Nairaland General › Re: I Mistakenly Sent 69k To Someone Sad. by Smartguyboy(op): 8:18pm On Mar 03 |
Benoxvals: That’s one of the importance of having an account officer..he/she would have put the credited account on lean and then contact the person.If he refuses to return the money then the court order will be applied..they charge 20k for that.
When an account is on lean mode,the receiver will not be able to withdraw the money. Yes I contacted the bank immediately and the money was blocked but they need the person authorization or court order to send me the money back. |
Nairaland General › I Mistakenly Sent 69k To Someone Sad. by Smartguyboy(op): 4:19am On Mar 03 |
Three weeks ago, I mistakenly sent ₦69,000 to the wrong person. Immediately, I contacted my bank, and they gave me a form to fill out. After submitting the completed form, they told me it would take two weeks to process.
After the two weeks passed, I went back to the bank to follow up. That was when they told me I needed a court order to proceed.
Yesterday (Monday), I went to the court to obtain the court order. At the court, I was introduced to a lawyer, and the lawyer told me I would need to pay ₦30,000 to get the court order.
My brothers and sisters, how is this possible? I mistakenly sent ₦69,000, and now I’m being asked to pay ₦30,000 just to get a court order.
It’s even Gtbank to Gtbank.
I asked if they can provide me the person number so I can call the person directly and ask for my money. They said NO!!! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: France To Increase Nuclear Warheads, Lend Nuclear Aircraft To Europe Allies by Smartguyboy(m): 2:30am On Mar 03 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: US Destroyed ‘9 Iranian Naval Ships’ — Trump by Smartguyboy(m): 10:41pm On Mar 01 |
sonnie10: Is this why your supreme leader killed almost 80k of his people just for peaceful protest. Imagine what he will do with others that are not of his kind, if he had his way. Not only 80k It 200k Stop believing whatever you see on western media. |
Business › Re: Oil Jumps 10 Percent On Iran Conflict, Could Spike To $100 A Barrel by Smartguyboy(m): 9:46pm On Mar 01 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: US Destroyed ‘9 Iranian Naval Ships’ — Trump by Smartguyboy(m): 9:42pm On Mar 01*. Modified: 1:34am On Mar 02 |
Too bad for Iran The two most powerful military attacking a nation they have use sanctions to reduce to nothing .
It’s over for the rest of the world ,western white supremacist countries have come together to oppress global south countries , they will always get what they want while the remaining of the poor oppress countries will beg for mercy . Slavery part 2 is coming and many blacks will be happy to be slave again . |
Nairaland General › Re: If You Beg People For Help, 4 Things Will Happen. by Smartguyboy(m): 9:30pm On Mar 01 |
I feel a deep sense of fulfillment and pride when I'm able to help someone in need. On the other hand, I feel a pang of sadness when I'm unable to lend a helping hand to someone who's counting on me. It might sound very bad but when I know your call is about asking for something and I am broke I avoid to pick calls. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: USA Confirms Losing 3 Soldiers To Iranian Missile (Pictures) by Smartguyboy(m): 9:04pm On Mar 01 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Israeli Missile Targets Iranian School Killing 50 Girls (video) by Smartguyboy(m): 1:34am On Mar 01 |
What they really do best if they are not raping them, they are eating them if they are not killing them they traffic them. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Footage Of Iranian Missile Hitting A U.S Military Base In Bahrain (Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 6:00pm On Feb 28 |
After Iran guess who Israel will attack again?
The Arab are disgrace to their kind and they will come after them one by one . |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Israel Launches Preventive Attack in Tehran, Awaits Retaliatory Strike by Smartguyboy(m): 9:58am On Feb 28 |
fergie001: SOURCE
Israel Defense Forces
Israel Defense Forces Coward as always after they attack they will beg USA to help them as always. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Scientists Confirm Biblical Earthquake At The Moment Of Jesus' Crucifixion by Smartguyboy(m): 12:51am On Feb 28 |
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Romance › Re: Introduction Coming Up But I’m Confused by Smartguyboy(m): 5:15am On Feb 27 |
Profyoungmeta: Hello Nairalanders, I need sincere advice about my relationship because I am getting confused and emotionally tired.
I have been in a relationship with a lady (let me call her Fumilayo) and we are planning our Introduction ceremony in about two months. However, some issues have been bothering me and I need honest opinions.
1. Her Attitude
Sometimes I feel like she is pretending about her personality. She often raises her voice at me and sometimes yells whenever I point out something she did that I don’t like. Instead of discussing issues calmly, it usually turns into an argument.
This makes me uncomfortable because I prefer peaceful communication in a relationship.
2. Money Issues
Most of our disagreements are about money. She believes I should be giving her regular financial support like monthly upkeep, but I feel pressured.
