supereagle:


I admire your use of the language.

Thank you sire .

Reelectbuhari:



answer these two questions b4 I render my help

1 which state are u from?
2 what is ur religion?

My state and tribe should not be your basis priorities before helping me, and religion shouldn't be another option. Advice is a free will void of sentiments....

grandstar:


Flee!!!! ( Read Hebrews 13:4)

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

Thank you, I actually did read it.

Thank you for the Quranic quotes and bible quotes. Your advice really yielded a seed in my broken mind.

Esji80:
@SingleDaddy,I beg you in the name of God disengange! Disengage!! Disengage!!! Will you be happy to hear that your married sister,aunt,wife,cousin,etc is in such relationship? The evil you do now may search for you or you offspring later.



Quran says:

"…and do not come near Zina(adultery,fornication etc); indeed, it is an abomination and an evil way" (Al-
Isra': 32),

" ...come not nigh to indecent deeds. Whether open or secret;... "(6:151)

"Say: the things that my Lord hath
indeed forbidden are: Indecent deeds, whether open or secret; sins and trespasses against truth or reason; assigning of partners to Allah, for which He hath given no authority; and saying things about Allah of which ye have no knowledge. "(7:33)
Also read Quran 24:30-31

The Bible says in

1 Thessalonians 4:3
“For this is the will of God, that you should be holy and abstain from sexual immorality.”

1 Corinthians 9:10 says, “Or do you not know that unrighteous people will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Do not be misled.
Those who are sexually immoral
(fornication), idolaters, adulterers, men who submit to homosexual acts, men who practice homosexuality, thieves,
greedy people, drunkards, revilers, and extortioners will not inherit God’s Kingdom.”

As noticed from the scriptures above, we see that God hates sexual immorality or
fornication. God even goes to say that those who practice such things will not be allowed in his Kingdom. God intended for sex to take place only between those who are married (Hebrews 13:4). Also read Acts 15:20 ;
1 Corinthians 5:1 ; 6:13,2 Corinthians 12:21 ;
Galatians 5:19 ; Ephesians 5:3 ;
Colossians 3:5 ;
1 Thessalonians 4:3

Finally, I write all these because Allah says in Quran 2 verse 165
" Invite (all) to the Way of thy Lord with wisdom and
beautiful preaching.."

Quietly going through all your advices, believe me I felt like I had a family in all of you.. I felt like hugging you all for the words and strong advice's...

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PS: Job camping, not NYSC camping...

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Over 32mentions, sorry I couldn't reply you all, but believe me, I'm here with all of you.

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Thanks to the mod who pushed this to front page, my dusty eye was cleared.

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MISSCONGENIALITY:
Shine your eyes now that you still have them

Thanks sweety.. I will shine them from now henceforth.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I think you are the one who doesn't want to let go. She's someone's wife for God's sake.

Noooo, please don't misunderstand me ... I'm over her already, but her consistency and unrelenting desires even after we had a serious issue which almost resulted in my discharge from the project, thrill my imaginations. I'm considering my career here, because she has nothing to loose

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Forget about the gift if you want to end the matured meetings.
But it seems you enjoyed the meeting. Just to to the husband and tell him thou want to marry his wife. Then you guys can enjoy your sweet moments forever.

When a lady credits your account with close to a million naira, you should understand the situation is beyond ordinary eyes... Even though she's aware that I'm not lacking.

perousd:
from experience, You fit Get assassinated oo. If the Husband finds out sha. Not all that glitter... It's temptatously Wrong...

Like Cocaine addiction wrong.
Sign out fast o.

Just Pity the Poor Man for house.

You're making issues worse for me... But i don't pray to be assassinated because of a mistake that was hidden to me all this while.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
@Op you already dipped hand into another man's cookie. Just stylishly ex her. Na wetin long throat dey cause.

How will I do that... Personally, I know how serious she takes little issues relating to me. I just need advice on how to end everything without hurting her in the process. My career might be on the line if that happens.

Mcy56:
@OP, my question is:
On completion of your service year, what are you still staying back for?
Or are you retained where you served?

Its a project camp, not NYSC camping.. On completion, the selected are appointed with a project, and she was signed under my team, to undergo a project in Yenogoa Nigeria. We both still have like 6months to stay in Yenogoa.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You must run whether you hurt her or not. If she gets hurt let her go and meet her husband. Run now that you still can.

