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@ ban190

You are the Don Juan here when it comes to flirtin.

The Brotherhood of players have a common creed: one woman is never enough. These men find monogamy confinin and impractical. Players are supremely self centered, fixated on gettin more adulation. They are hooked on the thrill of knowin they're in control - even if it takes deception and manipulation to maintain that control.
They're aware of their attractiveness, charisma, romantic creativity and silky-smooth way with the ladies. Their chief aim isn't to exploit you and leave you for dead, it's to thoroughly seduce you and leave you wantin more.

How to tell if a guy is a player:

1. He wants you to keep your relationship with him on the low. He introduces you to others usin vague, ambiguous phrases like "This is my friend," and there are people in his social network to whom you are seldom, if ever, exposed, such as his friends from work, his family.

2.There are noticeable blocks of time when he is mysteriously inaccessible.

3. Bein with him can be characterized as "all fun, all the time." Your relationship lacks any depth. It's excitin, it's passionate, but ultimately it's superficial.

4.Sex, money, gifts or some extraordinary act of kindness on his part has repeatedly made you delay confrontin his inconsistencies or leavin the relationship.

5. You constansly set traps to catch him, "but you deny or ignore your findins."

God help any man wey dey look my boobies and rear I go pluck im eyes out!!

milkan05:
@ sista-jay

Trust me i had my payback on someone and till date i can't still describe the joy i derive everytime I see her frown whenever she sees my fone. it feels so sweet-revenge is truly a dish best served cold!!!!

Ok, you can take that smirk off your face!

@ milkan05

I know its easier said than done, right now he's hurt and all he can think of is gettin back at her by makin her feel the pain he's feelin, believe me it aint worth it.

Sorry ooo. . . . . . only time can heal your broken heart!

Move on as a real man would!

@ Poster. . . . . . valentine, valentine don't believe the hype. You can njoy the day on your own. Look on the bright side you'll be savin yourself spendin expenses!

Hmm. . . . . . . . what to do, what to do! If you really want her back, go talk to her.

007malaika:
guy why u na dey bullshit me like this i go find una one by one

Welcome to Nairaland! . . . . . . . wrong place to bring your problems!!

Revenge it aint worth it, walk away and don't look back!

Thanks God o, woman ting is also taxed, before una enter ram you don already pay the tax!! Poster. . . there is no way round it o, you go pay!

@ Poster. . . . . . . your friends are so right in sayin to you not to get married, why? because those your so called friends now have a ball and chain on their legs. They cant go out or do as much as they would like.

@ Poster . . . . . aint nothin wrong with ya, just that your hubby is away a lot and you want to fill the void. The other guy aint the solution you need, perish the thought right NOW!

@ Poster. . . . . . you be playa, dats why you wan go hide!

I aint bannin those immatured  minds havin fun here, heck they make my day. Remember freedom of speech o, whether its appropriate or not, let them have their say!

Poster

The guy aint cheap, he is bein careful with his money. Stick around long enough he might take you to Primark, a step up from pound shop!

Just be your true self, no long ting!

michelin89:
Sorry ooooo!

@ Poster, . . . you can't get inside her head she is mentally strong.

Nairaland children, you can make your point without bein mean!! Make una listen to Sista-jay ooo!!

Emeka Solo, I see you don't want to stay solo for too long! Good luck kiddo!!

@ Poster. . . . . you are an ugly nookie junkie