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Before u crucify me hear me out.
I met her from a friend and she started working for me. After a while she left but she has already won my heart but didn't say anything cos I hate having affairs with my workers. After she left I approached her but she didn't say anything after like months I met her again but she still refuse and told me she was dating a guy I know very well to be a play boy. I tried to convince her that her relationship with him won't lead to anywhere at a point I decided that I have to let her go.
Fast forward to last few week, I noticed she has been liking my post a lot and always try to initiate a conversation. I ignored her still until she started asking why I don't call her again. I told say me don try nah for close to 8 months now. She told me that she will like to come to my office and would like us to talk. I was like is everything alright and she said yes that she just want to see me.

I chatted her up earlier this night for her to start telling me about some of her family problem. Mind the fact that if she is a gold digger she would have said yes long before now. She has still not said yes but she asked if she can come and work for me on weekends which I refused. She said she needed to help her mum and some personal stuff.

I asked her to follow me to a wedding ceremony which she agreed but said she doesn't have Cloth for an occasion. She still a young girl if u ask me.

Not more than 19 or 20

I asked her to come around tomorrow so I can buy some clothes for her for the occasion.

She has not said yes nor any much interest but I don't know how to fix the puzzle

Is she coming around because things is a little rough for her?
Is she having issues with her bf and want to use me to get over him?
Is she for real?
OR she wants to play me since I have refuse to let go??

Mature reply is highly appreciated

Demmy59:
It possible I have had a first hand experience, Sam not a banker though . They have to run after the guy to call him back. It happened at GTB ATM

Thanks,.did it take long before that happened? cos I waited but nothing happened, I am just afraid maybe when the system is back it will dispense the cash

20K no be change for this recession nah

Dani4tech:
You'll definitely get your money back...
In my own case, all I did was to contact their CC on twitter

thanks a lot
Which of the bank urs or the bank u used their ATM and was ur transaction marked successful??

Swegzfreak:
Yes ooo.... All your money go don full ground for ATM, you better go and pack it...

Guy easy....... u no just get joy

I went to several. ATM yesterday trying to withdraw but the queue was much so at the end I decided to wait at access bank. The machine paid the lady before me so I was hopeful. I inserted my card and after choosing the amount I wanted I heard the ATM counting money but few minutes later I saw "transaction successful do u wish to continue" few minutes later I got a debit alert. I waited hoping the might come out but nothing happened. Till now I have not gotten a refund and I operate with first bank.

My question is if it's possible that the ATM will still dispense the cash later and now the ATM has acknowledged a successful transaction, can I still get my money ? Bankers in the forum please help

The Supreme Court of Russia has banned Jehovah's Witnesses from the country, describing the group as an extremist organisation.

Four witnesses who where ex members of the Jehovah’s Witnesses, stated their account to the court, that they were brainwashed by the church against receiving higher education or starting a family. Another witness from St. Petersburg, Natalia Koretskaya, who had been a member of the organization from 1995-2009, told the court that; “The heads of the Jehovah’s Witnesses formally watch canonical compliance with the norms but in real fact the talk is about total control of an individual’s personal life – his intimate life, education and work.”

“Therefore, a person turns out to be expelled into the outer world, in which he has already forgotten how to live over the years of his stay in the organisation,” Koretskaya added. Justice Yury Ivanenko in his verdict said Russia had decided to close down “the administrative centre of Jehovah’s Witnesses and the local organisations in its fold and turn their property over to the Russian Federation.”

http://www.correctng.com/2017/04/the-supreme-court-bans-jehovahs.html?m=1

I don't understand, will it be a sin to keep that diamond?? Some people are just over zealous. Not like the government will give him a reasonable amount from the proceed. Guy forget the matter african politicians are the same everywhere. not like he stole it. I just tire with some people holier than thou attitude.

In my own opinion, that pastor is the dumbest man alive.

