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It seems you are benefiting from this messed system of goverment. Have you checked the amount of money being spent in running government and its agencies? They keep buying latest models of operational vehicles and majority of those agencies don't generate revenue for the government. If the government tax the citizens they will use the proceeds from those tax to support their lavish life style and also use it during election period. Most of those people in government are criminals, thugs and heartless individuals who don't care about the citizens. Very wicked set of people.

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Thank you my bro, he is talking about taxes ,this is the time to reduce or eliminate taxes to help stimulate liquidity which will help stimulate growth. But no, to fund their lavish life style the will squeeze the masses of what ever little liquidity they have through multiple taxation thus stifling any way to bring growth thus leading to laying off is workers and businesses closing.

In as much as I say RIP to the dead and send my thoughts to their loved ones, I want to please implore us to eschew over speeding while driving home from Christmas holidays. Slow and steady wins the race also those of us that bought new cars and want to showoff in the village but can't driver well or are inexperienced driver please look for an experienced driver to carry you. Inexperienced drivers entering the highway to drive home to showoff is the number one cause of accident during Christmas period.

[quote author=TheLaughter post=85391434]I and my girlfriend have been dating for about some years now, we have been good. We have encountered ups and downs but we pulled through. We plan together and execute things together.

Recently, I indicated plans for marriage but my people didn't give consent. They said she isn't my destined partner. According to them, they have prayed, saw in prophesies and visions that she isn't the one...

I happen to speak with one of the prophetess on phone and she repeated what she told them that she is not my wife, that I should pray, that my wife will come.

I am finding it hard believing all these but at the same time I am mindful too. I have been asking myself questions if what they are saying is true. They said I will encounter all kinds of hardship if I continue and many other things the prophetess said.

I see her as God's creation too, why will God allow such happen to me just because I married someone He created too.

I don't believe all these prophesies but at the same time I just want to ask if there could be any truth in this destined partner stuff. Thanks.

Op the Bible said "he who finds a wife ......" Not he who was given or shown a wife. I believe God wants us to find our own wifes' that is his will so, if you feel you have found one in your girlfriend please go ahead and marry her whatever anyone says (prophet or prophetess) is irrelevant.

[quote author=Chiefpriest1 post=66743046]Lol. Well, I have not read how many marriages were conducted in the church in the bible, not even the one where Jesus turned water to wine.

For me , once you have paid the bride price, she has already legally become your wife and you can start having babies.

But since they have decided to go to church, let them obey the rules there.

It is however not a sin not to have a 'white wedding'. Na our copy copy and overdo dey cause all these nonsense.



Exactly my bro, we have now elevated dogma over bible teaching. I stand to be corrected but I know in the bible the evidence of marriage is by paying of bride price to the woman's people every other thing is superficial

14Ebisco:
The Presidency has dismissed Ahmed Salkida’s latest information that only 15 of the remaining 113 abducted Chibok schoolgirls in captivity of Boko Haram were believed to be alive.

Sakilda, a Nigerian journalist believed to be based in Dubai and self-acclaimed negotiator in the Chibok girls saga, had made this disclosure in a series of tweets posted on his handle, @ContactSalkida, on Saturday.

He said the 15 surviving girls had been married off, “indoctrinated and might no longer be interested in returning home.

Salkida, who claimed to be part of the negotiating team for the release of the girls since the era of former President Goodluck Jonathan’s administration, enjoined the Buhari administration to ‘’demand for proof of life, as it carries out negotiations to secure the release of the remaining girls still in captivity”.

However, Malam Garba Shehu, the Senior Special Assistant to the President on Media and Publicity, debunked Salkida’s claims in a statement in Abuja on Saturday.

The presidential aide stated that Salkida was neither involved in the processes that resulted in the release of the over 100 Chibok girls nor in the ongoing efforts to secure the release of the remaining Chibok girls in captivity.

He said: ““Following the numerous press enquiries on the information contained in the series of tweets by Mr Ahmed Salkida, we wish to reiterate that the information is not known to the officials of this administration either from the captors of the Chibok girls or the international intercessors who are working with us.

“”We wish to confirm that Mr Salkida is not involved, on behalf of the Nigerian government in the processes leading to the release of the over 100 Chibok Girls that have returned to their families, so far , and is not involved in the current processes to secure the release of those still held in captivity.’’

It would be recalled that President Buhari had on Friday reassured the parents of the school girls, that were abducted from Government Girls Secondary School Chibok, Borno, that “their daughters will never be forgotten or abandoned to their fate”.

The President, in a statement issued by his Senior Special Assistant on Media and Publicity, Malam Garba Shehu, in Abuja, noted that despite four long years since they were taken away by terrorists the government would continue its efforts to ensure their safe return to their respective homes.

He joined the Borno government, parents of the children and Nigerians in commemorating the fourth anniversary of the sad incident.

He also noted that the recovery of more than 100 of the girls that were kidnapped through the Federal Government’s determined effort should give confidence that all “hope is not lost’”.

The President re-affirmed that the government remained focused and determined to see the girls return to their homes.

He, therefore, urged the parents to be expectant of more good news in due course.

“We are concerned and aware that it is taking long to bring the rest of our daughters back home, but be assured that this administration is doing its very best to free the girls from their captors.

“Unfortunately, the negotiations between the government and Boko Haram suffered some unexpected setbacks, owing mainly to a lack of agreement among their abductors, whose internal differences have led to a divergence of voices regarding the outcome of the talks.

“We know that this is not the news parents want to hear after four whole years of waiting, but we want to be as honest as possible with you.

“However, this government is not relenting. We will continue to persist, and the parents should please not give up.

”Don’t give up hope of seeing our daughters back home again. Don’t lose faith in this government’s ability to fulfill our promise of reuniting you with our daughters.

“Don’t imagine for a moment that we have forgotten about our daughters or that we consider their freedom a lost course,’’ the President said.

According to him, as long as he remains the Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces the Chibok girls will never be forgotten and all will be done to have them reunited with their families.

http://www.mcebisco.com.ng/2018/04/p residency-disowns-salkida-says-his.html

When a govt is all talk and propaganda without any feaseble action attached then you know they have nothing left to offer but the main point is not that,but whether the citizens know that,are willing to demand for more and putting in people who will give them more.

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Mira200:
Dear nairalanders, plz help and advice me, am in a state of dilemma and very very confused, I don't want to hurt the feelings of my husband to be...my boyfriend proposed to me and we are getting married by June this year, we agreed that I will get pregnant for him, and am now pregnant ,but I don't know who is the father, a week after he proposed to me, I met my ex and mistakenly slept with him unprotected and a similar thing still took place between me and my old friend when we met around that time. Am confuse now, I don't knw btwn my boyfriend, ex and my old friend who is the father of my unborn child. Plz hlp, I love my boyfriend, I don't want to loose him because he might find out.


Please no insult, just advice me what to do,plz


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mynd44
Dominique please help me.

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What you did is quite wicked of you but to help, do a pregnancy test to try and decern the tentative date you got pregnant try and juxtapose it to when you actually slept with these three guys it might help you to know who the father is. Most of all you own the truth to your fiancee if you really love him it's better than him finding out in the future which he would because after a time of reminiscing men tend to look at issues from all the available sides of it after the initial hot head reaction