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RomanceRe: How Can A Man Rape His Wife by smartesboys(m): 7:05am On May 25, 2015
pinkiberry:
its possible
amazing! how is it possible?
RomanceRe: Am I Still A Virgin? by smartesboys(m): 6:47am On May 25, 2015
cuwa~cuwa, where is the pics, i'll agree only if you post it. as i'm doctor i can find the wayout until i see where the problem is located.
RomanceHow All It Happened/our First Meeting. by smartesboys(op): 6:39am On May 25, 2015
could you still remember how your first meeting with your boy/girlfriend was?
RomanceRe: I Don't Understand This by smartesboys(m): 6:27am On May 25, 2015
I think he wanna you to be his wife,
PoliticsWhat Will You Do? by smartesboys(op): 11:34am On May 23, 2015
If you're allowed to ban only two things, and establish two things in this country (Nigeria)
what will you do?
RomanceWhat Would You Choose To Do? by smartesboys(op): 11:25am On May 23, 2015
If you'are allowed to change only two things in this country, what will you change.
RomanceRe: Advice For Young Ladies by smartesboys(m): 9:26am On May 23, 2015
Money Is Not A Life, But Part Of Life. Oh My Dear Ladies Stop Selling Yourselve At Meager Cashs
RomanceHow To Boost Your Husband's Ego by smartesboys(op): 9:16am On May 23, 2015
Many men have fragile egos. They often haven't developed that outer, protective shell that many women have. Don't ask me why. It could be plain old evolution or the lack of having to endure hardships, such as childbirth, or something else entirely. Whatever the reason, they need a boost in confidence every once in a while. While you can't be responsible for your husband's happiness, you can help him realize what a swell guy he is. So, if your husband is feeling downand you want to boost his ego, here are some things you can do:
1. Tell him how hot he is.
Sometimes, you can give your spouse a boost. © Photo by Paul Bradbury/Creative Images/Getty Images.Paul Bradbury/Creative Images/Getty Images
This is pretty obvious. No one,least of all the man you married, is ever going to tire of you expressing your attraction. Don't just say, "You're hot." Be specific. Tell him exactly what it is about him that turns you on. For example, if he still has his hair, run your fingers through it, and tell him how sexy he is with those thick locks. Or maybe you like the way his bottom looks in jeans or how his smile lights up the room. What goes around comes around. He just might have a few compliments to throw back at you.
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2. Show him you need him.
Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Now, I know you can fend for yourself. You are a strong, independent woman, and that warrants respect. Even though you would survive without your husband, your life probably would not be as full or fun. Certainly, you could tell your husband this. But it's even more effective if you show him that he is needed. Have him kill the bugs if that's what he does for you. Ask him to pay the bills if that's become his chore. Let him cook dinneronce in a while if he would like. Women often think they have to do it all, and the great part about marriage is there's someone else there to pick up the slack when you need it. This has the added benefit of making the other person feel needed. Once your husband does whatever it is you've asked of him, make a big deal out of it. Compliment whatever it is he did and express your appreciation.
3. Pounce on him.
As a general rule, husbands want to feel as though they are sexually attractive to their wives. If your spouse is having difficulty with sex - unable to have or maintain an erection or no interest in sex when he previously had it - then you should consult a physician. If not, then, just make the first move. Often, men feel pressure to be the ones to initiate sexand women, with our hectic schedules, might even reject them. So, most men really, really appreciate it when their wife expresses her desire. Of course, have good timing. Don't straddle him in the middle of the playoff game or when his parents are visiting and are in the next room. Do it when you're alone and there are no other distractions. Then, just put your arms around him and give him an unforgettable kiss to set off the launch sequence. You know exactly what to do.
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4. Do something special for him.
Go out of your way to do something nice for your husband. Tell him that you're doing it because he deserves it. Make him his favorite meal. Get him a gift, something he's been hinting he wants. Take him out to the ball game. Think about something that would be fun for him and you could reasonably achieve, and go for it. The point is to show him that he is special enough for you to plan and organize such a surprise.
See Also: How to Soothe Your Spouse
5. Cuddle with him.
Sometimes, men are big ol' babies. Let's get things straight; no one expects or wants you to be his mom. Ewww, gross. But you could cuddle up with him on the couch and scratch his back or give him a massage. Maybe you make him some chicken soup and listen to him gripe about his toxic officeor how angry he is with one of his friends or whatever. Just make him the focus and try to give him a little extra affection and support. It could make all the difference. And, in that case, boosting your husband's ego will also mean boosting your marriage.