Sometimes I feel she is with me mainly because I have a stable job and that she wants to use me to achieve her business goals and maybe leave later. I may be wrong, but this fear is in my mind.
Background
When we met, I was doing my Master's degree and also attending banking school at the same time. She was in Egypt hustling then.
We were dating and she knew I was doing my Master's, but I didn’t tell her about banking school then.
After I finished banking school, I was posted to Head Office instead of a branch. I became a product manager handling a banking product after finishing my Master's.
When she returned from Egypt and visited me in Lagos, that was when she discovered that I was working at the Head Office. Before then, she had been worried about me getting a job after my Master's and I kept telling her God would provide.
Her own plan is to open a hairstyling business in Lagos.
Lifestyle Differences
Another issue is spending habits.
She likes expensive things and believes cheap things have no value because they spoil quickly. She doesn’t like trekking and prefers taking a bike even for short distances.
The truth is that both of us did not come from wealthy families. I usually advise that we should reduce spending and focus on building wealth together, but she doesn’t always agree.
The Main Problem – Introduction Planning
We are planning our Introduction ceremony in about two months.
My plan was to save:
₦170k first month for clothes ₦170k second month for logistics and introduction items for her family in Ibadan
But during the first month, unexpected bills came: Transportation Feeding and food stocking My sister became seriously sick and I had to send emergency money home Support for my parents Electricity and waste bills House maintenance Investments and small savings (₦35k)
Because of all these, I could not provide the ₦170k as planned.
The amount I could afford at that time was ₦76k for her to manage.
The Introduction is supposed to be a simple living-room ceremony, not something big. I even suggested wearing a white native attire I already have so we can focus more on the wedding later.
But she became angry and said ₦76k is too small and asked what it can do.
My Concern
I am getting tired of constant arguments and pressure.
I know I am not perfect and I have my weaknesses, but I am trying my best.
Sometimes I wonder: Am I being unfair? Is she being unreasonable? Are these signs I should reconsider this marriage?
Please Nairalanders, I need honest advice. What was she doing in Egypt exactly? Because I know many Nigerian girls in such country only go there for one thing . Why trying to settle for less ? Why not look for someone working who knows the value of money and hard work ? |
Politics › Re: Rivers: Governor Fubara Issues Warning To Chief Of Staff, Other Appointees by Smartguyboy(m): 8:49pm On Feb 26 |
fergie001: Amaopusenibo Siminalayi Fubara Governor, Rivers State People impose by Wike and he doesn’t trust them. |
Properties › Re: Building vs Buying A House: Which One Is Cost Effective? by Smartguyboy(m): 11:42am On Feb 26 |
chudez0147: All of you saying building to your taste as if you can’t find your choice of building to buy. You Dey mind dem!! One even said building is cheaper I guess him never build house before. E.g If you budget like 2m to build trust me you will spend close to 5m to complete the building, everybody want to chop from you , even bricks layer will want to keep the job for himself alone because he doesn’t know when next he will get another job so he will want to be doing it alone or with few people so it can last long . Talking from experience For me anytime any day buying is the best option. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Lady Who "Pastor" Cursed With Death By 11:30 P.M Has Just Tweeted by Smartguyboy(m): 12:44pm On Feb 24 |
The lady should watch out before they will hire someone to kill her and is the lord doing . |
Romance › Re: How I Almost Became A Victim Of Paternity Fraud by Smartguyboy(m): 1:33am On Feb 24 |
Kalulu44: She was still dilly dallying with her begging, when I told her I will leave her at the hotel and I immediately walked out of the door. She quickly followed me to my bus and we drove silently to the park. It was only her intermittent sobbing that was breaking the silence. We got to the park, I bought her ticket to Onitsha, gave her some extra money and bade her farewell. She called out for me one more time, Uche just like that, is this the end? I said yes, I don't want to have anything to do with her again. And that she shouldn't forget to tell her people the whole truth. Tears was just rolling down freely from her eyes.... I pitied her but stronged my mind and left. Na man you be to have such mind , na so I for marry out of pity with my ex I just made up my mind tell her I can’t continue the relationship. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: How The Russia-Ukraine War Has Affected Africa by Smartguyboy(m): 2:03pm On Feb 23 |
Western propaganda to stop Africa from supporting Ukraine.
When I saw the weapon I knew it just a propaganda a little research will inform you Russia don’t use AK47.
The west are using the war and they want support.
Ukraine are kidnapping their own citizens on the streets to force them to fight war they are not interested to fight and non of the western media have post it .
Same war if you post anything about Russia in Europe they will sanction you .
