Many men have fragile egos. They often haven't developed that outer, protective shell that many women have. Don't ask me why. It could be plain old evolution or the lack of having to endure hardships, such as childbirth, or something else entirely. Whatever the reason, they need a boost in confidence every once in a while. While you can't be responsible for your husband's happiness, you can help him realize what a swell guy he is. So, if your husband is feeling downand you want to boost his ego, here are some things you can do:
1. Tell him how hot he is.
Sometimes, you can give your spouse a boost. © Photo by Paul Bradbury/Creative Images/Getty Images.Paul Bradbury/Creative Images/Getty Images
This is pretty obvious. No one,least of all the man you married, is ever going to tire of you expressing your attraction. Don't just say, "You're hot." Be specific. Tell him exactly what it is about him that turns you on. For example, if he still has his hair, run your fingers through it, and tell him how sexy he is with those thick locks. Or maybe you like the way his bottom looks in jeans or how his smile lights up the room. What goes around comes around. He just might have a few compliments to throw back at you.
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2. Show him you need him.
Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. Now, I know you can fend for yourself. You are a strong, independent woman, and that warrants respect. Even though you would survive without your husband, your life probably would not be as full or fun. Certainly, you could tell your husband this. But it's even more effective if you show him that he is needed. Have him kill the bugs if that's what he does for you. Ask him to pay the bills if that's become his chore. Let him cook dinneronce in a while if he would like. Women often think they have to do it all, and the great part about marriage is there's someone else there to pick up the slack when you need it. This has the added benefit of making the other person feel needed. Once your husband does whatever it is you've asked of him, make a big deal out of it. Compliment whatever it is he did and express your appreciation.
3. Pounce on him.
As a general rule, husbands want to feel as though they are sexually attractive to their wives. If your spouse is having difficulty with sex - unable to have or maintain an erection or no interest in sex when he previously had it - then you should consult a physician. If not, then, just make the first move. Often, men feel pressure to be the ones to initiate sexand women, with our hectic schedules, might even reject them. So, most men really, really appreciate it when their wife expresses her desire. Of course, have good timing. Don't straddle him in the middle of the playoff game or when his parents are visiting and are in the next room. Do it when you're alone and there are no other distractions. Then, just put your arms around him and give him an unforgettable kiss to set off the launch sequence. You know exactly what to do.
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4. Do something special for him.
Go out of your way to do something nice for your husband. Tell him that you're doing it because he deserves it. Make him his favorite meal. Get him a gift, something he's been hinting he wants. Take him out to the ball game. Think about something that would be fun for him and you could reasonably achieve, and go for it. The point is to show him that he is special enough for you to plan and organize such a surprise.
See Also: How to Soothe Your Spouse
5. Cuddle with him.
Sometimes, men are big ol' babies. Let's get things straight; no one expects or wants you to be his mom. Ewww, gross. But you could cuddle up with him on the couch and scratch his back or give him a massage. Maybe you make him some chicken soup and listen to him gripe about his toxic officeor how angry he is with one of his friends or whatever. Just make him the focus and try to give him a little extra affection and support. It could make all the difference. And, in that case, boosting your husband's ego will also mean boosting your marriage.

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