Just as the Chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee Against Corruption, Prof Itse Sagay, Thursday took a swipe at two agencies of the administration for still engaging in untidy deals, President Mohammadu Buhari’s anti-corruption fight has taken more knocks, it was revealed yesterday. While the Federal Govern-ment has adopted and placed incentives for whistle blowing as a means of fighting corruption in the country, top government officials have slapped the government policy by terminating the career of an assistant director, who raised the alarm that the sum of $229,000 and N800,000 had been diverted by key officials in the Directorate of Technical Cooperation in Africa, an agency under the Ministry of Foreign Affairs. The whistle blower, Mr. Ntia Thompson, an assistant director with the Directorate for Technical Cooperation in Africa, who blew the lid in the fraud that embarrassed the key masterminds, was initially suspended from work on December 19, 2016 and was finally dismissed from service on February 7, 2017. Whistle-blowers According to a public notice, the Minister of State for Foreign Affairs, KHADIJA BUKAR ABBA IBRAHIM, who supervises the DTCA, approved the compulsory retirement of Ntia from work with immediate effect. Although it was not clear as at last night if the letter had been served on the sacked director, a copy of the notice of his dismissal had been posted on the DTCA public notice board. The sack letter signed by Sanda S. Isah, Head of Administration Department in DTCA and addressed to all staff, said, “ I am directed to inform you that following the recommendations of the Senior Staff Appointment Promotion and Disciplinary Committee on Acts of Serious Misconduct against Mr. Ntia U. Thompson, the Honourable Minister of State, Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Chairman Presidential Inter-Ministerial Committee on the DTCA, has approved the Compulsory Retirement of Mr. Ntia U. Thompson from the services of the DTCA with effect from 7th February 2017. “In view of the above, Mr. Ntia U Thompson ceased to be a staff of the DTCA with effect from 7th February 2017. “All members of staff and the general public are hereby advised to take note”. The letter was signed and placed on the public notice of the DTCA on Friday with a handwritten instruction ‘Please Read’. However, competent staff within the agency, who believe that the money in question was actually diverted wonder why both the police and the anti-graft agency whose attention was drawn to the fraud, turned a blind eye to the inimical act and allowed the suspects to go scot-free and boldly unleash their fangs on the victim. Competent senior officials in the DTCA provided documents to allege some of the 14-member panel raised by the government to probe the allegations of breaching service rules levelled against the whistleblower could have been compromised. The officials provided a list of 11 new senior staff hurriedly employed by the leadership of the DTCA without advertisement or declaration of vacancies by the directorate in order to silence the panellists and get them to ease out the whistleblower from the establishment. The document shows that the 11 ‘new staff’ were all employed as either Administrative Officer or Accounts Officer on the same date of December 30, 2016, just a day to the end of the year. The officials confirmed that the new employees are either direct children or relatives of the panel members who were supposed to interview Mr. Thompson and write a report based on the civil service regulations and decide on whether he should be commended for the act of patriotism which he showed by reporting the diversion of the money in question. One of the officials in the DTCA said, “If the government wants to know the truth about the identities of the 11 new staff and their relationship with the members of the panel that recommended the dismissal of Mr. Thompson, it should ask for the names of the new workers, their state of origin and their parents and see if they are related to the panellists. “We have all the names and we can give them to the government any time they are ready to do proper investigation to know if the right thing was done and whether a minister and other top officials benefitted from the diverted cash or not,” one of the aggrieved workers at DTCA said. It was not clear whether the sack of the staff would be approved by the Office of the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation, which has not been informed of the ugly development. Whistle blowing a new concept introduced by the present administration to horn in graft, has reportedly led to the recovery of billions of Naira so far but it is not clear why many top government officials are frontally opposed to it. It will he recalled that Ntia, as assistant director in charge of Servicom Unit at the DTCA had written a petition to the EFCC last December drawing attention to the surreptitious withdrawal of the sum of $229,000 and another N800,000 from the agency’s account purportedly for the purpose of celebrating the the tenth anniversary of the Nigerian Technical Cooperation Fund (NTCF) which was allocated $36,852.00, and monitoring of various projects executed from the Trust Fund across Africa. However, when Ntia got wind of the diversion of the fund, he immediately reported the ugly development to the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission asking it to investigate the fraud . Findings showed that although the EFCC waded into the matter and compelled the affected officials to refund the sum of N800,000, no further action was taken against the officials to refund the $229,000 which they had already taken. But a few days after the EFCC had begun investigation into the scam, the whistle blower was summoned by the DTCA and queried on why he leaked official documents to the anti-graft agency and the media thereby exposing the agency to embarrassment.

Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/03/ministry-fires-whistle-blower-exposed-229000-fraud/

God bless all who left their work for this protest. I am strongly in support of u guys. Non in my state or we for front am but all the same #ourmumudondo

Sir douglas

I said this few days ago. Tuface will not go scot free if he ever insist on this protest. I don't blame some of you for insulting me cos I know you don't understand. I want this protest as much as any of u guys but then it will be inhuman if we don't consider the life of this young man.

He said in one of his videos that he is just a musician with a point of view and that is all there is.

He is not a match to Nigeria's blood sucking politicians.

You guy can only imagine the kind of threat this young man has been under for spear heading this protest.

