me
I am black, in my case the point is I am not Igbo   I am Brazilian and the family didnt accept me.
Nigerian women are better than us because N reasons in their parents mind.
Give up !
This culture is too strong and you cant broken the rules, we will never will behave as nigerian women behave.
I just dont understand why he got married and make a son with you. Are you american ? if you say yes, I ll guess is because greencard.

huhu

Laughing a lot !

I thought I have already read all

It never ends

Y can get a good wife in the supermarket, ainsle B

XKZ

so? who made the western culture the standard the rest of the world has to live up to?
INTELIGENT POINT. I HAVE NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT BEFORE

"Polygamy is a crucial component of many women's lives. Women depend on the other wives of their husbands. The younger co-wives take on many of the household and financial responsibilities. As women get older they have the comfort of knowing that the burden of their marriage does not fall solely on their shoulders."


"To make a naija men feel in love for you and have the mind to marry you , you must play fool and act as stupid.
Make a lot of questions even if you know the answer, for they feel important, for they feel they re in the control. I know you have strenght to open a botle of coca cola  , but give it for he open for you, Ohhh honey, I can't , help me and then they will feel super men, is these kind of little bullshit that make average of them feel the Kind."

Don't you think these 2 statements of yours are contradictory. If nigerian men need to feel in control (to the extent women have to pretend to be weak and stupid) how come the younger wives shoulder the responsibilities

YES, ONE STATEMENT THE WRITTER MADE AND THE SECOND ONE I MADE, THE LIFE IS FULL OF CONTRADICTIONS,


I don't think you know what you are talking about.
I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT, I AM NOT BLONDE, SOMEONE CALLED ME WHITE ONE TIME , LOL, I HAVE PIC IN MY PROFILE. I DONT KNOW THERE, BUT HERE BLONDE = STUPID

YES OMOGE, I DONT FEAR JUJU ANYMORE, LOL.
What is your theory based on? Nigerians living in brazil - how many of them do you have an intimate knowlegde of their marriages/relationships?
THE WHOLE COMMUNITY, I AM VERY ACTIVE IN THE CHURCH, I TAKE CARE OF ALL CHILDREN, MAKE CAKES TO ALL PARTIES, VISIT THEM IN THEIR HOUSE, I HAVE TO EAT FOOD FULL OF PEPPER, HMMMM, I AM GET USED WITH IT, LOL.

The Net - how reliable/current is such info, do you believe all you read?
NAIRALAND AND SIMILAR SITES ARE THE MIRROR OF THE SOCIETY, WHAT PEOPLE DOENST HAVE COURAGE TO TALK FACE TO FACE, THEY WILL TALK HERE, BECAUSE NO ONE WILL KNOW Y ANYWAY, Y LL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM AND KEEP ANONIMOUS, SO YES, I BELIEVE A LOT OF THINGS I READ BECAUSE MAKE SENSE AND FITS WITH MY OWN EXPERIENCE, I HAVE SENSITIVITY TO REALIZE WHAT IS TRUTH AND WHAT IS NO SENSE.

Have you ever been to Nigeria?
NOT YET, MY DREAM. NOW I HAVE A BRASILIAN FRIEND LIVING THERE WILL BE EASY, SHE TOLD ME BASIC STUFFS IS OVER EXPENSIVE THERE AND EVERYTHING IS MONEY MONEY MONEY, LOL, SO I LL SAVE GOOD MONEY AND GO, THEN I GUESS I LL HAVE MORE CREDIBILITY WHEN I POST HERE oooo


Such relationships as you have discribed do exist in Nigeria (as in other places) but they are one extreme of the spectrum.
I AM AWARE ABOUT IT, BUT IN THIS STRONG WAY JUST IN SOME COUNTRIES IN AFRICA AND SOME COUNTRIES AT ARABE EMIRATES, I GUESS.

You are generalizing and paintimg a one sided picture.
IT IS WHAT YOU THINK SO, I WROTE SOME AND NOT ALL,lol. EVERY RULE HAS EXPECTION AND WITH THIS ONE WOULD BE NOT DIFFERENT

MY BRAZILIAN FRIEND LIVES THERE AND IS MARRIED WITH A NAIJA, HE USED SHOW AFFECTION TO HER AND TREAT HER IN A LOVELY WAY IN PUBLIC, HER NEIGHBOORS AND PEOPLE AROUND LOOK AT HER LIKE IT IS SOMETHING FROM THE ANOTHER WORLD, FUNNY. I LIKE THIS CULTURED SHOCKED

However you're quite funny.
AND YOU ARE INTELIGENT AND POLITE, YOU DISAGREE WITH ME IN SOPHISTICATED WAY, NO LIKE SOME OTHER PEOPLE HERE THAT ATTACK ME IN A CRAZY WAY.

BIZU

different

what does woo means ? lol

Fly Diva (f)

I d like to be relax and easy going like that, I am too jeaulous and I dont tolerate cheat.

I agree 100% with your slogan.

but I can't handle it  

Sisikill

Thanks for explanations.
Can y tell me when use dey,na and what it means.

What does LMAO means ?

Thanks

PS: oooo I already know

DAMN!!!!!!!!!!! Why did I contribute to this thread again? Some people can be melodramatic in here! Na really wah!!! So much drama in this house. All because someone opened up room for a debate??

Someone no, I opened and I am the drama queen

KarmaMod (f)

No idea

I am slave descendent, I lost my last name, roots and everything.

If you can answer YES to these, please respond so we can discuss:

I will answer for you, I hope y feel happy now.

