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tope2000:
Lol . . . . .How can a 26 yrs old be distracted by men
At that age, i want to be married n be planning on getting preggo
She had berra hurry up, her biological time is ticking  

she can always stop the clock and the change the battery

debosky:
Maybe in undergrad, but at 26 doing an MBA?? If she can be distracted at that age, then she'll never be ready. There is truth in those words - there will always be an excuse NOT to do something.

maybe she carried the advice over to graduate levels or maybe she wasnt just physically, emotionally, or whatever ready to take a course in relationships

tope2000:
I agree with sissy but at the same time @ 26 and not in relationship

girl u knw na some folks just had bad luck when it comes to relationships

and since she is studying, she might have heard those advices " face your studies, having a boyfriend will distract you, after your studies a nice fellow will always come along"

na by force to marry sef

abeg the aunt she leave the kind girl alone and let her decide when is ready jor

by forcing her to find some dudes and marry will make her appear desprate and will make her just settle for any guy that comes along just to please her

aunty and she will live her long life in agony or even divcore. abeg take your time, and always remember your anuty will not live your life for you when you are

married, you are on your own take your time, marriage is a life commitment that a person should be able to make freely when they are already.

dont let her force you into marriage cause you will forever regret. 26yrs is not old to be forced or rushed in marriage.

dplo:
@tgirl4real
thanks jare,you dey there joo
pretty you know,i just cant stop looking at the new pics on your profile,over and over again
girl to be sincere,you too fine,infact,so beautifulllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
whichever way sha,can we be vals?
i will be so gratefulllllllllllllllllllllllllllll ,no matter how limited the time could be,dining with a princess,is the best thing that could ever happen to charming guy like me,lol

i am the spokewoman for the one and only Tgirl4real, and i am sorry to inform u that she is not available. she is already taken, better luck next time

koolme:
As a guy, I've discovered I fond of looking @ ladies, I mean like when you're in a cab, and you see a lady, maybe @ the b.stop, and you just look. This act, seems to be common with guys, dont really know bout ladies. I keep wondering, is it only me or ,

yea, it is only u, and it is sick

i will give her a lasting hug, if u knw what i mean

as for the man, trust me when i say that will be the last day, he will ever use deek again, he will 4ever remain impotent

[quote author=d_phoenix link=topic=223197.msg3392775#msg3392775 date=1233093173]i really dont know because i just broke up with my girl , maybe i just look for or she look for me instead. [/quote]who the hell is impersonating the one and only dapheonix

Or girl did u get the pink slip

then again i wonda wot so romantic about this

move it to the politics section

oludimuni:
It was a sad experience that engulfed my heart when we spoke last, that i had to go and sleep fast. Howdy??

yea, pple who do have bad experince with love do a different view on that 4 letter word l.o.v.e, so i understand where ur views r cominng

i dey kampe, u nko

oludimuni:
that is what am saying, see the way you conclude at me, you no not even know if my intention to get your own opinion of love,

Are you in love with someone??

so wots ur experince

oludimuni:
I want you to know that, in this part of the world, we are prone to taken things for face value. It is even better here, cos you can read the persons tot first before you get carried away by the look.

it is also better to see them face to face, so one dnt get fooled by keyboard typing illusion.

they could say all the good things to u online cox they cant see u, u dnt know their body languages, no emotions just typing. nothing replaces face to face communication cox no matter how a person pretends one can always tell their intentions with their body languages/emotions unlike when meeting online. and it is even a good thing cox u get to see how they look physically so if u dnt like their big ears/eyes or wotever u can end it, unlike online

oludimuni:
Am just a realist, i dont know how long you want to stay, i will take time to analyse what i mean,


But, the truth is, there will one thing that will attract you to a man and vice versa, that is the interest, and when you make more discoveries, you get more interested, by the time you had the ooprtunity to meet, you become clouded from reality, that now depends on how the guy can manouver in bed,

seems like u have had such bad experince with love but true love, emotional love do exist

HeatFusion:
Someone mentioned emotional love. Now tell me, what's the difference between emotional love and true love?
Although, they're both illusions

c'mon now, some pple do find true love and it does last. my parents r perfect example

u must b a lonely heart then

oludimuni:
Just the way many people do not know the nature of their of their creator, yet they talk so much about it, it is the same way they dont understand love, yet they talk about it.

Please tell me, what brings two people together on their first meeting.

u dnt believe in love or wot

KarmaMod:
are you his wife? How are you NOT a homewrecker?

nope she is a homemaker

[quote
abeg count your loss and move on homie, she ain't the one.  You will live and learn to love again.
[quote][/quote]exactly, where there a breath, there is hope

MrCrackles:
Loser!!!

hmmm i smell jealosy oo

2yrs older than me

thats nothing jor, majority of men tend to b older than women in marriages.

so i see no problem with it, 2 yrs older is not old

some people online are perverts

i still like the old fashion dating style

face to face contact

some women sef

drinking/smoking will double the problem, so trash it. it is going to take sometime 4 u to get over it, but u will get over it, u r not the first to have this happen to u and u wouldnt be the last. only time will heal, be strong.

if possible talk to a counselor, so u can get somethings off ur mind.

whatevers goes around always and surely do come around.

such is life

Vonny:
What have been your experiences in the 'rebound department'? Are you a relationship hopper? Ever been on the rebound before? Ever been the rebound? Did it last? Did it fail? How long before it failed? How long before it succeeded? Please feel free to flood the forum with your experiences.

hmmm u r aksing too, many question oo

me i no dey do rebound, backward, recoil or whatever, if the relationship no work i dey match forward. thats it.

i dnt believe in second chance, because people never change

so no rebounding 4 me

Sapphic:
What are you trying to ask? Is it "Am I Worthy" or "Am I Worth it" or what? Your entire thread consists of 2 incomplete sentences, one in the title which is grammatically incorrect and the second which couches your question, makes no sense.

Be that as it may, You are only second in the guy's life because that has been your choice. I doubt he put a bullet to your head to be with him. If you believe you deserve better, WALK AWAY.

i second that

me sef culdnt understood stand wat the poster meaning t