I know some of u may feel disappointed but consider the safety of Tuface and his family.
If he chooses to fight against Nigeria govt amidst all the threat who will save him when they finally descends on him.

You the masses can and will only keep organising protest after protest while they look for a good reason to lock him away for a long time.

If you have any idea how devilish this our politicians are then u will know that Tuface just made his best decision for the year 2017

My two cent

Sir Douglas

Here is the link: https://www.nairaland.com/3605662/forget-protest-tubaba...the-pressure-too

Lucasbalo:
Remember that Hillary got almost 3 million more votes than Trump but trump won because he had more electoral votes. That's the way the system was designed by the founding fathers. I am proud I voted for Hillary and I will do it again if I have to.

So sorry about that..........now put on ur sit belt Cos u are in for a long Trump ride

Fedayeen02:
All this zombies should go and stand with buhari.



Feb 6th is the date

Watch ur word Mr. I am a confirmed igbo man and the last I checked guy like me don't celebrate mediocrity.

Lucasbalo:
Like I said before, we will gladly send that demagogic racist and two bit hustler to you in Nigeria. The little Hitler will do so much good in your country.

So if u hate him this much why did u vote him in?

adonis89:
if anything happens to him, nothing , I min absolutely nothing will happen. U don't know diz country Nigeria(d abode of Satan)

God bless u dear...... some people have forgotten that it is Nigeria we are talking about here. Where nothing works. If anything happens to this guy.......
Tell me exactly what some of this people think that will happen?

soulpeppersoup:
You don't know the pressure 2face had to pass to make it in life. The top is not for anyhow people. If he backs down, I will question how he got this far. If he pull it through, forget it. He fan base will be second to non in African.

Watch out.

The most reasonable comment so far. That is what I hope for. That he will be able to pool this through.

Some of these people here opening there mouth anyhow don't know what things like this take in a country so corrupt and ruthless like ours.

Just yesterday I read a press release by Lagos state commissioner of police stating that they are ready to do all in there power to stop the protest.

You can imagine how big a threat that protest is to some people.

The young man only wanted to help, now they have made it personal. I am wondering the level of threat that guy go dey receive now.

Baba free the protest jor

I believe u have enough for u and ur family.

Make this blood thirsty politicians no use u shine.

Nigeria does not worth anybody's life.

My one cent

When I look at the way Americans are staging protest here and there
I laugh. This people must be kidding me. This is exactly what what
this man told u he is going to do before u voted him in. I have never
seen a president or anybody so committed to his words like this
Trump of a guy.
He promised change and less than two weeks he has almost
accomplished all his campaign promises. WHY ALL THE HATE?
Now Obama is telling him "hey, u can't run America like ur family "
but he has atleast giving God back the glory. Trump is a God's sent.
The truth is that I will choose Trump over Obama anytime.
This is the kind of leaders we need in Nigeria. People who has the
interest of the common masses at heart.
I think Buhari should sit down have a rethink wherever he is. I mean
it's not everyday that a country wants their president
dead!!!! .........it is unheard of. He has made life so unbearable that
even beggars on the streets wants him dead.
You're policies is killing your people and you don't care. Even when
your wife tries to talk to you you reminds her that opinion is needed
only in the kitchen and the other room.
I won't be surprised if he still dies in office Co's I have never seen
so much hate towards one man in my entire existence.
I have always said this and still maintain my stand. Jonathan was
not the best but this cow from daura is not a substitute.
GOOD MORNING NIGERIA I HOPE U ARE ENJOYING YOUR CHANGE

LorDBolton:
4 years? I doubt. That's last seasons kaizer chiefs jersey bruv

This story and pic has been in circulation for a very long time bro.

I once posted this story in my blog like 2 years ago.

Some people shaa.........seeking attention at all cost. This picture is as old as I could remember. If u don't have any reasonable stuff to post just keep quite.....this is a stale News.....

Let's be realistic here. That lady has a lot of question to answer. Two weeks into break up and u are already engaged. Common guys, its not just fair to the poor nigga.....

The girl has not been honest with the relationship and that was what the guy found out after eight years!!!!! Or the lady planned the whole thing and made it look like the guy dumped her while she intentionally made the relationship difficult for the guy to continue so that she can marry the other guy.

I am still speechless as what will make a guy date a lady for that long with nothing to show for it, not even engagement ring.......

I bow for some people shaa..........

Women!!!!.......fear them

Rukkydelta:
Wow nice to meet a birth mate

me too, so now we have known each other what next?

