QuinQ: So how would you rate the sayings below, true or untrue?
I had to go to my previous posts, some of them are for women, some are not for them. But what I post below is a compilation of answers to 1 and 2👇
SixSeven: There's nothing women do that's not to their favor. Women are very cold and calculating. They don't take any decisions that does not involve their survival. Even when Buchi who used to write about women and their liberation talked about polygamy as a way of marriage, it was still about the WOMAN. Always the woman. That's why women are not best friends as in laws. They know themselves too well. Always looking for control. And the man who is the price, prize and source is the resource.
Yesterday I read one Nairalander who said she married her husband thinking she would have fair children or light skinned children. I read that message and smh because in the man's mind he had no idea he was a launchpad to get what she really wanted. Women are always looking for a means of survival, don't pay attention to them. Watch what they do not what they say.
If women loved themselves, they would easily produce the next president and Governor because they have the numbers but they never want to admit their own scam. Always looking at blaming men or not accepting responsibility for their own faults.
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SixSeven: I also forgot to add, WOMEN ARE MANIPULATIVE. It only comes in different flavors. Your sisters, your wives, your mom, all of them. If you are married, women are watching you and your wife. Whether it's your sister or mother, they want to see that you are not being manipulated because they are masters of manipulation. You as the man may not see it, they as women see it. That's why they do not like themselves. This is why as a a man you should not tell women about themselves. Don't tell your mom everything about your house, don't tell your sister about your wife and vice versa. E get why. They will leave the message and filter the woman's part in it. They will use that info against the other women. Know how to draw boundaries. This is why MIL and wife relationship no de end. If you think your mom is the best, find out how she has treated her daughter in law. Even you sef go surprise. They are possessive and can smell the rat. Men use logic, women react with emotions.
SixSeven: While women h8 men that make advances at them, they don't like men who are also too tough and don't accept their advances.
Women reject the man who approaches too readily, yet they are equally displeased with the man who remains too self-contained to acknowledge their own advances.
In this paradox, a man should be careful after mrejecting a woman's advance because her rejection can lead to your ejection. She will frame you up without you knowing it's because of your tough stance. That one is more dangerous because you never see it coming but it's her payback for not being able to control you.
From time immemorial, women have always been used to get the strongest men. As a man, you should have principles. It will save you from trouble.
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SixSeven: What is a man A man who will save his family at the expense of his own life. Yet they call him weak and patriachial. U never jam wahala, na den patriarchy go press rescue you.
SixSeven: .. Thank you, I repost my previous comment.
The bad rap single women have on this forum is for me a disgrace to men because that baby mama and baby daddy nonsense is a sign of failed family upbringing. While people can lose their loved ones or divorce due to irreconcilable differences, men who leave their wives or did not consult the elders before marrying into a family are a big disgrace to men. Give me a man that has 3 wives above useless sissies who are comfortable with their women mothering their kids alone abandoned.
You people copied the thing the government used against the Blacks in US and left your culture. Now you are telling us about single moms 🤡 Nonsense
In some cultures, the brother married off his late bro's wife because women were never treated like Street Vendors and abandoned. I blame women too because western influence has deceived them with one yeye independence and fake patriarchy that we are having more kids without dads because of some strong head women.
Where is the honor our women once had?
Who are the men getting them pregnant and leaving them?
Who are the families allowing their daughters wore about?
You can't just blame the women. Men are the biggest culprits because let's assume women are moomoo as many of you claim, who are the moomoo men planting their seeds in her 🤡 Weak men. Clowns.... It was a ticking time bomb, Nigerians copied street lifestyle of America and the 'independent' life of Europe, then abandoned their own traditions and culture about marriage, family and childbirth, here is the result....
SixSeven: Death is the only constant thing in life that equals all human beings.
