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stanliwiser:
Stop querying and asking her about those guys, that will show your insecurities.

Stop posting her own pictures also, reduce the way you chat and communicate with her, you need to start letting her miss you a little. if she confront you, don't cry and pour out your emotions like a naughty baby, just comport yourself and tell her that you're busy and carried away with job. Don't confess how you feel, if you do she will laugh hard on how important she is in your life. SHOW A GIRL HOW IMPORTANT THEY ARE ACCORDING TO HOW MUCH THEY START BECOMING COMMITED TO YOU. 30% commitment deserve 30% percent compliments and nothing more.

Focus on your life and get your focus on your career and plans. Get busy with your hobbies and work, stop unnecessary expectation from her

Give her some space to miss you, and stop your UNNECESSARY GIFTS, FAVOURS AND LONG CHAT AND HANGING OUT.

You said she don't post your pictures, YOU ARE AN UNDERCOVER LOVER. Open your eyes, You're chasing shadows. Go out and date other girls and don't tell her, if she finds out, tell her it is nothing serious BUT stop this act as soon as she start showing much commitment.

To get her attention you need to respect yourself and understand you deserve someone better than her, follow 50/50 rule, never loves her more than she loves you.

MY CONCLUSION IS THAT YOU TRYING TOO HARD TO LOVE THIS GIRL. SHE OBVIOUSLY DON'T KNOW HOW TO TELL YOU TO STOP.

I HAVE DEALT WITH HER TYPE AND I LOVE THEM, IF YOU'RE NOT LIKE ME THEN TELL HER YOU WANNA QUIT AND IF SHE AS WHY, TELL HER YOU WANNA FOCUS ON YOUR FUTURE CAREER

prosnadis:
Both of u are right....that bldder worm(schistomisis heamotobuim).treated mine with praziquantel.

Zornes123:
any small thing Una go dey shout nairaland is not hospital. so them for no just get health section at all. despite she clearly stated she has been to the hospital.
see Oga let me tell u this world is a small place most people posting here don't always place their ordeals here so that online doctors can help. they sometimes are looking out for others who might have experienced similar thing therefore helping them know what might be wrong, hence making it easy when they see a doctor.
you self why u dey health section they observe people way sick? you be doctor?

lalasticlala.

KingSatan:
WOW, THIS IS SUCH A GREAT FEAT!

I AM SUPER PROUD OF NIGERIA AND NIGERIANS.

TACHA HAS ASSURED NIGERIANS THAT HER BUTT WILL HELP BOOST OUR ECONOMY, GDP, CREATE JOBS AND IMPROVE LIVES.

WE ARE SO PROUD OF TACHA'S BUTT.

AS A MATTER OF FACT, THE MINISTER OF WOMEN AFFAIRS HAVE PROMISED TO LIASE WITH ALL STAKEHOLDERS SO THEY WILL LOOK INTO TACHA'S "BUTT BUSINESS" FOR POSSIBLE EXPORT OPPORTUNITIES, WHICH IS IN LINE WITH THE DIVERSIFICATION AGENDA OF PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI.

TACHA'S BUTT WILL BE EXPORTED IN DIFFERENT SIZES, COLOURS AND SHAPES. A BUTT IS ESTIMATED $5000 IN THE BLACK MARKET. THAT IS EVEN MORE VALUABLE THAN CRUDE!

THIS PRECIOUS BUTT BUSINESS WILL CREATE 5000 DIRECT JOBS AND 500,000,000 INDIRECT JOBS.

CHEERS TO MEDIOCRITY!

CHEERS TO NONSENSE!

CHEERS TO MISPLACED PRIORITIES!

CHEERS TO GROSS ILLITERACY!

CHEERS TO OUR TRUE IDENTITY!

bonnyhope:
Story!! Which juju

ednut1:
The man and the woman should be jailed. After 5 kids una still dey born. Eleribu couple

sweetonugbu:
Insecurity and low self-esteem

Ekpekus:
VAR is sentimental and biased..
It is ruining the beautiful game of football..

Kalixx:
Ur opportunity to cheat on that ancestor. Take it.

But first check say he no put gps ankle monitor for your leg

LordIsaac:
Today's moms are slay queens with only backsides to offer.

