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After two years in office.

APC is a very unserious party. It is now clear their main ambition was just to get into power, they had no plan. Buhari had contested many times, yet it took him 6 months + to appoint Ministers. He didn't talk to Nigerians for years.

Now, Tinubu that did not let us rest, challenged Buhari openly that he made him, he challenged Ogun Governor that eleyi CANNOT stop him, he is their master, he makes people, he built Lakeghost and so many things. He is a first class forensic accountant All of a sudden, the same man who had the balls to announce subsidy is gone on his first day did not have a list of ambassadors until Trump saw an open goal Propaganda is special

dollypi:
In other words, the man is an income stream belonging to the wife.
Explains a lot.

It's all about resources. Women want financial security and while they claim marriage is a game for men, it is actually the second employment for men. Men don't realize that they have to work for the marriage to succeed. If they don't, the company has failed. It's easy to talk about men 'using' women in marriages and she sacrifices her life Cho Cho Cho but when you look at the overall picture of the family, the man carries the weight of the home. That's why they say the man buys the house but the woman makes the home. His number 1 duty is to provide. He takes her from her father to house her and provide for her and her co-workers, the kids! This is why women don't like the burden of carrying the responsibilities of the home alone, it's a lot of stress. Thank God more women are now earning more than men, they can now see that it's not just money that men bring to the table to the house.

The Manipulated Man is a 1971 book by author Esther Vilar, originally written in German and translated to English by Eva Borneman.

The main idea behind the book is that women are not oppressed by men but rather control men to their advantage.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fssTMUSVaq8

Yes oh! Under Sections 31 & 32 of the Matrimonial Causes Act, a wife can drag her husband’s side chick to court as a co-respondent for adultery — and the court can award DAMAGES for trying to scatter your home!

And guess what?
That money no be for you alone — you can beg the court to increase the damages for the benefit of your children. Because under Nigerian law, children have the right to grow up in a stable home, not one where side chicks are running up and down causing gbas gbos.

Money won't do anything to make the woman happyyou also have to prove that the side chick is causing gbas gbos. It's our refusal to embrace the traditional way of life before the British came to scatter our system that is causing the gbas gbos. Because while concubines were available in the past, the honourable thing to do was WIFE HER. Women were protected because they did not want her to be a side chick, she is better off as a wife but una no gree, you say 1 man 1 woman, equality, men are not polygamous by nature, men are scum Cho Cho Cho.

Even in divorce proceedings, you as the lawyer know that the man being able to provide for his family is taken into consideration for custody, so you have a case to prove that the woman outside is causing an unstable house especially where the man is a provider. The law is also not blind to understand that the presence of a father is better than awarding damages. Allow him to wife her, support your sister and stop this.

Women just like deceiving themselves in thinking they are equal to men, no you are not. I have seen some of them say they too can cheat, please do. Abeg cheat with your kids and have 3 different men. Have 2 kids per men and control the men, let's see. Na your eyes go see am There's a reason why when you watch Nat Geo, men fight for women and women select their mates. A man can always have more than 1, not so for women. If you don't know, some women in the past also enjoyed different relationships. They did not stay with one man for life. That's why it was common to see a woman back then bringing the child from her previous marriage to the new home. That's why some people did not know who was brother or sister until later on because all children belong to us in Africa. They don't want any discrimination. Women say they can cheat if they want to and can explore but they know that's not the way they are built. They are just annoyed they can do the same thing men do but it's also not a free pass for men, it's responsibility.

Women are very controlling. They want everything to themselves. One will tell you she doesn't want her husband all the time, another one will tell you they want him 24/7. They just want to always have their way. Men don't know they are being manipulated. The MANIPULATED MAN.

CJStarz:
By posting you pictures you've put yourself at risk of kidnapping by some bad folks

He didn't or he did it in a community where privacy is respected. It's the OP who cannot control his tatafo that came to post the details here. Nigerians and Cho Cho Cho.

Tell him to come here on Nairaland and ask his question

Just as the refusal of the President to let the IGP go when he's due for retirement very bad for motivation, having the enemy within is just as dangerous.