1. Are you a failure with regards to having relationships?
YES, I ALWAYS FAILLURE, THE MEN DOENST FEEL ATRACTED FOR ME , MAYBE BECAUSE I AM FAT AND I DONT HAVE TEETH, I DONT KNOW WHATS MY PROBLEM BOOOOO
2. Are you frustrated with the fact that you are unable to achieve anything tangible since you moved abroad, including finding a husband?
YES, I AM VERY UNHAPPY BECAUSE OF IT, I WORK A LOT, EVEN DURING THE WEEKENDS AND I COULDNT BUY EVEN A SIMPLE CAR MODEL 1980. WHILE SOME PEOPLE HAVE A LOT OTHER HAVE NOTHING. IT IS NOT FAIR, MY MUM DONT PUT HONEY IN MY BUTT WHEN I WAS BORN. 
3. Are men using you and not wanting to marry you for various made-up reasons?
YES, THEY USE ME LIKE A GLASS OF WATER, DRINK AND PUT IN THE TRASH'
4. Are you ashamed of admitting that you are a relationship failure?
YES, I AM VERU ASHAMED, BUT WHAT CAN I DO ? I HAVE TO FACE THE REALITY.
5. Do you have child(ren) for a man and the man wants nothing to do with you?
NO, I DONT HAVE CHILDREN, THEY FEAR THE BABE BORN WITH MY UGLY FACE , THAT IS SO , , SO WHEN WE MAKE LOVE , THEY USED WEAR 5 CONDOW TO AVOID MY PREGNANCY.
It just could be that you are frustrated with life at this stage of your life.
YES, I AM VERY FRUSTRADED, I GUESS THE ONLY SOLUTION IS DIE AND BORN AGAIN, BECAUSE THE WAY IT IS , IT CANT BE WORST 

every problem is solves by prayer, believe, faith and patience

Dont rush the river, she flows by itself

Y can take my own idea

I made agreement with the pastor we the church we go togheter, before the cult I brought drinks and the cake (detail - the cake with his face, so chic)

So, everything normal, when was in the point of stop, the pastor said, now we will sing a special music , then he put on powerpoint/retroprojector, that stuffs that reflets in the wall , the letter of the music Happy Birthay to you and with something more I had wrote, the light was down, the cake come and everyone start singing to him

He told me that he will never forget that

Where are Siena & Cia to ask for them stop insulting/calling names ?

LMAO! I was expecting responses from the guys browbeating SIMI on the other thread. Awww, wasamatter? Now that it is your fellow man. . . "someone Your own size doing the talking" you are backing off. Not surprising, it is easier to pick on a woman, no? Gotcha

Laughing a lot !

oziomatv

Beautiful watch !

example:

Amaka works during the whole day, she has a salon and she is always running because she has 3 kids, work outside, work inside everyday. I was watching TV at her house and her husband arrived for dinner, he didnt like the food she made, and then she start making another one, she was cool, she didnt complain.

Then , the same thing happen to me, and the "focus of my attention" expect I do the same. But I think it is abuse . I have worked much more than him , so why do I have to cook again ? I have tryed if he didn't like , I am so sorry. The men should underdtand and have sense but he was selfish.

So, betwen a foreign and a original naija, who will he choise ? of course is more convenient the first one , lol.

How naija women afects the relationship with naija men with foreigns? this one will be my next thread, lol.

JustGood (m)

How are the weather over there ? Here is cold, cool just for sleep and eat .

Sisikill

I love naija men and their culture even if sometimes it shocked with my own believes, but is it that makes the life interesting, the life d be booring if everyone thinks the same. The opposite feels atracted, the love is irracional, etc,


My point is SOME (not generaliting) naija women spoil SOME naija men because their over tolerance.

I read here in nairaland a discussion betwen americans and naija, someone open a thread specif to men, and some naija start giving their own opinion, one american replied: share up, I dont want hear from you because y (naija women) are too tolerant and one naija replied: BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT UNDERSTAND OUR MEN, oooooo so cute , lol. I couldnt find the thread again to copy here.

Today is Friday ooo, no fight please ! Let's eat fufu and dance guereuá , jejeje

The 2.800 U$ is the price of the machine and I think it is too cheap once I don't need workers because the machine worls itself. Is the same amount y spend traveling abroad in 1 trip

The account above is your own idea and it doenst necessarily must be truth to me, you don't know my marketing strategy and goals 12U$ ?

How much costs a package of diaper there ? because here is too expensive.

I stay here in this thread to take information about the market and just that.
I don't need money, I don't need partner, I don't need webdesigner, etc, I already have everything.
My neighboord already have 2 machines since 2004 and they never bring any kind of problem.

Average business y must invest during the first year and the return of the investiment come after. The only business that the money come back in a short time are the ilegal ones

Thanks for your concern anyway

monatoetje

You are no one to tell what I have to do or not. I have already stoped calling people name if you still didnt realize, but if you start irritaded me again, I might come back , lol

No i didn`t discover africa. It only takes a little common sense and some historybooks or google LOL to discover that different groups of people with different religions/cultures/customs have been changing over centuries

Seriously ? wow, amazing! Thanks for the info.

Siena

I don't insult someone for a long time.


Why did y wrote it ?

Siena, deixa de posar de bom moço e ser piegas, ok ?

Yes, i ll bring the machine and the machine is so cheap, small machine , is about U$ 2800 and produce 1000 diaper/day.

They have all kind of machines, another interesting one is that to make bags, people might contract me to make bags with the name and brand of their own store

I just have to check if y have raw material there

How about diaper for old people ? have market for it ?