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y not give urself a chance u never know she might b the one for you. never take anything for the face value. try it out with her and see

well it depends on the status of the marriage, if it is in good terms why not? but then if things aren't good especially financial, i will keep it to myself.

do fasting and prayer for them

Tgirl4real:
This post is funny

lol, and you are not laughing

[quote

Dr. Ade Ekemode, who certified that the girls’ hymens were still intact as a proof of virginity made the medical offer in Lagos.

[/quote]and this man calls himself a doc , i thought "doctors" are suppose to know that hymen and virginity is a myth and cant be used only to measure virginity so when the hymen is broken by other means, like using a tampon , riding a horse or Bicycle etc or those who weren't even born with a hymen and haven't had any sex, she isn't a virgin nonsense, sometimes i wonder why parents would even send their girls to such nonsense

[quote author=Tgirl4real link=topic=226591.msg3406681#msg3406681 date=1233353778]How dem take know? did they . . .

gurl help me ask them oo, virgin award my ass

arranged gini? unless someone is willing to die of rat poisoning

i rather be single for the rest of my life than do arranged marriage for the rest of my life lol

dellynash:
is this really true? Im wondering

yes it is not only true it is REAL. and the woman already have 6 kids plus the 8 equals 14 kids and she is currently leaving with her parents. her mom said she took fidelity drugs.

druglord:
Im sure a lot of dudes would have experienced this kinda case before. I have been scoping this chic for about 4yrs, she still hasn't agreed. She recently invited me over to spend few days with her as a friend. Should I agree ?

u have been scoping her around for 4yrs now, and she hasnt agreed and all a sudden she invites you to her house, and u r here asking wot you should do
she has finally given you the opportunity to be with her, and you are still asking "should i agree"
if you dont like her again or dont want to continue scoping her for another  4 yrs, then dont go, but if you really still like her blah blah then i dont think you need someone to spell out for you wot you should do.

jealousy will kill some pple oo,

abeg jor leave our dearest obama alone and get a life dude

Val's at home

write her a sweet and heart melting love letter, Spray the love letter with a light fragrance., fold the letter, put in a gift box with a heart pendant or a necklace or/watch or /perfume anything u like  (if only u have money oo) and wrap it with a red ribbon on top. or you can just read out the love letter to her with a smooth and sensual voice

OR just a cook special delicious food for her (especially if u dont normally cook for her, she will be really surprised and happy u took the time to please her) and invite her over if you dont cook order it from your favorite place, (and oh, hide those containers so she would't know u ordered it) buy a champagne for an added touch, serve strawberries to bring out the champagne's flavor, or drop pomegranate seeds into the glass to tinge the bubbly pink., decorate the table with candles and roses petals, put a love song , dim the lights and u both enjoy the food and the moment or u both can quietly dance to the music gazing into each others eyes. or just watch a romantic or funny movie together just the both of you.

i think she will really appreciate and remember more any home made creative ideas you come up with than just taking her out to dinner, unless u are very rich or have enough money then you can take her on a vacation  or do some other nice things together. if not be creative with the things you have at home., i just happen to like guys who are little more creative esp. when it comes to things like this, it really sinks in more in my heart.  thats just me oo. of course this just my own crazy ideas lol

using the nairaland search engine will really help, cox lots of thread have discussed the same topic

homosapien:
anything from 30 provided you are financially buoyant

is it for both male and female?

hmmm, a lots of things o

1) i dnt like women who go to public restrooms and drop their bags on the floor to do #2 or to pee, i just found that to be very disgusting to me, cox many things goes on that dirty floor, i rather carry my bag on my head and do my thing than drop it on that germ filled floor. that's just me oo

2) very often i see women who will come in the PRS and dnt wash their hands afterwards, very disgusting, they will just come out from the RM and walkout, sometimes i feel like drawing them  back and tell them to fucking wash their hands, but too bad for me i cant do that. how sad

3) during mass in my church they have the time for the hand shaking, which i usually dont do, cause some people will dig their nose with their hands in front of you, ewww, gross while others will starch their yansh or other places and will not go to the RR to watch their hands, however during the hand shaking they will turn to you, to shake your hands with their germ filled hands ewww. very disgusting.

@ olu.

those reasons still doesnt mean people in relationships/marriages dnt experince true love or that true love itself is nonexistence.

not everyone has a luck with love, while others does, so experinces r very different, and they r plenty pple out there who have truly experinced wot it means to love and to be loved

mr grown up, u dnt think true  love exist

Magz:
Anyone who says that Love does not exist is a fool at heart, or is in bitter denial.

True Love most certainly does exist. I have experienced true Love, and I can testify.

agreed

hmmm i do, but,

"law" u r making this love thing sound too hard oo

i dnt

how can someone in their right mind lay their filty hands on a preg. woman lawd have mercy

DV is just one of those thing i cant tolorate in marriage

tope2000:
Rofl . . . . . . .

@A-40
Do you want her situation to get to 'i just want any man'? cuz by the time she hitz 30, she might singing that song

and different kinds of guys, poor, deaf, dumb, ugly, etc will be hymning the chrous