There are rumors that there was a plan to create two armies just as we had in Sudan with this Boko Haram Bazzztards. When they infiltrate the army, Nigeria will not only pay for their prison care, we will pay for their remediation program and then pay for their enlistment. It is a very dangerous thing to do. Remember when Jonathan said these guys are in his government? The Northern oligarchy thought they would use these boys like Asari and Tompolo. They thought that they had something good to agitate with using BH, but they are not only wrong, they are evil.

Both BH and ND militants are not necessary but the state has failed in doing the right thing. The conditions under which the militants were reformed are not the same as BH. What both were fighting for are different. That Yar Adua gave them amnesty was not a licence to enlist them into the Navy. We are raising militias in each zone. It's only the SW that doesn't have yet or theirs was removed, ie OPC and recently Igboho when he tried to defend the people legitimately.

The more the state refuses to protect lives and properties and play with our lives, the more they put Nigeria in trouble.

Why is an adult content advert at the top of this page? What has adult content got to do with politics?

Seun, like the alcohol manufacturers don't really care about the general safety of the public. They don't mind sharing or advertising adult content and this gets to teenagers and underage indirectly. It was so bad that there was an ad campaign in pidgin to let adults know that children should not be sent on errands to buy sachet alcohol. We lack self regulation so just as an adult ad is gracing this page I'm typing on, there's no control on who has access to the sachet. 20-30 years ago, we never had these sachet but they have penetrated the market that people can't afford to live without it and they are screaming that we will die without them. What about the health care costs of treating drunk population? Or the accidents they cause?

Pandemic looming.

Sermwell:
What I'm saying is that the wedding can still go on seamlessly without those lies! Nobody ask them for all those shalaye. I mean, in my daughter's wedding as a father, I'll just give out my daughter, thank everyone for coming, and that's all. Who do I owe any explanation as regards my daughter's virginity?

Because that's the pride of marriage! He who find a good VIRGIN wife hath found a good thing. The parent's generation valued virginity as a virtue so I don't blame them for talking about it.

ConfidentialDoc:
The lady is approaching 35years

She should still try her luck NATURALLY.

Sometimes or most times, this thing is of the mind. The more anxious and stressed the couple is, the likelihood of increasing their chances of failure. They may need to adjust their lifestyle and diet and it may just naturally happen.

It's possible family members are putting pressure on them.

The parents did their best and hoped she did her best to the best of their own parental abilities. Now my question is, do your parents believe that you are a Virgin and you protected your penis from entering what is not yours?

You too will be a parent so I ask you this question because it will come back full circle. Are you living up to your parents' expectations or you have secretly disappointed them and they don't know?

The same Tinubu that dared a sitting C-in-C 2x. Obasanjo and Buhari

The same Tinubu that made the President

The same Tinubu that had an eléyìí as Governor and people called that Governor Your Excellency 🫡

No, tell that to the marines. You can't make him look weak

APC must fulfil all their promises. No propaganda again.

Of what value is this oloshoism to the people of Nigeria and the whole wide world mods

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The mods don't respect Nairaland members and the public.

Let's stop this nonsense. We should stop pandering. Open grazing where one young boy will go with cows from Kafanachan to Sapele does not make sense in 2025. This is modern slavery, stop telling us they can't change. The people who own these cattle should be arrested for constituting nuisance. They can't have their own children walking the cows but they are happy with another man's child roaming everywhere and causing problems everywhere. Cut the supply and all these will change immediately. It's like someone owning a chicken that walks around the neighbourhood, sh!!ts and does everything outside, then goes back at night to the owner's shed. Let's stop this nonsense once and for all!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ag-0VzsXB0k

chrisifeanyi:
I was in a hospital one day, a patient was using plastic bottle to pour spits instead of going to the toilet all the time. Later, one woman came to pack all the plastic bottles around including the one being use for spitting. She will probably use it to prepare zobo. I pity People that buy such unhealthy drinks.

People pee in these bottles too.

