₦airaland Forum

kiddaz:
Be like na you really understand wetin be the issue. Although the op used "Good/Church girls " but from his write up you will understand he actually meant real religious girls as in believers not just your regular church girl who are 99% OS playing a "Church"game. Those truly religious girls are something else. I was close to one a certain time, she was never rude to me sha, didn't play hard cos she even confessed she's always dreamt of settling with a certain kind of guy and I fit it perfectly even with all my wahala that she's aware of but I noticed she was trying to put me under the pastor like before she makes any decisions concerning us, it's pastor said this or pastor said that, I tried to let her understand I'm not under the influence of no man but God himself and this girl still went on to say I need to be led by the man of God, na there I realize say the matter deep. She's almost perfect in her ways, good, nice beautiful small from a good home too but that running everything through the pastor is not my thing and I even let the so called man know too as I still have knowledge of the word and when he preaches I ask him questions that even throws him off balance sometimes, then he started drawing me close and I had an important role in the church that some ladies started referring to me as a pastor but it didn't change anything. And another thing I noticed she was good at keeping malice with her friends anytime there's fallouts with them. And one time I said something I shouldn't have said cos I didn't think she would take it the wrong way omoor the anger no be here. She would even see me in church and walk past me lol... I had to apologize over and over again. Just because you know say you be virgin and good small so I have to crawl for you all the time. I had to give her space. We were always seen together but then people were quick to see the changes and I didn't care as some were asking me questions towards that. I only started talking to her recently though but I don't really think I can go far with her on those her wahala but then nobody's perfect abi?

But I believe a religious girl (not the extreme ones) are better than church girls cos the church girl most time is a playa in disguise except God just help you meet one who's truly good. My believe though

lionshare:
Interesting but how much was the league prize in 2010 ?

SixSeven:
There wasn't even a prize money in 2010 when Kano Pillars won it with Ahmed Musa's goal scoring season. It was just 3 years ago they started giving money. Enyimba officially received N100 million in cash after winning the NPFL Championship Super-6 Play-offs in Lagos. It went from 100 to 150 to 200 to 1bn now

Jorussia:
I hope u realize in 2010 the winner's prize money was not more than #20m? and it was hardly ever paid until sometime from 2016? That #1bn if it's paid to the winner from next season is the biggest and most valuable in our domestic league history in over 30years.

meobizy:
I don’t understand. Is it that Nigerian authorities never knew these individuals? They should not be sentenced for anything, straight execution is the way to go.

Bahamas95:
Watching Nat Geo wild has made me able to identify venomous and non-venomous snakes.

I also have phobia for snakes but I do everything possible to kill it whenever they cross my path.......The last snake I killed in my compound was a cobra. If I wasn't courageous that day it would have escaped and that would have made me more worried.

immortalcrown:
Since when did adulthood or old age become an antivenom?

Sonofgod1990:
But woman and snake na dsame thing

SixSeven:
Marriage Is Not an Achievement But Responsibility Is
Many young people now reject marriage as a measure of success, and they are not wrong. Marriage by itself is not an achievement but it is a social structure. Now let me educate them a bit, what deserves closer attention is not your rejection of the idea of marriage, but the growing discomfort with responsibility that often accompanies it.

In African philosophy, a human being is measured largely by character. Achievement lies in the ability to act with restraint, care, and accountability. Marriage without these qualities is empty and freedom without them is destructive.

Sex has never been treated as morally neutral in any serious society. This is not because desire is evil and we are not biological people but because sex carries consequences. It creates emotional bonds, social expectations, and the possibility of children. A culture that treats sex as casual while demanding stable outcomes is not enlightened. It is inconsistent with social order and you can see the results today. One guy is always writing on his posts here on NL that the only advice he has for men is to conduct DNA.

For women, sexual fidelity was historically preserved to protect clear lines of responsibility but the ones who think they have opened eyes said it was for control. In a world without DNA testing, fidelity ensured that motherhood, paternity, and inheritance were socially legible. It allowed men to be held accountable and children to know where they belonged. Sexual norms were less about purity and more about responsibility. This did not mean women alone bore moral burden. Female sexual discipline made sense only in societies that demanded male duty in return. When restraint was expected of women but responsibility was optional for men, the moral logic broke.

