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Family › Re: Withholding Intimacy In Marriage Is Abuse by SixSeven:
I totally agree with the headline and it goes both ways, man and woman. Although this post reeks of AI slop, you are not ready for marriage if you withhold sex from your spouse 'just because'. This is why the people of the old age used to settle matters in the bedroom. Even if they are fighting, it's in the bedroom the issue will be resolved. But today, na plenty protestants de

Romance › Re: Would You Marry This Girl? (photo) by SixSeven: 6:57pm On Dec 21, 2025
kevwemike:
why are U seeking for advice Wen both of U are into the same act and business. Guy marry her U both energy are the same.
Don't mind the lad. Just as men retire from destroying the vaginal orifice of women, girls also retire from oloshoism. Everyone grows up.
Romance › Re: Would You Marry This Girl? (photo) by SixSeven: 6:56pm On Dec 21, 2025
Why Seun thought changing p.i.m.p to love-vendor makes sense is what I don't understand this Sunday undecided
Celebrities › Re: Portable Spotted F!ght!ng At Odumodublvck’s Concert In Abuja by SixSeven: 1:51pm On Dec 21, 2025
If you want to be in boxing or wrestling, enter ring. People should recognize you for your arts and records, not 🥊

This boy has found out that in the low quality age of social media posts and trends, he can always fight his way to relevance by doing something silly. He's the Peller of Tiktok and I won't be surprised if that his àbúrò inspired him this week.
Romance › Re: Man Retracts Statement He Made About A Bride-To-Be by SixSeven: 1:48pm On Dec 21, 2025
nairalanda1:
IN other words, when a man makes false allegations against a woman, allegations he cannot prove, then he must be telling the truth.

Damm, thanks.

Ol'boy, better be careful. The idea you have that all young women sleep around is begining to influence your thinking.

We all complain when men are falsely accused, so why should we not complain when it's women too?
Thank you for this comment. Very wise.
Romance › Re: Man Retracts Statement He Made About A Bride-To-Be by SixSeven: 1:39pm On Dec 21, 2025
Men never used to be this gossipy except within their clique. Social media has made our men become parrots. Cho Cho Cho everywhere, no filter. No decency. No bro code. undecided
Family › Re: What Females Need To Succeed by SixSeven: 9:31pm On Dec 20, 2025
sonnie10:
No one size fits all. Everyone needs to go with the legitimate strategy that favors them. What works for one might not be suitable for another. Just do what is best for you and your situation.
Take for instance, Regina Daniel found success through marriage.
Ngozie Iwuala is successful through education and professional career.
Madam Alakija through business
Doziena through political appointment
Emily of Emzor pharm through entrepreneurship

There is no one way to success. The key is to do something, just anything. Get involved !
Just quoting this post this day in the year of the lord because of Regina Daniels wink
Politics › Re: Only A Fool On A Suicidal Path Will challenge Tinubu In 2027 - VP Shettima by SixSeven: 2:36pm On Dec 20, 2025
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Politics › Re: 2026 Budget: Tinubu Presents Historic ₦58 Trillion To National Assembly by SixSeven: 2:17pm On Dec 20, 2025
Love800:
Thanks so much for dis explanation. You made it sound well.

But then what's the difference between the total expenditure of 58.18 trillion and capital expenditure of 26.08 trillion?
The total expenditure of 58.18 trillion is RECURRENT + CAPITAL (26.08T). There is a part that is missing which is why you asked this question. That part is the debt servicing but normally total expenditure is capital + recurrent.

The difference between total expenditure (₦58.18tn) and capital expenditure (₦26.08tn) is the portion of spending that goes to recurrent expenses and debt servicing, not new projects.



Total Expenditure: ₦58.18 trillion
This is made up of three main components:
1. Capital Expenditure= ₦26.08tn
Long-term investments and projects
Examples: roads (Eg Lagos - Calabar costal road), rail, power projects, schools, hospitals, dams, digital infrastructure.

2. Recurrent Non-Debt Expenditure= ₦15.25tn
Day-to-day running costs of government as I told you earlier.
Examples: salaries, pensions, overheads, maintenance, subsidies, operations of MDAs



The difference you’re asking about is ₦32.10 trillion that is spent on:
A. Debt servicing (₦15.52tn)
B. Recurrent non-debt spending (₦15.25tn)

In layman terms, government is spending a total of ₦58tr. One part will be use for CAPITAL EXPENDITURES, that is capital projects. The other part will be used for RECURRENT EXPENDITURES. Then they will service the debts with the remaining making it DEBT SERVICING.

TOTAL EXPENDITURES = CAPITAL + RECURRENT + DEBT SERVICING
58 = 26.08 + 15.25 + 15.52

Hope this helps. Ask me any questions wink
Celebrities › Re: Portable Caught Fighting At Odumodublvck’s Concert Last Night (Photos/Video) by SixSeven: 5:05am On Dec 20, 2025
Bahamas95:
He does these things intentionally to make headlines.

