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Oluchiugo:
Finally!, happy for you guys. I just hope they won't misuse the opportunity to rebuild their country genuinely

Namaster:
You FAILED as a man when you forgave a cheater qnd a liar.

You FAILED as a man when you took back a WHOORE and decided to raise her BASTARD.

You made yourself a BIGGER fool by loving, treating and investing in her bastard like your own child.

Women are RESOURCE-CONSCIOUS. They understand the scarcity of emotional and financial resources and how important it is to raising kids.

That's why a seemingly generous and kind woman would be STINGY and WICKED to the children of other people in her care.

A man that's willing to DOLE out these resources to take care of a child that's not his is seen as a WASTEFUL and UNRELIABLE man that cannot be trusted to put his own family first.

When you started loving and treating her BASTARD equal to your own children, you FAILED!

You showed her that the most HORRIBLE kind of child (i.e the product of a great BETRAYAL) deserves the same amount of love and care as your OWN flesh and blood.

UTTER FAILURE!

Another point of failure is keeping her secret affair secret. She BETRAYED you and you still did her a favour by hiding her affair.

Failure!

When you find out your woman betrayed you, you tell the WHOLE WORLD. Shame and stigma are two INDISPENSABLE pillars of any society.

You tell HER family.
You tell YOUR family.
You tell HER church/mosque.
You tell HER friends.
You tell YOUR friends.

And you NEVER take her back!

You never take her back and give her another opportunity to BETRAY you again.

Taking a cheating woman back is like being shot in the chest with a pistol while wearing a bulletproof vest. And then taking off the vest and handing the shooter a BAZOOKA while telling them to take another shot to your head.

Only thing you can do right now is go to her family house with the MOST rugged and UNRULY members of your own family and take back your TWO children.

Do DNA tests to confirm that they're actually yours and then BLOCK the bitch, her family and her bastard.

NEVER talk to them again.

If she wants to see her children, she can go to court.

madridguy:
Small boy like you would rather be ranting instead to listen to elders and learn.

Do you know the meaning of a bastard?

Is the boy an orphan?

madridguy:
Small boy like you would rather be ranting instead to listen to elders and learn.

Do you know the meaning of a bastard?

Is the boy an orphan?

madridguy:
Small boy like you would rather be ranting instead to listen to elders and learn.

Do you know the meaning of a bastard?

Is the boy an orphan?

Emmitext89:
In the last three days(God is my witness), I've been without food. Pls sir assist me as much as u can pls 🙏. I'm weighed down

Dtruthspeaker:
God's children do not suffer

paxonel:
And God did not create this world to be bed of roses.
If anyone(including child of God) want to make his own life bed of roses, then he must work for it, or he suffers

madridguy:
My brother help me add additional #500 for me too. Imagine him still regarding a bastard as his own son.

frozen70:
Do you wish to be in his shoes

If yes, pray for such wife

If no then what's wrong with that advice

Untill he dies of depression, then you will feel for him

Emmitext89:
Hmmm .. I wholeheartedly need your help sir

paxonel:
Why do people suffer?

People suffer because they are ignorant of certain aspects of their lives.
A scripture says my people perish because they lack knowledge. This scripture is also applied in suffering

ReacherSaidNoth:
The answer is simple but you won't like it. There's no god anywhere that cares about your personal well-being. All of us are at the mercy of time and chance.

Emmitext89:
I can't disrespect God in any form. And this post isn't meant to downplay his supremacy and sovereignty.
I have observed a lot in this life, and each time, I can't stop asking myself this question. Why do people suffer?. They work hard, they are good, they pray, yet, suffer even more. You pray and it looks like nothing is happening. It gets worse.
Why all these diseases and famines? Why does he allow evil rulers. I'm saying all these with peculiarity to Nigeria where I live.

Sometimes, I am left without any option than to believe those who say God hardly exists.

Nixxxx:
But that girl no bad now she try in terms of looks. Personality I wouldn't mind dating her oh

Nixxxx:
So guy you no say give your babe money, is that what you are trying to say?

MMempire:
Ghost them for now. Just occasionally visit your children at their school and not in her parent's house. Keep the bond with your kids and move on as a man. At least, you can be proud of two biological kids. When the time comes, your children will never forget you. Shikena!

frozen70:
Well sorry for this kind of embarrassment just because you choose to be a gentle man

At this point your wife will still do you things that will break your heart the more

So, go and inform your family or siblings of what she has done and will still do more because this is not the first time and is not the second time, that means she will do more

Just move on with your life and if possible Change your residence and move on, as it is now she is killing you slowly

How can you be training another man child yet no peace at home

When hunger deals with them she will look for you by then you are already busy and can't keep two relationships

She will take you to court or mediation centre, when you get there, open up

No human on earth has the power to deprive another person's happiness

Zonefree:
Ugly girls are becoming a menace to the society. It's time to abolish them.

Afonjeezy:
CBN & NNPC?
Well, Naira is N1600 to a dollar & fuel is N1,100 per litre incase you didn't notice.

Goodnight

Afonjeezy:
Any reliable escrow to hold the money?
Wese90??
I can pay with crypto too

https://www.nairaland.com/8287634/fact-tinubu-failed


I challenge anybody to show us what Tinubu has achieved in office till date.

Mind you...



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