RomanceRe: She Stole My Heart by smartesboys(m): 6:24pm On May 22, 2015
stupidity:
tnx alot bro, i was contemplating on taking ur own, i think an hausa goat's heart is better.
try dog heart, I Think It's Better
RomanceRe: 25 Romantic Ways To Say 'I Love You' by smartesboys(op): 6:06pm On May 22, 2015
oyin17:
Meaning? what are u telling him to do
I'm going to tell him that we could change your opinins in simple.
RomanceRe: Romantic Ways To Tell You Girlfriend, " Will You Marry Me". by smartesboys(m): 6:01pm On May 22, 2015
point a gun at her bosom, kiss her, test her and then say will Bleep me
RomanceRe: 25 Romantic Ways To Say 'I Love You' by smartesboys(op): 5:54pm On May 22, 2015
bettercreature:
Sadly my girl friend
girls/ladies are like ball, you can kick them any where you wish.
RomanceRe: 25 Romantic Ways To Say 'I Love You' by smartesboys(op): 5:36pm On May 22, 2015
bettercreature:
Nobody has ever said I LOVE YOU to the person below me
who is blow you?
Romance25 Romantic Ways To Say 'I Love You' by smartesboys(op): 5:11pm On May 22, 2015
1. You, sweetheart, are my one and only.
2. You take my breath away.
3. Lovingly yours.
4. With you, forever won't be too long.
5. To the world's best wife!
6. When I see you, I think "Good job, God!"
7. You are the love of my life!
8. It's awesome to spend my life with you!
9. Love you, sweetheart!
10. I treasure you.
11. I adore you.
12. Sweetheart, you stir my soul!
13. I'm head over heels for you.
14. I cherish you.
15. You turn me on!
16. Life is incomplete without you.
17. To the one I love:
18. We were made for each other!
19. You're my soulmate and the love of my life.
20. You're one hot babe!
21. I'm looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together!
22. Sweetheart, you add peace, subtract sorrow and multiply joy in my life!
23. I can't even conceive of life without you.
24. The best thing in life is spelled Y-O-U!
25. You, my love, are my inspiration.
IslamLetters Can Defeat Terro~ An Interview With Dr Bilal Philips. by smartesboys(op): 4:41pm On May 22, 2015
Bombs, military raids and airstrikes could contain terrorism to some extent, but to wipe it out fully, renowned Islamic scholar and educationalist, Dr. Bilal Philips has an antidote —education.
Extremists brainwashing young Muslims to fight in so-called Holy wars has become a growing concern in Bahrain and other Gulf nations in the recent past. The social-media savvy Islamic State (IS) has already lured over 100 Bahrainis, many of whom youngsters, to fight in Iraq and Syria. Last year, the Bahrani ISIS fighters had released a video message online urging Muslims in the Kingdom to revolt against the Bahraini Government and to join them in Iraq.
After IS members had been stripped off their Bahraini passports last month, they threatened to enter the Kingdom with “blazing guns”. Out of the 72 former Bahrainis who had been recently stripped off their nationalities, 22 were found to have joined the extremist organizations to fight in Syria and Iraq. A report released last July had stated that around 5,500 Gulf nationals had been fighting alongside IS.
Warning against the dangers of extremism, Dr. Philips said,parents, teachers and religious leaders should make sure the youth were properly educated about religion.He explained that extremists use clever propaganda to lure the youths. “Without the proper knowledge of Islam, Muslims end up doing things that are against the very teachings of Islam”.
“Don’t be fooled by what they pretend to be,” said Dr. Philips about the religious extremist groups who claim to be ‘fighting for the name of God’. Quoting the Prophet, Dr. Philips said,
“If you compare your prayers with theirs and your fasting with theirs, you will look down upon your prayers and fasting, in comparison to theirs. Yet they will go out of the religion as an arrow darts through the game’s body.”
Explaining the quote, Dr. Philips said, “The quote is about extremists, also known as‘Khawarij’. They would appear to be more devoted than other Muslims as they are extremely steadfast in their worship. They appear to fast, pray, recite Quran constantly, but at the same time they are slaughtering innocents.”
He said they take verses of Quran out of context to justify their actions. Similar to how Islamophobes take Quran verses out of context to paint a negative picture of Islam, the extremists use the verses to further their agenda.
Similar to how Islamophobes take Quran verses out of context to paint a negative picture of Islam, the extremists use the verses to further their agenda.
Advising the Muslim youths, he said thatseeking knowledge should be kept as a high priority.“The only way to overcome this problem of Muslims getting radicalized is by educating the Muslim community about Islam. Islam is not about kissing the Quran and keeping it on a shelf. It is about seeking knowledge by reading, understanding and reflecting,”he said.