Yes!, sure, I'm running already.. I can't withstand the power of her seduction and deceit.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
now that you have fallen for her, start rising and make sure you rise faster. I don't want to hear stories like" man chops off another man's prick for sleeping with his wife". Tell her it's over, that you never knew she was married and avoid her they way people avoid lepers in the olden days. The earlier the better.

I'm so disappointed that things are turning this way... She had invested a lot in me, while i also did the same for her...

Lalasticlala mynd44 please i need advice.

is this a good or bad advice?, somebody should advice me about this advice?.

Enoma222:
_FUCK!!!_HER_she_need_it

damtan:

which one is "private matured meeting"??

Male meeting a female

odutolasodiq:
The best thing is to sit her down and let her know you don't get involved with married women; keep your distance. Please, don't get involved.

Okay. Thanks for the advice.. I'm doing my best in regards to that.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
oga talk true. You love the fact that she's into you. And you yourselves don't want it to end. I'm sure you still want a matured meeting with her. THis let me advice you. If you want it to end, tell her that you don't hang around married ladies and you never knew she was married that was why you lead her on. Have a less matured meeting with her and tell her that you want it to be over. Stop deceiving yourself that you don't know what to do. If you keep having martyred meetings with her now that you know she's married, my brother, get ready because other men will have matured meeting with your wife. There are so many cute single ladies out there that you can have matured meeetings with. Leaving alhajia alone.

I didn't lead her on, as a matter of truth, we started the way every human would.. I never planned to associate with anyone in camp, but she would not allow me.. She actually lead herself on, because she was making all the moves, on the other hand, I fell for it, because her boldness and maturity thrilled me.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
once you are old enough to have a private meeting with someone's wife, you are old enough to know what's right. My advice to you which you must not take because you already know what to do just that you don't wanna do it is that you should DO GOOD AND AVOID EVIL.

It wasn't my fault. She lied to me all along. It was after out meeting, she opened up to me. I was so disappointed in her and myself. But at this stage, all I need is a way to run without hurting anyone

chukxie:


In Nigeria? No idea. In China, sure!

Please how can I buy it from China

Kingsteve:


Please give more details for better imagination.
How old is she?
Is she the 1st, 2nd or 3rd wife?
Is she a proper Hausa babe?
Is she beautiful?
How many kids if any?

The truth is, once you've started liking her, it will be difficult to disengage.
And for some reason, once one starts catching feelings for a gorgeous married lady, the attraction is stronger than that of a single lady.
Very strange!

Your first questions .

Yes you're right.. Disengaging from a beautiful married woman is not so easy... She is so entangled with me like attachment is to a lady. At some point in camp, fellow camp members refer to her as my wife.

She actually had a leg injury while we went for morning road work, and believe me, I could no longer rest, because she would want me to pet her, care for her and show public affections to her, which I did, unknowingly that she is married to someone else.

softprick:
You never fvck her na ,just tell her as e be,say assuming you know earlier you for no lead her on but now that you do you can’t continue because it goes against everything you stand for.shikena abi anything else dey when you never tell us? Cos this na small issue.

I understand, but we had a private matured meeting, when we both came out of camp. I actually regret it though, because she lied to me that she had no man at that moment.

lefulefu:
Kikiki she wants to get smashed

Smashing her would really be interesting, but that's the road i wouldn't like to take.

Please i need matured advice?. This is a serious situation.

OK! , long story short, I really need advice at this point in time. I had an encounter with this particular alhaja, I hope that is correct, while i was in camp(Social gathering) , we eventually got to like each other, because she is always tracking me, while I stylishly do the same..

She's always buying me stuffs and surprising me with gift, and I endeavor to do the same.


After camping, we got to finally meet privately, and we had matured meeting between us. All this while, I never knew she was married, and she never talked about it.

Our friendship seems to be escalating quickly, and personally, I never prayed to have anything to do with a married lady. But with the way situations are, I'm stuck in between the hole of a niddle


She seems to be taking this too far and serious than myself... Please what's your advice and suggestions in regards to this issue.

I would like to quench the flame without breaking the candle.

Silly Christians

In my world, I fvck only bad bitch€s .... I friend zone a lot of girls, I mean the stupid ones , while I roll with the real Gee's, those with brains and hardworking.

Adedayo47:
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