₦airaland Forum

Nice.

The greatest commandment, indeed.

Okay, Na dem dem

Congrats

You guys are just calling on 'Daura Secret Service' to come after you guys.
Zombies are very unconscientious.

What!

In this life and time?

The diary

As though that will make the president's health better.

mjbaba:
PEACE!!!!!!!

I wish it were even a semblance of peace, we would not be here today.

In fact, you are merely gainsaying, your sincere guess is as good as mine, indeed!

Everything Islam is...

People voted these folks into office, 'pupil'

Naija

Nyesome Nwike, you are ABUNdANTLY CORRECT.

Okay.

Free and fair elections in Nigeria ended with Jonathan.

Okay.

Gourdoinc:
anytime a man discovers he has been fooled all along, it's time his family members bade him "good morning". so my brother on behalf of nairaland, I bade you good morning. you have suddenly awoken from the shackles of charlatans on pulpits and today I can say you are "born again". do not repeat the same cycle In another church, because time and time again it has been proven that people who in the first instance attended such churches like the one you did, have a Mumu gene. thus cast away that gene and seek Christ in truth of who he is and what he represents. this must not necessarily be found in any gathering of any sort. it should be found in how you live and conduct yourself in the remaining days you have to sojourn this hateful and hypocritical earth. have a blessed sunday

It's unbiblical for a child of God to stay on his own without fellow shipping with others.

Is that so?

Cool. But I have seen just two.

lisbonabdulahi:
Hello Nairalanders, please I need you advice before I finally end this marriage.
I know I was at fault at the beginning for not stamping my authority , I showed her so much love, because she is a product of a broken home, I wanted her to know there is much more to life, now she has turned my love to foolishness, I do not want my kids to grow up without a father. That is why I have been very patient, but now … please read on.

I have been married for 11 years, with 4 kids. The truth is that we have never had really peace in the home for these years, everything is trouble, from the way I talk, eat, dress, use the toilet and sleep, just name them. The situation has been bad from the beginning, but the last three years has been hell for me and the kids, my wife shouts and complain over everything, she cannot go one full day with Joy, there is always one thing that annoys her, she has to be right on all issues, The very sad part is that whenever she does anything wrong and I ask her, there will be trouble, she will refuse to speak with me for as long as she like. We can go for weeks without really speaking with each other she enjoys it, she does not just bother at all. Each time these things happen, I am always the one that try to initiate peace.

I will like to give only one example to summarise everything going on in my home: two years ago, she will just leave the home without telling me, I called her and told her it is not right, she replied me promptly that it is her life, I can’t control her, and it is my life as well, I should do whatever I like with it. well I thought it was anger, however, I never mind, anytime I want to leave, I make sure I tell her till one day she called me and tell me that even if I keep informing her about my movements, that she is not going to change, she is not under any obligation to tell me where she is going to. My people, for two years counting now, that is how we have been doing it, we just leave without telling each other. BUT OCCASSIONALLY FOR SOME REASONS I DON’T KNOW, SHE WILL JUST TELL ME SHE IS GOING OUT TO XYZ.

She always insults me and even the kids, for any mistake they make and she never fails to tell them that they did not inherit their bad character from her, that they inherited their character from me, she says this consistently even when I am there. There is no insult she has not poured on me, I have had to explain to her mother severally but the woman is simply helpless, her mother is dead scared of her. She exhibited some of these characters during our two years of courtship, but her mother and some brethren advised that she will change after marriage. She is always complaining of being tired, meanwhile, I do the dishes, do the vacuuming (sweeping), cleaning and other domestic duties, even when she cooks, I have to cut the ingredients and all that, in short she rarely cooks. We sleep in different rooms for 4 years counting now, occasionally I try to go to her room to initiate sex, but 99% of cases she chase me away, sometime she locks her door. She stopped me from sleeping in same room with her, when I asked why, shy did not say anything but after 4 months she said it was because I was snoring at night. Trust me anytime I am opportune to make love to her I make sure she climaxes…

It is so bad that even her sisters sometimes rebuke her in my presence, presently, she is not in talking terms with any of her siblings, and this has been on for the past three years. I am stuck with this lady, her mother cannot talk to her, no family member she respects. She is a loner.
To the extent that she makes friends and they always break up, she has no real close friends, even if they are close, trust me, before 6 months the relationship has gone sour.

Op, you have made mention of brethren, though once. So I suspect you are both Christians . That said, I have not heard you make mention of 'Pastoral Counselling'. YOU BOTH NEED THAT. She might end up needing deliverance, along the line. Draw closer to God.

This is equally a call to every family man, woman and intending home-maker. You can't really do it on your own. The arm of flesh will fail you. Except 'The Lord' builds a house, they labour in vain that build it. Except 'The Lord' watches over a city, the watchmen keep awake in vain. jeremiah17:5, 2nd Chronicles 32:8

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

There is nothing Jesus cannot do. He had already borne your grief and had paid the supreme price for your joy. If your are NOT BORN AGAIN. Pray this prayer: Lord Jesus, I am a sinner. I am sorry for all my sins. Please forgive me. Come into my heart and be my personal Lord and Saviour. I now belong to you, no more to satan. I am now born again. Amen.


I pray for you right now that before this months runs out, your husband will come back to you with apology. That demon that got hold of him is now destroyed.

Woman, right now, raise a song and start praising God. You are lifted.

Okay.

It's okay.

@op, what you are trying to say which you seem not to know exactly how to across is that anyone not participating currently in Gethelp Worldwode Exclusing is actually missing good returns on investment, monthly.

You have come again with your hate and panic news.
Unknown to you, Nigerians have developed thick skin and wisdom not to mind your foolishness.

Face your front, you hater.

The Recall is a failed attempt, already.

Sunnyja:
But there is sense in what ops is trying to pass across.

He is talking rubbish.
His intention is to create UNNECESSARY PANIC.

Will that change the price of garri in the market?
Will it take up the value of naira?
Will it return our president home, hale and hearty?

Afonja eh...

REDshouse:
not enough to convince us... even if yahaha did mastermind it, At least you be he firs goat to be evicted and also an eye opener for others

You are are equally supporting the wrong thing. Two wrongs don't make a right. Bello has no right to mastermind that process. He should face governance. And if along the line, discoveries are made that the process did not follow through legitimately, it will be thrown out, no matter how much of a money bag the sponsor is.

We knew from outset.
The entire exercise by Yahaya Bello is a ruse, futile and of no consequences, whatsoever. Maybe an academic one, at last.

Okay, thanks for the news.
No cause for alarm.
They should keep them safe.

Buhari's Administration will negotiate, bribe, or swap at the appropriate time and get them out.

Let the drama continue.

Which Fed. Govt?

Hmmm