davidylan:

one word - disrespect.

that is so wide open, disrespect is only in the eye of the beholder, what you call disrespect I might not.

(1) Is there anyone on NL list you would have intimacy with?
NO

(2) Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
All Three

(3) Have you ever had to pull over on the side of the road to puke?
Yes

(4) Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
No

(5) Shower or bath while having sex?
Shower,

(6)Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
aggressive

(7) Do you love someone on NL?
NO

( Love or Money?
Money

(9) Credit cards or cash?
Cash

(10) Have you ever wanted a best friend?
YES!!

(11) Camping or a 5 star hotel?
Camping

(12) Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
umm i dont think any of the places are that weird

(13) Would you shave your entire body (including your head)?
NONONONONONONONO

(14) Have you ever been to a strip club?
Yes

(15) Ever been to a bar?
Yes

(16) Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club?
No

(17) Ever been so drunk someone else had to carry you?
No

(18) Had sex in a movie theater?
Yes

(19) Had sex in a bathroom?
Yes

(20) Have you ever had sex at work?
Yes

(21) Ever been to an adult store?
Yes

(22) Bought something from an adult store?
Yes

(23) Have you been caught having sex?
Hell Yes

(24) Does anyone have naughty pics of you?
Yes

(25) Ever had sex with someone and called them by the wrong name?
NO

(26)Who do you think has the guts to re-post this?
I have no idea

American25:

Marriage is a personal decision one has to make. Jehovah Witnesses are NOT allowed to attend another church. It is an offense if caught. Marriage is for life. The only solution for remarriage is that of adultery or death of a spouse. Here is some scriptural facts as follows:

1Cor. 7: 39--Marry only in the Lord

This means that a baptized servant of Jehovah should marry a fellow worshiper. They study God's Word and do family study together. This strengthens the marriage and makes it easy to manage family problems. There is no compatibility if a Witness marries an unbeliever, be they church goers, Muslims, and idol worshipers. Because the two have antipodal or opposing beliefs and ways of life.

Gal. 6:4,5--Each one will carry his own load

We should not compare ourselves with the other person. Each one's circumstances differs. We should think before making decisions. Because our decisions can have beneficial or adverse results. And they may be irreversible. Whatever decision we make, we should be ready to live with it whether for good or bad.

Gal. 6:7--We reap what we sow

Some Witnesses have disobeyed Jehovah's laws and are reaping the sad results. With regard to marriage, I know Witnesses who married outside the organization for different reasons but who experienced things shocking to relate in their marriage. It means that there is "punishment" for anyone who disobeys Jehovah's laws.




PS. Any Nigerians or Americans who are Jehovah Witnesses in this forum that would like to share testimony?

Not a Jehovah Witness but was rased as one. . . . . you are correct.

SA Goddess:

I am beginning to think marriage is PRISON!

It really is not. . . it is a wonderful experience if done with the proper mate for you.

Just be sure to vet him/her properly, make sure their values, goals and morals line up with yours and discuss, discuss, discuss everything you can think of.  If you marry a reasonable and evolved man your life will be full of rewards and there wont be anything that the two of you cant work out.

Kelvinj:

Ok imagine your off work and your single guy friends whats u guys 2 go out and stay late nite?

And if your wife and kids have something planned for the evening. . . why cant he go hang out with his friends and still return home at a resonable time. Just because you are married does not mean you cant hang with your friends it just has to be done in moderation.

Why not?

jay bee:

^^
How u doing sistawoman
Welcome back

great babe. . . .enjoying my day off. waiting for the repariman

adagz 01:

oh der a club is a club and the name can never change.BTW who says they'av stoped smoking in a club.

The police, the government, the law. . . . .

It is against the law to smoke in any public buildings, be that bar, club or resturant.

queeneve:

I BE DAMN,

THIS MOFO SAID I AINT BEING SINCERE!! WTF!!


Anyway, sistawoman, it goes to show you who OLD AND who is young, AS I SAID MANY TIMES THERE ARE MANY TYPE OF CLUBS AND NOT ALL CLUBS ARE ALIKE, I dont go to clubs that THEY DESCRIBED and they are adamant that people who go to clubs cheats!! That just like me saying a man with a itch in his nuts gon despoil someone, that silly!

LOL

queeneve:

Any women in NEW YORK CITY,

There is a GIRL NIGHT OUT social at CLUB LUSH, dress code is enforced and photo opt available. I hope to see your girls who are interested there! The colors are pink and diamond! No alcohol beverage or smoking allowed. The cover fee is $20. Let get JAZZY!

What nights, NYC is a short 3hr drive. Let the kids stay overnight at my parents house and I can party in the city, . . . . .like around the first of the year

Wow I leave y'all alone for a little while and all these wild things are flying around.

Jenny,

When was the last time you went to a club (not a hole in the wall); they stopped smoking in clubs about 10 years ago and in bar/clubs 3 years ago?

