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while reasons varies, from my understanding it is cox some wants to grow old with their children so the earlier the better.

some cox the pressure from parents especially when they are the only child and or son so the parents wants them to marry early

so that they can see their grandchildren. and some cox they have the money to marry and have found ms right so why wait

yes i will listen to them and their reasons if it sounds reasonable i will take it. cox sometimes there some aspects of a person that only an outsider not the dater will be able know and see. so yea i will listen to them cox i know they want the best for me.

wat kind of story is this

just too confusing

Ben20001:
Fine o

who be those people wey dey fall in love with you for my back

no mind them jare, me no sabi them sef

Ben20001:
no mind am

how ur bodie dey

hollandis:
You na 
havent u heard ? ethanol + heat = Gbooza

r u male or female

yea go sleep so u eyes will clear well well

SHENANIGAN:
My dear I just dey I just finish my home work so I say make I come check up on my ~sissy~. Now sleep don start to catch me, but I'll come early tomorrow so me and you fit chat well and if possible have cyber sex it don day since we did it.

cee their heads all looking 4 sugar this, sugar that

if u no find sugar mummy why not try sugar daddy or bitter mummy

SHENANIGAN:
~sissy na your eyes be this I've missed you so much. I miss making love to you the most.

u where u be since nice u r back

did u just there "I miss making love to you the most" 
stop having nightmares and wet dreams

u haven't filed the official divorce papers , so she is still yours

no vex nah

hollandis:
omo u don make am fall in love https://www.emoticons4u.com/music/musik01.gif
https://www.emoticons4u.com/love/1268.gif

and who is the lucky person

spill the bean

C2H5OH:
na you i want. heatfusion is only a groupie.

no way, i dnt want hot water for this my sweeter bodie o

HeatFusion is yours and yours alone

Carry Go

so are u finally going to propose to HeatFusion since u two are also on line

i mean ur article just said on line is the most popular method maybe it could work for you and heatfusion

abeg no bite me alive oo cox i will swallow you dead

they both need a dancing lesson cox they really suck at it

anywaxs it was all good, they tried

how can u sit there and let your parents/people set marriage date for you

marriage is a choice a person should be able to make freely and willingly out of their choosing. your parents arent the one going to live your life for you. is your father/family going to be feeding you guys since u dnt have money now


is only you that have the power and the choice  to decide what you want for yourself and things like marriage shouldn't one of those things you just go with what everyone thinks is right for you. if u think u r not ready for marriage, tell them now or forever hold your peace.

you are  the one going to spend your life either in happiness or in agony with the girl not them, so thats why u should be upfront with them and tell them whether you are ready or not.

goodluck

no, just repost it there in the family section, the mod here will either delete this one or move it.

nalijah07:
they were married here in the states. No church wedding, just court wedding.

she better get more serious cox she aint getting any young. the man is much younger and could be delaying everything just to lay her off with many excuses including, she doesnt cook for him, clean or that she is just too old for him.

so the girl should start acting interested in the marriage, by getting more involved in the relationship, start doing things for the man and also start asking him about their future cox the guy might just be using his financial instabilities as an excuse.

playah P:
I DONT KNOW WHY WE PPLE HATE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY

if a man cheats,he blame his wife for not satisfying him.
if someone commits murder he will blame the devil.
its funny really,
we all should learn to take responsibility for our action instead of passing blames

shouldnt this be in the family section cox i dnt really see anything romantic about it

are they now married for real, i mean in the church or traditional? is paper marriage of the view now?

Taken:
Then you are part of those few. But most females are still influenced directly or indirectly.

Yall like to look good in the eyes of other females.

i wouldnt speak for everyone but "some" females do depend on their friends on such decisions but not all, but my problems was that you were generalizing all women as the same. so i guess now we now understand each other

nalijah07:
She is 37. I think he is 34.

she is already 40 so she might as well wait till she is 40,45, or 50. which is even going to make things even more complicated.

she is married and she doesnt clean what then does she do just sit around the house

Taken:
This isn't generalization, I think we should all give ourselves opportunities to find out some whys.
Tell me, do yall ladies not often chose a guy based on the influences of ya pack of friends?

Only few females go out of their ways and choose a man without any consultation from their friends. Proof me wrong please!

why r u now using the word "few" why not use "all"

you havent being with all women, either have you studied all, just like everyone's face is different so are their choices, so you cant sit here i tell me all women do the same thing. not every woman choose their spouses/boyfriends base on their friend's infulences. i am a woman i didnt choose my partner base on the influence of my friends either did my friends or sisters. so everyone is very different from each other

Taken:
@ poster

Word! It is one of the discovery I found out in my own research, women are terrible at making the right choices when it comes to men. Some women who are sincere even wrote about it that yall ladies like rough guys and hope to change him later in the future.

Result of my research,
One of the major reason is the influence of their friends, most females hardly stand firm on their personal decisions without the contributions of their female gangs.

too much generalization no good oo