Dr. Philips is a Jamaican Canadian scholar, speaker and author. He is bet recognized as the founder of Islamic Online University which has over 200,000 students. He also features among the 500 Most Influential Muslims according to an Jordanian publication.
The article was originally published in DailyTribune (Bahrain)
PoliticsRe: Protest In Kano As Muslim Youths Burn Court Over 'blasphemous Comment' by smartesboys(m): 4:07pm On May 22, 2015
Bonapart:
i so much pity you son of boko haram...
Islam is cultism
why did you mention islam as cultism?
PoliticsRe: Protest In Kano As Muslim Youths Burn Court Over 'blasphemous Comment' by smartesboys(m): 3:51pm On May 22, 2015
Bonapart:
Animals fighting for a common prophet who was eaten by the pigs after being buried which made Muslims desist from eating pig till this day becos they ate up their prophet grin grin grin cheesy....
Young jihadists go and sit down ur religion is a direct part to hell...
Don't say you where not warned
your hatred words against Islam will benefit you with nothing, wether you like or not. Islam will keep destroying any misleaded religion,
HealthRe: Security Guard Dies After Winning Drinking, Smoking Bet. by smartesboys(m): 12:37pm On May 21, 2015
Oh my God protect us from immoral activeties. I wonder how young people are destroying their life like that,
we should be in company of good people who will admonish us and correct us when we follow wrong path.
RomanceRe: She Is In Love With Her Brother And About To Sleep With Him by smartesboys(m): 10:07am On May 17, 2015
Many female read imaginary story and try to put it on real life.
that was actually abominable thing that happen to many youth nowaday.
EducationLearnging In English Language Online. by smartesboys(op): 9:07am On May 16, 2015
Instead of spending time on chatting, reading news. I would like to learn and develop my speaking and writing ability.
please, write the best site that teachs english language for me.
CelebritiesRe: Beauty Or Brain Which Would You Go For? by smartesboys(m): 6:30am On May 16, 2015
Pamelayoung:
This lastest trend about Gov. Oshomole's marriage has made me think about which is most important. I personally think I have a flare for brain than beauty. Why most people go for beauty is cos they want their offspring 2b beautiful/handsome. But beauty without brain is a no 4 me, I think thats why the lady married Oshomole. Peeps whats your take on this?
what is your bussiness about that?, we are free to go for whatever we desire.
RomanceRe: What Women Want by smartesboys(m): 1:33pm On May 15, 2015
Princecalm:
I never had a trick in mind when I posted that.
pardon me, I did not mean that, I was just talking about women, they often make trick inorder to get sth from you. I hope now you understand me.
RomanceRe: What Women Want by smartesboys(m): 1:14pm On May 15, 2015
Princecalm:
what do you understand by trick?
I can simply say...
a clever act done to amuse people. Am I not right?
RomanceRe: What Women Want by smartesboys(m): 12:58pm On May 15, 2015
Princecalm:
don't mind them.
we have already realised your trick, just try some....
RomanceRe: What Women Want by smartesboys(m): 12:49pm On May 15, 2015
Princecalm:
pretence is allowed.
mention money as 1.
you don't take care about anything beside money, women won't even like you to talk her, if you don't have the bringer of happiness,
EducationRe: Examination Is A True Test Of One's Ability by smartesboys(op): 12:42pm On May 15, 2015
Borrussia:
Isn't it obvioushuh
Yep,
EducationExamination Is A True Test Of One's Ability by smartesboys(op): 11:30am On May 15, 2015
Do you agree that examination is a true test of one's ability.
support or speak against the motion.
RomancePure Love Sms/ Good Morning by smartesboys(op): 7:57am On May 13, 2015
Try to send one of this to your wife/girlfriend or husband/boyfriend, It Will make him/her excited.
Open the window and let the fresh air in! the shining sun'll say that i'm in love with you.

You opened your eyes, so bright and loving... i'm eager to say, Dear, Good morning.

While sleeping you are so pretty but sunrise is already here....
good morning my sweety
I wish u to be of good cheer
Add some....
IslamShaking Hand by smartesboys(op): 6:44pm On May 12, 2015
Salman reported that the holy prophet said: when a muslim meets his muslim brother and shakes hand, their sin fall down like the dry leaves from a tree during a storm and their sins are forgiven even if there are equal to the foam of occcen {tebrani}
RomanceRe: Why Is Only Women Critised In This Site? by smartesboys(op): 11:41am On May 12, 2015
yahayya1a:
simple answer to that, its just because women are so complicated that even their women friends can't understand them, sometimes even a woman can't understand herself.
you're right. I would like to hear from them

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