Ivynwa:

You understand?



Aw-aw-aw-aw
I'm just seeing that your parents are no more, if you are the closest family around you still have to save her from that man. Involve any extended family member that have your interest at heart. She needs to get away from a man that sends her to the hospital with beating before she dies from that.


The bad news is that if anything happens to her, you may be the one taking care of those kids. You can ask your brother abroad to help with a little sum for her to start a little business or she can find a factory work and be independent from the man. If somebody is killing you slowly, do you keep returning to the person because the person feeds you. Shouldn't you find a way of feeding yourself so that you won't depend on such a person. Do you and your sister want to watch the woman beater waste her.

Call good hearted extended family members of yours, invite her husband's parents too. Raise alarm (or the ambulance will give you enough alarms if he beat her to death), make it a matter of great importance. The topic of the meeting should be to drum it into the man's ear that your sister was given to him to marry and not to beat down and that you and your sister have decided for her to get a rest from his beating until he decides that he is ready to marry her not beat her. Your opening this thread now shows that he beat her again very recently and i don't think that it's right for her to return to him for more beating without sorting out this issue seriously. (Yes you have a right to organize such meeting, it's your sister we are talking about).

chaircover: Pls send me a pm and i will get back to you

Ivynwa:

You understand?



Aw-aw-aw-aw
I'm just seeing that your parents are no more, if you are the closest family around you still have to save her from that man. Involve any extended family member that have your interest at heart. She needs to get away from a man that sends her to the hospital with beating before she dies from that.


The bad news is that if anything happens to her, you may be the one taking care of those kids. You can ask your brother abroad to help with a little sum for her to start a little business or she can find a factory work and be independent from the man. If somebody is killing you slowly, do you keep returning to the person because the person feeds you. Shouldn't you find a way of feeding yourself so that you won't depend on such a person. Do you and your sister want to watch the woman beater waste her.

Call good hearted extended family members of yours, invite her husband's parents too. Raise alarm (or the ambulance will give you enough alarms if he beat her to death), make it a matter of great importance. The topic of the meeting should be to drum it into the man's ear that your sister was given to him to marry and not to beat down and that you and your sister have decided for her to get a rest from his beating until he decides that he is ready to marry her not beat her. Your opening this thread now shows that he beat her again very recently and i don't think that it's right for her to return to him for more beating without sorting out this issue seriously. (Yes you have a right to organize such meeting, it's your sister we are talking about).

@chaircover ihav sent u pm

biolabee:
Has she come out to accept she has an abusive spouse
Do you have parents or in laws around
Do you have brothers who can step in

The key is her though

our parents are late,and we have 3 brother,one has died,the remanin 2,are outside the country

slimyem: Is your sister a kid or handicapped that she can't make a choice whether to leave or remain with the beast?

she is a house wife,dat is the problem,so if she go who will take care of her kids

rill: Abeq wetin con b the work of d father

d work of the of father is to take care of his famly only

please how can i help my sister in her husband's house. Her husband is very hot tempered and beats her oftentimes. Sometimes she ends up in d hospital at other times she sustains. What can she do? should she go?

dannysteve99@ya:
I love u mum,u remain the first woman in my life.

do i know you?

i thank god for motherhood