Clubs now adays are more like lounges than clubs; you have your main dance floor or up to 4 levels of dance floors; then you have lounge areas in the clubs with couches and booths to sit and enjoy the scene until you feel like dancing.

There are dress codes; so when men have to wear dress pants and dress shoes they tend to act differently.

Additionally it is not possible to be jobless and at a club. At least not any real club. $20.00 admission and $10-$15 per drink. . . not for the jobless at all.

Not everything is going to be for everyone, so there are some that will never go to a club to dance, and there are others that have no problem with it. It depends on each person and should be decided in each marriage what is appreciate.


I don't buy the argument that clubbing will lead you to cheat on your spouse. My spouse and I both have very public jobs where we face the public everyday all day. . . I am hit on more at work then in the club, if a spouse is going to cheat they will cheat, be that in a club, at work or walking down the street. Tell me how many Nigerian men even take their children with them to the mistress house while they are pretending to the wife to be spending time with their children.

I can chew gum and walk at the same time. Which simply means I can be a great mother and wife and still not loose sistawoman in the process. Because I said I do I did not throw sistawoman away. It isa a careful blend of my family needs and my own.

Condom:

Why would you be pissed? I thought you said it's all about TRUST.

Four Times a week is too much.

Tosinville:

Madam, let me ask you one question pls, how would u feel you're working all nights and your husband is busy going to clubs 4times every week?

I would be totally pissed. . . esp since I have only been 4 x's this year.

^^^^^^Maybe the problem is understanding the difference in Nigerian clubs vs American clubs

No man wants to pay his $20.00 to get in a club and be bounced right out by one of the bouncers. If you disrespect a female in a club here you get tossed on your ass to the outside. No one touches you w/o an invite.

So here is the piece that you are missing to complete the picture.

My husband works at night until around 3 or 4 am and on the weekends till dawn. That being said on the nights (very rare indeed. . only 4X's this year) that I want to go dancing and he is working I will go with one of my other married g/f. This club that we go to is full of Nigerian men and most know my husband.

I dance with several men but it is not how I dance with my husband. Because you dance in a club does not mean your body has to be touching the other person. This is America and the woman sets the tone for the dancing. A man has never touched me or let alone smack me on my ass. My wedding ring is always on my finger and with a simple jester i point to it and all is understood.

When I go clubbing the children are usually visiting family or friends and the house is empty. . . . my hubby will join me after the club at home for lots of uninterrupted play time and fun for both of us. He loves that all the reports back from his brothas are positive and that I always am very respectful.

But I could understand if my man knew that I was loose and not a woman who is of high morals and able to say no when a man is acting inappropriately.

So maybe it is only in Nigeria where women cant speak up and say stop it, but here we have rights and people listen.

So i should suddenly hate dancing when I become married?

What happened to one of the foundtion blocks of marriage called trust?

Where on the marriage licence does it say that I must stop being me and be someone else?

Tosinville:

^^^Still hell of a trash,

i know he's evolving now somewhere till u find him kissing or bleeping your close friend.

aint nothing I can do to stop him from doing that. . . . .

But I TRUST that he wont, and know that if he does all will be brought to light. . . .

Here in America I can divorce him and take half of everything, including his properties in London, Italy and Nigeria.

170:

are u two now saying u are whores?

Yep certified and everything. . . . I have a certificate that I hang around my neck so that everyone knows.

certified LovePeddler is what I am.

Is there something wrong with that?

gestapo:

I stopped counting and keeping tabs after the 78th dude

and 4 me i stopped after #465

Tosinville:

^^^whats that suppose to mean?

It means that dinosaurs are extent and so are your archaic ideas. . . . . evolve my brotha evolve

Tosinville:

Married women, if your man allow you to go to club alone or with your friends then your husband is irresponsible who doesn't love u no more and he's about to replace you asap cos your punanie as already fade away from his eyes.

no it is more like my husband has evolved and is not still in a cave walking around chewing on a dinosaur bone.

Very good man indeed!!!!!!

Keep up the good work. . . . BTW do your friends have live in girlfriends? I am thinking not. . . . If not why are you listening to them?

I see no problem in a married woman/man going to the club alone or with thier spouse.

I go clubbing when I feel like it with just the girls and he does the same. We have something that is very important in every marriage. . . . TRUST

I trust that he wont do anything he would not do in front of me and he trusts me the same way.

I cant spend my life, energy and brain power on the "what ifs".

What is done in the dark will come to light.

anyone other than a child and I keep walking while calling 911

How do I support myself with no job?

I would not marry it because it might end up badly for you.

Once you come here you will have to get a job,
when you start working you will start meeting American Girls,
They will introduce you to American parting,
you will want to party because of your age,
he will not be able to party because of his age
there will be lots of fighting in your home
This will end badly.

if she is double dating then she is doing the correct thing by not sleeping with esp. since she is sleeping with the other fella. . . . . . .Just keep getting her hot as a favor to your fellow brotha.