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Charles4075:
Oga, wetin be this na

DanceVille:
We have guys that are too shy of approaching a lady in a place, including me sef.
Though, there's no how you won't have a doubt of mind before approaching a lady buh shy guys do think and do the unexpected.

Sit back and enjoy the Reasons why shy Guys find it difficult to approach a lady.

1. Awareness Of Body Flaw

Shy guys keep counting their bodly flaws, then they can't never make it, as far as talking is concerned.They do keep thinking of how short or thin they look or certain flaws they feel their body have, that made them feel shy and find it difficult to approaching a lady.

2. Waiting For The Right Moment

A perfect moment that never comes.They do keep waiting for the perfect moment they'll easily approach her.There's hardly anything as a perfect moment, and shy guys who keep waiting for the perfect moment would never get it right.

3. Fear Of Rejection

The fear of rejection is one of the many reasons shy guys find it difficult to approach a lady.To these guys, it's better to remain where they are than to be rejected.

4. Bad Experience

Almost every guys that's shy with ladies has had at least one bad experience with lady that have even made him enter his shell the more.A lot of previous bad experiences add to make shy guys scarced to approach a lady.

5. Fear Of Not Knowing What To Say

To guys like this, they find it difficult to think what to say to a lady after approaching her.In their mind before approaching that lady--- the music that plays in their head is; "What If I Go There And Don't Know What To Say?".

6. Lack Of Confidence

A lack of confidence would unable them to do anything.They do forget that confidence makes them look attractive.

Last buh not the least.

7. Afraid Of Being Getting Slapped

This is very common among shy guys.A smart and confident guy shouldn't be afraid of getting a slap from a lady he wants to approach unless you step beyond your boundary...

I drop my pen at this juncture.

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Decker:
No offense OP, but it's kind of ironic that someone with your username is opening a thread illustrating the true meaning of being born again, from a christian perspective.

I mean, Slimshady11? Really? An Eminem fanatic preaching about what it means to be born again? Interesting.

Username definitely doesn't check out. Lol.

searchiing4love:
[b]Seun u took the bold step. Many nairalanders have fallen victim of these get rich quick schemes without understanding the terms and condition of the fraud they are about to subscribe to. Many marketers and betting agents sugar coat their threads with headlines like " TURN YOUR 500naira INTO 1MILLION IN 4 WEEKS"


I even read a post of the nairabet owner akinalabi comparing betting to entertainment. He argued that if 3 people left home with 1k each and with different intentions of watching cinema, drinking beer and the last person playing sport bet, the gambler stands a chance of coming home with more money This is a sample of the sugar coated nature of their business. They give you hope on predicting events which no one can decide their outcomes. A gambler who stakes on 5 games needs all 5 games to win while the bookies needs just one wrong prediction to win u. It's a win win situation for the likes of akinalabi and co. Their multibillion naira betting industry is a pool of unending wealth financed by gamblers addiction and " I MUST RECOVER MY LOSSES SYNDROME" which ends up in more losses. They will never offer you the easy way out like the cash out method offered by foreign bookies. You must loose it all or get extremely lucky to win 1% of your losses from them. Forget all their claims to pay taxes and staff salaries. They win the masses more than their payouts. I think its time for the federal govt to ban the betting and get rich quick schemes.

With all due respect to @ akinalabi, i referenced you based on your previous post. No pun intended [/b]

lollmaolol:
Pardon me Nairalanders,

I m not a good writer, I'll start here sometimes in 1998 my dad turned my mum into a punching bag and he sent her packing accusing her of outshining him, as an 11 year old first son of my mum I took her side because the beating was too much. I figured out mum was seeing another man.

I don't know who advised mum, but she went to court to seek divorce papers, so court dissolved the marriage. I was almost graduating from my primary school then. I started missing mum on my graduation day, only dad was there, mum had left with my 2 younger siblings. Shortly after the divorce, mum re-married to another.

Our family is Muslim family as my mum was the second wife, the first wife also left him (I was too young to understand reason for divorce) , now he started bringing in different women home to the one room apartment he occupied in his uncle's place more than 35 years ago (he is still in that house currently here in xyz state).