Love800:
Christ!
I nearly vomited at the mention of the woman using her unwashed hands she use to wash bum(ass) to give customers food.
Hey, nawa.

I'm sorry but the day I saw that, it never left my mind. I can still see the image as I am typing right now. If you watched the video I put in my last post, the lady said something like that and someone also commented on seeing that kind of scenario. You can't trust people.

Let me tell you one thing that makes me think about it. Go to your office toilet and observe how people use it. You will now imagine if such people we assume are enlightened can be that dirty, what do you think someone who doesn't wear suit and tie will do

IVF is not cheap. Thank God for life. God give those who want a baby and responsible enough to have a baby their loved ones.

OP what is her age?

Sometimes, they don't know any better. Other times, this is the result of poverty or weak law enforcement. Poverty not just for money but because the brain is weak and can only make money no matter the means. It's just like going to the market and buying corn from a woman with a child. I have seen a woman in a buka wash her child's bum and did not wash that hand. She continued her cooking. All of una wey de chop for buka, I salute you 🫡

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WchlbqNc5YU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4GxmpiScgs


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8FcVwoYEjA
Weak enforcement because anything that is related to food is highly regulated because if a disease emerges, it becomes a public health concern if government cannot trace the source or prevent it. I am sure you have heard of people dying after eating amala or one soup. This topic is all about hygiene. If you love your health and life, be careful what gets into your body ❤️‍🩹

this young lady in the pic talks about it on her IG
They will serve you in dirty plates that look clean🤮🤢

People name their children according to what happened to them. That's why you have these days and months.

Gerrard59:
It is a matter I have thought about repeatedly. I have even asked other Nairalanders and a friend privately why it is so.

Some of the reasons are:
- Liberal culture: The culture is liberal. You have the right to choose whatever you want to do with your lives.
- Christianity: Igbos are the major ethnic group in the country that is overwhelmingly Christian. We adopted the Western version rather than the Eastern European version, largely due to colonialism and language. Westernisation promotes liberty and the right to choose.
- Capitalism: Capitalism promotes the end justifies the means. So, do whatever you can to get ahead in the race. This was vital in rebuilding after the Civil War, and if geared towards positive ventures, we excel. At the same time, if such an attitude is geared towards negative aspects, we come tops as well. The key term is to do well in whatever you choose because the culture promotes liberalism.

Nevertheless, even with such views, the southeast has the lowest percentage of children who don't live with their parents in southern Nigeria. Further research is needed to determine why and why not.

I think Christianity is to blame the most unfortunately. Aside what I saw on real life, if you read early African literature, it's women who are the protectors of the family. It's on Igbo land, a woman will go and select another wife for her husband. Nne wasn't something to joke with. The People in the East had a problem with Christianity because it condemned their own traditional practices and tried to replace it with the Missionary's. Now these woke people are changing the narrative, they even say our mothers back then were not polygamous, instead they were polyamorous and lesbians!!! All in a bid to destroy the family system.

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Did you not see that in addition to the statement that male fertility lingers till 90, I added that the same cannot be said of female fertility? That statement shatters your claim that female fertility is less affected by age than male fertility., and the document you posted did not help your claim.

Kobo no de lose argument so don't worry about her. She was trying to scare men with andopause and ignored the images I attached to prove that not all men pause but ALL WOMEN MUST PAUSE. It's not a gender war but leave her, let her keep winning online. Life no be anybody mate.

Nigeria is a country of regions. Education remains the biggest tool to remove poverty and insecurity from the land. A land of well educated people won't have charlatans and people with questionable character leading them to the forest.

NairaX:
Funny how the outrage is always framed around “they hate Igbos” instead of asking why Kanu broke the law. People cry bias, yet ignore the fact that leaders from other regions have been convicted without riots or massive social media meltdown. Are we defending a person or a tribe? Genuine accountability should have no ethnicity.