It's his business strategy.
Exactly what I wanted to type. He's the Peller of Tiktok
Sports › Re: Who Will Stand Up For Bukayo Saka To Sit??? by SixSeven: 5:00am On Dec 20, 2025
If Ian Wright, could remove his cap as an old guy when he saw his teacher in this video, you should know that it is a bad omen if they start standing up for you at this age and time.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omPdemwaNzQ

Education › Re: Many Nigerian Fathers Can Win Custody…if They Knew THIS Law!! by SixSeven: 4:57am On Dec 20, 2025
Major Impact of British Law

Before colonial rule, child custody in Igbo, Hausa, and Yoruba societies was governed by customary norms:

1. Patriarchal / Lineage-based: Fathers or male relatives usually had authority.

2. Mother’s role: Caring for infants or very young children, but decision-making remained with male kin.

3. Islamic influence (Hausa): Mothers often cared for young children, but custody shifted to fathers/guardians as children aged.

British colonial law (introduced in the 19th–20th centuries) systematically altered custody principles by:

A. Introducing statutory law and formal courts: Disputes were no longer handled solely by community elders or family heads.

B. Emphasizing the “best interests of the child”: Courts were instructed to prioritize the child’s welfare rather than just paternal authority or lineage rights.

C. Hybrid system: Courts often considered customary law alongside English law, but English principles increasingly dominated formal judicial decisions.

D. Gender and legal standing: Women gained more formal recognition in custody disputes than under strict pre-colonial patriarchal norms.

Post-British law: Courts had the authority to award custody based on what was best for the child, even if it meant the child stayed with the mother or another caregiver outside the father’s lineage.
Education › Re: Many Nigerian Fathers Can Win Custody…if They Knew THIS Law!! by SixSeven: 4:51am On Dec 20, 2025
In Hausa communities (which were heavily influenced by Islamic norms even before colonial rule), custody decisions tended to follow Islamic principles. Under Islamic tradition, young children are typically with the mother unless she is unable to care for them; the father (or male guardian) regains custody as children grow older, boys often after age ~7 and girls after puberty.

The Igbo are traditionally patrilineal: children are seen as part of the father’s lineage, not the mother’s. Decisions about children, including custody, were tied to the father’s authority and lineage obligations.

Yoruba society also traditionally emphasized patrilineal descent, so fathers and male kin were expected to assume responsibility for children after a marital divorce. However, mothers usually looked after very young children in practice especially infants and toddlers because of child‑rearing roles.
Extended family members (grandparents, uncles/aunts) played active roles in raising and overseeing children under broad customary norms.

Much like Igbo practice, the community and lineage were crucial in child‑rearing, with custody oriented around family reputation, support networks, and stability rather than formal gender equality
Education › Re: Many Nigerian Fathers Can Win Custody…if They Knew THIS Law!! by SixSeven:
Let me tell you. Before the British came, we already knew where custody belonged. Igbo land, Hausa Land or Yoruba land, they all had customs and practices when a man and woman part ways. But see wetin white man Don bring come to cause confusion... The reason why we did not need to go to court were
1. All children belong to us
2. The village raises a child

In Yoruba land, did you know that some times to hide the shame that one woman was barren, they gave her a child or called her Mama Bola? grin
A child will be taken care of. The family will take care of that child. There is nothing like custody.

Once English legal systems were introduced (eventually leading to laws such as Nigeria’s Matrimonial Causes Act 1970), principles like the best interests of the child began to reshape custody decisions, replacing purely traditional approaches.

It takes a village to raise a child, not the state.

Romance › Re: Sex Facts That Will Break Your Expectations by SixSeven: 4:30am On Dec 20, 2025
15. 👵 Women over 50 - More likely to experience sexual inactivity.

Kobojunkie believes that men's own is hidden. cheesy grin grin
Romance › Re: Sex Facts That Will Break Your Expectations by SixSeven: 4:23am On Dec 20, 2025
6. ❤️ Lesbian orgasm rate: 86% vs. 65% for heterosexual women.

I am happy to read that women still can't satisfy themselves. Men weren't the problem after all wink cheesy

Romance › Re: Sex Facts That Will Break Your Expectations by SixSeven: 4:17am On Dec 20, 2025
14. 📉 Decline in sexual activity in the U.S.: From 51.8% (2000) to 37.4% (2018) reporting weekly sex

Coincidence much that smartphones and social media killed physical relations?

Romance › Re: Sex Facts That Will Break Your Expectations by SixSeven: 4:14am On Dec 20, 2025
28. 🧠 Percentage of people who have sexual fantasies: 95%.

The 5%👇

Politics › Re: 2026 Budget: Tinubu Presents Historic ₦58 Trillion To National Assembly by SixSeven: 3:57am On Dec 20, 2025
bibiking7:



I am not an accountant or financial analyst but I would appreciate it if one of the folks commenting to explain recurrent non debt spending. Then I will take it from there. smiley


Salaries and everyday spending by the government to keep the country running. Administration costs and things like that. It is the opposite of the capital spending, that one is for huge spendings. That's why it is not called recurrent. Recurrent is from the word recur.

