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Nyascobar1414:
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Pls elucidate on that statement.. a man women know is trying to avoid them..

Like I wanna know,how that man is dangerous

While women h8 men that make advances at them, they don't like men who are also too tough and don't accept their advances.

Women reject the man who approaches too readily, yet they are equally displeased with the man who remains too self-contained to acknowledge their own advances.

In this paradox, a man should be careful after mrejecting a woman's advance because her rejection can lead to your ejection. She will frame you up without you knowing it's because of your tough stance. That one is more dangerous because you never see it coming but it's her payback for not being able to control you.

From time immemorial, women have always been used to get the strongest men. As a man, you should have principles. It will save you from trouble.

crixlight2:
So because you dislike Tinubu now , if dey give you am appointment into a position that your good heart will surely elevate many people from problems, you will rather turn the job down and allow bad person to take up the job and destroy more lives ?. Sometimes we don't know the difference between serving your country or serving a politician. If you are appointed as PA to Tinubu then you are serving him but if you are appointed as a minister you are simply serving your country because your handwork we affect so many lives. Reno Omokri nomination is not serving tinubu but working for his country. So please if you are giving a position as a good man please take it and help people in that environment because if you say you won't take it because you hate tinibu and a terrible person pick up that post you don't have right to criticize that person because you have the opportunity to make a different

Some things are not as clear as the surface. And this is not about Tinubu or whoever the President is. It happens every time around the world.

Mr Olaleye, Big Brother is watching you. Welcome to UK, the capital of CCTVs, only close to China.

Sorry you had to learn the hard way. You know what is more dangerous? A man women know is trying to avoid them. We are not the only hunters, women too de hunt. Once they know you have an open door policy, they will try to shut that door. It annoys some women to know they don't have bottom power over you. Women are funny creatures. Deal with them like the devil and the long spoon.

honour8:
that any position you are given, do good by that position, rather than not accepting it, because you think you are too good or too righteous.

Na so Tai Solarin and Wole Soyinka collect appointment from IBB. We need to know what we stand for and everyone has their roles to play. It's a test on character, similar to what's happening to Reno now.

“Do not endorse what you believe is wrong.”

If you have consistently criticized someone’s values or actions, accepting a role under that person can be a tacit endorsement of what you believe to be harmful.

Integrity means your actions must align with your stated beliefs.

If the position requires supporting policies you find unethical, taking it violates personal moral coherence. Saying no protects your integrity from being weaponized by someone else’s agenda.

Your experience is not proof that marriage is bad or having a second wife is bad or marrying a single mom is bad.

Why do good marriages make no news? Because pilot wey de land plane safely no de enter news. Na when plane crash we go know cabin crew.

What's the word of the year? Rage bait

A terrorist renamed by APC as bandit will probably have an IED which will take them both or a bullet proof. The audacity of the terrorist to stand in front of the APC politiciansl says a lot.

Kelklein:
Even the pipeline Security that is their main Constituency and the reason fir their establishment had since been taken over by private outfits and military, as the threats worsened.

NSCDC was established during the civil war in 1967.

Pious101:
u better not make d guy regret his actions. Trust is difficult to come by this days especially without someone u have not seen before

I am also watching. I will follow this thread because what that guy has done is a test. A big test.

Atiku led the way for PDP to be decimated in 2014-15 because he didn't get the party's ticket. He was useful to Tinubu and APC the same way Wike was useful to them in 2023. Those who destroy from inside are stronger than those who try to destroy from outside.

Someone who works for money understands that you can't waste money. Dangote is looking at these politicians trying to compete with billionaires when their primary job is to serve the people. They are nothing but thieves.

That's why when you go on social media and see those who spend money and show off most times, they don't have. It doesn't mean that the one they are showing off isn't theirs (they stole it) but if e didn't de e didn't de. They keep on splashing money because that is the way to validate their identity, they are poor inside. That's why they need show off.