As day goes by, I and my younger sister with him were going to school till we both graduated from high school, the other two also graduated but the story didn't end well with them as they are currently baby mama. Only immediate sister got married and is with her husband.

Being the only male child, I had to leave house and hussle, I have worked in several odd places you could ever think of. I was able to gain admission into the university but my other siblings could not, except immediate younger sister who gained admission into one part-time school like that. Along the hussling line my spirit was broken by the happening in my family and was constantly been molested, as no one was home to supervise me while I was home, the older boy Musa in my house took advantage of me. (I hope I can forgive my parents)

Life continued, I graduated with a good grade, not the course I really wish to study though, I currently live and work in xyz state. And here is my confusion, my dad and mum still separated wants me to be calling them often, each time I give them a call, they'd questioned why didn't you call me earlier (selfish ). They don't even know where I work, talk less of where I live. Though they supported while I was in the university, but I still hussled to get school fees paid. I guess they want share returns (angry)

Nairalanders, I have seen people of wisdom here, which is why I am pouring out my mind and my life story, though some part are shameful reason why I did not shed more light. So please advice me because I feel like forgetting my parents and just keeping in touch with my immediate sister. Not the ones that grew up with mum cos they are disappointments.

With this experience, I naturally don't feel like getting married.

I hope to see comments that will change my life. Thank you in advance.

NaijaTalkTown:
The award for Basketmouth of the year goes to the OP.

He stated that America has the largest ship in the world but he did not tell us that Russia has the largest submarine in the world (submarines are meant to sink ships).

Also, Russia's Air force haven't fought a single war since 1991 until September 2015 when a small compartment was send to Syria to fight Daesh and guess what? What the US Air force couldn't achieve in 4 years, the Russian Air force achieved in 5 months (so the OP's claim that the US has the most recent combat experience which gives advantage to the US is a lie).

Talking of fighter jets, does the US has an ECM as good as the Russian Khibiny? How do you strike an enemy you can't see? The US MIC has been spending billions since 2013 to decode the Khibiny but they haven't succeeded so how do they fight Russian jets armed with it?

By trying to give the impression that America will defeat Russia and China in war shows that the OP knows nothing about war. America and Russia cannot defeat one another in a war, they will nuke themselves and everyone else to Armageddon.

Evathyst:
Yeah! You're so damn correct! It was said by John Bridger when he was asked if he trusted his 'garbage man'.

Toks2008:

Thanks bro.The Embolden simplifies the paramount purpose for this write up and i pray that as many people as were in your shoes would come back to Christ and not end up in hell as a result of self denial and not Christ denial.

praxs:
Why was the Book of Enoch removed from the bible?
I did do a little research before posting my question and found out that only the Ethiopian Christians kept it, that Jews rejected it because it......
well the thing is that fragments of it were found in the Dead Sea Scrolls. It seems like an authentic part of the Old Testament and only Ethiopians have...
But even the accepted Genesis which Christians accept says angels from heaven had children with earthly female humans, so the book of Enoch only expands on...
The original book of Enoch is written in a mixture of Ge'ez (or something like that spoken in Ethiopia), Aramaic and Latin. Lets share what we know about it

Toks2008:
Before any one writes another long story just to agree with me can they answer these questions?

1.Can they be sure that they can live a perfect life without sins?

2.If they fal into sin tomorrow and pray for forgiveness will God forgive them?

3. Ok given the fact that it is a bad nature to crave for sin,does this prevent us from still falling to sins?

Please i want pweople to stop jumping to conclusions and read my write up deeply.

A true believer does not enjoy or plans to sin nevertheless he still finds himself sinning one way or the other so my write up is centered on those who on their own volition give up their salvation because they kept falling back into sins.

This factual piece is to encourage them that they should not give up,that they should realize that the holy spirrit can help them and to make them understand that even if they struggle with sins each day of their lives,there is hope for them,they can still make heaven if they dont give up their salvation because many believers are in hell today not because God rejected them but because they at one time in their lietime willingly declared themselves unfit for the kingdom because they kept falling into one sin or the other.

This truth is what the devil does not want people to know becos it will liberate them.

Being a pastor is a title and its no guaranty that you are an authority in the word.