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ThiefOfHearts:
you can get affirm or mizani at any sally's or beauty supply store. I got mine from beautyofnewyork, they ship fast and everywhere 

Good luck with training 

aww . . . .  . . . thnks dear

oh mine, thank you so very much for that site.

you have been really helpful ooo

definitely going to order it right way

both society and individuals are to blamed

none of the above. I have the final decision cox am the one going to live with person

ThiefOfHearts:
I use Lye. Only thing good about no-lye is that it doesnt hurt but it makes your hair dry (CaOH2), Lye is better but can burn people (NaOH) but as long as you quickly rinse off the relaxer or better yet use MILD formula you will be fine.

I just bought Mizani Butter Blends for my touch up next week (Im 3 months behind relaxer)

The two best relaxers now are 1. Mizani/Mizani Butter Blends or Affirm. If your hair isnt really thick, abeg use Mild.

alagolo elenu nla, Make sure WATER is in the first 3 ingredients for hair moisturizer. No BLOODY pink oil!

sissy abeg confess. who stays away from NL for 3 weeks cos of chicken. I send an Angola curse to you if you dont talk

na truth i dey speak oo. na only chicken oo. nothing else so plz continue holding the curse dnt release it yet

or do u wan make i take a lie detector test . nah i was actually preparing for my residency training.

where can i get those relaxers? willing to try it, my hair is kinda thick

which fake hair?

abeg jor make we hear word . they wear fake hair cox they want to. end of discussion.

C2H5OH:
Maybe, maybe not. Maybe women don't like being held responsible for messing up.

or maybe men dnt like leaving up to their responsibilities?

i usually dnt do ponys but as for weave on i wait a week after relaxer and i put deep condition it b4 doing the weave on.

i like to give ma hair a break

C2H5OH:
Of course. So typical of women to blame men for their miseries.

maybe cox men sometimes cause them?

tope5000:
Lol . . . . i swear these guys fit drive pesin crazy
Then they say we are complex creatures

yup usually with that their excuse of women having many buttons and 'em only one.

i must admit some men are so complicated it takes more than a psychology major to understand them

nah i dnt fix or braid ma hair right way, i wait like a week or so after deep conditioning

tope5000:
Lol . . . . yes i do agree that some women nag as hell
But the only reason i nag wud only be because i have told or ask my bf not or to do something and he does/nt do it
Then I NAG . . . . and i blv i have every right to then

me sef if i ask him something and he is slow to do it, i wouldn't even repeat maself, by ma actions he would definitely get the drift.  is it controlling? dnt think so. as for nagging, i dont do much it unless . . . . .

tope5000:
Sissy are u sure u r a female sef?
Why do men always think women are nagging when she tryin to say something?

OMG roflamo!

i have to admit some women do nag as hell. there are some ways to tell man something without nagging him, unless the woman is pregnant of course then nagging is allowed.

tope5000:
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm . . . . ,  i think the women always try to communicate but the men always seem to be tired to talk
Like they say women talk too much
Communication is a two-way thing . . . .so i think most men shud make an effort to listen to what their wives have have to say

nagging and communication is two different things and sorry to say this but most women dont communicate they nag (thinking they are communicating) which one of the reasons men gets bored and tired to talk.

of course men should not only listen, they should try to bring things up too. marriage is all about cooperation

for me i think for a marriage to be successful and fruitful it needs

     *  Love
    * Support
    * Tolerance
    * Communication
    * Realistic expectations
    * Caring
    * Nurturing
    * Sense of humor
    * Commitment
    * Respect
    * Knowing how to handle conflict
    * Problem solve together
    * Interdependence
    * Caring
    * Enjoying one another
    * Having fun together

lol ;d ;d ;d ;d

tope5000:
I know but just the way some ppl are going on abt it  . . . .is kinda scary
Guess communication REALLY is key

communication is a big key to any successful marriage and relationships and honestly i tell you most marriages/relationships fail cox of lack of communication and it amazes me how often ppl tend to neglect it.

most of the ones here imo is lack of communication

being a housewife is a full time job so they need to get an allowance

tope5000:
Oh gawd !!!!!
Not another boring marriage, u guys are really scaring me o

sweeties nah dnt b scared every marriage/relationships gets their bumps just got to handle it probably.

marriage is not a bed of roses for anyone

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=143396.msg3913667#msg3913667 date=1243113032]yup, u know what that is right? [/quote]nope i dnt can u expaniate?

with his attitude i bet u he is probably tired of the marriage too.

have tried telling him how your feelings on his attitude lately?

do you have kids?

marriage counseling could be another option before it is too late

@ ebony

see who? no b me na agaba oo

i'm digging at last pic already. me likey

olay or neutrogena hand cream is good

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=274704.msg3913661#msg3913661 date=1243112970]they r on ur tail girl[/quote]lol na only tail? head nko