Money not worked for can never be spent well. It's not a curse

Renews hope of Ebinpawa politics

Northern Nigeria stands today as a wounded giant, a region caught between the memory of what the Sardauna dreamed and the stark reality created by those who inherited his mantle but not his moral weight. The promise of a people rising through education, productive labour and communal dignity has been slowly suffocated by a ruling class more devoted to its own comfort than to the welfare of the millions in its charge. Power has been held tightly, yet its dividends seldom reach the ground. Poverty spreads like a harmattan fire, children drift out of school, and entire communities live at the mercy of bandits who move with the audacity of men who know the state has abandoned its duty. They call them unknown gunmen, like they are unknown soldiers.

In place of principled leadership, religion is deployed as a curtain behind which incompetence and greed hide. Criticism is dismissed as sacrilege, and the faithful are urged to be patient even as their world collapses around them. And when voices beyond our borders, including Trump’s recent warning, point to the gathering storm, the official response is silence, an indictment in itself.

This is not the North the Sardauna laboured for. It is a fragile creation of neglect, denial and the smallness of those who should have stood tall. The North should tell itself the truth and stop blaming others.
This is Northern Nigeria one year before independence. Ask, what happened



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KjG-HxX6Dw4

Only truth, courage and accountable leadership can begin the work of restoration. Conscience is an open wound. Only truth can heal it.

Farooq, the Presidency is a political strategist but failed Governor in chief. He can politick but can't govern. He places politics and selfish ambition above state. Political calculations and compensation is more important. Didn't Jesutega guy call him out on this? TheP President further proved him right appointing Reno as ambassador? It's all politics. His supporters always think you don't like him, fgs if he does well, wouldn't all Nigerians enjoy it? Won't it be to his own benefit for re-election?

I am not surprised, the man who changed our common anthem that united us for years and prefers his own tune of standing on his mandate above national cohesion should tell you all you need to know about his mindset. The song itself signifies to you that he's interested in elections than governance.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ugmxy2CnUd0

I asked AI to summarize what 50 Cent said about entitlement. My brother, NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.

Analysis of the friend's behavior

Disregard for agreement: Your friend's decision to spend the money on clothes shows a blatant lack of respect for the deal you made, your situation, and your future.

False assurance: Giving you repeated assurances and then cutting you off at the last minute is a manipulative tactic that adds to the betrayal you feel.

Prioritizing wants over needs: He chose a want (clothes) over your need (exam fees), despite knowing the high stakes for you. This highlights his selfish mindset and the self-serving nature of his entitlement.

History of taking advantage: The fact that he's still using your laptop reinforces a pattern of behavior where he accepts your help without feeling a need to fully reciprocate or respect your property.

Applying the 50 Cent mindset to your situation
Your situation is an example of the kind of betrayal that 50 Cent talks about when he says success breeds envy and entitlement. While your friend may not be envious of your money, he is envious of your stability and the fact that you were in a position to help. He then feels entitled to that stability without working for it.


Your path forward

Focus on your immediate problem: Your education is the priority. Redirect the emotional energy from his betrayal toward finding a solution to pay your fees by Monday.

Don't expect accountability: Your friend has already demonstrated his character. Do not waste more energy on seeking an apology or demanding he fix the situation.

Embrace self-reliance: This is a hard-earned lesson in self-reliance. Learn to put your trust in your own ability to solve problems, rather than relying on someone who has proven unreliable.

Re-evaluate the friendship: As the search results suggest, a good friend pays people back and honors their commitments. It's time to assess if this person's actions align with your definition of friendship.[/quote]

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OP, I agree with the last recommendation, reevaluate the friendship. Don't keep malice or be angry with him but go back to my last post and read the words on the pictures, believe people when they show you who they are and reevaluate the circle of people you keep around you. Collect your laptop from him because people often act surprised when you give them the same treatment they give to you.

Your peers and familiar faces often don't want to see you better than them. That's human nature. They prefer see finish. Believe people the first time they show you who they are. He not only spent the money, he spent it on something that is not urgent. Put a picture of his clothes against your success, that tells you all you need to know. He's telling you his welfare is more important than you and yours!

If you didn't have an agreement, I would have said you're entitled but let this teach you a lesson, love all but trust few. Watch what people do and not what they say. Don't be too angry with him, man is inherently selfish. Allow him but take your L and move on. He's entitled to spend his money the way he wishes, you're entitled to wise up and sort out your issues for YOUR OWN GOOD. The world doesn't love you.