Tradition that feeds on fear will one day starve on truth because a home that threatens death cannot teach loyalty but fear. As much as I want to be ethical and tell you it's wrong for anyone to cheat, the reality is that life is not fair and we know who is affected the most. Some of these laws were written for inheritance, not for fairness. It's just like someone who says a man should live in his in-laws house when there are proverbs that warn against it. So if that his wife dies, what does her family do the man (widower)? Send him back? Customs and traditions protect the future first, even when the present bleeds. We all want order, that's why they had many of these things as deterrent to prevent people from the disruption of social order.
When a child is born, the mother is known but the father must be proven. Our people were not ready for confusion, no DNA so they came up with another proverb that only a mother knows the father! This is still true today if you watch paternity cases, despite DNA and advancement in tech. The elders punished where they were certain, not where guessing began because lineage fears confusion. Some of the judgment they served then is now called jungle justice. Bear in mind that we have a lot of traditional families and they didn't want a bastaaard to inherit the throne.
There is a popular case on Justice Funmi's show. You now understand why they say only a mother knows the father. If you listened to the woman alone, you would have made your own wrong conclusions and convicted the guy
But when the guy came to give his story, you now understand the wisdom of our fathers that it's only an old foooool who judges by listening to one side alone
I am just trying to remind women that the reality of their promiscuity is more dangerous than the reality for men. Call it unfair but that's the reality.
Have we thought of why parents focus on the girl child more than the boys? The womb is the doorway of ancestry, so it bears the heaviest lock. The best way mothers knew then was fear that's why they said if you slept with a boy you will die
What enters the house through the woman stays for generations. A man’s mistake shames him but a woman’s mistake reshapes the clan. That's why even if a man did OS, by the time he repents, he will find a virgin to marry. Same cannot be said of a woman. Call it double standards but its the reality of life. That's why I said there's ethics, there's reality of the morality and there's understanding of why we do things because....
A man’s doubt sleeps in his mind but a woman’s doubt sleeps in the child. Everything is just to protect women from giving us children we are not sure who the father is or causing confusion by breaking social order
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SixSeven: Only in Africa and parts of Asia that people still give birth. They have tried to throw in contraception but it doesn't work. Look at what she said, she wants to buy a house, property, things. She doesn't want to be a mother. They have succeeded in giving them 'rights' to say my body, my choice. I didn't come to earth to be a mother. Now they have fertility crisis and the cost of giving birth is not just expensive, the cost of living is so expensive that OF is the best alternative. She didn't mention children or anything like that because of she had any maternal instinct in her, she would know which has more honour and why prostitution is not the best option. What child will be happy to see his mom a pro? This is why you need to monitor women. I used to think it was absurd, but the older I get, I understand why there was always a reign on women, or else, they will destroy society completely. They give birth to the world, that's why men had to put some reign in our society was working.
Women are joining the work force to be like men and that is more effective than contraception. Deceive her with the career, tell her she can store her eggs, tell her there is IVF, waste her best years of fertility and when there is a crisis, sell medical solutions to them.
Once you are able to convince women that they don't need to carry a baby, the deal is done. Now they want us to be using science to have babies, sleeping with dolls and selling us all kind of solutions when God gave us free. Don't take everything from the West, you're just a commodity to them.
QuinQ: So how would you rate the sayings below, true or untrue?
First is true. It is shown in Esther Vilar's works. I have written something like that in previous posts. If I find it, I will quote it. Men by default are not to be helped, we can go kill ourselves in war and as you see the Iranian war, it is the death of the school girls that draw more sympathy than death of boys or men. It is what it is.
SixSeven: It's all about resources. Women want financial security and while they claim marriage is a game for men, it is actually the second employment for men. Men don't realize that they have to work for the marriage to succeed. If they don't, the company has failed. It's easy to talk about men 'using' women in marriages and she sacrifices her life Cho Cho Cho but when you look at the overall picture of the family, the man carries the weight of the home. That's why they say the man buys the house but the woman makes the home. His number 1 duty is to provide. He takes her from her father to house her and provide for her and her co-workers, the kids! This is why women don't like the burden of carrying the responsibilities of the home alone, it's a lot of stress. Thank God more women are now earning more than men, they can now see that it's not just money that men bring to the table to the house.