Nigerians have a short memory and are very sentimental. If you followed the case, you'll see the victims of Kanu's utterances coming to testify. I have no pity for him. Those who are hailing him need a god figure. Someone who is okay with harming his own people is not fit to be a leader. The guy's demeanor in court further proves that he is bitter. Someone said the President should pardon him. I won't be surprised if for the benefit of my wild imagination, they give it to him and guess what he does? He gives the President a middle finger, that he doesn't want. That ego na im go be him downfall. Wisdom we used to think came with age but we can see that a mother cannot cry more than the child that wants to kpai himself.

I saw the way he talked to his lawyers, then sacked them, I then knew this person cannot hide his personality for long. His behaviour was also documented in the judgment.

Don't talk when I'm talking. Yes sir

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Kobojunkie:
Nature never intended these things as some sort of competition for the human race, but rather as an opportunity to allow for the creation of the best possible outcomes for the entire race. An 80-year-old man with a higher risk of

Kobo, you are right. Let me show you how useless men and their sperm are. First read this case where a 30-year-old male dies at the hospital, and his wife asks the doctors to retrieve his sperm so that she can conceive his child.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5XkbMPIEcA

"According to current literature, PMSR should be performed within 36 hours of death (13). However, our case demonstrates that viable sperm can still be retrieved up to 106 hours postmortem, contradicting this recommendation."

Sperm from a dead man can still be useful 4 days after his death. These men are so useless, all they bring to the table is spamming women

You are the one unhappy with the old man giving birth. But it's okay for an old woman to give birth, isn't it? Your double standards eh, Michelin never produce the grade yet.

Kobojunkie:
The study also suggests that a 50-year-old pre-menopausal woman, for instance, has a greater chance of having a smooth pregnancy and birthing a healthy baby if she were to have intercourse with a young man(below age 30) than with a man older than age 30.

2. We are not even talking IVF here, but of women dating younger men if they wish to have smoother pregnancies and healthier babies.

I am not replying you. I am replying for the benefit of those reading

Me wey don see Baba 80 de give woman Belle na im you de show stats Keep it up. It's okay for older women to go after younger guys but taboo for older men to chase after young girls Selfish beings. It's always about them alone.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA007bBTU7k

thesicilian:
When a man makes money, he plans a family. When a woman makes money, she plans to distance herself from men. Meanwhile she most likely got that money from men

This statement Mercy said,

I’m ready to have a child outside marriage, this year I wanted to have a baby, something happened and I had to choose between that and the baby. At this point, I think if I get pregnant now, I’m just going to have my baby. I have worked so hard, and I think I can take care of myself and three kids. I’m a goal-oriented person that always sets things ahead for myself.”

I have heard women say this. At the point in life where reality sets in, they don't care. They have the career, they have the money but they miss that child. Life is indeed a strange journey. I asked one of them the other day why she couldn't get pregnant for a guy, she said, she cannot afford to have a baby for a man that would only donate sperm for her so she will rather do IVF and choose from there instead of giving herself 'freely' to the man. In her mind, she bought it. That's women for you The cheaper option is not worth it because of that pride so they don't mind spending money on the child that will never know who his real father is. Their thinking, only few understand it. Once you understand it, just play along with them IVF is also not cheap but you don't discuss logic with women when they are on their emotional roller-coaster. They hate the truth because it embarrasses them so they divert your attention with unrelated issues. Women are naturally more selfish than men but that's a topic for another day.

Kobojunkie:
The same advice applies no matter what age group you find yourself in. You do yourself a disservice when you chase after those people who don't want or regard you. Make friends or date those who do.

2. It does not matter since the reality is that the world we all live in does not cater to any delusion that you would rather hold to there.

I appreciate your advice but sincerely I don't need it. You refuse to answer my question. I know you won't tell me your age but give me your age range and whether you've birthed before. I just attended a naming ceremony of a relative in her 50s who just gave birth. So I can talk about this issue from those I know, and those I have seen and from medical POV. I may not be one but I have learned from doctors numerous times the best time for men and women to get pregnant. If you like, ignore biology. The Internet is not my family. Reality is different from Cho Cho Cho. Even the lesbians I know, they start looking for kids once their brain resets. I just smile inside knowing fully well that for women matter, they say one thing outside, they usually mean something else. I don't fall for such gimmicks. Go and check the age of women who seek IVF treatment and their ages. Why doesn't it bother the younger women? Keep arguing, you have won. It's alright. Life will open your eye.

