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Jamahyel:
Orobo or big for nothing.


40 more characters needed pls.

Softmirror:
😂😂😂😂😂 Reno chai please have pity on Peter Obi and his supporters. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2Radii:
Stop taking jokes serious..its not only him, there were other leverkusen players and staff

verifiablefacts:
So you dey live from hand to mouth? Try saving for the rainy days,no dey chop salary finish.
Abi na una dey their minimum wage?

Sccarrr:
Desperate wakawaka😹

JAOS:
because na woman matter and am sure its a man that transfer the money to her

blackgold2018:
I really spit on some peoples stupidity.

Can’t you see reality on ground? Or abi are your parents still feeding you?

Can’t you to stop this sentiments and your low mental reasoning. And say the truth.

I’m very sure to expect a foolish counter from you, as per the foolish entity you be.

garykoeman:
Which one be gbadebo

His real name na chinedu.

Mjshexy:
Mr White forget all that crap, Nigerians didn't feel you and decided to pull you out, you that was busy accusing Baye of playing the pity card meanwhile you forgot it was the same pity card that got you the win in your season. Rest abeg

Nemere2020:
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Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.



Which state are you from?