Was into a relationship, and was seriously in love wif her, But i found out she was havin an affair wif someone i knew, I confronted her but she denied and told me "the guy" was only makin passes.
Some how, i got hold of this person's (the Guy) phone and saw a whole lot of love txt messages my girl sent him, It's really painfull and i'm thinkin of how to get back at her,
(she has no idea i allready know the truth.)

Move on as a real man would!

sista-jay:

Move on as a real man would!

So easy for you to say.
But when the guy cheats you ladies call for his head? nAAAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! GUY DO YA OWN BACK JO!!!

Guy live with it happens, it's not a new thing!!

@ milkan05

I know its easier said than done, right now he's hurt and all he can think of is gettin back at her by makin her feel the pain he's feelin, believe me it aint worth it.

@ sista-jay

Trust me i had my payback on someone and till date i can't still describe the joy i derive everytime I see her frown whenever she sees my fone. it feels so sweet-revenge is truly a dish best served cold!!!!

What wuld be ur gain if u revenged?Just be a man by showing a sign of maturity and walk away.

You have already been given the best advice by sister-jay.Move on,its never worth it trying to get revenge. I have been in a similar positin before and till date I feel bigger any time I run into my ex

The best way to get revenge is to do nothing at all. If you try to get revenge it will only show her
how much she meant to you. If you act like her ditching you had no effect on you, that will be worse for her.
Act like it was no big deal that she ditched you. It will be like she really did not matter to you. As hard as that is to do,
fo it. Trust me, there is nothing worse than NOT getting a reaction out of someone. It will drive her nuts if she thinks she
did not matter to you. That will be better (for you) than any revenge you can do. Anything else will make you look like the bad guy. If you do nothing, she looks like the loser for ditching you.

rubbish

POUR ACID inside her t.o.to and watch the pleasure all over her face


That wat i would do~
but i pray never to get heartbroken~

unban190:

rubbish

POUR ACID inside her t.o.to and watch the pleasure all over her face


That wat i would do~
but i pray never to get heartbroken~

Go take a revolver and aim a good shot at her temple(mean head). But don't kill her sha o! Just shoot her on the head-gbam!!!

nikkykay:

What wuld be your gain if u revenged?Just be a man by showing a sign of maturity and walk away.

Good point, I like this

milkan05:

@ sista-jay

Trust me i had my payback on someone and till date i can't still describe the joy i derive everytime I see her frown whenever she sees my fone. it feels so sweet-revenge is truly a dish best served cold!!!!

Ok, you can take that smirk off your face!

Have you noticed that all the people telling you to JUST WALK AWAY are the ladies(same species with your cheating girlfriend)

They will tell you that becuz they're women, and won't want to be the aim of a man on a revenge mission.

Dude, if revenge will make you happier and get over this faster, revenge. If she has a best friend, find her bestfriend(s) or her sister and get your romance on with them.


BUT!!!, ask yourself this, would it really make you happy?, will it heal the hurt, Is the stress worth it?
If your answer to all the questions above is ' YES '; then go ahead with the revenge mission, else just dump her and find someone else.



Alternatively, since she doesn't know you know about her cheating ways; just kill any love you have for her and make her miss available till you meet another girl you feel is better, then tell her it's over.

My guy,i know it is painful 2 be cheated by d one u have dedicated luv 2 nd care but she threw dem all 2 ur face.My advice 4 u is 4 u 2 lay low nd be vigiliant cos one bad apple does not mean all apples are bad,so just take heart cos u are not meant 2 be together.Cheer up cos she isn't worth d stress u are going through.

walk away man. its not even worth it.

did u guys notice its the ladies tat are asking him to walk away? Its a painful experience to be faithful and commited to someone only to find out tat she is cheating on u. You could plan ur revenge carefully and with precision and move on to strike, but the question remains is she really worth it? Consider urself lucky tat God showed u the kind of person she was cos imagine marrying her and finding out she is cheating with ur friend? You would easily become a muderer, Move on dear brother, d daughter of jezebel aint waorth d sweat,

all d best

Be a bigger man and move on.

T!t-for-tat is pretty juvenile, and not what a real man would do.

[size=13pt]revenge wouldn't change anything not the fact that she is cheating on you so just tell her you know wat she's been up to and you guys can sort yourselves out, if you want to leave her cool, and if you still want to stay your decision[/size]

Like someone above said, look for her closest friend (or her sister, if possible) and have se. . xx with her!!! If that aint possible, look for a known ho in the hood u know got herpes, hit it raw then head to your ex's crib . . . . .

guy sleep wit her sister or bffs,
it works

[quote author=LaPonty1 don't move on just be there for the sex benefits nor call am girlfriend again she belong to the street don't personalize Street property that not good bro eat and pass on

LaPonty1:
Was into a relationship, and was seriously in love wif her, But i found out she was havin an affair wif someone i knew, I confronted her but she denied and told me "the guy" was only makin passes.
Some how, i got hold of this person's (the Guy) phone and saw a whole lot of love txt messages my girl sent him, It's really painfull and i'm thinkin of how to get back at her,
(she has no idea i allready know the truth.)

Fvck her best friend that's what I did. A lot of women are wired wrong and the worst is those who don't know but believe they're on the right track. That was how one has been trying to manipulate me with her family into marriage as I no fall put she tag me toxic and insulting
A lady who started to raise her voice at a me and always spoils for a fight even to the glaring view of others in public at the because u now carried my child u think u now have the power u never had over me 😁. I just saw her post like a decent human being in a thread just now. U manipulated ur way into having a child e no do u yet u are using same child to manipulate me into doing what I don't want to do. She knew I would not fall for any of her tricks even up to using a child as a trap failed because the little feeling I was developing died when I found out who she truly was. A big liar and a cheap cheat. Even when I ended it all she no still go. Even when I made it obvious I'm not interested anymore she would always look for means to come back in and come to Nairaland and form superwoman but reality is staring u in the face. The worst u and ur people can do is lie to my child and make it impossible for us to be together but life goes on. Na me when loose guard do rawlings sef. If not wetin be my business with girl like u. Keep posting ur pains at every opportunity u have. Real life will hit u soon. I dey look una

LaPonty1:
Was into a relationship, and was seriously in love wif her, But i found out she was havin an affair wif someone i knew, I confronted her but she denied and told me "the guy" was only makin passes.
Some how, i got hold of this person's (the Guy) phone and saw a whole lot of love txt messages my girl sent him, It's really painfull and i'm thinkin of how to get back at her,
(she has no idea i allready know the truth.)

Please don't break up with her. Propose to her, plan wedding with her, then on the day of the wedding, don't show up, send a message to her phone letting her know you knew she cheated on you. If she doesn't commit suicide, it will affect her mental health for a very long time!!!

Walk away

Let her go... and always forgive yourself for having anything to do with a worthless gal like her.

I'm sure he was someone close to you, but bro leave the girl, you can't hurt a cheater

milkan05:


So easy for you to say.
But when the guy cheats you ladies call for his head? nAAAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!! GUY DO YA OWN BACK JO!!!

Stop quoting Nigerian girls on nairaland they're senseless

Fork her sister


Bonus point : Make her sister fall in love with you


She won't cope with this one