Rukkydelta:
Wow nice to meet a birth mate

me too

Rukkydelta:
May 20th

mmmmmm.........May 20 representing

Sex with robots is “just around the corner”, an expert told a
global conference in London this week featuring interactive sex
toys and discussions on the ethics of relationships with
humanoids.
Sex with robots is “just around the corner”, an expert told a
global conference in London this week featuring interactive
intimacy gadgets and discussions on the ethics of relationships with
humanoids.
“Sexbots” are a staple of science fiction — the idea of robots
as sex partners is explored, for instance, in recent films and
television series like “Ex-Machina” and “Westworld.”
But some specialists believe the first animated lovers made of
metal, rubber and plastic, programmed to provide sexual
bliss, will take a step into reality just months from now.
“Sex with robots is just around the corner, with the first
sexbots coming… sometime next year,” artificial intelligence
expert David Levy told the International Congress on Love
and Sex with Robots at Goldsmiths, University of London.
US California-based company Abyss Creations next year will
start marketing sex robots that are billed as life-like, with the
ability to talk and move like humans.
Ultimately, Levy said, people should entertain the thought of
marriage with robots as early as 2050.
The conference in London showcased some of the latest
developments in robotic intimacy gadgets, such as gadgets which
allow couples to kiss, no matter how far apart they are.
The “Kissenger”, which attaches to your mobile phone,
contains sensors to detect the pressure of a kiss and transmit
it to your partner’s device in real time. It has been under
development for several years.
Now students at Tokyo’s Keio University are developing the
“Teletongue”, aimed at providing “remote oral interaction”
and designed to be “kinky”, according to co-creator Dolhathai
Kaewsermwong.
It allows couples to send licking sounds and sensations
through cyberspace using a “lollipop”, creating an “immersive
experience”, she explained.
– ‘Moral panic’ –
Lynne Hall, of the University of Sunderland’s school of
computer science, in northeast England, said that robots
could create “a fantastic sexual experience”.
“There are lots of benefits to sex with robots… it’s safe, you
never catch any disease, you can control it,” she told the
conference.
She rejected the idea that robots would replace or threaten
sex with humans, however.
“We are somehow fed by moral panic… ‘It’s disgusting…
nobody will ever have sex with a human again’,” Hall told the
conference.
“But people are regularly watching porn… and they are still
having sex with humans,” she said.
Levy, the author of “Love and Sex with Robots”, from which
the annual conference takes its title, said marriage to robots
would be the next logical step.
“As sex with robots becomes more and more commonplace…
we shall come face to face with the very real possibility of
marriage to robots,” the former international chess master
said.
And why not?
Robots of the future will be “patient, kind, protective, loving”,
never “jealous, boastful, arrogant, rude,” Levy said — “unless
of course, you want them to be”.
“All of the following qualities and many more are likely to be
achievable in software within a few decades,” he added.
Levy is convinced that rapid changes in attitudes to sex and
marriage in recent years point to a world where “more and
more people come to accept sex and love with robots”.
– ‘Robot personhood’ –
In his vision, robot parents could become a social norm, with
laws to acknowledge “robot personhood” and make marriage
and parenting by humanoids more than just a fantasy.
“The time is fast approaching when the theoretical debate
must evolve into laws, and the consequences of those laws
will be staggering,” he said.
For now, however, sexual relations with humanoids are a
step too far for many.
Emma Yann Zhang, a PhD student at London’s City University
who worked on the Kissenger prototype, believes there is still
a long way to go before people will accept the idea.
In a pilot study conducted by the Imagineering Institute in
Malaysia, partnered with City University, participants were
asked about their perceptions of sex robots, including the
potential for intimacy and attraction.
Although many were open to the possibility that humans
could be attracted to robots, “when asked ‘would you have a
robot as a lover?’, most of them said ‘no’,” said Zhang.
Hall agrees that the “paradigmatic change” suggested by Levy
is “not going to happen for a very long time”.
In the meantime, AI enthusiasts will be watching closely to
see how quickly the new generation of sexbots fly off the
shelves next year.

source: m.guardian.ng/technology/sex-and-marriage-with-robots-science-fiction-or-new-reality/

Let's not be quick to judge. I strongly believe that there is no iota of truth in this story. How can it be that condemned prisoners will be more concerned about meat than praying for a miracle. I can smell lies...

Jarizod:
[color=#F58700] That girl obviously studied Magarism with her nursing!

Flee from her b4 she ruins u [/color]

Lols...... I hear u

2dice01:
dont be a maga bro...all her excuse of you guys staying in the same street na wash...dont be surprise she might be fvckin her neighbour self...my guy flee...dis girl go buy office for your head oo..