Do you know what this picture means

You just reminded me of this guy in Family Matters.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6o5cUsIhIo

P1PrinceKT:
That's the fact their problem is moon sighting 🌙, you can now to decide to remove them from Nigeria if you like.

He who is educated is free. Islamic knowledge alone cannot solve their scientific problems. Interestingly, Islamic scholars are pioneers in the areas of science and research but you choose to ignore that for your convenience.
You are just here to argue. Have a nice day. I am not your problem.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IWNkuwpIJeQ


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHhlHFv4O_A

P1PrinceKT:
do you know better than Sokoto people? Why do you think Science and Aviation is there problem in life.? Must your problem be their problem. I want to you to know that Nothing compares you in real life with the Northerners apart from the name Nigerians.

Moonsighting

P1PrinceKT:
Paying imams little stipends has nothing to do with Sharia. Unless if your only fear is to hear anything Islamic.

Read the report again, then quote me with a strong counter point. Is the Imam a religious scholar or an academic scholar? Is he the one to teach Business, Science, Aviation, Security? Keep on thinking everything is an attack on religion and don't call out the hypocrisy. You call 500k stipend while Nigerian soldiers say they are paid 100k. Kontinuu

They use religion to hold the people, they don't want to educate them. Why is it only the poor they use the sharia for? What does it say about protection of lives and property, prosperity, economy, education and welfare Hypocrites

They don't make adverts like this anymore because it is 'serving men' and fuels the patriarchy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZYyinIXhlU

Hmmmmm2024:
Take heart...death to all terrorists

Amen

Our new COAS is a definition of gallant soldier. Very TALL

Be careful what you post online, it's not for you alone, even your kids. He was even thanking X and those ones helped him 🔎 into his business. I feel sorry for him because in the past when we did things that should not be heard, there was no SM to keep evidence. It's even worse when you play dangerous play online that can have repercussions and you call it cruise, Oya Na. Cruise control. Her words have come to haunt her and now the marriage has started on a special foundation. May we have the wisdom to not use our hands to put ourselves into trouble.

commoditiesnig:
“He’s right” about what? Lol you this children all over Social media eh! Stop making mockery of yourselves.

Everything to you is politics. I don’t do politics okay!

You don’t know how much it takes to run an Embassy, overheads and other local/foreign arrangement.. You think a President will just purposely not appoint Ambassadors to his and country own detriment? Lol

I was @ the Nigeria Embassy in Ankara, Turkey around 2yrs back to renew my passport, I marvelled at the personnel and processes at the Embassy. I could decipher the huge running cost required for such Embassy to operate.

To assign Ambassadors and put things together not a small feat o. Many countries have closed their embassies in other countries due to huge cost.

AGAIN NOT EVERYTHING SHOULD BE POLITICS!

Daddy, all of these are excuses. Did you listen to the analysis at all? Wasn't it the absence of diplomatic relations that made Trump score into an open net? Didn't diplomatic analysts recommend he appoints ambassadors? Are you telling me that foreign policy is not part of government policy? Or you don't know that is a form of defence for Nigeria, strategic defence especially? Or when he went traveling to France and other countries looking for investors, he didn't know that ambassadors were important to those missions?

Nigeria has lost its place to SA because since APC came in, they have not being strategic with foreign policy and here you are telling me about costs like you don't know those offices are part of our foreign investment, security and trade policy. If we had ambassadors, do you think Trump would have openly raised the issue online when we had no reps. The US already listed that we have no ambassadors and envoy and you are here telling me about costs. At what cost is he now appointing them? At the cost of foreign interference?

Please tell another tale. You are the one playing politics here. There is politics, there is governance. You can't keep on making excuses when it's time for governance. Smh

Hmmmmm2024:
What is your obsession with trump ? Death to all terrorists. You terrorists sympathizers are angry because trump said he is coming to end the terrorist activities of your brothers 😂😂😂

Your comprehension of the comments reveal your naivety about the issue.