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Politics › Re: US Secretly Sack Judge Married To Nigerian After Granting Asylum In 97% Of Cases by Smartguyboy(m): 11:25pm On Feb 22 |
tctrills: Oga stop saying what you don't know. So far, how many non whites have the revoked their citizenship? Please facts only Because they only want white people. How many non white have pick up gun and start killing people? |
Politics › Re: US Secretly Sack Judge Married To Nigerian After Granting Asylum In 97% Of Cases by Smartguyboy(m): 6:02pm On Feb 22 |
tctrills: Oga don't confuse yourself. I know many Nigerians who legally applied for a US visa, they had all their papers and yet were refused. Some have been applying for years. Yet one south American only needs to cross the Mexican border and gets all the benefits that the honest Nigerian will not get. These illegal immigrants are not your friends. They are the number 1 reason why it is so hard to get a US visa. Imagine the 12 million to 20 million illegal immigrants are removed, getting a US visa will become too easy because the US would actually need you in their country. I truly hope and pray that Trump is able to flush out these illegals. It will ultimately lead to a boom in legal migration. Lastly, I will never be in support of running into another person's country illegally. We all should be law abiding. You think it’s all about illegal immigrants ? They don’t want non white to come in anymore just like the hitler want only white race , thank God Trump is not hiding it anymore , you guy will know the hard way. They are now revoking citizenship from non white race . |
Politics › Re: US Secretly Sack Judge Married To Nigerian After Granting Asylum In 97% Of Cases by Smartguyboy(m): 1:05am On Feb 22 |
OLAADEGBU: Trump Government Secretly Sacks New York Judge Married To Nigerian-American After Granting Asylum In 97% Of Cases
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Gordon-Uruakpa is a Black, a female jurist married to a Nigerian-American, after she approved asylum claims at one of the highest rates in the country. They don’t want you guys to come to their country anymore and many 3rd world countries are still supporting their evil . |
Career › Re: US Celebrates Wendy Okolo As She Leads Research At NASA by Smartguyboy(m): 3:18pm On Feb 21 |
They have been celebrating Nigerians in USA doing well for themselves who knows they evil motive promoting Nigerians in USA . |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Envoy Suggests It Would Be ‘Fine’ If Israel Expands Across Middle East by Smartguyboy(m): 2:16pm On Feb 21 |
paxonel: Why is America helping them? They should just fight their war by themselves.
Anyway, I will see what will become of them when Donald Trump's tenure is over. Trump or on Trump make no difference because they have already occupied US. They make the decisions and USA follows that the reason they will invade Iran. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Imposes 10% Global Tariff On All Countries by Smartguyboy(m): 1:57pm On Feb 21 |
This man have done rogue. Just showing US real character they have been hiding and pretending rule of law is real. |
Health › Re: Lenacapavir Now In Nigeria, Costs ₦58,000 by Smartguyboy(m): 4:55pm On Feb 20 |
The reason why they don’t want to bring out the cure only govt can afford the vaccine/drugs and they will subsidize it to their citizens. |
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Celebrities › Re: Omah Lay Shaves Off Hair On Instagram Live (Video) by Smartguyboy(m): 1:34pm On Feb 19 |
This boy is not looking healthy oh . |
Politics › Re: Bandits Kill Ondo Monarch, Oba Kehinde Falodun by Smartguyboy(m): 1:31pm On Feb 19 |
How far the US soldiers?
The killing haven’t stop oh |
Politics › Re: US Military Trainers Arrive Nigeria - Defence Headquarters by Smartguyboy(m): 2:20pm On Feb 17 |
vicfajeze: British soldiers in Nigeria since last year?Heeee Nigeria don kaput If you know anybody in army you can ask them. |
Politics › Re: US Military Trainers Arrive Nigeria - Defence Headquarters by Smartguyboy(m): 6:57am On Feb 17 |
When I look at the comments on follow Nigerians I just shake my head.
We still have a long way to go.
With the open informations we have now black still think anybody is coming to help them and they forgot the world no 1 sponsor of terrorism.
USA only care about they interest nothing more they don’t care if half of Nigeria dies or Christians being killed anywhere in the world.
Only what will benefit them.
After from having planes to call for backup they are not better than any military in the world that why they invested billions on planes because they can’t fight conventional war .
But blacks still think they will come to Nigeria to help them.
I asked my brother few days ago about the USA army in Nigeria and he said they are not coming to do anything or teach them what they already know said they have they motive and it will be clear soon.
British soldiers are in Nigeria since last year nothing have change and even with the Americans soldiers nothing will still change. |
Nairaland General › Re: Name Your Biggest Mistakes So Others Dont Make The Same Mistakes by Smartguyboy(m): 12:56am On Feb 17 |
Selling my car Toyota Avalon 2014 6m in 2023.
Now with 15m you can’t get it anywhere .
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Romance › Re: Wedding Called Off In Imo After Groom Discovers Old Social Media Photos Of Bride by Smartguyboy(m): 11:09pm On Feb 16 |
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