Relax, she no fit. If she need more money nah to dey collect from her parents give her. , me sharp die nah. But should I reason her sey nah her mama buy her the phone I know sey dat one go pain but I don't like coming off as a maga?

OK I met this girl around my street and I was impressed with her beauty. I wanted to chyke the babe but don't know much about her so I just dey one side dey observe her. One day I sold a phone to a neighbor who happens to be the father of this girl. As a sharp guy I moved in to make my catch. We exchanged numbers and later to call but always switched off. I later found out from her that she had an accident and has been in the hospital all this while. She told me she lost her phone during the accident. As take dey pest with the matter I told her that I will see what I can do about it.

Few days later her mother asked me to get a phone for her so I overcharged her and use some of the difference to get a small Android phone for her and still make some profit as a good business man. She was happy but bur she started asking for a better phone which I told her will only be possible once I get back from Lagos(though I don't have any intention of doing that). We later had issue over the phone matter and resolve it. She told me she would have love to date me but I cannot be possible with me living in the same street with her. I told her that I am planning for a new apartment since I am staying with my dad. She told me that she will date on the condition that I will relocate which is not a problem to me cos honestly I have been on it before now.

We stopped talking for some time then we met one day and had a little conversation and she told me that she is in need of a little cash. I called her later that night to know what she need the money for but her response was not satisfactory. I told her that we will start it gradually and also I don't want to come of as a guy who uses money to get a woman.

She said ok then since then she has been too busy. She works in a hospital I know but then I feel she is over busy. She hung calls on me for no apparent reason and make silly excuses.

I want to free her level but I want to know what u guys think cos I have been told severally that I am impatient with people cos I for Don free her package long before now but just don't want to rush things cos I like this girl. And I was thinking maybe I should tell her that her mother bought her the phone. ( make she no come dey reason me as MMS) .

Mature suggestions please.

OK I met this girl around my street and I was impressed with her beauty. I wanted to chyke the babe but don't know much about her so I just dey one side dey observe her. One day I sold a phone to a neighbor who happens to be the father of this girl. As a sharp guy I moved in to make my catch. We exchanged numbers and later to call but always switched off. I later found out from her that she had an accident and has been in the hospital all this while. She told me she lost her phone during the accident. As take dey pest with the matter I told her that I will see what I can do about it.

Few days later her mother asked me to get a phone for her so I overcharged her and use some of the difference to get a small Android phone for her and still make some profit as a good business man. She was happy but bur she started asking for a better phone which I told her will only be possible once I get back from Lagos(though I don't have any intention of doing that). We later had issue over the phone matter and resolve it. She told me she would have love to date me but I cannot be possible with me living in the same street with her. I told her that I am planning for a new apartment since I am staying with my dad. She told me that she will date on the condition that I will relocate which is not a problem to me cos honestly I have been on it before now.

We stopped talking for some time then we met one day and had a little conversation and she told me that she is in need of a little cash. I called her later that night to know what she need the money for but her response was not satisfactory. I told her that we will start it gradually and also I don't want to come of as a guy who uses money to get a woman.

She said ok then since then she has been too busy. She works in a hospital I know but then I feel she is over busy. She hung calls on me for no apparent reason and make silly excuses.

I want to free her level but I want to know what u guys think cos I have been told severally that I am impatient with people cos I for Don free her package long before now but just don't want to rush things cos I like this girl. And I was thinking maybe I should tell her that her mother bought her the phone. ( make she no come dey reason me as MMS) .

Mature suggestions please.

I don't know if its just me but I feel this survey or whatever and the church that allowed such a degrading analysis of its church financial status is uncalled for. The church is not a company and the main purpose of church is not to raise money or give offerings. I couldn't read to the last line cos as a christian I felt really embarrassed by this whole thing. Who the is this pastor for Gods sake?? I really don't knw wht to say.

End time Pastors

End time churches

tripplephi:
When parents warn children about fire they will say it's cos we are not I vogue or we are old school. Pls play with the girl and get the advice you are looking for... When there is trouble you will not have the me to post it on Nairaland. Enjoy

Oga tell me that ur wife is the first woman u ever had sex with and u met her a virgin ( since u never screwed any lady I assume u married a virgin) or FOREVER KEEP SHUT AND GET THE HELL OUT OF MY THREAD!!!

tripplephi:
It is bad to taste a soup you won't eat o. Else the lady you will eventually marry or your sister and your future daughter they also will be victim of blind tasters

Cool off bro, I never said that! Do u expect me to see a girl today and decide to marry her before going into a relationship with her? . "I don't kw hw u holier than thou folks reason sha"