Motherhood, like fatherhood, is more than biology. To bring life into the world is to accept obligation. The woman who nurtures, guides, and forms character performs one of the most demanding social roles that exists. A society that dismisses this labor while celebrating autonomy misunderstands freedom.
The family unit matters not just because it is traditional, but because it works. It is the foundation to society. It is the first place where limits are learned, where care becomes habitual, and where responsibility becomes personal. When family structures weaken, the cost of this weakness does not go away as people think it will fizzle out. It reappears in institutions asked to do what homes once did. There was a reason we said a community raises a child and why our proverbs talk about family and lineage. For so many years, the West tried to break our hegemony, they wanted us to leave our values and ethics and be like them while secretly admiring our foundation and structure. Thank God many people have japa now, they can now see the difference between oyinbo life and our society where each child is everyone's child but unfortunately when they go back home, alas even the people back home want to be like the oyinbo man without knowing it's a sad life disconnected from our roots as a people.

Young people are not wrong to question marriage. They are right to question hollow traditions. What must be reconsidered is not marriage as a trophy, but responsibility as a value.


Sexual freedom without accountability is not progress. Fidelity without mutual obligation is not justice.

I am happy this generation is sleeping anyhow and anywhere with anyone they like. When the chicken comes home to roost, you will then appreciate the wisdom of your forefathers and mothers in preserving the institution called marriage and why society needs order, accountability and responsibility. It is what we call you go see for yourself. When you are young you question many things but with age you start to understand many things too. Your parents got married because it was a sign of responsibility. Some people asked why the opinion of a married person was more important than that of an unmarried person. Those who maintained this tradition knew that it takes a special person to live with another wo/man as husband/wife and still be normal. That's why in the past, for politicians, they used to yab themselves if anyone of them had family issues that "you that cannot take care of your home wants to take care of our country".



Marriage is a school.
Freedom is a mirage.
Marriage is not an achievement.
Becoming a responsible adult is.

okomile:
Olowo lo ma ku re
Talika ma stood down l'oorun

Make money is the kooko

geoworldedu:
If you are earning an income of up to 10m monthly in Naija, it's better to stay here. Earning a million and below, I will advise anyone to go abroad. I also think this abroad-home stuff is personal. My own reason is because of too much cold over there. But with this Tinubulation and uncertainty of Nigeria, if I have the means I will Japa too.

geoworldedu:
But how come everybody I know who have gone abroad always tell me that "what am I still doing in Nigeria?" They always try to ginger me to start coming as fast as possible.

telim:
the shovel in the logo signifies large scale looting

Okoroawusa:
The man has stated his side of the story. Anyone with an otherwise evidence should bring it forward.

bentenny:
🤣🤣🤣
I never expected anything less!
That's how oshiomole denied a massage video calling it AI.
Only for the masseuse to call him out.
Like tenebe like oshiomole

ClassicEvilSpir:
I think it is because people can't really afford to fill their gas cylinder to the brim anymore.

1vandragon:
When even the number 1 citizen has an obscure history.

Graduating from a school before it was established.

Entering university as a female and graduating as a male.

Working in top organisations that do not have your work history/records.

Being a member of a reputable professional body, but no evidence of your registration with them.

I didn't mention any name ooo. I don't want the Sowore treatment please, I am having headache.

shortgun:
See what Tinubu has caused

Bahamas95:
They insulted me and I made sure it was the last time they tried that nonsense with me.


If not for self control I would have done so many terrible things to people, especially women because of their diarrhea mouths....... Even an angel would strike in certain situations.

Bahamas95:
No man will just hit a woman, some were pushed to the wall and couldn't resist the temptation of formating her brains.

insidelife22:
We all know women are saucy and disrespectful.
But I will never support violence against women.
If you are tired of her, let her go.

QuinQQ:
You shitting me? I assumed that was Kobo because Kobo strikes me as a woman who was born a man!

QuinQQ:
You coulda been right, see below
Except that Kobojunkie is still alive (from all indications; I stand to be corrected)