The main idea behind the book is that women are not oppressed by men but rather control men to their advantage.
Second is very correct. That's why even though men want to escape the tricks of women, they still take the bait. Men will go to wars for women. It is in history that men fought and killed themselves just to marry a princess. No two women will fight in the public square to get a man but she can do it indirectly.
QuinQ: I've been reading this for years. Didn't know you wrote it. So, see below. Would you agree
My mama na woman but I understand the sentiment. It is a woman's world. Let no man deceive himself. A wise man is the one that knows their tricks and doesn't fall for their gimmicks.
We are looking at a vast majority whose choices, thought process and lifestyle have been bent and influenced by heavy presence of poverty brought in by bad governance and you have the guts to feel like a better person by talking about THEIR CHOICE? what even gives you the right to talk about their choice?
Would this not be a security threat if this tanker fell in VGC? or you think people will leave their AC chilling house and DSTV to come out and take barbecue chances?
Look at whole families rushing out to take advantage of OPPORTUNITY... Yes this is what opportunity has been reduced to in a society where you almost have to k/ll someone before you see 100k cash and you sit on your privileged ass to say CHOICES.
Thank God for all your own right choices that have brought you this far in life.
RolexOfGeneva: That attitude is driven by poverty. If those people scooping petrol were comfortable, they wouldn't have gone scooping fuel. Do you think someone like me would scoop fuel from a fallen tanker? No. Because I'm comfortable. But if I wasn't comfortable, I would have considered joining them. Who's the cause of this poverty? You know the answer.
You don't think greed has any role here
There are people poorer than Nigeria and they still don't steal. Do you remember the 1998 Jesse explosion that caused death of over 1000+ people? Many survivors reportedly fled hospitals for fear of being arrested for fuel theft.
The villagers were willing to risk their lives for a few litres of petrol to sell on the black market. Abdulsalam was the head of state sir. And we have had many more. That's one reason I can't blame Tinubu even though I said the government has a role to play.
Racoon: “Tinubu is using foreign trips to get photo ops and create an evidence of legitimacy as well as evidence of prosperity - But there is none” - Daniel Bwala
Where or when did Bwala say this?
Edit: I just found one. Mehnnnn, this guy has no shame
Bluntemperor: It is not every thing you go de do Cho,Cho ,Cho about! Na Obedient and PDP Sympathetisers de do like that. Make you de compliments the govt where necessary Or Do you think say,these White folks will just be coming without wooing them ? You go de on one spot for long! For since SAHEL COUNTRIES don embark on Military 🪖 dictatorship,did you see anybody welcoming them?
How long do you want to be beholden to your white elder brothers? Can't you stand on your own? Has Africa not come of age again? Nothing wrong with state visit but as you wrote, they want to collect something they are already losing from their Berlin conference and instead of us being on the side of history where we once fought for Africa's independence, they are throwing candies at us to lick. How are the mighty fallen. Could this be why Tinubu changed our national anthem to the one the British composed for us? Are we going forward or backwards? These old men who are fascinated by the past need to leave. Their attachment to the past is not good for us.
LeeSmart: See the kind quote wey you drop just to massage ur bruised ego, na una dey make women disrespect men and to the get entitled mentality anyhow😡😡
You don't need to get angry. The bot banned me for my previous comment. A woman, and even a man does not need to be nice to you. They are already paying for it. He who pays the piper..... I want to ask OP if she smokes like this in her mum's house.
Foodqueen: With the way you described your relationship with the family.
The wife actually told you on purpose, so that you can tell your friend.
She want out, and she doesn't know how else.
No woman will disclose such secret to someone with your kind of relationship with her husband.