Charleys:
Kwarra state is YorubaLand, stop derailing the thread, its about Igbo food we are talking about here.

Charleys:
Ewedu and Amala.
Gbegiri.
Ewa

Charleys:
Ever since chioma captured Davido with her food, every Yoruba woman wants to start learning how to cook Igbo foods in other to keep their man.

Chioma is not a certified chef and has never cooked for any classy event, but why are people calling her the chef?

Every man I repeat every man in Lagos,Osun,Oyo,Kwarra and Ogun wants their wives to learn how to cook Igbo foods. The men are tired of high cholesterol and need something healthy for a change.


The truth is the igbos don't have foods, it's the south south that knows how to cook. The igbos learn from them.

But it's still Igbo food they call it, because a southerner is an Igbo to an outsider.


Mark my words, once the so called Igbo foods go global, nothing will be left for the igbos to hold on to anymore.

No Biafra, no nothing.

LyfeJennings:
U that U are not wicked
Give him Ur advice
Women don't stay with struggling men
It might be happening but I never see am

VeeVeeMyLuv:
bros u are collecting 100+ salary, in addition with supportive in-laws and your to be wife is still acting like this?

What if u were teacher collecting peatnuts salary what will happen to u?

Must u spend so much for marriage ceremony. Nawa!

Reelmii:
u are thinking of divorce wen u never marry,, why not stop the marriage instead ogf going into it and pulling out later

LyfeJennings:
Ti e ta
Lool
Na only prayers go fit help U o
No woman would stay with a struggling guy

AerialMapper:
So in summary-

You work in a blue chip company and drive Uber / Taxify to supplement your salary, how you do this i don't know

You promised her marriage before the end of the year

End of year has reach and you cannot keep your promise

She is therefore pissed that you are reneging on your promise due to lack of funds

Lastly, you have eaten her work without protection and now she is pregnant!

...

This is what you have to do

Cover the traditional rites - Hopefully, you can afford this.

Do a court wedding - Legalise your union

Court and Reception are just formalities and a waste of money

It is too late to castigate you for making her pregnant when you can barely afford to maintain a family

Stop begging and crying and MAN up

ireneidiva:
How did you guys manage to understand this writeup?

chigoizie7:
Why get married to divorce later?

This life is also too precious to go and die anyhow. But the truth is nothing comes easy.


Since you are this suicidal even when you never enter the marriage. Bros, my advice is, don’t go ahead with the marriage. And before you cancel the whole engagement, please I want you to make up your mind first, then go to that her sister and tell her what has been happening and why you do not want to go ahead with the marriage, then walk away. If she wants to terminate the child, na her business.



Most people see signs of toxic marriages early enough, yet they dabble into it, it is not wise

Amarabae:
Wonderful.
Manchester United my love

IamR:
This can't be true, I boarded Airpeace to Lagos today and Dana Air was ahead of us from the same terminal in Abuja. Dana Air taxied before us while we followed.

Acidosis:
If you're single, you feed yourself and have a roof over your head, then you can marry. There are no special bills or taxes for married people. Your stomach and portion of food do not get bigger with marriage. Your electricity or water bill do not increase because you're married. Same electricity, same cable TV, same quantity of water, same rent, etc.

In fact, it is easier for two WORKING and sensible people because they're able to put resources together to achieve a better result. E.g. If you've being paying rent alone, you can share bills (not necessarily in equal proportions).

The only thing that makes a difference is pregnancy & child upkeep, and to the best of my knowledge, this is optional. After all, single men and women have more sex than married people, without fear of pregnancy.

To blame finance for being single is lack of SENSE and understanding. It is perpetual failure of the brain to think MARRIAGE between two people will drain finance faster than the single folks. It is like living alone to bear all cost Vs. living and sharing bills with a room mate.

Think.

nairafamedotcom:
Anointing sister friend narrates how Anointing was missing after she was sent to withdraw from diamond bank at Addo road, Ajah, Lagos state.

See what she wrote below


See Photos Below
Source: https://www.nairafame.com/2019/11/lady-anointing-is-missing-after-she-was.html

Starboyyy:
she's doing YOGA