All women must have menopause. Not all men have any pause. Men are not your problem. A man is never ugly. Haven't you heard that? E get why. Keep arguing

PS: Mercy Eke is 35 yo

Kobojunkie:
1. Wrong! The reason a particular set of women in your age group doesn't want to date you is that you are not what they want. They are not the problem.

Kobo, save all those advice for youngsters here. I don pass that stage of life. For your number 3, what is your age range? Have you ever birthed a child?

Kobojunkie:
. Here's hoping you don't lose the pregnancy lottery, as some women out there did. If your looks are important to you, maybe pay a surrogate to birth your kids for you.

Women hate being pregnant but keep asking for it. Why? That's nature's beauty. If you like, post 1 million horrible images of women before, during and after pregnancy, women will still get pregnant.

Two things can be right at the same time, they can hate pregnancy and they can love the results. I am writing most normal women here, there are some women that are off the charts but even the ones I know that are in bad situations, they still see their children as a silver lining. Even in war, women will still get pregnant.

To the men out there, maybe some of them don't know, a woman literally goes through the valley of death to bring a new life to earth. Honor that woman if she bring pikin for you. Forget her bad habit, handle those kain Jezebel with long fork but if na correct woman, treat her like a queen.

God is wonderful ❤️

How old is she again

The irony of life is that women mature faster than men, that's why they look down at you men when you are 16-28. Fortunately, the wise ones among them at this age know the best thing to do, the unwise keep building fantasies but reality sets in in their 40s when biology no be your mate again. The biological instinct will set in and they will swallow any fantasy they had and face reality. That's why you don't need to argue with them, allow them come to reality by themselves. Nobody leaves this world alive... The Lord is good.... All the time.

He who finds a good wife hath found a good thing! Keep the treasure.

dominique:
His Zoo must fall tirade started in 2015 after his preferred candidate didn't win the election. That he advocated for good governance doesn't mean he should not be held responsible for the destruction spree he ordered his followers to go on. If he had stayed in London calling out the bad government, he wouldn't be in this situation he currently is

Nigerians have a short memory and are very sentimental. If you followed the case, you'll see the victims of Kanu's utterances coming to testify. I have no pity for him. Those who are hailing him need a god figure. Someone who is okay with harming his own people is not fit to be a leader. The guy's demeanor in court further proves that he is bitter. Someone said the President should pardon him. I won't be surprised if for the benefit of my wild imagination, they give it to him and guess what he does? He gives the President a middle finger, that he doesn't want. That ego na im go be him downfall. Wisdom we used to think came with age but we can see that a mother cannot cry more than the child that wants to kpai himself.

I saw the way he talked to his lawyers, then sacked them, I then knew this person cannot hide his personality for long.

Don't talk when I'm talking. Yes sir

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DXMi_t-QhyY?

The request itself was a failed mission from the start. Why did they waste our resources on this bad gospel? Brits are cunny so why will you expect their very first convict under the act to then be released? They will even add it to their wiki catalogue that as if the slavery was not enough, the slave masters tried to rescue him 🤡
In 20 years time, they will prove that they have repented for their slavery sins and who else allowed the sins to go on? The Enemy Within!

What a shame. Shame on these people embarrassing Nigeria.

NothingDoMe:
They protested in front of G20 world leaders venue?

What's wrong with protesting at your government house?

It's pretty normal, attention is a currency. Some people protested when Trump visited UK. They will always do something like this at the venue of a major event for..... ATTENTION. and Free Press.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A5cScaY6WdU

They're protesting in Mexico over the World Cup, Trump is threatening to play games with FIFA (FIFA met its match this time) and tomorrow when they host any event, some people will still protest to call the attention of the world to what they believe in. It's their right. Even if you think it's silly.