Again, it might just be one of our normal nl stories.
Exactly. Does he think his friend is not aware of his impotence or her deal with the counselor? It's not today impotent men are signing deals with their wives to protect their image/ego and they know. OP you are crying more than the bereaved. Tell her to tell him herself. You didn't marry her, you are only a friend. Do not overplay your role.
Amoda Yekini must continue to suffer for the impoverished country he has created
. While Tinubu has a fault in this, Nigerians need to take responsibility for their actions. Tinubu did not tell them to take what is not theirs. They chose to do so. This is a Nigerian attitude that needs to stop. Getting uncomfortable with theft.
Stephen0mozzy: You wan dey speak English take talk serious mattas for babe wey dey kpo loud?
Since she spends time in the house, OP should man up, sit her down and talk to her like a man, even if she paid the rent, you can still set rules in the house.
But as OP said, she's a baddie and he LIKES HER LIKE THAT - so I also don't know how he wants BADDIE TO HAVE THE DECENCY AND DECORUM OF A REVEREND SISTER.
Know this and know peace. You can't man up if you don't pay up.
Let's assume this man's and woman were legally married and he moved into her house or a house her father gave her. Let me tell you, he can't set rules in that house. Except that girl has one very strong fear of God, no person who does not pay can set any rules.
Once she pays for it, you cannot tell her that you will make the rules. That is the biggest mistake of your life. If you don't learn now, she will teach you when it's time. Even if she allows it out of love initially, in due time you will find out the truth.
I don't think you have read posts where men things like, feed a woman for years and no one hears about it, let a woman feed you for a day, people will hear for years. You think they are joking? There are good women who do it secretly but it's rare to see. Las las dem go cast you and na you go be the outcast.
SixSeven: Olioxx and Manculated very true. I too used to think that a man with more than one woman was courting trouble etc until I grew wiser. I also grew up among women so I know them like the back of my hands. I don't bother getting surprised at what they do anymore because I can now reflect on how they made decisions on men and life and rather than get annoyed I just smile. The other day, somoeone quoted me for Vilar
I was initially responding until I realized the person was only interested in making an argument without reading the book. How that woman was able to accurately describe women needs to be studied. You know they say the men writing the book on UNDERSTANDING WOMEN haven't finished writing? They never will Esther was very helpful in writing that book and it describes women accurately across the globe.
You see how these women say his money, our money, my money, my money. That is the summary of franchasng message. You will even hear women say even if I'm working and I'm earning more than him, I still want him to spend on me. That's women for you. It's their nature. They are not built to be providers and the earlier men understand this, the better for them. Women are receivers, they are nurturers, once you make her start providing and hustle, you kill the feminine side of her and she starts acting like a man because it's her survival mode working. That's why such a woman is x2 more brutal in that mode.
Because men have not understood them or learned from Vilar, they get into problems with the women in their lives, their mothers and wives. If you know how women work, you will know how to manage these women in your life. Why is it only MIL that gives problem in the house, not the Father in law
You should read The Polygamous Sex too. Another book that will blow your mind.
splendournoni: The world supports trump if you don't know maybe you are watching middle east need agency.... Nobody wants Iran terrorist sponsorship country to have nuclear weapons
Pentagon's request for the $200b fund for the war will not be heard until after Easter. So this war will go on for 2 weeks and some of the damages done we are told will take 3 years to fix and prices may never go back to what we were once used to. The last time we had this much disruption to the global oil supply was during the Arab Spring. Remember, Trump promised to 1. Lower prices of food 2. Fight no foreign wars 3. Put America first. If you know what no 3 means, America first, not its ally nation's interest first
If trump holds to this 48 hour deadline and strikes Iran critical infrastructure. There will be no coming back from that for years, everyone's economy will suffer. This is the point of no return. Trump needs an intervention right now or the whole world will pay for this mistake.… pic.twitter.com/x1jBSy5RwT
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SmartPolician: Many of us don't even give a hoot about any Obidient Movement. What we know is if you have Mr. Peter Obi on the ballot, we will vote for him, make sure our votes count, return to our houses and await the outcome of the entire election.