Recurrent is everyday spending, capital is for projects.
Nairaland General › Re: I Finally Made My First Million ( Picture) by SixSeven: 2:18am On Dec 20, 2025
You are a millionaire, congratulations. Don't spend more than 115 naira please.
Politics › Re: Nigerians See Lawmakers As Sell-Outs, Akpabio Laments At Budget Presentation by SixSeven: 10:10pm On Dec 19, 2025
SP Akpabio. This is the Number 1 Rule.

Romance › Re: A Hard Reality About Casual Sex And Sexual Health by SixSeven: 6:31pm On Dec 19, 2025
udder:
Even masturbation is not safe.

Once got thick semen stuck at the base of my urethra. I was unaware for 2 days until I started having difficulty urinating.
Instead of masturbating again, I started forcing it out gradually with several urinations not knowing I was irritating my urethra.

The burning pain started the following day. If I was sexually active, I would have concluded I had an infection - the only difference was there was no discharge.

The irritation disappeared after a week without treatment.

Moral of the story is - No enjoyment without risk. Life is short and something must kill a man. STDs are overrated and usually treatable.
How old were you when this happened? How long had you been masturbating before this?
Politics › Re: Obaseki: God Will Punish Politicians Who Use Power For Personal Gain by SixSeven: 6:28pm On Dec 19, 2025
This reminds me of when Amaechi said they should be stoned. Politicians in Nigeria are righteous before and after they leave power but become something else once they get there.

Be reminded that when Amaechi said his own, he was not yet Minister with Buhari. So he had second chance to test the mic.

"We Steal Because You Never Stoned Us for It" -Rivers Gov, Rotimi Amaechi

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ug0ifwslG84
Politics › Re: Rome Wasn’t Destroyed By Outside Invaders -Shettima Warns Tinubu, APC Chieftains by SixSeven: 5:09pm On Dec 19, 2025
Those porting to APC are strange bed fellows. Let's wait. Let APC keep setting the trap like Festus Keyamo said. It happened with PDP but people don't learn. I will be more worried having all of them come to my party but let's wait, 2026 will show us the way.

What's interesting is that Tinubu himself did not budge when PDP was taking the South West by storm in 2003.

I value courage and strength of character over submission; even resistance is more honorable than passive compliance.

Nairaland General › Re: 50 Facts That Sound Fake But Are 100% True by SixSeven: 5:04pm On Dec 19, 2025
QuinQ:
Wrong! Of course you can. Some people who snore loudly keep waking themselves with their own noise
shocked shocked
Politics › Re: El Rufai Children Become Atheists & LGBTQ Activists by SixSeven: 4:58pm On Dec 19, 2025
Guestmale:
That is to tell you money is not the only necessary thing to raise a child, especially a Godly one. But this is the mistake many rich parents are making nowadays.
Children don't even understand the value of money until they start working and earning money on their own.

Nairaland General › Re: 50 Facts That Sound Fake But Are 100% True by SixSeven: 4:00pm On Dec 19, 2025
Sheuns:
Dream time is much slower than normal time. A 20 minutes long dream may just be 40 seconds in real time.
Okay let me add to this fun fact

You can't hear yourself snore when you sleep cheesy
Family › Re: Man Criticizes His Late Boss's Wife For Remarrying After Six Months by SixSeven: 3:59pm On Dec 19, 2025
McBishop2020:
Burial is the real confirmation of death. I could remember vividly how elders would refer to a corpse in the mortuary as "someone still in the hospital". I asked my uncle why and he told me that "a person remains alive until buried". This is the more reason why one's burial rite is conducted after fifty years of disappearance.
Wise words but what I meant is that burial is a ritual, death is an event. Except he's Muslim, it's possible the man died a year ago and got buried 6 months ago smiley
Politics › Re: Cabal Forged Newspaper Editions For Buhari To Distort Real Events -Omole (video) by SixSeven: 4:52am On Dec 19, 2025
Kukutente23:
Bubu don buy market for this man hand o
Bŕos you no go let Old Roger rest?

Romance › Re: Don't Listen To Single Mothers Excuse by SixSeven: 4:48am On Dec 19, 2025
Why don't you leave her alone? If you don't do single mothers, go for single ladies and let the men who cant take them do that? Men don't complain like this. They set standards and hold to it.
Family › Re: Man Criticizes His Late Boss's Wife For Remarrying After Six Months by SixSeven: 4:47am On Dec 19, 2025
Looks like a kid wrote this. Even with that, being buried 6 months ago does not mean he died 6 months ago.
Romance › Re: I Now Worry About My Two Sisters Who Will Hit 29 & 30 Next Year by SixSeven: 1:59am On Dec 19, 2025
NiRfreak:
Of course, you might have to meet me first shocked, while after passing the first vetting, you might be cleared to speak with one.
I know this is a double edged sword. Is this why they have not been married? Are you the one vetting the men who are interested in them?

Are you also married? You know how we do things here. They could be waiting for you to go ahead first since you are the senior.

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