That movement metamorphosised from Endsars and it was very deliberate that their command line had no leadership. With 1 election loss, +4 years to their ages, I don't know what the youth think but it is likely that those who were 14-16 year olds in 2020 do not have interest in the current establishment. They are now in their early 20s after one election cycle. Apart from those who have been condemned to the hands of the old order who never tell them it is their time to lead, the youth, all over the world believe in a new face. It's just natural. It happened to Obama, to APC in 2015,to Trump 2.0....
PDPdestroyer: The regime change which was the motivating factor for this war will happen in US first
It has now been revealed that Rupert Murdoch and Benjamin Netanyahu pressured Trump into bombing Iran.
I confronted one of Murdoch’s employees with a leaked handwritten note from Netanyahu’s political office implying that Murdoch was one of his funders.pic.twitter.com/FNTYPlwKJH
He should not even have time for Nigeria because as much as people may not like Tinubu or whoever is in government, the worst help a deer can get is the one by a tiger. IYKYK
Macphenson: Iran is getting itself into more mess. Trump isn't interested in bringing Iran to ashes,but with recent development,America will hit Iran badly which will affect civilians in Iran. Also it's neighbours in the gulf are running out of patience tolerating their madness. They will soon return aura for aura.
Iran is going to force the Muslim population of that region to unite. I hope you remember Trump visited Saudi, Qatar etc. Or have you forgotten?
The more Iran responds indirectly to the US there, the more he has to come to his senses. Oil business is no small business. The West always says Saudi regime is this and that, ask yourself why they are not saving their people from the tyranny
Do not die in their war. Tinubu should have been in the hot seat if they were not in power now because back then, APC saw this windfall and asked the government to take advantage of it. The war is Nigeria's benefit. If we are serious, we leave all the excuses and fix our problems in the oil industry. Build refineries or make them work. Saudi Aramco is a big deal in oil and gas and Iran was reported to hit them. The effect of the war is not on Iran, they have nothing to lose because they are already under sanctions. It is those who have something to lose that will be affected. This will be the same thing with Cuba. It's one thing for US to start a war and it only affects Iran, it's another thing for US to start a war it did not plan for with the neighbours, some of which are its business allies. Do not forget Israel too is on the receiving end and they are allies to US.
This false flag operation cannot last for long because America will start to put more pressure on Trump.
Joe Kent on camera tonight:
“All 18 of America’s intelligence agencies agreed — Iran had no capacity to develop a nuclear bomb.”
“But Israel was telling us they would be able to assemble ten bombs in two weeks.”
18 American intelligence agencies: no nuclear capacity.
cr7lomo: He's looking for pity... if not for WAP ...nobody go know am ...he never made any movie until WAP...Papa Ajasco had been in existence thru magazines since the 80s ...thebTV series came ti existence over a decade later making this man the real life figure.... its like one of the actors of superman or badman wanting to keep on claiming the name and acting his own movies with same name and costume...and expecting the production team that hired him to accept it ...
Nailed it. Someone said any publicity is good but I don't think so in this case. What many people don't know is that behind the scenes, many people want to know who they are working with. That's why producers and directors don't need to be on screen. Looks like an opportunity to grab it, snatch it and run away with it but WAP has built a name that is longer and stronger than trending news.
gibberish: The owners said you are not the winner and you are challenging them. Is it because they made mistake and declared you the winner before coming to their senses. They should have declared Morocco the winner and told you to go to court. If I say more than this now they will say I'm talking gibberish. Let me hold my peace.
This would have been right if Morroco never played the penalty.
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but I understand the sentiment. It is a woman's world. Let no man deceive himself. A wise man is the one that knows their tricks and doesn't fall for their gimmicks.
